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By *ccasional75 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

dudley

I have a question, if you knew prior to meeting that full sex was off the cards. Would you still be interested in meeting.

We have talked about possibility of of have some one just cum for the wife. She could do what ever she wanted or nothing at all. Total control would be hers and the other person would just be a tool to use.

Is this too much to ask and people would naturally want to take more.

We are still at talking stage at present and looking at options, so thought would ask opinions

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Will you show her your responses?

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By *ccasional75 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

dudley

Hadn't thought about it. Suppose depends

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By *allandathleticMan
27 weeks ago

Asgard

I suppose that depends under the guise you entice said man round.

If it was come for a coffee... and then it lead somewhere (which I think is the scenario your speaking of) then that's different to.

"She's going to ride you hardstyle until your eyes pop out"

Here's a coffee, tell me about your first pet.

Do you see why there may be an expectation with one and not the other?

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By *ealitybitesMan
27 weeks ago

Belfast

90 percent of all the meets I've had since joining in 2016 I've known beforehand that sex of any description was not an option but it hasn't put me off meeting anyway.

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By *ccasional75 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

dudley

The intention would be to set out the scenario before hand.

We don't like the thought that someone might try not sticking to the rules of our play.

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By *ccasional75 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

dudley

Good to know thanks

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By *allandathleticMan
27 weeks ago

Asgard


"The intention would be to set out the scenario before hand.

We don't like the thought that someone might try not sticking to the rules of our play.

"

Then you need a couple of socials before allowing yourselves to delve any deeper.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
27 weeks ago

East Sussex


"The intention would be to set out the scenario before hand.

We don't like the thought that someone might try not sticking to the rules of our play.

"

Tap on reply+quote so we know who you're responding to .

I'd say be clear on your intent. Anyone who agrees then attempts to overstep is setting themselves up for disappointment I'd say

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By *ccasional75 OP   Man
27 weeks ago

dudley


"The intention would be to set out the scenario before hand.

We don't like the thought that someone might try not sticking to the rules of our play.

Tap on reply+quote so we know who you're responding to .

I'd say be clear on your intent. Anyone who agrees then attempts to overstep is setting themselves up for disappointment I'd say "

Sorry if confused and thank you

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By *ather WickmasMan
27 weeks ago

The Continental

I wouldn’t entertain the scenario when presented from a solo male profile.

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By *aomilatteCouple
27 weeks ago

Midlands

The general term is "soft play". It's fairly common amongst swingers.

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