FabSwingers.com forum: Bareback swinging …

By (user no longer on site) OP
26 weeks ago

Whatdya reckon, Fabsters?

Yay or nay?

It’s definitely a no from me my lovelies, but lots do love it and I guess my 2p on it is that if everyone is informed and consensual what other people get up to is their business, right?

What’s your view?

Keep it civil please ..

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"Whatdya reckon, Fabsters?

Yay or nay?

It’s definitely a no from me my lovelies, but lots do love it and I guess my 2p on it is that if everyone is informed and consensual what other people get up to is their business, right?

What’s your view?

Keep it civil please ..

Nay. Not risking my health for 2 seconds of pleasure.

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By *hucky12Man
26 weeks ago

accrington

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By *ot to giggleWoman
26 weeks ago

Coventry

nay from me - some risks are worth taking, not this one

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By *andy CanesWoman
26 weeks ago

candy cane lane

Nay

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By *ittlebirdWoman
26 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

When I was “swinging” it was a hell no from me OP

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By *ugehandsMan
26 weeks ago

Fife/ Newcastle

No, safe sex is not optional for me.

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By *electableicecreamMan
26 weeks ago

The West

Any answer other than Safe Sex Only would be Fab suicide.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
26 weeks ago

your head

"Any answer other than Safe Sex Only would be Fab suicide."

I doubt it, there's loads of bareback threads. They get quite popular.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
26 weeks ago

your head

It's a no from me. Each to their own but it's not for me.

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By *allandathleticMan
26 weeks ago

Asgard

Nope... I don't want my dick to explode

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
26 weeks ago

on the naughty side of the street

Nay.... Not worth risking your sexual health for a swing.

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By *oleene HoneybeeWoman
26 weeks ago

on the naughty side of the street

But you would be shocked by how many slide in my dms with messagesasking if I would consider it

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Not a good idea with a high sperm count

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By *uenevereWoman
26 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Nay... not worth the increased sti risk.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
26 weeks ago

East Sussex

Not for us but I really wish it was possible for people to be honest about this without facing criticism or lectures.

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By *electableicecreamMan
26 weeks ago

The West

"Any answer other than Safe Sex Only would be Fab suicide.

I doubt it, there's loads of bareback threads. They get quite popular. "

Fair enough. I haven't seen one in the lounge as long as I've been on here. I dare not enter the Swinger's forum though.

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By *laytime_13Woman
26 weeks ago

Lincs

In a steady, monogamous, relationship sure. Swinging? Hell no.

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By *ripfillMan
26 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

"nay from me - some risks are worth taking, not this one"

100% agree I think one person OP Suggested a rather interesting comment

No glove no love … which seems appropriate

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
26 weeks ago

chichester

Yes if it’s something you are into and happy with risks

People smoke / do drugs / drink alcohol excessively etc all about risk comfort level and finding compatible people

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By *ikesEmBigMan
26 weeks ago

Herts

"Not for us but I really wish it was possible for people to be honest about this without facing criticism or lectures. "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
26 weeks ago

Central

It's asked most days - there was one yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

You do realise you can pass on an STI via oral sex so do you all insist on using a condom then too?

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"You do realise you can pass on an STI via oral sex so do you all insist on using a condom then too? "

I insist on a full hazmat suit

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
26 weeks ago

wonderland.

"You do realise you can pass on an STI via oral sex so do you all insist on using a condom then too? "
much less likely though. So no...but I do insist for full sex

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP
26 weeks ago

"You do realise you can pass on an STI via oral sex so do you all insist on using a condom then too? "

This is always a quirk of the swing scene : everyone seems happy to give unprotected oral when the risk of STI’s and throat cancer from HPV is still reasonably high.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
26 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

It's a No No definitely not risking health xx

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By *odgerMooreMan
26 weeks ago

Nowhere

Regular partner with full disclosure id consider it but no otherwise

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By *erry bull1Man
26 weeks ago

doncaster

No glove no love

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Something we wondered is if there is the risk reduced to zero by using condoms? Obviously there is the split Johnny risk but if fully functional are you actually completely safe?

I ask because there are those that might not be as truthful as you'd believe out there and if you do play safe but they are riddled because they don't - how safe are you?

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By *he KakapoMan
26 weeks ago

A nice rock

Always assume the other person is having unprotected sex somewhere else

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By *electableicecreamMan
26 weeks ago

The West

"Something we wondered is if there is the risk reduced to zero by using condoms? Obviously there is the split Johnny risk but if fully functional are you actually completely safe?

I ask because there are those that might not be as truthful as you'd believe out there and if you do play safe but they are riddled because they don't - how safe are you?"

I did a bit of reading about this and the risk is estimated to be reduced by 98% in perfect circumstances.

Factoring in improper use and human error the risk reduction is estimated at 85%

Your mileage may very depending on what you read.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
26 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Fuck that. I last a good 3 minutes longer with a condom.

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By *he KakapoMan
26 weeks ago

A nice rock

"Something we wondered is if there is the risk reduced to zero by using condoms? Obviously there is the split Johnny risk but if fully functional are you actually completely safe?

I ask because there are those that might not be as truthful as you'd believe out there and if you do play safe but they are riddled because they don't - how safe are you?

I did a bit of reading about this and the risk is estimated to be reduced by 98% in perfect circumstances.

Factoring in improper use and human error the risk reduction is estimated at 85%

Your mileage may very depending on what you read."

That's also 85% for sex using a condom, add in risk for oral and basic human contact etc.... for a realistic assessment of the risk of even protected sex

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I mean its all great until that one time that you catch something??

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By *eordieJeansCouple
26 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I mean its all great until that one time that you catch something?? "

A Pokémon?

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By *electableicecreamMan
26 weeks ago

The West

"Something we wondered is if there is the risk reduced to zero by using condoms? Obviously there is the split Johnny risk but if fully functional are you actually completely safe?

I ask because there are those that might not be as truthful as you'd believe out there and if you do play safe but they are riddled because they don't - how safe are you?

I did a bit of reading about this and the risk is estimated to be reduced by 98% in perfect circumstances.

Factoring in improper use and human error the risk reduction is estimated at 85%

Your mileage may very depending on what you read.

That's also 85% for sex using a condom, add in risk for oral and basic human contact etc.... for a realistic assessment of the risk of even protected sex"

And variation of risk for individual STI's

It seems HIV increases the risk by about 10%

Again, I'm not a data analyst. I just looked up the various risk factors and these are broad statistics.

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By *ssex_tomMan
26 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Bareback is like a game of Russian Roulette. Keep going and one day the chamber won't be empty .....

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
26 weeks ago

St Neots

If everyone can show recent test results. No issue whatsoever

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By *ikesEmBigMan
26 weeks ago

Herts

"If everyone can show recent test results. No issue whatsoever "

This. Touch wood (pardon the pun) it's served me well

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"Not a good idea with a high sperm count "

I could get women pregnant just my kissing their hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

We've indulged in a limited way with tested people and test ourselves.

I think we would be mortified if we ever gave someone an STI but somewhere in the region of 85% protection on top of the testing and limitation regime seems reasonable

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Def no. They may claim to be ‘clean’ but they are as clean as their last partner

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By *ark n kimCouple
26 weeks ago

Durham

It's a definite nay from us.

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By *ark n kimCouple
26 weeks ago

Durham

"If everyone can show recent test results. No issue whatsoever "

You don't know what they have done between the results and meeting yourself.

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By *ssex_tomMan
26 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Think of this another way. A pistol with eight chambers and eight pleasure rounds to be fired into a pussy. One of those rounds has an STI and some STI can never be cured and could kill you. Are you ready to pull that trigger? Russian Roulette.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"Think of this another way. A pistol with eight chambers and eight pleasure rounds to be fired into a pussy. One of those rounds has an STI and some STI can never be cured and could kill you. Are you ready to pull that trigger? Russian Roulette. "

It's not 1 in 8 but worryingly there is an upward trend of both gonorrhoea and syphilis especially in the youth

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
26 weeks ago

Bristol

If everyone’s on PrEP, why not?! Guards against HIV.

As syph, gonny & chlamydia can all be passed on through oral, you’d have to use condoms & dams for those things too….No one’s doing that, are they? I mean, who’s using condoms and dams for oral? Gotta be a very small number of swingers.

Do, Event based PrEP or continuous PrEP is far better than worrying about condoms breaking etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

I'd rather have a wank than put a comedy rubber wrapper over my cock. It feels and looks absolutely ridiculous and I just can't..no.

If I miss out because of it then I miss out.

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By *awpleasureMan
26 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

"If everyone’s on PrEP, why not?! Guards against HIV.

Do, Event based PrEP or continuous PrEP is far better than worrying about condoms breaking etc. "

Apparently there'll be a new prep out soon that you can take that eliminates more than hiv risk

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
26 weeks ago

St Neots

"If everyone can show recent test results. No issue whatsoever

You don't know what they have done between the results and meeting yourself."

True. Would take some amount of trust aswell that they are being honest about what they may have done/not done after results.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
26 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

It's not just the STI risk. Or is everyone just assuming contraception has a 100% protection rate?

Bareback absolutely feels better and in a risk free world I'd be all for it. But until then we'll stick with condoms (and the coil)

We don't use protection for oral because the risks are lower and oral with protection is so unpleasant I just wouldn't bother.

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By *peak and SpellCouple
26 weeks ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

There seems to a lot more of this on recent pictures posted. It does concern us.

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By *electableicecreamMan
26 weeks ago

The West

"It's not just the STI risk. Or is everyone just assuming contraception has a 100% protection rate?

Bareback absolutely feels better and in a risk free world I'd be all for it. But until then we'll stick with condoms (and the coil)

We don't use protection for oral because the risks are lower and oral with protection is so unpleasant I just wouldn't bother.

+1 for vasectomies. Best decision I ever made.

There's nothing quite like making safe sex safer.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Safe for us to

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By *elboy1978Man
26 weeks ago

Fellgate

I like bareback but both people must be safe

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

Nope

Unless I know

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By *rMrs84Couple
26 weeks ago

Doncaster

Question for those answering: No bareback at all or is this just a penetration rule? Curious if this extends to oral or not.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
26 weeks ago

Leeds

No, bareback is for the Mr only.

Oral - I can't imagine doing it with a condom/dam they taste awful so bare for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"I like bareback but both people must be safe "

This is why I tie her to the bed, in case she might fall off.

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By *unchalMan
26 weeks ago

Dartford

"Whatdya reckon, Fabsters?

Yay or nay?

It’s definitely a no from me my lovelies, but lots do love it and I guess my 2p on it is that if everyone is informed and consensual what other people get up to is their business, right?

What’s your view?

Keep it civil please ..

No. So many levels of no. So, no, then! But fuck am I tempted. Damn, my weakness.

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By *riveinsaturdayXXXMan
26 weeks ago

Bristol

"If everyone’s on PrEP, why not?! Guards against HIV.

Do, Event based PrEP or continuous PrEP is far better than worrying about condoms breaking etc.

Apparently there'll be a new prep out soon that you can take that eliminates more than hiv risk"

And the twice a year jab - whoop!

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
26 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

We go bareback but this only applies to our current FWB. The first few times or on offs are a must.

We are always open and honest with partners about that fact and we get tested regularly. As a few posts above have said, some people will get on there full on high horse about it but are happy to only rubber up for penetrative sex like that's the only way sti's work.

Each to there own and we'd make our decisions with a 3rd person based on the information they have given us and we've given them

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By *electableicecreamMan
26 weeks ago

The West

"We go bareback but this only applies to our current FWB. The first few times or on offs are a must.

Each to there own and we'd make our decisions with a 3rd person based on the information they have given us and we've given them

This. It's not always about bare or not. It's about safe or not.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
26 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

"I mean its all great until that one time that you catch something??

A Pokémon?"
FFS

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By *S chanel demarTV/TS
26 weeks ago

peterborough

Have done a couple of times, and it's the best feeling ever. I guess I'm to careful as I would love to do more

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

We're all gonna die anyway right?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
26 weeks ago

Delightful Bliss

I just assume that everyone does it with someone and stick to my own sexual health priorities

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By (user no longer on site)
26 weeks ago

"We're all gonna die anyway right?

Wouldn't you rather do it without a flaming fanny and peeing needles?

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
26 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Gotta love showing the green discharging cock to the GUM nurse, happy times good memories

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