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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out" Couple of questions for you Op! Does she know your on here? Have you spoken with her about this?. Have you thought, there maybe deeper things at play here?. Or is all about you, and what you want?.. .Mr | |||
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out Couple of questions for you Op! Does she know your on here? Have you spoken with her about this?. Have you thought, there maybe deeper things at play here?. Or is all about you, and what you want?.. .Mr " You forgot to add: she may be getting it elsewhere | |||
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out Couple of questions for you Op! Does she know your on here? Have you spoken with her about this?. Have you thought, there maybe deeper things at play here?. Or is all about you, and what you want?.. .Mr You forgot to add: she may be getting it elsewhere " I deleted that part Boo 
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"Watching... With anticipation Does anyone wanna tell him? " Think you are the one who should break the news to him Mr | |||
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"Get a new girlfriend OP, why waste time. "That is the answer isn’t it | |||
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"When she was on here she didn't use the word great." Granny, you absolute star! | |||
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"When she was on here she didn't use the word great." | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses." Used to be on here?  | |||
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out" Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof. Or is that just me...?  | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses." has she okayed you fucking elsewhere ? She doesn't have to have a new partner, but may you ? | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses." So if she refuses to swing with you then does she know you’re back on here? I would’ve thought the best way to kill someone’s sex drive is mown about the lack of sex you get and ask them if you can add another to the relationship Has she given you a reason why it’s only once every now and then? Tiredness, stress, hormone imbalance, doesn’t like you anymore or many other reasons. If I had a partner and they were on here moaning about the lack of sex they had with me I am pretty sure they’d never sleep with me again | |||
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"Watching... With anticipation Does anyone wanna tell him? Think you are the one who should break the news to him Mr " Nope I get into trouble when I do. To brutally honest for it or get told it's down to my moon cycle Gonna sit back and watch | |||
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof. Or is that just me...? "Dear god we all know you’d ruin him in one sitting | |||
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"That's a very good point. Touche" Try using the quote feature so we know who you're replying to | |||
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out Couple of questions for you Op! Does she know your on here? Have you spoken with her about this?. Have you thought, there maybe deeper things at play here?. Or is all about you, and what you want?.. .Mr You forgot to add: she may be getting it elsewhere I deleted that part Boo
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"That's a very good point. Touche Try using the quote feature so we know who you're replying to" thank you lol | |||
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof. Or is that just me...? "On my way | |||
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof. Or is that just me...?
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"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ... If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ? Once a day ...... twice ? C'mon we need to know" Granny, if he comes to the Wirral I guarantee a shag with every meal. And I eat a lot. And often | |||
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"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ... If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ? Once a day ...... twice ? C'mon we need to know" Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough | |||
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"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ... If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ? Once a day ...... twice ? C'mon we need to know Granny, if he comes to the Wirral I guarantee a shag with every meal. And I eat a lot. And often "Right that's it, I'm on the next train | |||
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"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ... If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ? Once a day ...... twice ? C'mon we need to know Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough" I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie | |||
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"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ... If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ? Once a day ...... twice ? C'mon we need to know Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie " I wanted to say that but didn't want to be judged. Even though I'm on a swinging site | |||
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof. Or is that just me...?
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Hahaha, I'm just helping a guy out "I’m sure you are red me little darlin, I’m sure you are | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses." Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious! | |||
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"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ... If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ? Once a day ...... twice ? C'mon we need to know Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie " Twice a day are rookie numbers | |||
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"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ... If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ? Once a day ...... twice ? C'mon we need to know Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie I wanted to say that but didn't want to be judged. Even though I'm on a swinging site" No one would have judged you for being a rampant cock bulging fuck sla*ve ...... but tsk ....... now you were less than honest........ sigh | |||
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"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ... If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ? Once a day ...... twice ? C'mon we need to know Granny, if he comes to the Wirral I guarantee a shag with every meal. And I eat a lot. And often "Can I come for pudding? | |||
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"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ... If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ? Once a day ...... twice ? C'mon we need to know Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie Twice a day are rookie numbers "twice a day for each testicle? | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses. Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!" Oh now let's be fair. He never slated his partner. Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too. | |||
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"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ... If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ? Once a day ...... twice ? C'mon we need to know Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie Twice a day are rookie numbers
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses. Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious!" I would agree with you here | |||
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof. Or is that just me...?
Dear god we all know you’d ruin him in one sitting
Hahaha, I'm just helping a guy out
I’m sure you are red me little darlin, I’m sure you are "I'm all heart, handsome. You know that  x | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses. Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious! Oh now let's be fair. He never slated his partner. Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too. " If you read back like I did, you'll see he said she "knows he USED to be here". Big difference. | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses. Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious! Oh now let's be fair. He never slated his partner. Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too. " He said she knew 'he used to be on here' | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses. Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious! Oh now let's be fair. He never slated his partner. Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too. If you read back like I did, you'll see he said she "knows he USED to be here". Big difference." I did read back. I was coming back to say so. Slight difference | |||
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out Come up north, handsome, our sex drives are through the roof. Or is that just me...?
Dear god we all know you’d ruin him in one sitting
Hahaha, I'm just helping a guy out
I’m sure you are red me little darlin, I’m sure you are
I'm all heart, handsome. You know that x"Oh darlin you are all heart I know this too 
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"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ... If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ? Once a day ...... twice ? C'mon we need to know Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie Twice a day are rookie numbers "I'm not here to judge | |||
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"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ... If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ? Once a day ...... twice ? C'mon we need to know Once every 2 days is fine by me.... But I'm always horny so once every 4-6 weeks isn't enough I was expecting twice a day minimum I won't lie I wanted to say that but didn't want to be judged. Even though I'm on a swinging site" If people judge you, turn the tables and judge them back! Fairs fair and all that | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses. Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious! Oh now let's be fair. He never slated his partner. Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too. " I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling. | |||
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"Im seeing this hot girl in London… her boyfriend is built like a wall.. how do i make sure he doesn’t find out I’ve been railing her for 8 months?? "You been climbing out the care home windows again? | |||
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"Im seeing this hot girl in London… her boyfriend is built like a wall.. how do i make sure he doesn’t find out I’ve been railing her for 8 months?? "FFS Todge...... you're the reason he's canalising where there is no water | |||
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"Muscles Mike ! C'mere again ... If once a month is not enough - how much IS enough ? Once a day ...... twice ? C'mon we need to know Granny, if he comes to the Wirral I guarantee a shag with every meal. And I eat a lot. And often
Right that's it, I'm on the next train"Get here before Saturday then, as I'm off to Scotland! Seriously though, sex IS an important part of a relationship. And it's easy for folk to judge you. Has the sex always been so infrequent? If so, it's probs not gonna change and you need to think do you love her enough to go without? If its a recent thing, what's changed? Arbitrarily withholding sex is not good. Get to the bottom of why & then make your decision. But leaving it be to fester will only lead to bitterness and resentment. Good luck OP  xx | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses. Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious! Oh now let's be fair. He never slated his partner. Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too. I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling. " Does she get intimacy n stuff ? Do you do stuff to put her at her ease ? Are there kids ? etc etc ..... | |||
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"Im seeing this hot girl in London… her boyfriend is built like a wall.. how do i make sure he doesn’t find out I’ve been railing her for 8 months??
You been climbing out the care home windows again? "no way!! ( its a tunnel this time!!) | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses. Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious! Oh now let's be fair. He never slated his partner. Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too. I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling. Does she get intimacy n stuff ? Do you do stuff to put her at her ease ? Are there kids ? etc etc ..... " I am intimate, yeah but she rarely notices or does anything back. I'm romantic also. I put her before everything but still. I don't get the same back. | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses. Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious! Oh now let's be fair. He never slated his partner. Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too. I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling. Does she get intimacy n stuff ? Do you do stuff to put her at her ease ? Are there kids ? etc etc ..... I am intimate, yeah but she rarely notices or does anything back. I'm romantic also. I put her before everything but still. I don't get the same back." Don't ! I'm getting the hots ..... and crying at the same time. Does your right arm have a bigger muscle than your left arm ? | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses. Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious! Oh now let's be fair. He never slated his partner. Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too. I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling. Does she get intimacy n stuff ? Do you do stuff to put her at her ease ? Are there kids ? etc etc ..... I am intimate, yeah but she rarely notices or does anything back. I'm romantic also. I put her before everything but still. I don't get the same back." Has it always been like that? I struggle with intimacy sometimes, like if my husband touches me I don't always reciprocate, it doesn't come naturally to me and he is ok with that, he can have a high sex drive but he also understands my issues, I have to be really really in the mood. | |||
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"Get rid move on " love how I'm actually taking your advice on this one | |||
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"Get rid move on Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ?" I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true | |||
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"Get rid move on Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ? I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true" What about rabid unfaithful dogs.. did you keep them on the farm ? | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses. Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious! Oh now let's be fair. He never slated his partner. Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too. I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling. Does she get intimacy n stuff ? Do you do stuff to put her at her ease ? Are there kids ? etc etc ..... I am intimate, yeah but she rarely notices or does anything back. I'm romantic also. I put her before everything but still. I don't get the same back. Has it always been like that? I struggle with intimacy sometimes, like if my husband touches me I don't always reciprocate, it doesn't come naturally to me and he is ok with that, he can have a high sex drive but he also understands my issues, I have to be really really in the mood." I get you. When we do have fun, I always pay her the attention and are careless about myself in the bedroom untill she cums at least twice. I last a long long time in the bedroom so am not a 1 minute or 5 minute guy. More like half an hour minimum. Unless a quicky.... Like once a year. We always try different things but it's always me introducing them. | |||
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"Hahaha I am expecting some funny comments. Basically, yes we've spoken about it. And she new that I used to be on here (for well over 10 years). I've said about both of us seeing someone about it but she refuses. Why would you expect funny comments - there's nothing funny about your post at all. You slate your partner to random people and look for someone to cheat on her with. Hilarious! Oh now let's be fair. He never slated his partner. Im pretty sure he said his partner knows he's here too. I love my partner. I do. I haven't said anything bad about her. That's why I'm still with her. I know some of you might not understand but like I said, I've tried lots with her, I've said about seeing someone about it, seeing other couples, etc. She just doesn't have an interest and doesn't seem to think as though it's important. I've been on this site for years and have used it as a couple with two separate partners of mine. She knew I had a high sex drive when we met but now that part has stopped and I'm struggling. Does she get intimacy n stuff ? Do you do stuff to put her at her ease ? Are there kids ? etc etc ..... I am intimate, yeah but she rarely notices or does anything back. I'm romantic also. I put her before everything but still. I don't get the same back. Has it always been like that? I struggle with intimacy sometimes, like if my husband touches me I don't always reciprocate, it doesn't come naturally to me and he is ok with that, he can have a high sex drive but he also understands my issues, I have to be really really in the mood. I get you. When we do have fun, I always pay her the attention and are careless about myself in the bedroom untill she cums at least twice. I last a long long time in the bedroom so am not a 1 minute or 5 minute guy. More like half an hour minimum. Unless a quicky.... Like once a year. We always try different things but it's always me introducing them." it’s not a bull is it - please God!! | |||
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"Get rid move on Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ? I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true What about rabid unfaithful dogs.. did you keep them on the farm ?" Why, did you want a job? | |||
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"Get rid move on Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ? I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true What about rabid unfaithful dogs.. did you keep them on the farm ? Why, did you want a job?" Ha! now that was funny ..... | |||
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"Get rid move on Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ? I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true What about rabid unfaithful dogs.. did you keep them on the farm ? Why, did you want a job? Ha! now that was funny ..... " Sorry sorry sorry. I saw the opportunity. If I could hug you right now I would. | |||
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"Get rid move on Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ? I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true What about rabid unfaithful dogs.. did you keep them on the farm ? Why, did you want a job? Ha! now that was funny ..... Sorry sorry sorry. I saw the opportunity. If I could hug you right now I would. " Don't be silly! It was a good retort. Far too good to miss. | |||
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"Get rid move on Yeah. You don't keep a cow that gives no milk hey ? I used to work on a dairy farm.... That is true What about rabid unfaithful dogs.. did you keep them on the farm ? Why, did you want a job? Ha! now that was funny ..... Sorry sorry sorry. I saw the opportunity. If I could hug you right now I would. Don't be silly! It was a good retort. Far too good to miss. " Okay, I didn't know if it was a hit at me for being unfaithful so I just went for it lol | |||
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"How long have you been together ?if not to long then it’s time to move on .the longer you leave it the more difficult it will get .and more frustrating " 5 years mate. I can't do this forever lol | |||
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"This is my last comment Michael ..... Two things to think about , maybe three Will you two split up over this ? If you do , would the shags be worth the loss of 'love?' It was two "You're too good at this. I appreciate it. I asked Austin Powers for advice and he said the same | |||
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"This is my last comment Michael ..... Two things to think about , maybe three Will you two split up over this ? If you do , would the shags be worth the loss of 'love?' It was two "So profound granny. I think granny is right, is everything else you have worth it over lack of sex? If you have this magical relationship that takes sex out the picture, could it live on (without you playing away), I think if you can figure that out, you will make the decision, not as though thought of it before you started this thread, I think you was hoping you would get fanny in your face but here we are on a Thursday afternoon sorting your love life out. | |||
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"This is my last comment Michael ..... Two things to think about , maybe three Will you two split up over this ? If you do , would the shags be worth the loss of 'love?' It was two
So profound granny.
I think granny is right, is everything else you have worth it over lack of sex? If you have this magical relationship that takes sex out the picture, could it live on (without you playing away), I think if you can figure that out, you will make the decision, not as though thought of it before you started this thread, I think you was hoping you would get fanny in your face but here we are on a Thursday afternoon sorting your love life out."I know right!!! I just wanted someone to sit on my face and instead I get a lecture from people telling me off hahaha. I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that. | |||
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"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that. " Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex? | |||
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"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that. Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex?" Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried | |||
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"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that. Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex? Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried" So instead of believing the imagination or taking active steps to improve the situation, you'll just put her health and wellbeing at risk and get your end away anyway? It's a choice, I guess. | |||
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out" Why not leave and find someone who you're sexually compatible with and let her find someone who appreciates her and wouldnt cheat | |||
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"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that. Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex? Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried So instead of believing the imagination or taking active steps to improve the situation, you'll just put her health and wellbeing at risk and get your end away anyway? It's a choice, I guess." Clearly haven't read it. | |||
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"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that. Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex? Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried So instead of believing the imagination or taking active steps to improve the situation, you'll just put her health and wellbeing at risk and get your end away anyway? It's a choice, I guess. Clearly haven't read it. " The part where you won't stay in a relationship without sex or the part where you won't leave a relationship without sex? | |||
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"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that. Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex? Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried" I have read the comments and I'm with Prey, take more steps. If you want to keep the relationship sex for me doesn't start in the bedroom, I can't get turned on at the click of a finger & repeatedly asking for it is a huge turn off. What is your day to day like, do you still have time together, do fun things as a couple away from the sex, flirt, compliment each other, help each other with the mundane day to day shit etc? You say she knows you used to be on here, does she know your on here now? | |||
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"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that. Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex? Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried I have read the comments and I'm with Prey, take more steps. If you want to keep the relationship sex for me doesn't start in the bedroom, I can't get turned on at the click of a finger & repeatedly asking for it is a huge turn off. What is your day to day like, do you still have time together, do fun things as a couple away from the sex, flirt, compliment each other, help each other with the mundane day to day shit etc? You say she knows you used to be on here, does she know your on here now? " I agree, it doesn't start in the bedroom. I cook the food, drive us to nice places, book weekend activities, buy the flowers, well mannered, old school gentleman, and the rest. I take notice of everything she does. Compliment her day in, day out but get nothing back. When it does come to sex, I don't rush, it's all about her from start to...finish. I try to introduce new things but she has no desire. I think I'm done with this forum post though, I just need a shag ffs. | |||
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"I agree, it doesn't start in the bedroom. I cook the food, drive us to nice places, book weekend activities, buy the flowers, well mannered, old school gentleman, and the rest. I take notice of everything she does. Compliment her day in, day out but get nothing back. When it does come to sex, I don't rush, it's all about her from start to...finish. I try to introduce new things but she has no desire. I think I'm done with this forum post though, I just need a shag ffs. " Why do you want to stay in such a one sided relationship OP? | |||
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"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that. Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex? Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried I have read the comments and I'm with Prey, take more steps. If you want to keep the relationship sex for me doesn't start in the bedroom, I can't get turned on at the click of a finger & repeatedly asking for it is a huge turn off. What is your day to day like, do you still have time together, do fun things as a couple away from the sex, flirt, compliment each other, help each other with the mundane day to day shit etc? You say she knows you used to be on here, does she know your on here now? I agree, it doesn't start in the bedroom. I cook the food, drive us to nice places, book weekend activities, buy the flowers, well mannered, old school gentleman, and the rest. I take notice of everything she does. Compliment her day in, day out but get nothing back. When it does come to sex, I don't rush, it's all about her from start to...finish. I try to introduce new things but she has no desire. I think I'm done with this forum post though, I just need a shag ffs. " I commend you. To have the energy to focus on everything for her, spend all of your time thinking about her, doing for her, dotting on her, having weekends away, driving her here and there, cooking and still have energy to find a shag? You must be full of energy! It seems there’s more or you’ve left something out. Your day to day sounds exhausting just reading it. Have you considered doing nothing and relaxing? Listening to her? What does she want? Maybe it’s a matter of you showing her you care and love her in a way she’s not understanding it. Maybe you’re full of it and could spend more time with her. Who knows. | |||
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"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that. Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex? Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried I have read the comments and I'm with Prey, take more steps. If you want to keep the relationship sex for me doesn't start in the bedroom, I can't get turned on at the click of a finger & repeatedly asking for it is a huge turn off. What is your day to day like, do you still have time together, do fun things as a couple away from the sex, flirt, compliment each other, help each other with the mundane day to day shit etc? You say she knows you used to be on here, does she know your on here now? I agree, it doesn't start in the bedroom. I cook the food, drive us to nice places, book weekend activities, buy the flowers, well mannered, old school gentleman, and the rest. I take notice of everything she does. Compliment her day in, day out but get nothing back. When it does come to sex, I don't rush, it's all about her from start to...finish. I try to introduce new things but she has no desire. I think I'm done with this forum post though, I just need a shag ffs. " That's all well and good. But you obviously don't respect her at all. | |||
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out Couple of questions for you Op! Does she know your on here? Have you spoken with her about this?. Have you thought, there maybe deeper things at play here?. Or is all about you, and what you want?.. .Mr You forgot to add: she may be getting it elsewhere I deleted that part Boo
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Always rely on me to say it Flip Flop "I opted to be nice this time, Flip flop is a changed man
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out" I get more from your Mrs  | |||
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"Yep, I'm not getting any. When we fuck it's great but it's once a month...if that. She doesn't think it's needed. If anyone has the same with their boyfriend/husband and needs more in the bedroom. Contact me so we can help eachother out I get more from your Mrs "Twice a month then Rex
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"I can't have a relationship without sex though, not apologising for that. Then why are you still in a relationship that doesn't provide enough sex? Because I like to imagine that it will change. But I very much doubt it. I've tried I have read the comments and I'm with Prey, take more steps. If you want to keep the relationship sex for me doesn't start in the bedroom, I can't get turned on at the click of a finger & repeatedly asking for it is a huge turn off. What is your day to day like, do you still have time together, do fun things as a couple away from the sex, flirt, compliment each other, help each other with the mundane day to day shit etc? You say she knows you used to be on here, does she know your on here now? I agree, it doesn't start in the bedroom. I cook the food, drive us to nice places, book weekend activities, buy the flowers, well mannered, old school gentleman, and the rest. I take notice of everything she does. Compliment her day in, day out but get nothing back. When it does come to sex, I don't rush, it's all about her from start to...finish. I try to introduce new things but she has no desire. I think I'm done with this forum post though, I just need a shag ffs. I commend you. To have the energy to focus on everything for her, spend all of your time thinking about her, doing for her, dotting on her, having weekends away, driving her here and there, cooking and still have energy to find a shag? You must be full of energy! It seems there’s more or you’ve left something out. Your day to day sounds exhausting just reading it. Have you considered doing nothing and relaxing? Listening to her? What does she want? Maybe it’s a matter of you showing her you care and love her in a way she’s not understanding it. Maybe you’re full of it and could spend more time with her. Who knows. " AND he makes her come twice when they do have sex, don't forget that 
OP you said you had "said nothing bad about her here".. well that's crap. All you're doing is moaning about how she does nothing for and gives nothing to you. You show no respect for in how you write about her.
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"Jusy a thought: If she enjoyed it more maybe she'd want it more? Up your game OP. It's time to get in training! " I am standing up to appload you x Made my day | |||
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