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By *ete10661977 OP   Couple
21 weeks ago

leeds

so new and been in the lyfstyle for 7 months or so .....

moved to meeting at home views on using the home bedroom or stick to the living room and bedroom for marriage prob all thing wired advice please

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By *issmorganWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi, I'm half a couple and we wouldn't use our bed for any meets.

We don't accom or expect anyone to accommodate us, we'd prefer clubs or hotels.

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By *urry BlokeMan
21 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I think you need to have some space that is yours and only yours

Do you have a spare bedroom you could use?

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I think you should do what’s best for you and your scenario.

If you fancy the bed, then do that. If you fancy, the sofa do that. What others do shouldn’t have an impact on what you choose.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
21 weeks ago

East Sussex

We visited a couple and they laid a lovely quilt on the living room floor, another couple used their spare room.

We have used our bed.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
21 weeks ago

Leeds

Personally it's a no from me but I wouldn't accommodate at all, we've young kids and regardless of school I'd not give anyone my address never mind in my marital bed.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
21 weeks ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

The important thing is how do you feel about it, OP? As a couple. You're the only ones who can decide, everyone else can make suggestions only.

What are you looking to get from the experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"We visited a couple and they laid a lovely quilt on the living room floor, another couple used their spare room.

We have used our bed. "

Was it a flowery quilt?

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By *he love catsCouple
21 weeks ago

South Wales

We have used our bed and their beds it's totally fine with us.

It's usually the hotel's beds though.

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By *oodmessMan
21 weeks ago

yumsville

I've only ever met at peoples homes or hotels, the living room is the usual and to be honest you don't think too much about the set up. Sometimes there's a mattress, or blow up bed, more often than not it's sofas, floors with rugs and cushions. Spare rooms and main rooms do get used, they aren't out of bounds, I think it's more if they want you walking around their house.

As said, you don't think too much about it once you're into each other.

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By *ex HolesMan
21 weeks ago

Up North

I’d christen the drawing room if I were you OP

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By *hrista BellendWoman
21 weeks ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Use where ever you both, feel most comfortable and safe at OP

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By *amanthabWoman
21 weeks ago

Somewhere

I usually meet in hotels with hubby present but occasionally invited a man home into our bed which has been exhilarating x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
21 weeks ago

East Sussex


"We visited a couple and they laid a lovely quilt on the living room floor, another couple used their spare room.

We have used our bed.

Was it a flowery quilt?"

No it was silk I think

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By *xfordjohnMan
21 weeks ago

Oxford

I always seem to meet people who can't accommodate so it is at my house. Some like the sofa; some like the bed, but most seem to like starting on the sofa then moving upstairs when we need the extra space and comfort.

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By *he love catsCouple
21 weeks ago

South Wales


"We visited a couple and they laid a lovely quilt on the living room floor, another couple used their spare room.

We have used our bed.

Was it a flowery quilt?

No it was silk I think"

Nice

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