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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…?" As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs" Well that last one rules me out... Yeah!  | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs Well that last one rules me out... Yeah! "Prove it! | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs Well that last one rules me out... Yeah! "That's no leg...  | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs" I like that. Makes sense. Thanks. | |||
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"If you're wanting to keep the lights on you've gone too far " Or talk. | |||
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"Nothing is true. Everything is permitted. " Hasan-i Sabbah | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs Well that last one rules me out... Yeah! "I need to see it! | |||
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"Nothing is true. Everything is permitted. " Really? | |||
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"Nothing is true. Everything is permitted. Hasan-i Sabbah" Assassins Creed | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs" Although there are still things that people do that are outside these three ‘laws’. I was thinking about extreme BDSM. So, it must be legal too, although I do have a problem with that because sexual acts have often been deemed illegal for a while. | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs Well that last one rules me out... Yeah!
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs Well that last one rules me out... Yeah!
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I don't have to respond to this sort of doubt! "I make custom shoes for third legs   | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs Well that last one rules me out... Yeah!
That's no leg... "You're damn right | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs Well that last one rules me out... Yeah!
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I make custom shoes for third legs "I'm both scared and intrigued as to what that could be | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs Well that last one rules me out... Yeah!
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I don't have to respond to this sort of doubt!
I make custom shoes for third legs
I'm both scared and intrigued as to what that could be "I just need a bell measurement to get correct sizing Then my friend I’ll have all of your 3 of your legs working out ?????? n unison at the gym for you in no time | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs Well that last one rules me out... Yeah!
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I make custom shoes for third legs "Do all third legs have feet on the end of them? | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs Well that last one rules me out... Yeah!
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I make custom shoes for third legs
Do all third legs have feet on the end of them? "Wouldn’t be a leg without a foot . Though it seems the third leg foot always seems to resume a mushroom I find | |||
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"I just need a bell measurement to get correct sizing Then my friend I’ll have all of your 3 of your legs working out ?????? n unison at the gym for you in no time " That's actually quite interesting, it never occurred to me to measure my bell end! I'm actually still a bit confused at what you're referring to  | |||
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"I'm not really sure I understand the question. Do you mean how far could you go with kink talk or how far you could go with criticism. fwiw I don't think having an opinion that is critical of a kink is kink shaming. " As it’s a swinging site, not a kink site, there are certain observable but unwritten bias’s towards the types of kink acceptable to be discussed. I think it’s those older controlling types that set the rules | |||
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"I'm not really sure I understand the question. Do you mean how far could you go with kink talk or how far you could go with criticism. fwiw I don't think having an opinion that is critical of a kink is kink shaming. As it’s a swinging site, not a kink site, there are certain observable but unwritten bias’s towards the types of kink acceptable to be discussed. I think it’s those older controlling types that set the rules "You might be right. | |||
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"I'm not really sure I understand the question. Do you mean how far could you go with kink talk or how far you could go with criticism. fwiw I don't think having an opinion that is critical of a kink is kink shaming. As it’s a swinging site, not a kink site, there are certain observable but unwritten bias’s towards the types of kink acceptable to be discussed. I think it’s those older controlling types that set the rules "True it's not a kink site. I think fab stopped being a swingers site a long time ago though. It is, by design, open to all sorts. So I'm interested in OP's question and not just in terms of the site rules. | |||
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"I'm not really sure I understand the question. Do you mean how far could you go with kink talk or how far you could go with criticism. fwiw I don't think having an opinion that is critical of a kink is kink shaming. " I'd say it depends on how you word the criticism. General rule of thumb (for me) is if your criticism and opinion are about why something isn't for you, that's fine and isn't about shaming anyone. If your criticism is about why others shouldn't enjoy it or makes sweeping judgements of those that do, then it's a different matter. Mr | |||
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"I'm not really sure I understand the question. Do you mean how far could you go with kink talk or how far you could go with criticism. fwiw I don't think having an opinion that is critical of a kink is kink shaming. I'd say it depends on how you word the criticism. General rule of thumb (for me) is if your criticism and opinion are about why something isn't for you, that's fine and isn't about shaming anyone. If your criticism is about why others shouldn't enjoy it or makes sweeping judgements of those that do, then it's a different matter. Mr " Agreed | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…?" There is a massive difference between not enjoying something and kink shaming. This entire post is in relation to your comments about squirting and people calling you out on it. As was said in that post not enjoying something is fine but to quote the below comment that you made. "We should separate the boys (and girls) from the men (and women). Is being shit on desirable too (and before anyone points it out, I am aware that this appeals to a messed up minority)?" That starts going into the kink shaming realm. If you don't enjoy something don't do It. I personally don't think I'd enjoy being eatem alive by a wild rabid pack of kangaroos and you know what? In my 35 years on this earth I've managed to avoid it | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? There is a massive difference between not enjoying something and kink shaming. This entire post is in relation to your comments about squirting and people calling you out on it. As was said in that post not enjoying something is fine but to quote the below comment that you made. "We should separate the boys (and girls) from the men (and women). Is being shit on desirable too (and before anyone points it out, I am aware that this appeals to a messed up minority)?" That starts going into the kink shaming realm. If you don't enjoy something don't do It. I personally don't think I'd enjoy being eatem alive by a wild rabid pack of kangaroos and you know what? In my 35 years on this earth I've managed to avoid it " That certainly puts different spin on things. Calling people messed up for their kinks is straight up kink shaming. | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…?" A one on one kink session and a post in a general forum are different things. I dunno if there’s better places to discuss the kink stuff? | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? There is a massive difference between not enjoying something and kink shaming. This entire post is in relation to your comments about squirting and people calling you out on it. As was said in that post not enjoying something is fine but to quote the below comment that you made. "We should separate the boys (and girls) from the men (and women). Is being shit on desirable too (and before anyone points it out, I am aware that this appeals to a messed up minority)?" That starts going into the kink shaming realm. If you don't enjoy something don't do It. I personally don't think I'd enjoy being eatem alive by a wild rabid pack of kangaroos and you know what? In my 35 years on this earth I've managed to avoid it " Pee and shit are closely associated for me and I don’t find either erotic. But clearly I am not supposed to say that on here. By the way, shame is an internal process it can’t be created by someone outside of you. I might embarrass you by pointing out something about you but the shame part you would create for yourself based on all your experiences etc. It is also a process about an individual with every person feeling different. It is simply not possible to ‘kink shame’ an entire group of people. I’m not here to simply validate everything that anyone says about sex. I don’t do that in real life and I don’t do that here. There are limits and boundaries and for each of us those will be different. I do not make personal comments and I do not attack individuals. Which is very different from some of the reactions I get. I do like to think about this stuff and I do enjoy talking about it. | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs Well that last one rules me out... Yeah! " ....you a several guys on here | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs Well that last one rules me out... Yeah!
....you a several guys on here "Damn. I wish. | |||
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" Pee and shit are closely associated for me and I don’t find either erotic. " ... is a perfectly reasonable thing to say. " But clearly I am not supposed to say that on here. " ... explain? | |||
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"By the way, shame is an internal process it can’t be created by someone outside of you. I might embarrass you by pointing out something about you but the shame part you would create for yourself based on all your experiences etc. " See I don’t particularly like this attitude, absolving yourself of any wrong doings by blaming the person(s) feelings you’ve hurt. | |||
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"By the way, shame is an internal process it can’t be created by someone outside of you. I might embarrass you by pointing out something about you but the shame part you would create for yourself based on all your experiences etc. See I don’t particularly like this attitude, absolving yourself of any wrong doings by blaming the person(s) feelings you’ve hurt. " Interesting. That’s not what I did. There are real psychological concepts behind some of the stuff that is said. I just passed on some of that information. Shame is an adjective not a verb. | |||
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"By the way, shame is an internal process it can’t be created by someone outside of you. I might embarrass you by pointing out something about you but the shame part you would create for yourself based on all your experiences etc. See I don’t particularly like this attitude, absolving yourself of any wrong doings by blaming the person(s) feelings you’ve hurt. Interesting. That’s not what I did. There are real psychological concepts behind some of the stuff that is said. I just passed on some of that information. Shame is an adjective not a verb. " Oh and whether you like my attitude or not is entirely irrelevant. | |||
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"By the way, shame is an internal process it can’t be created by someone outside of you. I might embarrass you by pointing out something about you but the shame part you would create for yourself based on all your experiences etc. See I don’t particularly like this attitude, absolving yourself of any wrong doings by blaming the person(s) feelings you’ve hurt. " 100% agree and was going to comment. But you have put that so eloquently compared to my potential "fucking horse shit" reply which I no longer have to write and then get drawn in. | |||
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"By the way, shame is an internal process it can’t be created by someone outside of you. I might embarrass you by pointing out something about you but the shame part you would create for yourself based on all your experiences etc. See I don’t particularly like this attitude, absolving yourself of any wrong doings by blaming the person(s) feelings you’ve hurt. Interesting. That’s not what I did. There are real psychological concepts behind some of the stuff that is said. I just passed on some of that information. Shame is an adjective not a verb. " Really what you did was use a semantic argument to support your point of view when in fact everyone knows the meaning and common use of that term. I doubt anyone would feel ashamed reading your post. They will know what you mean though. | |||
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"By the way, shame is an internal process it can’t be created by someone outside of you. I might embarrass you by pointing out something about you but the shame part you would create for yourself based on all your experiences etc. See I don’t particularly like this attitude, absolving yourself of any wrong doings by blaming the person(s) feelings you’ve hurt. Interesting. That’s not what I did. There are real psychological concepts behind some of the stuff that is said. I just passed on some of that information. Shame is an adjective not a verb. Really what you did was use a semantic argument to support your point of view when in fact everyone knows the meaning and common use of that term. I doubt anyone would feel ashamed reading your post. They will know what you mean though." What does that mean? I didn’t say it but they know what I meant. Sounds like some kind of Newsspeak. | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…?" I would have thought that was pretty obvious, If I'm not interested or don't understand something or even find something disgusting as long as it's a consensual and legal act between 2 or more adults then I wouldn't even bother to comment on it I would just scroll past it's really as simple as that. | |||
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"As long as it's legal and consensual who cares. Each to their own." Exactly. Never understood why so many care what a bunch of strangers think about what they do. | |||
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"Nothing is true. Everything is permitted. Hasan-i SabbahAssassins Creed" Yes!!  | |||
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"No. Everything is not permissable even if it's within FAB rules There are some sex acts that are punishable by law if someone came to harm. The 'don't kink shame' brigade are a tad too pious for me. If someone expresses that they don't enjoy something or don't think it moral or what ever they are not kink shaming. e.g. I don't give an eff what others do but if they ask me what I think of it I'm not going to be disingenuous to suit the kink shaming brigade." Exactly this. Except you say it better than me as usual | |||
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"Quoting 1984, clever. It seems like people don’t tend to agree with you here, maybe it’s the way you’re putting your arguments across? " I think you misunderstand. I don’t care if people disagree with me. It’s the journey that is important to me. It is a little bit sad that some people are too delicate for any kind of challenge and become mean so easily. | |||
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"Quoting 1984, clever. It seems like people don’t tend to agree with you here, maybe it’s the way you’re putting your arguments across? I think you misunderstand. I don’t care if people disagree with me. It’s the journey that is important to me. It is a little bit sad that some people are too delicate for any kind of challenge and become mean so easily. " I think you do care. I think you go out of your way to be disagreeable. Your started a thread about it. It's fairly amusing. | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…?" Basically what you mean is, only my kinks matter and I will judge and shame anyone who doesn't hold the same opinion. You made that clear on the other thread. | |||
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"People on here keep saying that such and such is a kink and to be critical is to be ‘kink shaming’. Is everything permitted? Are there no limits or boundaries that you think need to be enforced. How far can I go before one of you in this Forum, screams, enough, stop…? As a guide: Everyone should be of age Everyone should consent No one should have more than two legs" Lol made me giggle the Mr | |||
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