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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago

I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.

It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.

It actually baffles me sometimes.

(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)

I just needed to vent this out because what on earth

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By *igR93Man
26 weeks ago

Sarcasm City

Must be your first day on the internet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago


"Must be your first day on the internet "

No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.

Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg

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By *unchalMan
26 weeks ago

Dartford


"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.

It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.

It actually baffles me sometimes.

(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)

I just needed to vent this out because what on earth "

What’s your point? Men without a partner are shit or is that a comment about all men? What’s your point?

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By *unchalMan
26 weeks ago

Dartford


"Must be your first day on the internet

No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.

Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg "

Why should we do that? I’m pretty sure this is not surprising behaviour.

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By *quirrel!Man
26 weeks ago

Nearby


"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.

It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.

It actually baffles me sometimes.

(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)

I just needed to vent this out because what on earth "

We’re not all like that - promise x

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
26 weeks ago

Southampton


"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.

It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.

It actually baffles me sometimes.

(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)

I just needed to vent this out because what on earth

What’s your point? Men without a partner are shit or is that a comment about all men? What’s your point?"

The point is the abuse she got ( apologies if I have misgendered you Op) .. there's really no need for people to send abuse...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago


"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.

It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.

It actually baffles me sometimes.

(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)

I just needed to vent this out because what on earth

We’re not all like that - promise x

"

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
26 weeks ago

Southampton


"Must be your first day on the internet

No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.

Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg

Why should we do that? I’m pretty sure this is not surprising behaviour. "

Why shouldn't we? Sometimes we all need to get our feelings out and find an ally in this world

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By *unchalMan
26 weeks ago

Dartford

This is one of the man bashing posts that I have talked about elsewhere. I assume a specific man was horrible. Report him. He does not represent every man on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago


"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.

It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.

It actually baffles me sometimes.

(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)

I just needed to vent this out because what on earth

What’s your point? Men without a partner are shit or is that a comment about all men? What’s your point?

The point is the abuse she got ( apologies if I have misgendered you Op) .. there's really no need for people to send abuse..."

Yes, exactly, and I was just making a point that I took a risk opening my messages to single men again and this is the response I get almost immediately.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago

I’ve blocked that Funchal guy so I’m not taking his rage bait and I advise others not to as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"Must be your first day on the internet

No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.

Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg "

Sorry you’ve had abusive messages. Please report them to Admin and Block! if you haven’t already.

How’s your writing block? Have you surpassed it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago


"Must be your first day on the internet

No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.

Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg

Sorry you’ve had abusive messages. Please report them to Admin and Block! if you haven’t already.

How’s your writing block? Have you surpassed it? "

Reported and blocked as soon as it happened, thankfully I saw it instantly so it wasn’t a shock.

Yes, it’s passed! Thanks for asking. Well, tbf, some of it has passed I’m doing okay with my novel again (albeit with self doubt)- and I’m getting back to my poetry! Thank god it’s lifting

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"This is one of the man bashing posts that I have talked about elsewhere. I assume a specific man was horrible. Report him. He does not represent every man on here. "

Similarly all older women aren’t bitter but you do paint them with the same wide brush.

It must be difficult to look at others but struggle to reflect on your own doings. Bless you.

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By *ittlemissTinselTitsCouple
26 weeks ago

Southampton


"This is one of the man bashing posts that I have talked about elsewhere. I assume a specific man was horrible. Report him. He does not represent every man on here. "

If you actually read their post it does state they know it's not all man bashing

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By *ittlebirdWoman
26 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.

It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.

It actually baffles me sometimes.

(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)

I just needed to vent this out because what on earth "

Unfortunately not everyone on here can behave like decent human beings darling. Same goes for the forum as the messages. Ah well. We move on.. take a deep breath and say fuck that shit!

Not worth wasting your breath over

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago


"Must be your first day on the internet

No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.

Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg

Sorry you’ve had abusive messages. Please report them to Admin and Block! if you haven’t already.

How’s your writing block? Have you surpassed it?

Reported and blocked as soon as it happened, thankfully I saw it instantly so it wasn’t a shock.

Yes, it’s passed! Thanks for asking. Well, tbf, some of it has passed I’m doing okay with my novel again (albeit with self doubt)- and I’m getting back to my poetry! Thank god it’s lifting "

There’s little bits of positivity there! May it continue.

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
26 weeks ago

Hell


"This is one of the man bashing posts that I have talked about elsewhere. I assume a specific man was horrible. Report him. He does not represent every man on here. "

Message me, I’ll give you my password. It’s never just one and you can see for yourself

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By *avexxMan
26 weeks ago

cheshire


"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.

It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.

It actually baffles me sometimes.

(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)

I just needed to vent this out because what on earth

We’re not all like that - promise x

"

... pretty much what this young man said but it is beyond me why guys send abuse sad people...

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By *naswingdressWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

#notallmen

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By *andy CanesWoman
26 weeks ago

candy cane lane


"I’ve blocked that Funchal guy so I’m not taking his rage bait and I advise others not to as well."
he can still post on your threads though

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon


"Must be your first day on the internet

No, it’s really not. And on that note, the guy that abused me has been here 2 days.

Let me vent it out without snarky comments, I beg "

Vent if you need to. You’ve every right to say how you feel.

As for the abuse, when I’ve had it, it’s also guys new to the site. Which suggests there are people joining just to troll. What unhappy little lives they must lead.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
26 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"#notallmen "

I just can’t help it with that hashtag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago


"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.

It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.

It actually baffles me sometimes.

(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)

I just needed to vent this out because what on earth

Unfortunately not everyone on here can behave like decent human beings darling. Same goes for the forum as the messages. Ah well. We move on.. take a deep breath and say fuck that shit!

Not worth wasting your breath over

Hugs "

Yes, we do move on! Thankfully there have also been some lovely men in my DMs today

Hugs to you too

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By *naswingdressWoman
26 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)


"#notallmen

I just can’t help it with that hashtag "

Me neither

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By *ittlebirdWoman
26 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.

It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.

It actually baffles me sometimes.

(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)

I just needed to vent this out because what on earth

Unfortunately not everyone on here can behave like decent human beings darling. Same goes for the forum as the messages. Ah well. We move on.. take a deep breath and say fuck that shit!

Not worth wasting your breath over

Hugs

Yes, we do move on! Thankfully there have also been some lovely men in my DMs today

Hugs to you too "

I’m glad to hear it. Always here if you need a rant. You’re utterly lovely. Keep it that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago


"I re-opened my DMs to single men yesterday.

It took ONE DAY. Maybe even less than 24 Hours before I received abuse, including an ableist slur.

It actually baffles me sometimes.

(I know it’s not all single men before anyone gets in there.)

I just needed to vent this out because what on earth

Unfortunately not everyone on here can behave like decent human beings darling. Same goes for the forum as the messages. Ah well. We move on.. take a deep breath and say fuck that shit!

Not worth wasting your breath over

Hugs

Yes, we do move on! Thankfully there have also been some lovely men in my DMs today

Hugs to you too

I’m glad to hear it. Always here if you need a rant. You’re utterly lovely. Keep it that way "

Thank you. I appreciate it

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By *ellinever70Woman
26 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Why did you open your dms to men? I see you're gay

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
26 weeks ago


"Why did you open your dms to men? I see you're gay "

I’m exploring my sexuality a bit more

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By *r99mr99Man
26 weeks ago

Ealing


"Why did you open your dms to men? I see you're gay

I’m exploring my sexuality a bit more "

Good for you, and you shouldn't really have to justify why you opened your DMs, you should be able to do that without abuse

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By *ellinever70Woman
26 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Why did you open your dms to men? I see you're gay

I’m exploring my sexuality a bit more "

Right, okay

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