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By *.T. OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Wirral

Is it a sense of entitlement, a lack of education or just laziness?

I'm always happy to get a reply or to reply to messages but what are we supposed to work with when people have a one sentence or less profile, then communicate with one word messages?

I appreciate people are busy but still...

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By *mmaleiaWoman
21 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Wuup2

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
21 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

annoying

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By *adyluck..Woman
21 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

Yes

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By *iker JackMan
21 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

For me a one word reply or a few in a row shows lack of interest

I do understand that some people don’t like to be left or lead people on “read” but I take it as in they don’t want to talk but are too polite to say

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
21 weeks ago

somewhere

The only time I reply to one word message is when it says "hey" and say "ho" and I hope they have a sense of humour (the answer is, no, men folk or the ones that message me don't).

Sometimes when I get a message in relation to a forum post in the form of a joke, I'll say lol as I am not keen on chatting to people that never post on the forum and only lurk and privately message me instead.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
21 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

saboteurs

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
21 weeks ago

Herts

Maybe they’re typing while on a trampoline? Just a thought.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
21 weeks ago

Coventry

Outrageous

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By *airybobMan
21 weeks ago

Telford

I normally take it as end of conversation

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By *hrimper36Couple
21 weeks ago

Central France dept 36


"Is it a sense of entitlement, a lack of education or just laziness?

I'm always happy to get a reply or to reply to messages but what are we supposed to work with when people have a one sentence or less profile, then communicate with one word messages?

I appreciate people are busy but still..."

If we receive a Hi” message and nothing else then I reply with a “hi” back.

We have had one decent message in over six months.

People (men) seem to not be skilled in communicating with couples imho.

And “Nice tits” is also a nagging message.

But hey go it’s fab and thankfully doesn’t happen here as much.

T

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By *lan157Man
21 weeks ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

I think getting a one word reply ( assuming a proper message was sent ) is likely to be entitlement . Even " no thanks " is two words . If the sender was lazy they would not bother answering at all .If the sender was uneducated I doubt that would have mattered since she or they must have had a profile that appealed to you OP in the first place .

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
21 weeks ago

Leeds

If I'm bored with some time to kill I'll just play the one word game back and forth see how long it takes them to get fed up of receiving what they give.

Otherwise I'll reply once then not again if it's another one word.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

21 weeks ago

East Sussex

You're damned if you do reply and damned if you don't.

I assume a one word response means no thanks.

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By *r John WickMan
21 weeks ago

The Continental

Cool

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By *r John WickMan
21 weeks ago

The Continental

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By *electableicecreamMan
21 weeks ago

The West

K

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By *issmorganWoman
21 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

If just assume they're not really interested if I get one word answers, so I stop chatting to them.

If we can't chat well here, it doesn't bode well for a real life meet.

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By *bxanfCouple
21 weeks ago

Shadow Moses, Stourbridge

We give back what people put in.

If someone messages one word they will get the same energy back

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"one word replies..."

Thanks

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
21 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

If the one word covers everything to say in response to the message. They get one word.

Why pad it out of you're not interested enough to engage properly?

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

And?

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By *ony2269Man
21 weeks ago

Radcliffe


"The only time I reply to one word message is when it says "hey" and say "ho" and I hope they have a sense of humour (the answer is, no, men folk or the ones that message me don't).

Sometimes when I get a message in relation to a forum post in the form of a joke, I'll say lol as I am not keen on chatting to people that never post on the forum and only lurk and privately message me instead."

Let’s go!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
21 weeks ago

chichester

I had about 200 one word messages the last 24 hours I just ignore them

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By *eroLondonMan
21 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Is it a sense of entitlement, a lack of education or just laziness?"

No, it's not a "sense", it's a case that they are not interested. If someone is interested you will know.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
21 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

The only one word replies I ever put are No.

It’s a complete sentence and doesn’t require a response

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"Is it a sense of entitlement, a lack of education or just laziness?

I'm always happy to get a reply or to reply to messages but what are we supposed to work with when people have a one sentence or less profile, then communicate with one word messages?

I appreciate people are busy but still..."

"how's u" hahaha

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By *ou only live onceMan
21 weeks ago

London

They just that ain't into you...

Got to read the tea leaves.

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By *olgateMan
21 weeks ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Ish

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By *esthetic21Man
21 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Eveeyone is an arsehole basically

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
21 weeks ago

chichester


"Eveeyone is an arsehole basically"

Basically correct yes

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By *uddle4uMan
21 weeks ago

Purbeck

maybe it's to get you to look at their profile, prehaps it's someone just testing to see if your interested.

most of the times I will reply sometime not straight away depends where I am and what I'm doing. I'm not a wordsmith sometimes its short and straight to the point "Hi" back them

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By *uke OzadeMan
21 weeks ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Innit!

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I think the shorter the answer, the less interest from the other person in either the conversation or the person .. Unless its a sassy, bratty reply - then you are definitely in!

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"I think the shorter the answer, the less interest from the other person in either the conversation or the person .. Unless its a sassy, bratty reply - then you are definitely in! "

I just get emoji replies. ….

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago


"I think the shorter the answer, the less interest from the other person in either the conversation or the person .. Unless its a sassy, bratty reply - then you are definitely in!

I just get emoji replies. …. "

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By *eroLondonMan
21 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I think the shorter the answer, the less interest from the other person in either the conversation or the person .. Unless its a sassy, bratty reply - then you are definitely in!

·

I just get emoji replies. …. "

A pictorial speaks a thousand words, Wôôdy.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
21 weeks ago

Coventry


"one word replies...

Thanks"

Thsts a great reply! Especially if your no 80 in the queue!

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