FabSwingers.com forum: First thing you notice about some one

By *jj2012 OP Man
27 weeks ago

Barry

Eyes for me

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
27 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Generally that they've blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Their tig ol' bitties

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By *jj2012 OP Man
27 weeks ago

Barry

"Generally that they've blocked me

Mr "

lol

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
27 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

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By *jj2012 OP Man
27 weeks ago

Barry

"Generally that they've blocked me

Mr "
breakfast in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Their bank details.

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By *jj2012 OP Man
27 weeks ago

Barry

"Their bank details."

Ffs lol

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
27 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"Generally that they've blocked me

Mr breakfast in bed

Blocked don't = breakfast in bed tbf

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By *issBellaWoman
27 weeks ago

Wales

Eyes and tits

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By *iberius61Man
27 weeks ago

Pontefract

Am I seeing them from the front, the back or the side?

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By *issBellaWoman
27 weeks ago

Wales

"Am I seeing them from the front, the back or the side?

Birdseye view

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By *onkeynutWoman
27 weeks ago

somewhere

In person or on here?

In person I like eye contact, so it’s usually the first thing I notice

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Face.

Then shoes.

I know, I'm odd.

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By *ansoffateMan
27 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Eye contact.

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By *jj2012 OP Man
27 weeks ago

Barry

"In person or on here?

In person I like eye contact, so it’s usually the first thing I notice"
in person and yes eyes don't lie can tell a lot by some one through there eyes

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By *illy IdolMan
27 weeks ago

Midlands

Their dress sense followed closely by their smile.

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By *rand Central CoupleCouple
27 weeks ago

Glasgow

smile - every time

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By *issBellaWoman
27 weeks ago

Wales

"In person or on here?

In person I like eye contact, so it’s usually the first thing I notice"

On here would be a whole different ball game

excuse the pun

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

smile, then eyes, then ass

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By *iberius61Man
27 weeks ago

Pontefract

"Am I seeing them from the front, the back or the side?

Birdseye view

Then I guess it would be their hat

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By *electableicecreamMan
27 weeks ago

The West

Being a little ND, particularly on a sensory level, I see things in aggregate so the first thing I notice is Your face, eyes, hair, makeup, jewellery, fashion, shoes, posture, walk and shape. All in a single impression that I feel more than I see.

This is what the way I hear the world also but it's harder to explain.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
27 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

On here if it's a bloke, then 9 times outta ten, there dick

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By *iberius61Man
27 weeks ago

Pontefract

"Face.

Then shoes.

I know, I'm odd."

My great grandmother told me that ladies look top and bottom (hair and shoes). But she was born in 1880something.

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By *inx000Couple
27 weeks ago

Manchester

Smile,eyes,ass and tits

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

If it’s a random man, eyes, nose, lips/teeth/smile, hands, legs. In that order.

If it’s a random lady, lips, eyes, tits, smile/teeth.

If it’s someone I have been acquainted with somehow, their aura. It’s almost a palpable sensation.

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By *jj2012 OP Man
27 weeks ago

Barry

Eyes and teeth 100%

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By *oeBiggs321Man
27 weeks ago

Reading

First thing is always teeth for me

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
27 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Serious answer now, and I'm going to keep it to the forums....

It's humour, that's the first thing I notice.....

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By *arl17Man
27 weeks ago

Central Portugal

"Smile,eyes,ass and tits

Same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Eyes or smile

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By *jj2012 OP Man
27 weeks ago

Barry

"Serious answer now, and I'm going to keep it to the forums....

It's humour, that's the first thing I notice.....

Mr"
agree with that got to be able to laugh and have banter with someone

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By *jj2012 OP Man
27 weeks ago

Barry

"Eyes or smile"
100%

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By *B69Woman
27 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Broad shoulders

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By *arkSovereignMan
27 weeks ago

Lancashire

Nose hairs

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Chard

Usually if a meet from here, the first thing is how far out the profile age/weight/look is from reality.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
27 weeks ago

East Sussex

Overall look. C!othes, face, body.

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By *4bimMan
27 weeks ago

Farnborough Hampshire

money and how can i get my hands on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Shoes

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By *aizyWoman
27 weeks ago

west midlands

Eyes and smile.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
27 weeks ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"Eyes and smile."

I second this.

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By *jj2012 OP Man
27 weeks ago

Barry

"Eyes and smile.

I second this.

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got to have nice teeth not turkey teeth as well if can't look after their teeth then says all you need to know

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By *ancman_3rdMan
27 weeks ago

Saddleworth

I was hoping to find someone on here with the same as me but I like a pretty face and nice skin.. (not just face skin-makeup makes it difficult) the general glow of lovely soft skin…

And I like big boobs to be fair

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
27 weeks ago

somewhere

You know I've never thought about it, in my line of work, I'm usually sitting when guests come in and I'm short and the desk is up high, so usually just see a face, so I'm guessing face (if they have a happy face I know they are nice lol).

Out and about I think probably shoes as I said I'm short, so probably work my way up lol x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
27 weeks ago

Leeds

Eyebrows, and then I think to myself “ why would you do that to your face

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The mr

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

I 1st notice If they’ve got a drink… if they havn’t I wait to approach them until they have.

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By *obilebottomMan
27 weeks ago

All over

"money and how can i get my hands on it."

Are you a plumber, builder, car mechanic, hotelier,airline owner, the taxman or what?

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By *NLOS123Man
27 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

Shoes…they say you can tell a lot about someone by their shoes.

Not sure who “they” are though

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By *airyboxMan
27 weeks ago

sheffield

"In person or on here?

In person I like eye contact, so it’s usually the first thing I notice"

Always look at their eyes first then her body and then her boobs if they are on show. Sometimes though I look at their bum.

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By *airyboxMan
27 weeks ago

sheffield

Sometimes I picture them against the wall with their knickers shoved to the side

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
27 weeks ago

chichester

Boobs generally if a woman

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
27 weeks ago

St Leonards

I'm not that observant generally.

But the voices - they see everything.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Central

I'm really paying a lot of attention to hair at the moment

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By *eard and TattsCouple
27 weeks ago

Cwmbran

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By *eard and TattsCouple
27 weeks ago

Cwmbran

Tits

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
27 weeks ago

St Neots

Beard and tits

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By *ittlebirdWoman
27 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Beard and tits

Hopefully at the same time

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By *etropolitainMan
27 weeks ago

Redworth Co Durham

Bum

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
27 weeks ago

St Neots

"Beard and tits

Hopefully at the same time

Stop looking at my tits

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
27 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

Where I live it’s usually what colour hoodie and knife size.

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By *arkinberksMan
27 weeks ago

Ascot

Personality. If you come across as a fun person then you are instantly attractive. Close second is a pretty face, but a pretty face with a poor personality is always a loser in my books

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By *eneralKenobiMan
27 weeks ago

North Angus

Eyes, maybe smell if they completely reek

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By *_J111Woman
27 weeks ago

home

Lips, jawline and facial hair and then if they have any visible ink for guys

For girls it's lips and hair then overall vibe

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By *eroLondonMan
27 weeks ago

Mayfair

Her décolletage - when it's not covered up - and I shall explain why: it's like the door to a boudoir, slightly ajar, revealing the subtleties and conveying the mystique to what lies underneath. It's like the dancing shadow cast from the flame of a lit scented candle behind a half-open door, revealing and yet not revealing at the same time.

That's what I notice.

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By *ansoffateMan
27 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Her décolletage - when it's not covered up - and I shall explain why: it's like the door to a boudoir, slightly ajar, revealing the subtleties and conveying the mystique to what lies underneath. It's like the dancing shadow cast from the flame of a lit scented candle behind a half-open door, revealing and yet not revealing at the same time.

That's what I notice."

I like that Nero, wonderfully written. That's the same essential quality that can get me with eye contact.

And then there's that moment within the dance where it all stops, silent, salient as eyes fully meet; the gap between closes and you realise it is all one thread we weave together.

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By *2000ManMan
27 weeks ago

Worthing

Eyes then smile.

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By *B69Woman
27 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Have to say after todays little treat it has to be thighs too

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By *eliWoman
27 weeks ago

There's not one particular feature.

It's more a general sort of first impression and then the more I talk to them, learn them, the more I notice the little things that make them who they are.

Like those little laugh lines around the mouth, the way someone's eyes can twinkle in joy. The furrowed brow of irritation or concentration. That birth mark on someone's face, the little freckles, the signs of a life lived. How their clothes sit.

The energy of a person that makes me think I want to know them. Or not. :D

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By *ularliWoman
27 weeks ago

Worcester

Eyes and smile for me

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By *allandathleticMan
27 weeks ago

Asgard

First and most importantly.

What energy do they bring to a room? Does it make me want to stay or leave.

How do they hold themselves amongst a wide variety of society? By that I mean are they genuine with someone who's down on their luck or do they hold themselves as a higher being. If its the latter, I'm not interested.

If they're a decent individual, I'll look to see how they interact with hospitality staff, services providers. Again if they appear aggressive in their demeanor. Not interested.

These are all things we are all capable of processing at incredibly fast speeds. Often without even recognising we do it.

Short answer. First thing I look for, are they a prick.

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27 weeks ago

"First and most importantly.

What energy do they bring to a room? Does it make me want to stay or leave.

If they're a decent individual, I'll look to see how they interact with hospitality staff, services providers. Again if they appear aggressive in their demeanor. Not interested.

These are all things we are all capable of processing at incredibly fast speeds. Often without even recognising we do it.

Short answer. First thing I look for, are they a prick.

Do you notice all this in two seconds of immediately seeing someone? Impressed.

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By *cLovin2Man
27 weeks ago

Reading

No one mentioned hair, her hair is a big thing for me, it kinda gives off signals of femininity. Eyes and hair for me.

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By *illy IdolMan
27 weeks ago

Midlands

"First and most importantly.

What energy do they bring to a room? Does it make me want to stay or leave.

If they're a decent individual, I'll look to see how they interact with hospitality staff, services providers. Again if they appear aggressive in their demeanor. Not interested.

These are all things we are all capable of processing at incredibly fast speeds. Often without even recognising we do it.

Short answer. First thing I look for, are they a prick.

Do you notice all this in two seconds of immediately seeing someone? Impressed.

He's got Bernard's watch

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By *rBobbMan
27 weeks ago

Birmingham

If you are meeting someone for the first time then it is how they greet you. The smile, the hair and the body language

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Boobs

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By *amantha_NiteTV/TS
27 weeks ago

The Lake District

A ladies hair!

Just love long flowing straight locks,especially in a single pony tail.

The way it sways,side to side in rhythm too her bum cheeks as she walks,soo sexy

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By *ick_man_88Man
27 weeks ago

hartlepool

Tits....sorry its true

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By *allandathleticMan
27 weeks ago

Asgard

"First and most importantly.

What energy do they bring to a room? Does it make me want to stay or leave.

If they're a decent individual, I'll look to see how they interact with hospitality staff, services providers. Again if they appear aggressive in their demeanor. Not interested.

These are all things we are all capable of processing at incredibly fast speeds. Often without even recognising we do it.

Short answer. First thing I look for, are they a prick.

Do you notice all this in two seconds of immediately seeing someone? Impressed.

Years of working in bar gave me the sense of when someone brought a good presence or bad one with them.

I listen to my gut.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
27 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Smile and demeanour. If it isn't appealing you can have the best tits in the world but you might as well stick them on a capybara. Yep. Only a capybara.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
27 weeks ago

Leeds

Eyes & smile

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By *z20Man
27 weeks ago

Swindon

"Eyes & smile"

Same, a cute smile with some beautiful eyes has me weak

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By *obilebottomMan
27 weeks ago

All over

The aura

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By *ob.42Man
27 weeks ago

Near Yarmouth

Eyes, nose, tits. I. That order...

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By *cLovin2Man
27 weeks ago

Reading

I must be weird, but there's something no one else has mentioned. It may be me, but the hips, especially curved hips in the right way, are a huge turn on for me. More than breasts, or arse. I've walked past a woman not even noticed her face but been so turned on by the curvature of her hips.

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By *eroLondonMan
27 weeks ago

Mayfair

That's what I notice.

I like that Nero, wonderfully written. That's the same essential quality that can get me with eye contact.

And then there's that moment within the dance where it all stops, silent, salient as eyes fully meet; the gap between closes and you realise it is all one thread we weave together."

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You and I should saunter the boulevard of hopes and dreams, fine sir!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
27 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Whatever stands out about them.

I like a pretty mouth. I like long musician fingers. I like things that are a little outside the ordinary.

But if someone has piercing light blue eyes, or massive tits, or legs that go for days, I'll probably notice those first.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"Whatever stands out about them.

I like a pretty mouth. I like long musician fingers. I like things that are a little outside the ordinary.

But if someone has piercing light blue eyes, or massive tits, or legs that go for days, I'll probably notice those first."

I’ve got blue eyes!!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
27 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"Whatever stands out about them.

I like a pretty mouth. I like long musician fingers. I like things that are a little outside the ordinary.

But if someone has piercing light blue eyes, or massive tits, or legs that go for days, I'll probably notice those first.

I’ve got blue eyes!!

I think I noticed your mouth first.

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By *ickthehallsMan
27 weeks ago

Peterborough

In real life eyes or smile

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By *llenandmarieCouple
27 weeks ago

Birmingham

Bit of a weird one but voice. Right accent and tone is a proper turn on for me (Allen).

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By *ermite12ukMan
27 weeks ago

Solihull and Brentwood

Legs for me and hopefully wearing some type of hosiery that my pervy brain can mull over as to whether: Is she or isn't she - wearing stockings or tights?

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By *rispyDuckMan
27 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

If they holding a bible or not

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
27 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Their shoes.

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