FabSwingers.com forum: The age you got involved

By *veryday_Couple_Nextdoor OP Couple
21 weeks ago

Bristol

At what age did you decide that swinging, open relationship, or being involved in an alternative lifestyle happen for you.

Ours was aged 35 & 37. As you can tell not that long ago

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By *luebell888Woman
21 weeks ago

Glasgowish

I was 51.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

The day I found out my ex was a lying cheat.

About 4 years ago...age not to be disclosed.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
21 weeks ago

Southampton

Only a couple of years ago so 44

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By *ealitybitesMan
21 weeks ago

Belfast

It's never a decision I've made because I don't see this as a lifestyle choice. It's just a hobby.

I joined fab when I was 52 with zero experience of any site like this and extremely limited sexual experience.

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By *ansoffateMan
21 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Alternative feels quite broad, I could probably say 14 to that.

In a conscious way I would say late twenties into early 30s.

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
21 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

"The day I found out my ex was a lying cheat.

About 4 years ago...age not to be disclosed."
ouch!!!

Sorry to hear that Coyote

I was 30 but had a long lay off at age 32

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By *ea monkeyMan
21 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

About 36? I can’t remember the exact time or moment but the growing realisation that monogamy wasn’t for me was a growing realisation

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By *ittlebirdWoman
21 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Fab about 30. BDSM about 25

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By *agatoXXXMan
21 weeks ago

Mordor

I still don't think I'm involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Sadly not until I was 46

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
21 weeks ago

Hell

At about 28, I nearly died and gave my whole life a shaking up that I’m still recovering from now

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By *andB130Couple
21 weeks ago

northampton

About 30

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By *heelofTimeCouple
21 weeks ago

Two Rivers

I was 18, he was 24. Totally different back then was a case of out at weekend and brought people back to ours. He’s not shy so used to organise it all!

Was a lot of fun going that route, they always came back haha!

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By *electableicecreamMan
21 weeks ago

The West

About 18 month's ago. 2yrs out of a 17 relationship and my ex told me she was a unicorn on fab while I was helping set up her tinder account.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I was 18 when I discovered alternative lifestyles. I didn’t know the labels associated with what I needed in relationships but I defined it, and articulated what I was willing to give and not in relationships.

I discovered swinging when I was 20 or 21. I don’t consider myself a hardcore swinger but I’ve been in and out of swinging since discovering it.

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By *heseeker73Man
21 weeks ago

witney

Trying to get involved now. Any females or couples want an apprentice?

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By *till gameMan
21 weeks ago

two doors down

20 + years ago, I was 34

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

35 and 46

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
21 weeks ago

Tamworth

I was 24.

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By *eah BabyCouple
21 weeks ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

20 something ish when we found ourselves at Hedo, talk about thrown in at the deep end

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By *orphia2003Woman
21 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

BDSM I was 19 or 20

Swinging was 48

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
21 weeks ago

North West

Hmmmm. Definite alternative? We discussed ENM very, very early in our relationship, aged about 19/20 but didn't actually do anything about it until we were in our 30s.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
21 weeks ago

North West

If alternative = BDSM, then that was there from the very start. I was 18, he was a smidge (months) younger.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
21 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

We dabbled in the early part of our relationship, in our twenties… then rediscovered and jumped right in about 5 years ago.

Mrs TMN x

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By *jj2012Man
21 weeks ago

Barry

19 working in magaluf

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