FabSwingers.com forum: Question...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I delivered a parcel today to a lady, maybe 10 years older than me.

I thought she was absolutely stunning, really beautiful with a gorgeous smile & stunning blue eyes, I swear our eyes met for the briefest of seconds & we both smiled, I don't smile very often during my working day lol.

Anyway, my question, how do you think she would react if I looked her up on socials & dropped her a msg? Just to say how beautiful I thought she was & how she brightened up my day for a minute with her gorgeous smile.

I most probably won't, but hypothetically, how would you react?

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

Creepy

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd think stalker vibes!

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

"I delivered a parcel today to a lady, maybe 10 years older than me.

I most probably won't, but hypothetically, how would you react?"

I would find it creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is a high chance she would find it creepy and it would unnerve her.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd be beyond angry.

What on earth are you thinking?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'd think it was weird, and probably against some kind of (possibly only work but even so) rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fastest way to lose your job?

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Yeah creepy. I smile at everybody but that is only cos I am a friendly soul.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd also seriously consider reporting you to your employers. Have you even considered how vulnerable this would make a woman feel. You know where she lives and you would have deliberately sought her out on social media

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not do this - ever!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Chances are you'd run the risk of a meeting with your boss.

Just forget about it.

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By *aster N NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

deal

Apparently there's a new sex position

It's called parcel force

You stay in all day and no one comes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yep, thought so, like I said, hypothetical, small part of me thought it might be romantic. Obviously not.

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By *till gameMan
over a year ago

Oldham

Patience, maybe she did like you and might order whatever it was you delivered again.

If not I’d leave it alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happened to my friend when she purchase an item on market place. The guy messaged her after making advances and she was livid.

I’d say.. dont lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Super creepy

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Super creepy "

Does he wear a cape?

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Brum

I’d invite you for a nice steak dinner and get out the best china.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the more I think about this the more I am

you are even considering it.

You know where she lives and you know her name. To then look her up on socials…just no.

I have a regular delivery guy, he’s hot and we always have a little look and ‘eye flirt’ and I’d still be creeped out if he looked me up on socials.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
over a year ago

Brum

"Super creepy

Does he wear a cape?

I bet he shoots good webs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also to add… if taken badly she’ll know that you know where she lives, and that could massively unsettle her and inflict distress upon her, especially as it’d be something that she never intended for

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well, I never really considered it, it was purely hypothetical, I don't even know her name anyway.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well, I never really considered it, it was purely hypothetical, I don't even know her name anyway.

How were you going to 'hypothetically' look her up on socials?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, I never really considered it, it was purely hypothetical, I don't even know her name anyway.

It’s a good fantasy at least. But deffo one best left in Pandora’s box

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By *he Silver FuxMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"I delivered a parcel today to a lady, maybe 10 years older than me.

I most probably won't, but hypothetically, how would you react?"

She smiled because she was a being a pleasant human being - it was not an invite, I fucking guarantee it. Anyone (deliveroo, Uber driver, police officer) when doing their job that gathers personal information in order to identify someone and make contact is a fucking creep. That woman would be scared by your actions. It’s harassment for fucks sake. Give your head a wobble you muppet.

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

"Well, I never really considered it, it was purely hypothetical, I don't even know her name anyway.

At least you know where she lives though, now just need to make a diary of her movements

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Well, I never really considered it, it was purely hypothetical, I don't even know her name anyway.

How were you going to 'hypothetically' look her up on socials?"

I suspect given he's now gone, it was "hypothetical" because he thought we were going to react better than we did.

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By *pinningfasterWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'd ring the police and report it to the company x

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By *illan-KillashMan
over a year ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"I delivered a parcel today to a lady, maybe 10 years older than me.

I most probably won't, but hypothetically, how would you react?"

Hypothetically.......

I'd ensure you realised the error of your ways and learnt valuable lessons about privacy, trust, boundaries and employment, now and in the future.

I'd also suggest Pornhub is not a real life documentary on how to seduce women.

And that you should stay away from porn, it's given you an unhealthy understanding of "relationships" and how to build them.

It's creepy as fuck. Give your head a wobble.

That concludes my Ted Talk.

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

"Well, I never really considered it, it was purely hypothetical, I don't even know her name anyway.

How were you going to 'hypothetically' look her up on socials?

I suspect given he's now gone, it was "hypothetical" because he thought we were going to react better than we did."

In his original post he said he "most probably won't" which means there was no hypothetical about it and he was definitely considering it

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By *ripfillMan
over a year ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Errrrr no

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Well, I never really considered it, it was purely hypothetical, I don't even know her name anyway.

How were you going to 'hypothetically' look her up on socials?

I suspect given he's now gone, it was "hypothetical" because he thought we were going to react better than we did.

In his original post he said he "most probably won't" which means there was no hypothetical about it and he was definitely considering it "

I think some people think swingers have no sense of propriety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give your head a wobble you muppet."

My thoughts exactly.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Aww you made him quit

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By *aptaincaveman88Man
over a year ago

malice

Definatley a restraining order. And possibly bother at work

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

It's happened several times for me theve recognised me from here! Usually the amazon delivery men! They just drop a message here to say they just delivered a parcel! I find it amusing! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I delivered a parcel today to a lady, maybe 10 years older than me.

Anyway, my question, how do you think she would react if I looked her up on socials ……….."

…

I don’t need to answer then. UNLOS.

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By *ustincider888Man
over a year ago

Preston Ish

A big NO NO.

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By *nlygirlzallowedWoman
over a year ago

dudley

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Probably was happy that whatever it is she ordered arrived and was smiling because of that! Also, if you don't know her name how was you going to look her up? I mean I know I'm good at finding people but I at least know a name! And why was there no name on said parcel?! I mean you are gone now but so many questions.

But in answer to your question: NO!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Facebook Removed by poster at 28/06/24 05:32:01]"

Mods ^ this is for comedy value only.

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By *unchalMan
over a year ago

Dartford

I make eye contact and smile at lots of people every day. Yeah, don’t try and get in touch with her with only a smile to go on. I’m sure I’ve seen this movie and it doesn’t end well for anyone.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Poor old O.P.

The right feelings but the 2024 wrong way to go about it.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I'd also seriously consider reporting you to your employers. Have you even considered how vulnerable this would make a woman feel. You know where she lives and you would have deliberately sought her out on social media"

This.

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