FabSwingers.com forum: Saw my ex today….

By *reggSausage OP Man
35 weeks ago

derby

Do you think thoughts when you do, what are they? Please no violence

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
35 weeks ago

The Continental

No, I’m ambivalent towards them so I may recognise them, but that’s about it. They’re out of my thought before I’ve lost sight of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

A feeling of dread usually

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Im on good terms with mine so they would probably come and chat but if they didn’t see me id just act like I wasn’t there couldn’t care less

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Do you think thoughts when you do, what are they? Please no violence "

I don’t think I’ve ever met your ex before OP so I don’t really have any thoughts I’m afraid

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I've never had a ex.

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By *onkeynutWoman
35 weeks ago

somewhere

Indifference. I don't care enough to feel anything good or bad towards them.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
35 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Most of them I'm friendly with, and have zero thoughts of in particular.

I'm also usually dead to the world when out and about with headphones and focus on where I'm going, so I often don't clock people.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
35 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

My ex is back in Wales, so I very much doubt I will bump into her

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Mine are all dead.

They all died in tragic farming accidents, eaten by pigs.

One on a kayaking holiday in the Grand Canyon!

Shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Mine are all dead.

They all died in tragic farming accidents, eaten by pigs.

One on a kayaking holiday in the Grand Canyon!

Shame.

Think you need to pic a different type dude

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I remember he's a thief and a cheat. And I remind myself that he's not worth a dent on my car bonnet even though it's tempting

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Not really, it doesn’t bother me too much. I’d just give her a little nod and say “alright”.

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By *lakeyMan
35 weeks ago

north west

A Ex works around the corner from were I live but not ever bumped into her she is a bit of a fruitcake only in recent years she sent me a message (not been together for 20+yrs) so we had a bit of banter next minute she’s going all mental asking if I want to fuck her or not or have I thought about fucking her I ended the conversation then.

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By *parkle1974Woman
35 weeks ago

Leeds

Friendly with all but 1. Never really give them much thought in all honesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I'm on decent terms so doesn't really put me up nor down. I normally end up thinking...yes his face is still tripping him and it reminds me I did the right thing by leaving

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By *onkey 2023Man
35 weeks ago

Cross Hands

A real genuine missed opportunity for the both of us!

And that makes me feel really sad.

I’ve only seen her once out and about since, and am unlikely to see her out and about again as she’s originally from Pwllheli, was living just outside Aberystwyth when we met in early 2019, and she moved to Shrewsbury sometime after we stopped seeing each other. Where she is now, who knows, but she’ll forever be in my heart.

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By *odgerMooreMan
35 weeks ago

Up Your Frock!

Id seriously shite myself - she’s dead!!

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By *odgerMooreMan
35 weeks ago

Up Your Frock!

"Id seriously shite myself - she’s dead!!

No .. she’s not - she’s not with me so i guess she feels dead inside.. empty.. loveless…

Ok she’s fine and we still chat xx we’re great mates but awful partners

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By *ools1964Man
35 weeks ago

Swadlincote

Depends which one it is, I resent 2, I'm indifferent towards a few, I still care for & yern for one.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
35 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

On good terms with Ex - I’d think she’s looking good, appears happy, I’d remember the good times we had and that we did a pretty good job bringing up our children. No sexual desire for her at all though and I’d still think that the divorce was the right thing to do

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
35 weeks ago

Reading

The last time I saw my ex I had a panic attack in the street.

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By *oo74Man
35 weeks ago

dunstable

I think why cant you fall down a big hole and I never have to have any dealings with you ever again you horrible witch.

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By *herryEatersCouple
35 weeks ago

East Cheshire

"Do you think thoughts when you do, what are they? Please no violence "

Utter disgust and repulsion (Tony). She was an abusive narcissistic psychopath who damaged our children and tried to poison everyone around us, sickeningly handed everything on a plate by the highly gender biased and utterly corrupt 'family' courts.... Cherry ?, the complete opposite

. If only we'd met much sooner than we did.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Nope. I don’t think anything at all. They’re my exes for a reason

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By *ensible lady 1960Woman
35 weeks ago

Near Bishop Auckland.

dont care about any past exes.woudnt bother me if i see any of them which is rare.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
35 weeks ago

somewhere

I see my ex a couple of times a year now as obviously we have kids.

I honestly look at him and think "how was I married to him for so long and I can't believe we ever had sex". I never look at him and think he is a handsome man anymore and usually I can't believe a word that comes out of his mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Most I'm quite civil with.

One I'm still friends with.

Another one I occasionally see pop up on youtube giving Ted talks. She seems to be getting very successful in her academic field..and I think good for her..and it gives me positive vibes.

There's only one i can think of that I would avoid. That whole relationship was short and volatile. I still don't wish any ill on that person though.

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
35 weeks ago

Bedale

I haven't seen mine in a good number of years now, but every time there is an attempt at contact, usually electronic, my body pretty much goes into threat repulsion mode immediately

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By *otSoPetiteMortWoman
35 weeks ago

Hertfordshire

Indifferent.

One was abusive and one was neglectful.

Have no desire to waste time or energy on either of them.

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By *eah BabyCouple
35 weeks ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

It’s 30 years ago so probably wouldn't recognise them if I did no problem it would be a smiley hello

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By *tsMe24Man
25 weeks ago

Town

12 years and still in love with my ex.

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By *ffervescentMan
25 weeks ago

winfrith

my ex is lovely I left her but she would have me back .

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By *elix SightedMan
25 weeks ago

Cloud 8

I regularly think about many of mine. I’m terminally single despite my best efforts and sometimes I daydream about past relationships.

I know I shouldn’t, but I begin to think “Was it really so bad? Maybe not, perhaps I should contact her.” I don’t, because I always remember the reasons we separated and I tend to think with my head and not my heart. Which is probably why I’m terminally single! 🤦‍♂️😆

I tend not to see exes out and about. I believe I would walk away from most of them and avoid confrontation or them making me feel bad about myself.

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