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The age you got involved

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By *veryday_Couple_Nextdoor OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

At what age did you decide that swinging, open relationship, or being involved in an alternative lifestyle happen for you.

Ours was aged 35 & 37. As you can tell not that long ago

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I was 51.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The day I found out my ex was a lying cheat.

About 4 years ago...age not to be disclosed.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

Only a couple of years ago so 44

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's never a decision I've made because I don't see this as a lifestyle choice. It's just a hobby.

I joined fab when I was 52 with zero experience of any site like this and extremely limited sexual experience.

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

Alternative feels quite broad, I could probably say 14 to that.

In a conscious way I would say late twenties into early 30s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The day I found out my ex was a lying cheat.

About 4 years ago...age not to be disclosed."
ouch!!!

Sorry to hear that Coyote

I was 30 but had a long lay off at age 32

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

About 36? I can’t remember the exact time or moment but the growing realisation that monogamy wasn’t for me was a growing realisation

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

Fab about 30. BDSM about 25

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By *agatoXXXMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace

I still don't think I'm involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly not until I was 46

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
over a year ago

Hell

At about 28, I nearly died and gave my whole life a shaking up that I’m still recovering from now

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By *andB130Couple
over a year ago

northampton

About 30

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By *ccasionalcpl1985Couple
over a year ago

Two Rivers

I was 18, he was 24. Totally different back then was a case of out at weekend and brought people back to ours. He’s not shy so used to organise it all! Was a lot of fun going that route, they always came back haha!

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

About 18 month's ago. 2yrs out of a 17 relationship and my ex told me she was a unicorn on fab while I was helping set up her tinder account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was 18 when I discovered alternative lifestyles. I didn’t know the labels associated with what I needed in relationships but I defined it, and articulated what I was willing to give and not in relationships.

I discovered swinging when I was 20 or 21. I don’t consider myself a hardcore swinger but I’ve been in and out of swinging since discovering it.

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By *etmebeinurefantasiesMan
over a year ago

witney

Trying to get involved now. Any females or couples want an apprentice?

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By *till gameMan
over a year ago

Oldham

20 + years ago, I was 34

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

35 and 46

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I was 24.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

20 something ish when we found ourselves at Hedo, talk about thrown in at the deep end

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

BDSM I was 19 or 20

Swinging was 48

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Hmmmm. Definite alternative? We discussed ENM very, very early in our relationship, aged about 19/20 but didn't actually do anything about it until we were in our 30s.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

If alternative = BDSM, then that was there from the very start. I was 18, he was a smidge (months) younger.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

We dabbled in the early part of our relationship, in our twenties… then rediscovered and jumped right in about 5 years ago.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19 working in magaluf

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