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By *eam_lad OP   Man
34 weeks ago

near you

Hi all. Me and a friend have decided we would be fuck buddy's.

She has not had the best sex life very vanilla, and almost the same.

There is so much we want to explore but now sure where to start, start slow? Or jump right in at the deep end?

She is very nervous in the bedroom, where im now in the fuck it last go as far as we would dare.

She has dipped her toes in FF and i have MM.

Any ideas???

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By *issmorganWoman
34 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

Create a couple profile, with pics of you both and what you're offering and looking for.

Then use your filters to keep your mail low, so she doesn't get overwhelmed and can have a look round the site and see what she thinks.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
34 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Go on Urban Dictionary and don’t look back.

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By *ellinever70Woman
34 weeks ago

Ayrshire

Maybe see if you like having sex with each other before involving others

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By *ealMissShadyWoman
34 weeks ago

St Albans/ Welsh Borders

Talk to her instead of asking a bunch of Fab randomers

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

If she’s very nervous in the bedroom and you’re the type to want to deep dive head first into everything, I struggle to see how you’d be a fit as fuck buddies.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago

How about you come up with a list of things you both want to try, you put each one on a slip of paper and then choose one randomly until you've emptied the jar??

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By *rBobbMan
34 weeks ago

Birmingham

Communication is the most important thing and that should be between you two so it's clear what you both want.

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By *eam_lad OP   Man
34 weeks ago

near you

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By *eam_lad OP   Man
34 weeks ago

near you


"Maybe see if you like having sex with each other before involving others "

We really are enjoying each other, we are not inviting anyone (just yet).

I was asking for more like ideas to try in the bedroom to help us explore what we do and dont like.

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By *eam_lad OP   Man
34 weeks ago

near you


"How about you come up with a list of things you both want to try, you put each one on a slip of paper and then choose one randomly until you've emptied the jar?? "

Wow thats good. Really like that idea big thank you!!

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By *eam_lad OP   Man
34 weeks ago

near you


"Talk to her instead of asking a bunch of Fab randomers"

Looking for ideas as we are both crap of comming up with stuff. Looking for real life things that people have enjoyed and dont mind telling the story

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By *parkleisback79Woman
34 weeks ago

Southend

I've been exploring with my fwb, I just feel totally comfortable with him, we share things that we're interested in doing and so far there's been no "nos". I think it helps that he listens, reads my body language well and is never pushy

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
34 weeks ago

Reading

Start vanilla until you are both comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
34 weeks ago


"How about you come up with a list of things you both want to try, you put each one on a slip of paper and then choose one randomly until you've emptied the jar??

Wow thats good. Really like that idea big thank you!!"

One of my fab friends wanted to experience 'feather' play and they literally had a meet that was sensory only, with different feathers on different parts of her body with a blindfold.. She loved it xx

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By *arried West End CoupleCouple
34 weeks ago

Glasgow

We’ve been trying to find one for years now

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
34 weeks ago

Central

Communicate extensively, as just wanting something doesn't mean it will work. Focus on what the 2 of you need and keep all outcomes open

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By *arried West End CoupleCouple
34 weeks ago

Glasgow

It’s more the guys have went funny

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By *akedMMan
33 weeks ago

Witney

I would love to have a friend with benefits

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