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By *r.Pleasure OP   Man
23 weeks ago

London

I'm sure a lot of guys here would like to know, what is the best way to approach someone on fab and get a response?

Apart from having a porn star cock

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
23 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Personally I like being spoken to like a human being.

Mrs TMN x

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By *elloWoman
23 weeks ago

alpha centauri

Move confidently and slowly when approaching; walk, never run. Approach from the front, toward their shoulder. Speak to them when approaching and extend your hand. Never approach from the rear.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

The same as you would any human at a bar or in the street.

Not as an orifice waiting to be poked.

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By *eliWoman
23 weeks ago

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Like you're more than a walking pornstar cock.

Stay away from that behaviour and yeah, most people will probably do okay.

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By *mf123Man
23 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Do not approach me please thanks oh look im being polite shit who knew when did that start going soft i tell ya

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By *allandathleticMan
23 weeks ago

Asgard


"The same as you would any human at a bar or in the street.

Not as an orifice waiting to be poked."

You've got a thing for the world orifice today

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By *allandathleticMan
23 weeks ago

Asgard


"Like you're more than a walking pornstar cock.

Stay away from that behaviour and yeah, most people will probably do okay."

I'll let myself out

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By *allandathleticMan
23 weeks ago

Asgard


"Move confidently and slowly when approaching; walk, never run. Approach from the front, toward their shoulder. Speak to them when approaching and extend your hand. Never approach from the rear.

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Moonwalk?

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By *arkSovereignMan
23 weeks ago

Lancashire

Whip your cock out and do the helicopter whilst you walk over in a seductive manner

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By *elloWoman
23 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"Move confidently and slowly when approaching; walk, never run. Approach from the front, toward their shoulder. Speak to them when approaching and extend your hand. Never approach from the rear.

Moonwalk?"

Sticking a goldfish bowl on your head whilst wearing a white suit and walking slowly with slow exaggerated high steps . That may not work, but you do whatever works for you

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By *elloWoman
23 weeks ago

alpha centauri


"Whip your cock out and do the helicopter whilst you walk over in a seductive manner

"

Yes !!! Helicopter always wins. Who doesn't enjoy that

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By *ellhungvweMan
23 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Just be normal. I think many guys believe that because this is a site about sex that you have to be crude and come over all “alpha”. If that is you in real life then do that but in reality it is pretty much no one who isn’t a knob so don’t do that.

Just be the person you are down the pub or wherever you hangout.

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By *allandathleticMan
23 weeks ago

Asgard


"Move confidently and slowly when approaching; walk, never run. Approach from the front, toward their shoulder. Speak to them when approaching and extend your hand. Never approach from the rear.

Moonwalk?

Sticking a goldfish bowl on your head whilst wearing a white suit and walking slowly with slow exaggerated high steps . That may not work, but you do whatever works for you "

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By *arkSovereignMan
23 weeks ago

Lancashire


"Whip your cock out and do the helicopter whilst you walk over in a seductive manner

Yes !!! Helicopter always wins. Who doesn't enjoy that

"

Its all fun and games until you accidentally poke someones eye out

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By *andPextraCouple
23 weeks ago

North West

Be “normal”, polite and have some humour, plus a suggestion youve read the profile.

I had a message yesterday that simply said “I’d like to prolapse your arse”

As a conversation starter it fell flat unsurprisingly

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By *rispyDuckMan
23 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I usually send a message asking

: hi do you know how much a Polar bear weights?

: enough to break the ice lol

Works -100% of the times try it

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By *allandathleticMan
23 weeks ago

Asgard

Seriously OP. I'm in a bit of a dick mood today (not that kind you filthy fuckers)

Right, come to T&A, do serious for a second.

The best way to approach people of fab. Spend some time getting to know their online personas. Everyone here is different and offers something refreshingly new.

You'll make many good friends and have some laughs along the way.

Right dick switch turned back on...

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By *allandathleticMan
23 weeks ago

Asgard


"Be “normal”, polite and have some humour, plus a suggestion youve read the profile.

I had a message yesterday that simply said “I’d like to prolapse your arse”

As a conversation starter it fell flat unsurprisingly "

Well _ello *hotlisted*

Yeah, you get those people who *I think* use this site for *what I call* sexual tourettes.

They blurt massively offensively niche things.

Luckily they don't last long.

Pleased I bumped into you though

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
23 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania


"Move confidently and slowly when approaching; walk, never run. Approach from the front, toward their shoulder. Speak to them when approaching and extend your hand. Never approach from the rear.

"

I don't mind being approached from the rear, in the right circumstances...

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
23 weeks ago

coleraine


"I'm sure a lot of guys here would like to know, what is the best way to approach someone on fab and get a response?

Apart from having a porn star cock "

Trust us cock is way down the list.

1. A good thoughtful first message where you’ve made an effort to read the couples profile and understand who they are and what they want

2. Don’t do text speak, don’t immediately talk about sex

3. We nice, be respectful, be honest

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By *8on33Man
23 weeks ago

winfrith

In person works best i would imagine so clubs ,socials and maybe cam .

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By *enk15Man
23 weeks ago

Evesham

What kind of message would you like to receive?

Start there.

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