FabSwingers.com forum: How difficult it is for a new single male member to get a meet

By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Welcome to the world of single-mandom on Fab!

It’s very different to being part of a couple where, let’s be honest, it’s usually the lady everyone *really* wants.

So I guess you need to make your profile stand out somewhat.

Your text is sparse and viewers are greeted with an erect penis.

Is that what the ladies really want?

I don’t know. I can’t pull for toffee. But I guess the ladies will provide more useful feedback in time!

Good luck my friend, may your dick be moistened soon!

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
23 weeks ago

Reading

You made a good shout coming to the forums.

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By *oewes69Man
23 weeks ago

wakefield

"Welcome to the world of single-mandom on Fab!

It’s very different to being part of a couple where, let’s be honest, it’s usually the lady everyone *really* wants.

So I guess you need to make your profile stand out somewhat.

Your text is sparse and viewers are greeted with an erect penis.

Is that what the ladies really want?

I don’t know. I can’t pull for toffee. But I guess the ladies will provide more useful feedback in time!

Good luck my friend, may your dick be moistened soon!

I agree with this but im not one to talk. Still a work in progress is mine

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By *ot to giggleWoman
23 weeks ago

Coventry

its impossible to get a meet on fab! all the ladies are fickle and never meet anyone! and they never reply to messages, deleting everything before its event red - so it stays yelloW

think there must be a yellow allergy!

God forbid that anyone actually wants sex! and socials! nope never happens,

all that aside - its great fun and everyone posts the same shit at least once a week, but that apparently is the internet

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By *lueDressWoman
23 weeks ago

Bath

I've met a lot of single males. It depends if he is suitable, or not. And if he is I will meet him.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
23 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Every verified single guy started out the same.

Unverified without any meets.

The question is, how did they attract interest in their profiles and get responses to messages? Work that out and you're sorted.

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By *rivate_userMan
23 weeks ago

Leicester

I get the rare (guessing d*unken) message on a Saturday night at midnight to drop everything and dash round otherwise I'm blocked - other than that it's the same here.

Not complaining though.. fabs still fab

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By *cLovin2Man
23 weeks ago

Reading

Just realise there's like 200 blokes on here for every woman so the odds are not on your side. Enjoy the forums, if something happens you might get lucky

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By *ickie76XXXMan
23 weeks ago

dartford

"Every verified single guy started out the same.

Unverified without any meets.

The question is, how did they attract interest in their profiles and get responses to messages? Work that out and you're sorted.

These are wise words and completely correct.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Every verified single guy started out the same.

Unverified without any meets.

The question is, how did they attract interest in their profiles and get responses to messages? Work that out and you're sorted.

OP, I’ll give you a clue :

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By *hunky GentMan
23 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Put it this way - yanking your own toenails out would be less painful.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Every verified single guy started out the same.

Unverified without any meets.

The question is, how did they attract interest in their profiles and get responses to messages? Work that out and you're sorted.

OP, I’ll give you a clue :

That’s meant to be cake, by the way. Sadly it’s a bit of a shite emoji tbh

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By *etropolitainMan
23 weeks ago

Redworth Co Durham

"I've met a lot of single males. It depends if he is suitable, or not. And if he is I will meet him."

Well I was going to reply privately but I’m out of your age range

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By *he love catsCouple
23 weeks ago

South Wales

I know some people are staying on the friends only Inbox down to the amount of mail they are getting, so maybe they just aren't seeing your messages.

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By *awpleasureMan
23 weeks ago

Sutton Coldfield

The likelihood of you getting a meet early on in fab life is the same as Rishi remaining PM after July

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By *ot to giggleWoman
23 weeks ago

Coventry

"Every verified single guy started out the same.

Unverified without any meets.

The question is, how did they attract interest in their profiles and get responses to messages? Work that out and you're sorted.

OP, I’ll give you a clue :

That’s meant to be cake, by the way. Sadly it’s a bit of a shite emoji tbh"

ooooh cake

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By *illy IdolMan
23 weeks ago

Midlands

It tends to be very difficult for some. The ones with poor profiles and pictures appear to struggle a little

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

Thank you?? I guess

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

Fantastic!! then I rest my case hahahah

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By *ellhungvweMan
23 weeks ago

Cheltenham

It all depends on the member OP.

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By *orl1971Couple
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

Very difficult for guys from what we’ve seen. Guys who go to socials and clubs to talk to people seem to do well without any exceptional attributes other than a good personality.

The guys who seem to do well without going to socials seem to be well hung or have a great body or both as that’s what many appear to be looking for . Not all though.

Of course just our observations so we could be wrong. If I was a single guy looking for women I would not be looking on Fab as it looks impossible.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Every verified single guy started out the same.

Unverified without any meets.

The question is, how did they attract interest in their profiles and get responses to messages? Work that out and you're sorted.

OP, I’ll give you a clue :

That’s meant to be cake, by the way. Sadly it’s a bit of a shite emoji tbh

ooooh cake

See OP! The secret revealed!

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
23 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Now this is the new ending question, why can't single men get a meet on fab......

Now I could hypothesis and summize, buy where would that get us, now where, especially not a meet social or sexual....

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I have been on fab for a while now , I started out with a couple profile, I’ve become single since and decided to start a sigle profile , and I have found it very difficult to get a reply never mind a meet .. socially or privately

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

A while to you is 4 weeks but that is 1 second on fab.

You asked about profile, and it's harsh to say but there's nothing in it to excite. Have a poke about in the forums at male profiles, there's some that are just one line but there are some that are bang on it with humour, what they are looking for and what they can provide

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
23 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Yes. There are quite a few things wrong with your profile

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By *r John WickMan
23 weeks ago

The Continental

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.

It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Got to have patience, and don't let it bother you.

I get lots of views but not much more.

Try visiting some clubs, eventually you will get a verification and then hopefully more interest.

Good luck.

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By *electableicecreamMan
23 weeks ago

The West

Too much cock and not enough you. Cocks are dime dozen and seem to matter less than overall physical attraction to most on fab.

Either way trying to get meets through cold messaging is like pissing into a blizzard of ten thousand rabid penis's.

Social events and clubs give are always going to be the best option.

Good luck OP

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

"Got to have patience, and don't let it bother you.

I get lots of views but not much more.

Try visiting some clubs, eventually you will get a verification and then hopefully more interest.

Good luck. "

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Got to have patience, and don't let it bother you.

I get lots of views but not much more.

Try visiting some clubs, eventually you will get a verification and then hopefully more interest.

Good luck.

Thanks x"

No need for thanks. You're getting advice from someone with no meets or verifications

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
23 weeks ago

Newcastle

This is my opinion, others may not be bothered. Ultimately it’s your profile, therefore your choice, but your profile is your shop window.

You have a dick pic as your profile photo. That means that you’re sending a dick pic to every woman every time you message, whether she wants one or not. If someone messages me who has a dick pic, I don’t even open their message or read their profile. I block them immediately.

There are about four lines to your bio. Needs more effort as there is nothing original or appealing about it as it is. What do you like, what do you have to offer, what are you looking for?

All of your other pics are just pictures of your dick in various forms. Really off putting and very low effort.

Look at some other male profiles from other guys in the forum to get some ideas. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

For some, it will be easy as clicking with somebody, and for others, it’s going to be hard when they miss match with lots of people.

I think a lot to do with the way the universe is, being in the right place at the right time

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Herts

I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.

But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
23 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.

But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that. "

Perfect advice OP

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Herts

"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.

But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.

Perfect advice OP

glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB

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By *he KakapoMan
23 weeks ago

A nice rock

It's really not as difficult as it's made out to be. But it depends on what effort you want to put in.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
23 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.

But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.

Perfect advice OP

glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB "

I’m so sorry darling…

*takes a bow* to Glow

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By *parkle1974Woman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

Does the woman know you have pictures of her on your profile??

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By *inUpProWoman
23 weeks ago

Liverpool

Perhaps try a club or two. You're most likely to come across genuine swingers then. Get talking to people in person, it's so much easier than on here.

I'd personally be put off by the bareback fucking pics. That's just me though...

Good luck OP x

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Herts

"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.

But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.

Perfect advice OP

glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB

I’m so sorry darling…

*takes a bow* to Glow

Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet

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By *ittlebirdWoman
23 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.

But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.

Perfect advice OP

glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB

I’m so sorry darling…

*takes a bow* to Glow

Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet

Being smol has its advantages

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Why can't males in general get a meet? Who knows, I've not seen them all.

I could point out a reason or 2 you may be struggling op...

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Just give up

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Herts

"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.

But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.

Perfect advice OP

glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB

I’m so sorry darling…

*takes a bow* to Glow

Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet

Being smol has its advantages "

Oh I get it. My bestie is too and she gets away with murder

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.

But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that. "

Well I do appreciate your comment, but I don’t see how I make things difficult for my self ?

I try to be respectful, I do send txt depending on profiles , ???…. I do have explicit pics on my profile I do realise that, but this isn’t a romantic site is it ?

Maybe I have to change my pictures …??

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Just give up

This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

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By *ornucopiaMan
23 weeks ago

Bexley

I'm surprised that there has never been a thread like this before!

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

The MAIN reason for your lack of success, OP, is your lack of a vagina.

There, I’ve said it. The elephant in the room!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
23 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"The MAIN reason for your lack of success, OP, is your lack of a vagina.

There, I’ve said it. The elephant in the room!

But there’s loads of vagina in his pics….

I sense other issues

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
23 weeks ago

Essex

"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.

But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.

Perfect advice OP

glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB

I’m so sorry darling…

*takes a bow* to Glow

Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet

Being smol has its advantages

Oh I get it. My bestie is too and she gets away with murder "

Hmmmmm

I’m small & I get away with fuck all

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By *ittlebirdWoman
23 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.

But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.

Perfect advice OP

glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB

I’m so sorry darling…

*takes a bow* to Glow

Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet

Being smol has its advantages

Oh I get it. My bestie is too and she gets away with murder

Hmmmmm

I’m small & I get away with fuck all

I’m not sure that’s true

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By *hunky GentMan
23 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.

But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.

Perfect advice OP

glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB

I’m so sorry darling…

*takes a bow* to Glow

Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet

Being smol has its advantages

Oh I get it. My bestie is too and she gets away with murder

Hmmmmm

I’m small & I get away with fuck all

I'd let you get away with all manner of naughty things.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Herts

"I don’t find the site difficult. Just being honest. And I’m not a woman or a couple.

But I don’t make things difficult for myself, which is what a lot of single men seem to do. Don’t do that.

Perfect advice OP

glOwuPdoll .. you missed out some letters LB

I’m so sorry darling…

*takes a bow* to Glow

Sweetie you’re so small I’m not sure if your bowing or just looking at your feet

Being smol has its advantages

Oh I get it. My bestie is too and she gets away with murder

Hmmmmm

I’m small & I get away with fuck all

God you must be tired then! Biscuit?

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By *illan-KillashMan
23 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

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Think back to your days as a couple, receiving messages from men.

If you'd got a message from the profile you have now, would you have given it a second glance?

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

"Why can't males in general get a meet? Who knows, I've not seen them all.

I could point out a reason or 2 you may be struggling op..."

Go for it that’s why I asked the question?

If you can give me an explanation with out insulting then go for it !!..

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By *eroLondonMan
23 weeks ago

Covent Garden

How difficult it is for a new single male member to get a meet, OP?

I usually find the ideal way to a woman's brittle heart is through the avenue of deceit, subterfuge, beguilement, faux charm, watered down Gin and a little mågïç..•°*...

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Think back to your days as a couple, receiving messages from men.

If you'd got a message from the profile you have now, would you have given it a second glance?"

Of course I would, when we had the couple profile we always answered people and if we Were not interested we would have said

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By *oxy jWoman
23 weeks ago

somerset

its simple if someone wants to meet you they will soon let you know if they dont want to meet you again they will soon let you know ... the scene is very much a ''rejection scene'' as everything is at the very least is about sexual attraction and more on top ...

blunt and truthful this scene is hard for men due to the vast amount of them thats the blunt truth but some will dress it up as ''its wonderful'' just go and look at all the post from guys moaning .... its no impossible their are ways to get your self in front of people like clubs but even then its down to attraction / compatibility .. their is no magic

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By *offandTimCouple
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

Go for it that’s why I asked the question?

It's a lazy profile with absolutely no thought put into it.

Full of cock pics, even worse, action pics. If that's the thing that you think is your strongest selling point, it doesn't say much I'm afraid.

I don't believe for a minute you'd meet a 99 year old, but that's what your profile says, gives the indication you would f*ck a barbers floor.

No thought at all about your bio, it's simple, uninspiring,and no different from the 1000s of others who also complain that they can't get a reply. Lastly, the won't bite unless you ask....old, and cliche...been written a million times by a million others.

As someone above said, if this profile has messaged your couples profile, would you have given it a second look?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

You've only been here 4 weeks, all your pics are just dick, you need to improve your bio...looking to get as much fun as you can get...but what do you have to offer women? Popular single men that I know of are sociable, respectable, detail what they want to offer women to make women happy so it's not all about the guy's satisfaction, have friendly face pics or at least fully clothed pics if they have to be discreet xx

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
23 weeks ago

Hell

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.

It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex” "

Exactly this. Bareback as well

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
23 weeks ago

Hell

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.

It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”

Exactly this. Bareback as well

Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used

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By *he KakapoMan
23 weeks ago

A nice rock

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By *parkle1974Woman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.

It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”

Exactly this. Bareback as well

Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used "

My thoughts too

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By *he KakapoMan
23 weeks ago

A nice rock

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.

It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”

Exactly this. Bareback as well

Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used "

Single or not, any profile that is displaying more than just the people using the profile should need to prove consent

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.

It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”

Exactly this. Bareback as well

Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used "

To be fair to the OP, there’s no way the other person could in any way be identified in his pics, could literally be anyone.

I do agree with you when there is scope to identify them. A close up of an arse isn’t one of those occasions imho

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.

It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”

Exactly this. Bareback as well

Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used

My thoughts too

I can assure you that I have consent . I would NEVER …

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.

It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”

Exactly this. Bareback as well

Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used

To be fair to the OP, there’s no way the other person could in any way be identified in his pics, could literally be anyone.

I do agree with you when there is scope to identify them. A close up of an arse isn’t one of those occasions imho"

The other person is a friend (FWB) and I have her permission to post it

Please….. fuck me I didn’t reliase that this site was full of fucking Karen’s !!!!

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By *offiaCoolWoman
23 weeks ago

Kidsgrove

Spitting your dummy out in the forums isn't helping your appeal.

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By *he KakapoMan
23 weeks ago

A nice rock

If confirming consent = Karen behaviour in your book. This is not the site for you

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By *parkle1974Woman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.

It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”

Exactly this. Bareback as well

Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used

To be fair to the OP, there’s no way the other person could in any way be identified in his pics, could literally be anyone.

I do agree with you when there is scope to identify them. A close up of an arse isn’t one of those occasions imho

The other person is a friend (FWB) and I have her permission to post it

Please….. fuck me I didn’t reliase that this site was full of fucking Karen’s !!!! "

Let's be honest....no single person is ever going to say "well actually no, I don't have permission" are they

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Just here with popcorn

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By *illan-KillashMan
23 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Think back to your days as a couple, receiving messages from men.

If you'd got a message from the profile you have now, would you have given it a second glance?

Of course I would, when we had the couple profile we always answered people and if we Were not interested we would have said

Really?

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
23 weeks ago

Newcastle

Asks for advice…

Doesn’t like what’s said…

Calls people Karens

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By *ost SockMan
23 weeks ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.

It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”

Exactly this. Bareback as well

Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used

To be fair to the OP, there’s no way the other person could in any way be identified in his pics, could literally be anyone.

I do agree with you when there is scope to identify them. A close up of an arse isn’t one of those occasions imho

The other person is a friend (FWB) and I have her permission to post it

Please….. fuck me I didn’t reliase that this site was full of fucking Karen’s !!!! "

To be honest, Sparkle was just articulating what many women (not Karens) will be wondering when they see a single male with women in their photos. It was a no-nonsense way of putting it, but it might be an idea to think about it.

Four weeks is nothing - many guys go over a year. In my opinion, a guy has to a) give a good insight into his character and b) become an active member of the Fab community (which is much more than just sex to succeed.

Sorry to say, but your profile lacks a).

I’d lose the bit around biting too - it’s been said ao many times on here. It’s probably Fab cliche No1,

Good luck

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By *ony MannMan
23 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

It really depends, I found it easy as I was invited here by a meet. I was then introduced to others and things just happened.

The best thing to to is be nice, don't make rejection personal and remember the more you push the further away a lady gets.

Tony

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

"It really depends, I found it easy as I was invited here by a meet. I was then introduced to others and things just happened.

The best thing to to is be nice, don't make rejection personal and remember the more you push the further away a lady gets.

Tony"

Nice one Tony thanks

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
23 weeks ago

Hell

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.

It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”

Exactly this. Bareback as well

Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used

To be fair to the OP, there’s no way the other person could in any way be identified in his pics, could literally be anyone.

I do agree with you when there is scope to identify them. A close up of an arse isn’t one of those occasions imho

The other person is a friend (FWB) and I have her permission to post it

Please….. fuck me I didn’t reliase that this site was full of fucking Karen’s !!!! "

Still bareback in any case which will make plenty of people swerve you. Sorry if that makes me a Karen, I’m only trying to help

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By *eyond PurityCouple
23 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.

Several of those are bareback pics.

You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.

There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.

FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.

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By *r VoyuerMan
23 weeks ago

Northampton

I struggle big time because I don't have a profile pic. I have managed to meet two couples but pretty much every other time I just get ignored, it's so difficult. X

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.

Several of those are bareback pics.

You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.

There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.

FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.

I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)

Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …

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By *orthern BeardMan
23 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"It's really not as difficult as it's made out to be. But it depends on what effort you want to put in.

This is absolutely bang on the money!

I think a lot of single blokes think that they’re going to get a meet on the first night they join. Rarely works that way.

Put it this way I think I’ve met 20 different women in 8 years of being here. That might sound like a lot but it’s like 2.2 women per year or something.

Patience, changing up your profile to make yourself attractive to viewers.

Once you start to get verified your chances improve tenfold but even then it isn’t that easy.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
23 weeks ago

Portsmouth

The photos alone would put me right off.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Some years back, I received a thoughtful, interesting, and captivating message from a single guy.

His profile was informative, left me wanting to discover more, but also presented who he was and what he was seeking.

He shared public photos that gave me an abundance of different angles, and revealed his personality. They weren’t solely selfies and didn’t show his cock.

We exchanged conversations for a few weeks before meeting. He captured by interest and was articulate, communicative, humorous, and light hearted. I had not noticed he lacked verifications despite having read his profile thoroughly before responding to his initial message.

What’s my point?

Be interesting enough that your lack of verification is the least of your worry for someone who is keen to meet you. Make them keen by presenting yourself as you are authentically.

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By *.T.Man
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

Through early morning scrolls I see,

Fabbers that I want, near me,

I send a message out or three,

Why won't they all reply to me?

As Fabicide is painless,

My comments are so brainless,

I've fucked up my chances

wait and see....

So on the forums seek advice,

my comments are at first so nice,

But I'm not liking what you say,

the bareback pics are here to stay...

And fabicide is painless,

I'll double down on this mess,

So all you Karens' now see the real me...

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By *he KakapoMan
23 weeks ago

A nice rock

"It's really not as difficult as it's made out to be. But it depends on what effort you want to put in.

This is absolutely bang on the money!

I think a lot of single blokes think that they’re going to get a meet on the first night they join. Rarely works that way.

Put it this way I think I’ve met 20 different women in 8 years of being here. That might sound like a lot but it’s like 2.2 women per year or something.

Patience, changing up your profile to make yourself attractive to viewers.

Once you start to get verified your chances improve tenfold but even then it isn’t that easy."

I've met .2 of a woman... if I meet them 4 more times I get a veri.... or something

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

"Some years back, I received a thoughtful, interesting, and captivating message from a single guy.

His profile was informative, left me wanting to discover more, but also presented who he was and what he was seeking.

He shared public photos that gave me an abundance of different angles, and revealed his personality. They weren’t solely selfies and didn’t show his cock.

What’s my point?

Be interesting enough that your lack of verification is the least of your worry for someone who is keen to meet you. Make them keen by presenting yourself as you are authentically.

Point taken thank you!! ..

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By *orthern BeardMan
23 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"It's really not as difficult as it's made out to be. But it depends on what effort you want to put in.

This is absolutely bang on the money!

I think a lot of single blokes think that they’re going to get a meet on the first night they join. Rarely works that way.

Put it this way I think I’ve met 20 different women in 8 years of being here. That might sound like a lot but it’s like 2.2 women per year or something.

Patience, changing up your profile to make yourself attractive to viewers.

Once you start to get verified your chances improve tenfold but even then it isn’t that easy.

I've met .2 of a woman... if I meet them 4 more times I get a veri.... or something "

Haha. Not the point I was making. Just saying I’ve found it easier since I’ve had verifications from genuine women.

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

Through early morning scrolls I see,

Fabbers that I want, near me,

I send a message out or three,

Why won't they all reply to me?

As Fabicide is painless,

My comments are so brainless,

I've fucked up my chances

wait and see....

So on the forums seek advice,

my comments are at first so nice,

But I'm not liking what you say,

the bareback pics are here to stay...

And fabicide is painless,

I'll double down on this mess,

So all you Karens' now see the real me...

Wow!! 85plus comments and this is what you can up with … just wow

I think your head it’s brainless !! What h what you say or think if you have any neurons to do so

89 comments and you come up with nothing just an offence !!….

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
23 weeks ago

Essex

Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) … "

Personally (and I think many women share this view) I don’t know she’s a partner. I don’t know if she consented to that image being shared or even if she knew if was being taken. Massive red flags to me.

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By *parkle1974Woman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.

Several of those are bareback pics.

You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.

There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.

FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.

I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)

Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) … "

Is that an ex partner or FWB as you previously mentioned?

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.

Several of those are bareback pics.

You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.

There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.

FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.

I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)

Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …

Is that an ex partner or FWB as you previously mentioned?"
it is and she knows that I have that pic on !!..

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …

"
woow aye opener .. I can assure you that she was aware that the pic was taken and she is also aware that the pic is used on a my profile

But I do appreciate the thought

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
23 weeks ago

Essex

Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …

woow aye opener .. I can assure you that she was aware that the pic was taken and she is also aware that the pic is used on a my profile

But I do appreciate the thought

That’s kinda my point. You can’t assure me. Or anyone else. It’s purely your word…

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By *parkle1974Woman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.

Several of those are bareback pics.

You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.

There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.

FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.

I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)

Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …

Is that an ex partner or FWB as you previously mentioned? it is and she knows that I have that pic on !!.. "

So your ex was your fwb...

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
23 weeks ago

Stockport

It can't be that hard surely ?

I started as a single guy on fab

Messaged a single lady , we met , played , and are now happily married , and living the fab dream

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Central

Have more than cock. Men must show potential partners how they look as accurately and fully as possible, so that they can take a quick assignment and decision on you. If uncertain, they move on.

Even if they can grasp who you are and how you look, most people are not mutually compatible with most other people. You'll be compatible with a very tiny minority of people. Your expectations need to be realistic, so factor these things in.

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By *he KakapoMan
23 weeks ago

A nice rock

"It can't be that hard surely ?

I started as a single guy on fab

Messaged a single lady , we met , played , and are now happily married , and living the fab dream "

That sounds more like a warning

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.

Several of those are bareback pics.

You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.

There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.

FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.

I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)

Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …

Is that an ex partner or FWB as you previously mentioned? it is and she knows that I have that pic on !!..

So your ex was your fwb..."

My ex. THE EX is someone that I used to play with, is some one that I had the couple profile with

We are still friends but we have no benefit anymore …

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.

Several of those are bareback pics.

You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.

There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.

FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.

I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)

Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …

Is that an ex partner or FWB as you previously mentioned? it is and she knows that I have that pic on !!..

So your ex was your fwb..."

You've been given some good advice ... less pics of your ex and cock and more of the whole package you offer. Doesn't mean you have to show your face.

And show your personality in you profile write up and what you bring to the meet other than your cock.

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By *illan-KillashMan
23 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Through early morning scrolls I see,

Fabbers that I want, near me,

I send a message out or three,

Why won't they all reply to me?

As Fabicide is painless,

My comments are so brainless,

I've fucked up my chances

wait and see....

So on the forums seek advice,

my comments are at first so nice,

But I'm not liking what you say,

the bareback pics are here to stay...

And fabicide is painless,

I'll double down on this mess,

So all you Karens' now see the real me...

Wow!! 85plus comments and this is what you can up with … just wow

I think your head it’s brainless !! What h what you say or think if you have any neurons to do so

89 comments and you come up with nothing just an offence !!….

If your profile is rubbish a great way for people to see beyond it is the way you carry yourself in exchanges and interactions in the Forums.

Well played.

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By *parkle1974Woman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

Good luck, think you are going to need it

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
23 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Photos of you hanging out of other women, tend not to attract women here. Quite the opposite in fact.

It’s like…”well done, you’ve had sex”

Exactly this. Bareback as well

Also whenever I see such pictures on a single profile I always wonder whether or not the other person knows their pictures are being used

To be fair to the OP, there’s no way the other person could in any way be identified in his pics, could literally be anyone.

I do agree with you when there is scope to identify them. A close up of an arse isn’t one of those occasions imho

The other person is a friend (FWB) and I have her permission to post it

Please….. fuck me I didn’t reliase that this site was full of fucking Karen’s !!!! "

And you ask why your making it hard foe yourself, with comments like this...

People are only answering the questions you asked...

If you don't like the answers don't ask the questions in the first place

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By *he Silver FuxMan
23 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

I’ve watched female and couple friends sweep through their messages, they get hundreds a day - yours is an automatic delete without even reading your profile. If they did read your profile…

It would then also be an automatic delete.

Cock pics.

Cock pics

Pictures of your cock in someone

Delete.

Text doesn’t make sense… delete… and dull… delete. What are the two sides to life? Puzzled face.. delete

“I don’t bite… unless you want me to” for fucks sake, so cheesy! Delete

BLOCK.

You are not selling yourself at all, you’re just like 80% of the single male profiles on Fab destined to be deleted regardless of how respectful your message is

Brutal but honest

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

You asked for profile advice and were given it, you may have thought it was harsh but the 100s of advice threads say the same thing. Was there need to insult someone though?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I'm a silhouette and a single guy been to one social and due to attend another so watch this space I'm trying to break the stigma on silhouettes. Good day all

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

I wouldn't reply to you personally, cock pic profile pic and several with some random woman's arse (I hope she knows it's plastered on here) is just a huge turn off, yes it's a sex site but there's more to sex than a penis.

At the you are another cock pic in a sea of 1730100 cock pics.

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By *osey WalesMan
23 weeks ago

Surrey

In the 6 odd years i've been on fab i think i have had 2 meets purely through fab.

Fab really really isnt dial a fuck. Women on here still tend to have standards and preferences, I know shocking but they do. If you dont fit what they are looking for then you are going to be out of luck.

Go to clubs / socials. Widen your social circle and you will increase your chances of meets

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
23 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'm a silhouette and a single guy been to one social and due to attend another so watch this space I'm trying to break the stigma on silhouettes. Good day all "

You're a little late to the party but well done for keeping up the good work.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
23 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"You’ve got 7 pics - all based around your cock.

Several of those are bareback pics.

You’ve got not much about yourself on your profile.

There’s 3 things I’d say are a problem before you even dig into anything else.

FAB isn’t hard - the tools are literally given to you to meet so many people. But people make FAB hard and then blame FAB for not meeting.

I got to say this is the best comment I have read for this subject ..(no offence to anyone)

Thanks I will sort it (the bare back it’s a pic with A partner) …

Is that an ex partner or FWB as you previously mentioned? it is and she knows that I have that pic on !!..

So your ex was your fwb...

You've been given some good advice ... less pics of your ex and cock and more of the whole package you offer. Doesn't mean you have to show your face.

And show your personality in you profile write up and what you bring to the meet other than your cock. "

Show his personality ??? Is that really good advice

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
23 weeks ago

Hell

Through early morning scrolls I see,

Fabbers that I want, near me,

I send a message out or three,

Why won't they all reply to me?

As Fabicide is painless,

My comments are so brainless,

I've fucked up my chances

wait and see....

So on the forums seek advice,

my comments are at first so nice,

But I'm not liking what you say,

the bareback pics are here to stay...

And fabicide is painless,

I'll double down on this mess,

So all you Karens' now see the real me...

Wow!! 85plus comments and this is what you can up with … just wow

I think your head it’s brainless !! What h what you say or think if you have any neurons to do so

89 comments and you come up with nothing just an offence !!….

If your profile is rubbish a great way for people to see beyond it is the way you carry yourself in exchanges and interactions in the Forums.

Well played.

Frothing

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"I wouldn't reply to you personally, cock pic profile pic and several with some random woman's arse (I hope she knows it's plastered on here) is just a huge turn off, yes it's a sex site but there's more to sex than a penis.

At the you are another cock pic in a sea of 1730100 cock pics.

Can I send you the 1,730,101st?

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By *illan-KillashMan
23 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

Through early morning scrolls I see,

Fabbers that I want, near me,

I send a message out or three,

Why won't they all reply to me?

As Fabicide is painless,

My comments are so brainless,

I've fucked up my chances

wait and see....

So on the forums seek advice,

my comments are at first so nice,

But I'm not liking what you say,

the bareback pics are here to stay...

And fabicide is painless,

I'll double down on this mess,

So all you Karens' now see the real me...

Wow!! 85plus comments and this is what you can up with … just wow

I think your head it’s brainless !! What h what you say or think if you have any neurons to do so

89 comments and you come up with nothing just an offence !!….

If your profile is rubbish a great way for people to see beyond it is the way you carry yourself in exchanges and interactions in the Forums.

Well played.

Frothing "

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Through early morning scrolls I see,

Fabbers that I want, near me,

I send a message out or three,

Why won't they all reply to me?

As Fabicide is painless,

My comments are so brainless,

I've fucked up my chances

wait and see....

So on the forums seek advice,

my comments are at first so nice,

But I'm not liking what you say,

the bareback pics are here to stay...

And fabicide is painless,

I'll double down on this mess,

So all you Karens' now see the real me...

Probably appropriate homage to the passing of Donald Sutherland.

God I loved mash.

The sex scene in 'Don't look now' was also banging!

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By *oiluvfunMan
23 weeks ago

Penrith

I try to be always respectful and when sending a message I always try to do so in line with the profile

My question to you all is ? Is there something wrong with the profile?

Do you have any advice ?? Maybe ??

Thanks

Fab isn’t difficult to meet likeminded others if you use it sensibly.

Put the pics of you playing with another woman in to your friends gallery, then upload a couple of pics of you in different ways, not necessarily showing your cock.

Your profile text is unimaginative and can be summarised thus; I’m a single guy looking for fun with single ladies and couples. Big wow, so are all the other single guys in here.

And; 4 weeks isn’t “a while”…….some guys have been in here months before they met anyone. I’ve been using Fab for over 11 years now, and I still give my profile a refresh now and then. Life is fluid, so are online profiles

Good luck

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By *2000ManMan
23 weeks ago

Worthing

First of all op treat fab like a social club to make friends and join in with chat. Get yourself known in a good way and best of luck!

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By *AYENCouple
23 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

If I showed my wife your profile and said I've found someone I think she'll be attracted to and interested in, she would seriously think I've gone mad. . . . .

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By *laytonAMan
23 weeks ago

Newport

Feedback on profile, just cock pics and bare back pics. And profile text basically says I want to fuck anything and everything. I'm no expert but I would say put a bit more into profile, go to socials and get involved in the wider aspects fab is offering. You,me and every single man are at a ratio of 100-1 easily so you have to stand out from crowd.

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By *andsomeunitMan
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

Honestly try been a single bloke and a SSBHM, it's almost double the difficulty.

I like to think my profile is well written and I've got no cock shots on there. Despite all that, it's still a battle, and if I get one message a week, well I'd say I'm lucky .

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By *eyond PurityCouple
23 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

*checks to see what changes have been made - nods to self.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
23 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"*checks to see what changes have been made - nods to self.

K "

Not a thing would be my hunch

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

"*checks to see what changes have been made - nods to self.

K "

still just a cock

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By *r John WickMan
23 weeks ago

The Continental

"*checks to see what changes have been made - nods to self.

K "

Wait for the new thread in a months time.

“ been here forever and no luck. What am I doing wrong?”

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

"*checks to see what changes have been made - nods to self.

still just a cock "

I take it back, I see some improvements, good for you OP!!

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By *as1 OP Man
23 weeks ago

newton le willows

"*checks to see what changes have been made - nods to self.

still just a cock

I take it back, I see some improvements, good for you OP!!"

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By *ornucopiaMan
23 weeks ago

Bexley

"*checks to see what changes have been made - nods to self.

Wait for the new thread in a months time.

“ been here forever and no luck. What am I doing wrong?”"

A month?

You are joking, surely. There is one every few days!

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By *ittyWantsToPlayCouple
23 weeks ago

Bournemouth

We get the same problem. Its not just you.

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By *enegadeMMan
23 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

You can only do your best OP. Make the profile as good as you can with bio & photos… vary them… and then interact on forums. That’s what I’ve tried to do…and the forums have been welcoming… not anything from them but still good to interact.

I’ve heard socials are good too…yet to visit myself

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By *igR93Man
23 weeks ago

Sarcasm City

As difficult as you make it really…

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

If you're only relying on Fab, then very difficult unless you have an amazing profile and really graft at searching for and messaging suitable women without the soul-crushing feeling that you're being ignored

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