FabSwingers.com forum: Age gap matter?

By (user no longer on site) OP
26 weeks ago

Does age gap matter that much to you when it comes sex?

I’m in my 40s and I’ve been with lasses in their early 20s and women in their 60s.

Age isn’t important in my opinion. It’s about the connection.

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

It's about how hot they are.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
26 weeks ago

little house on the praire

People should keep their noses out of others relationships whether there is a five year gap or a thirty year gap

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By *pinningfasterWoman
26 weeks ago

Birmingham

I only like people older than me. It's just what I'm attracted to.

Like I can think people younger than me are objectively hot, I just don't wanna taste their private parts tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP
26 weeks ago

What if they are hot but have no banter and also useless in bed?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

On here, I've had a erm... preference for older women but ultimately, you can probably have sexual chemistry with anyone of any ages on here if you both fancy each other enough

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By *ougarsilkWoman
26 weeks ago

Pleasure heaven

"What if they are hot but have no banter and also useless in bed? "

If there's no connection other than looks why get in bed with them ? Or is it AHAG?

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By *weetiepie99Woman
26 weeks ago

cardiff

I'm not too bothered about age, within reason. I would say I am a lot more attracted to younger than me at the moment

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
26 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

As long as they are older than my eldest child is the rule I go by... Which is 31

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
26 weeks ago

St Neots

Nah 50s is my limit. And even when I reach my 50s I don't think I'd change that and probs get a younger model, don't tell her I said that

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I've never slept with anyone younger than me... Maybe I should try it!

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
26 weeks ago

St Neots

"I've never slept with anyone younger than me... Maybe I should try it! "

I think you should too

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By *oxesMan
26 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

"Does age gap matter that much to you when it comes sex?

I’m in my 40s and I’ve been with lasses in their early 20s and women in their 60s.

Age isn’t important in my opinion. It’s about the connection.

Thoughts?"

Put it simply no. Experience, looks and fun is what matters.

I have slept with someone in there 40s who has hit got a clue what they were doing. And they're is probably individuals on here that quiver how does that young person know so much.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
26 weeks ago

Coventry

i like to be able to chat and have a laugh with whoever, then the age isnt an issue

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By *ozzybear1981Man
26 weeks ago

preston

Age gap no, but there has to be a connection, banter and they’ve got to have a sense of humour, none of that and it’s boring as hell

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By *oxesMan
26 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

"As long as they are older than my eldest child is the rule I go by... Which is 31"

I thought the rule was 1/2 your age plus 7.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"I've never slept with anyone younger than me... Maybe I should try it! "

your inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"I've never slept with anyone younger than me... Maybe I should try it!

your inbox"

Its very tidy at the moment

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By *parkle1974Woman
26 weeks ago

Leeds

I've never been into much younger guys, always seemed to be around my age or a little older x

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"I've never slept with anyone younger than me... Maybe I should try it!

your inbox

Its very tidy at the moment

Apologies in advance for the next 20 different messages then

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By *ansoffateMan
26 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

In principle no. In reality I haven't met anyone below 30 where an attraction has emerged for me, in nearly a decade.

I don't think I've had sex with a woman much older than me; certainly not for a long time. Oh yes when I was 22 she was 10 years older than me. I liked her she owned a bar in Tenerife, I just wasn't about the settling down and running a bar lifestyle. I think the most is 10 years younger than me too.

No one older than me since I was 22 hadn't even realised that.

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By *hunky GentMan
26 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I've never been into much younger guys, always seemed to be around my age or a little older x"

There's hope for me yet.

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By *hunky GentMan
26 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I've never slept with anyone younger than me... Maybe I should try it!

your inbox

Its very tidy at the moment

I may be a few months younger.

Does that count?

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By *orklad86Man
26 weeks ago

cork

Can’t say it any better

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

East Sussex

It matters to me. That's all that matters to me

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By *ora the explorerWoman
26 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Yep. Matters to me

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By *parkle1974Woman
26 weeks ago

Leeds

"I've never been into much younger guys, always seemed to be around my age or a little older x

There's hope for me yet.

There is always hope

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

If it is extreme like a 16 year old with a 60 year old yes. Otherwise it really does not matter. If you click with someone or physically attracted then go for it

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By *andynecklaceWoman
26 weeks ago

Someplace

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By *andynecklaceWoman
26 weeks ago

Someplace

If they're older then no not at all but younger no way

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
26 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

"As long as they are older than my eldest child is the rule I go by... Which is 31

I thought the rule was 1/2 your age plus 7. "

That would be 34 then

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By *urBucketlistCouple
26 weeks ago

Newcastle hotel Friday

Sex? Absolutely not. Attraction, regular or relationship, absolutely matters.

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By *eroLondonMan
26 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I've never slept with anyone younger than me... Maybe I should try it!

I think you should too

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She snores in her sleep.

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By *ealitybitesMan
26 weeks ago

Belfast

Yes it matters to me and I've never subscribed to the "age is just a number" trope.

Age is a fact and a factor.

I have zero interest in anyone close to my kids ages so I always keep a 10 year buffer between their age and my lower filter.

I'm not missing out because it's impossible to miss out on something you have no interest in and it doesn't matter how hot and experienced a woman in her 20s or 30s may be or thinks she is.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"It's about how hot they are."

^ oh absolutely.

Also, never ask a lady her age.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Tbh I tend to gravitate to those within a 10 year range either side of my age, as I’ve got older so have those I end up meeting.

I just wouldn’t feel comfortable meeting someone, say, 18 or 19 even though it’s perfectly legal, the gap for me is too big and it’s unlikely we’d have much in common culturally either.

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By *reen as JadeCouple
26 weeks ago

Cheshire

Not for meets. It can be a turn on going with older guys x

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
26 weeks ago

Bedale

For us it's all about the individual.

We tend to have more meets with those who are a little older than us (late 40s and early 50s to our late 30s and early 40s) but it's not a hard rule, just seems that those are almost exclusively the people who are interested in us.

We have ruled out people for ages who are actually younger than others we have enjoyed playing with because individually they were "older" in attitudes, individual aging process etc etc.

We never automatically rule someone out because of the number in their profile; but I can't deny that the odds of us finding a connection are limited if you are under 30 or over 55. Not impossible though.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
26 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

Age is just a number, attraction is most important to me

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By *ripfillMan
26 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

“Never ask a lady how old she is “

Does it matter ….

If the spark is there then ignition can happen.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
26 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

It doesn’t matter to me

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By *heelerMan
26 weeks ago

Northants

"Does age gap matter that much to you when it comes sex?

I’m in my 40s and I’ve been with lasses in their early 20s and women in their 60s.

Age isn’t important in my opinion. It’s about the connection.

Thoughts?"

I agree but I do tend to look for females nearer my age

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By *ilva69Man
26 weeks ago

stockport

With me, it tends to be couples of a similar age

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By *oxesMan
26 weeks ago

Southend, Essex

"Does age gap matter that much to you when it comes sex?

I’m in my 40s and I’ve been with lasses in their early 20s and women in their 60s.

Age isn’t important in my opinion. It’s about the connection.

Thoughts?

I agree but I do tend to look for females nearer my age"

I should imagine it matters to some peope when it comes to finding a partner as opposed to a fling.

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By *osey WalesMan
26 weeks ago

Surrey

It has never been a factor with me and seeing old/young couples doesnt bother nor effect me. I think good luck to them. If that is what makes them happy.

Looking at my experiences however it is probably a range of plus or minus 15 years from mine where i am most comfortable.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Does age gap matter that much to you when it comes sex?

I’m in my 40s and I’ve been with lasses in their early 20s and women in their 60s.

Age isn’t important in my opinion. It’s about the connection.

Thoughts?

I agree but I do tend to look for females nearer my age

I should imagine it matters to some peope when it comes to finding a partner as opposed to a fling. "

A fling, sex or relationships.

It'll matter to some and not at all to others.

People are individuals, with their own preferences. Surprising I know......but like many this is one of those questions where there's no correct answer.

And just because someone may at one time or another interact with someone of a certain age it doesn't mean they will with everyone of a similar age.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I'm about to test it

38 vs 54

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By *ilyandronCouple
26 weeks ago

Bristol

I like older, lily likes younger.

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By *eronicaExplorerWoman
26 weeks ago

London

If he is under 30, yes, it matters.

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By *eroLondonMan
26 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I'm about to test it

38 vs 54"

I experienced it yesterday evening with a delightful 'romantique' date. The 21-year age gap made no difference. At the end of the evening I left feeling I was the younger person who had been bestowed and blown away with maturity and wisdom.

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By *r SensualMan
26 weeks ago

London

Initially when I first came on here, it was with the intention of seeking out, and connecting with women older than me… personally it doesn’t matter to me.

There’s a 7 year gap between me and my partner, and a 20 odd year gap between myself and my fwb. Both of which are, and have been long term connections.

Totally respect and understand people’s preference though if a man of my age is not of interest to them.

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