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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

After reading an interesting thread by _electableicecream I was inspired.

Go check out his Who Cums First thread it’s an excellent debate.

I am asking for volunteers for a poll, you have to be a woman to vote although all input is welcome.

How often does the man make sure you cum first?

Are guys like that mythical?

Share your thoughts for all the world to see and settle this debate once and for all…probably be another thread next week

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
22 weeks ago

in the waves

Maybe I'm in the minority here, but I would say most of the men I've been with have made me cum first before they cum.

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By *educing_EmCouple
22 weeks ago

Tipperary

All have

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By *eltCuteMightDeleteWoman
22 weeks ago

Reading

Yes. All but one sexual partner has made sure my needs were met first.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

It’s been decades since I’ve been with a man who cums first.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
22 weeks ago

Leeds

It varies, I don't always want cum 1st.

Sometimes especially with the Mr as he can always makee cum when for example he's planning on giving me a facial, I try hold out until it's landed & that makes me cum.

With meets I rarely orgasm so they'd be there a long time waiting on me 1st & tbh it's kinda off-putting - as long as everyone's has fun what does it matter who's 1st it's not a race.

Other times I want to be a little selfish and enjoy the after cum blissfulness without having to perform again.

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By *allandathleticMan
22 weeks ago

Asgard

All can input, you say. I'll input myself here

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

Well this is looking positive for the guys but also a little deflating as I would have loved to been a unique being that is almost mythical

Keep those answers cunning Ladies we need a rich and varied poll to get to the bottom of the matter

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

All have tried but with varying success!

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By *uckslut and MCouple
22 weeks ago

Poole

In the swinging world with other men, next to none, make me cum first. Thinking about it, very little of my body count make me cum during a meet.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"It varies, I don't always want cum 1st.

Sometimes especially with the Mr as he can always makee cum when for example he's planning on giving me a facial, I try hold out until it's landed & that makes me cum.

With meets I rarely orgasm so they'd be there a long time waiting on me 1st & tbh it's kinda off-putting - as long as everyone's has fun what does it matter who's 1st it's not a race.

Other times I want to be a little selfish and enjoy the after cum blissfulness without having to perform again."

Ahhh yes, this is the sort of variety of answer was looking for!!!

A promise of making sure the lady cums first could be interpreted as, “ once I have done that I can do as I please without worrying about making her orgasm”

There are a lot aspects to an enjoyable meet and if the focus is getting the woman off first a lot of other fun opportunities can be lost!!

Get your notebooks ready guys

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"All can input, you say. I'll input myself here "

Well thanks for your input…it’s most valuable

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By *allandathleticMan
22 weeks ago

Asgard

Blokes get off visually. Women tend to require more, almost like a mental intimacy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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22 weeks ago

East Sussex

Fortunately most guys we've met understand that it probably won't happen the first few times we meet. They're usually in agreement with us that it's more about the experience than achieving some particular goal.

If someone insists it's all about making me cum first the pressure to perform will ensure it never happens

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By *allandathleticMan
22 weeks ago

Asgard

I've had sex and not cum before. It didn't make it any less enjoyable.

It's a journey not a destination.

Anyway, back to the ladies. Sorry for hi-jacking(off) the thread

*sits in dark corner, smiling with his shirt off, drinking bumbu rum on the rocks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

22 weeks ago

East Sussex

Oh and also I'm a once is enough woman. The longer I'm here the more I feel that women are expected to be multi orgasmic without exception.

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By *herry delightWoman
22 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

There is no set number, but most men I have meet over the years on Fab, I have cum at least twice if not three before they cum.

It's all about choosing men that know it that's more than a dick to be good at sex.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Blokes get off visually. Women tend to require more, almost like a mental intimacy."

This is true and a lot more build up is required but isn’t that the fun part?

Many places are neglected like the lips neck light finger brushes along the sides and inner thighs before moving to the more sexual areas.

It helps with that mental stimulation and anticipation!!

It’s a joy to explore and watch the reactions.

I can get off easily if I choose but being mentally stimulated is far superior….i am almost like a woman

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"All have tried but with varying success! "

Feel free to answer or not but is it something lacking on their part or not getting into the right headspace?

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"In the swinging world with other men, next to none, make me cum first. Thinking about it, very little of my body count make me cum during a meet.

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I am sorry to hear that and can only hope there was some pleasure to be had!!

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By *allandathleticMan
22 weeks ago

Asgard


"Blokes get off visually. Women tend to require more, almost like a mental intimacy.

This is true and a lot more build up is required but isn’t that the fun part?

Many places are neglected like the lips neck light finger brushes along the sides and inner thighs before moving to the more sexual areas.

It helps with that mental stimulation and anticipation!!

It’s a joy to explore and watch the reactions.

I can get off easily if I choose but being mentally stimulated is far superior….i am almost like a woman "

Stop it. Your turning me on when you type like that.

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By *aitonelMan
22 weeks ago

Travelling

The problem is the vocal minority are loudest and the minority are for the most part silent.

So most of the time we often see/hear a big emphasis on orgasm being priority or run the risk of disappointment and embarrassment and shaming. Or the "horror" stories of guy cums and it's done with.

Very few people actually make it a point to make it clear it's about the fun leading up to the orgasm. So men and women often have this society imposed obligation to make sex about how good you personally are at it, entirely focused around orgasm.

So then we have the bravado and exaggeration like oral for hours and how quick and often orgasm will happen.

The pressure is applied from both sides

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
22 weeks ago

North West

Ummmm. He enabled me to cum first at the weekend. I came first last night. And it's HARD for me to cum, so 11/10 for effort, chaps

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Fortunately most guys we've met understand that it probably won't happen the first few times we meet. They're usually in agreement with us that it's more about the experience than achieving some particular goal.

If someone insists it's all about making me cum first the pressure to perform will ensure it never happens "

Open and honest is key and if they refuse to accept what has been communicated to them it must be a let down for all parties!!

Listen and go with the flow would be my mantra iif I was in a meet with you!!

Prospective meets with this couple take note!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
22 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Yes.

I like to cum multiple times

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By *allandathleticMan
22 weeks ago

Asgard


"Yes.

I like to cum multiple times "

You need to ask for permission first

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By *ittlebirdWoman
22 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"Yes.

I like to cum multiple times

You need to ask for permission first "

Only with certain people

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
22 weeks ago

North West


"I've had sex and not cum before. It didn't make it any less enjoyable.

It's a journey not a destination.

Anyway, back to the ladies. Sorry for hi-jacking(off) the thread

*sits in dark corner, smiling with his shirt off, drinking bumbu rum on the rocks."

Exactly this. Cumming isn't the be all and end all.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
22 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I pretty much always cum first. I'm very easily stimulated.

Unless I'm playing denial and worship games

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"There is no set number, but most men I have meet over the years on Fab, I have cum at least twice if not three before they cum.

It's all about choosing men that know it that's more than a dick to be good at sex. "

You have been a very lucky lady, a few simple Google searches on the matter and an open conversation with your Lady should tell you it’s not all about sticking your dick in and banging as hard and as long as you can.

A woman’s skin is so sensitive and can be be just the start of giving pleasure.

As you give so shall you receive

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
22 weeks ago

St Neots

It's only gentlemanly that she cums first

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By *he Silver FuxMan
22 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

My word… this is quite affirming and positive, well done gentlemen

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Blokes get off visually. Women tend to require more, almost like a mental intimacy.

This is true and a lot more build up is required but isn’t that the fun part?

Many places are neglected like the lips neck light finger brushes along the sides and inner thighs before moving to the more sexual areas.

It helps with that mental stimulation and anticipation!!

It’s a joy to explore and watch the reactions.

I can get off easily if I choose but being mentally stimulated is far superior….i am almost like a woman

Stop it. You’re turning me on when you type like that."

I aim to please

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Yes.

I like to cum multiple times

You need to ask for permission first

Only with certain people "

You have her all wrong, just show her with actions and as few words as possible

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"I've had sex and not cum before. It didn't make it any less enjoyable.

It's a journey not a destination.

Anyway, back to the ladies. Sorry for hi-jacking(off) the thread

*sits in dark corner, smiling with his shirt off, drinking bumbu rum on the rocks.

Exactly this. Cumming isn't the be all and end all. "

He makes a good point but a happy ending all round is desirable if not essential.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
22 weeks ago

somewhere

Most have made me cum first, a couple haven't and sure as hell didn't make sure I did after either.

I'm very much, I've cum, leave me alone now please, so probably best they have made me arrive at the station before them lol x

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"I pretty much always cum first. I'm very easily stimulated.

Unless I'm playing denial and worship games "

Why is Apu from The Simpsons springing to mind??

“Please come again”??

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By *ea monkeyMan
22 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

Sex isn’t about orgasms.

To prove this point I like to make sure that neither of us orgasm

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"It's only gentlemanly that she cums first"

But what if she isn’t in the mood for a Gentleman?

Animalstc can be absolutely fucking awesome

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"My word… this is quite affirming and positive, well done gentlemen "

It is Mr Fox, the poll is producing a rich and varied analysis.

Exactly my intention

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By *r.PleasureMan
22 weeks ago

London

Personally I make the lady cum before myself

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By *ittlebirdWoman
22 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"It's only gentlemanly that she cums first

But what if she isn’t in the mood for a Gentleman?

Animalstc can be absolutely fucking awesome "

I think that last line should’ve read awesome fucking…

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Most have made me cum first, a couple haven't and sure as hell didn't make sure I did after either.

I'm very much, I've cum, leave me alone now please, so probably best they have made me arrive at the station before them lol x"

Well this response has left me flummoxed!!

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
22 weeks ago

St Neots

I'd like to challenge all woman on here to make me cum first. Bet you can't

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Sex isn’t about orgasms.

To prove this point I like to make sure that neither of us orgasm"

It sounds like an Uk entry into Eurovision….nul points!!

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By *nnCeeWoman
22 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

It's not something which happens easily, here.

Some men have tried, for a bit, and failed. Some tried, and then just pleased themselves (of those, some have tried again, for the majority, once they'd cum, it was all over).

A couple have taken the time and got me there.

As others have said, it's not always about the orgasm. They're nice, but, personally, not essential (I'll sort myself out later).

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"It's only gentlemanly that she cums first

But what if she isn’t in the mood for a Gentleman?

Animalstc can be absolutely fucking awesome

I think that last line should’ve read awesome fucking… "

It’s interchangeable

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By *onkeynutWoman
22 weeks ago

somewhere

I have had sex with two people that didn’t care about my pleasure and would cum first… one is my ex husband and the second is someone I was dating, albeit not for long!

Otherwise, any other person I’ve had sex with has got off on my pleasure and me theirs, so I’ve always cum first.

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By *eliWoman
22 weeks ago

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Men like that aren't mythical but they're not getting a gold sticker. Sorry.

I could probably come with a good kiss so yeah. I'm not very impressed with the I make a woman come first shtick. Bravo, well done you.

I've said it in another thread but there's far too much focus on orgasms.

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By *essTTWoman
22 weeks ago

Birmingham


"After reading an interesting thread by _electableicecream I was inspired.

Go check out his Who Cums First thread it’s an excellent debate.

I am asking for volunteers for a poll, you have to be a woman to vote although all input is welcome.

How often does the man make sure you cum first?

Are guys like that mythical?

Share your thoughts for all the world to see and settle this debate once and for all…probably be another thread next week "

My opinion is biased because I orgasm very easily and always have multiple orgasms so it's 'always' for me

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By *agatoXXXMan
22 weeks ago

Gone and completely forgotten.

Ladies, be honest, how often does a man make you cum, PERIOD?

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"I have had sex with two people that didn’t care about my pleasure and would cum first… one is my ex husband and the second is someone I was dating, albeit not for long!

Otherwise, any other person I’ve had sex with has got off on my pleasure and me theirs, so I’ve always cum first."

Well at least you kicked them to the curb and found guys who take your pleasure as seriously as their own.

Just goes to show not all guys are self centred bastards in bed….there is hope ladies

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
22 weeks ago

Plymouth, South west

My man can make me cum before him every time, it doesn't necessarily mean he does... sometimes it's amazing to be ravaged hard and fast and feel him cumming leaving me wanting more... if he's teasing me and keeping me on the edge he might wait until we cum together... but mostly I cum first.

With meets, it's very very rare for me to cum and if I do it's usually hound joining in that does it

X

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By *ea monkeyMan
22 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Men like that aren't mythical but they're not getting a gold sticker. Sorry.

I could probably come with a good kiss so yeah. I'm not very impressed with the I make a woman come first shtick. Bravo, well done you.

I've said it in another thread but there's far too much focus on orgasms."

I tend to agree

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By *ot to giggleWoman
22 weeks ago

Coventry

Ok , well nope is the exception rather than the rule!

I give up expecting, talking the talk is fine, lots of reasons not delivered!

When it happens its great!

I would rather someone not brag about their abilities and deliver!!

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Men like that aren't mythical but they're not getting a gold sticker. Sorry.

I could probably come with a good kiss so yeah. I'm not very impressed with the I make a woman come first shtick. Bravo, well done you.

I've said it in another thread but there's far too much focus on orgasms."

That’s a shame I like stickers!!

But you make an excellent point, you can cum through kissing alone?

Now that is legendary, it must make for a Merry time at Christmas parties

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"After reading an interesting thread by _electableicecream I was inspired.

Go check out his Who Cums First thread it’s an excellent debate.

I am asking for volunteers for a poll, you have to be a woman to vote although all input is welcome.

How often does the man make sure you cum first?

Are guys like that mythical?

Share your thoughts for all the world to see and settle this debate once and for all…probably be another thread next week

My opinion is biased because I orgasm very easily and always have multiple orgasms so it's 'always' for me "

We need all opinions or how are we going to get a full picture?

You cum easily?

I may message you as it would give my ego a boost when I make a woman orgasm whilst losing my virginity

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By *essTTWoman
22 weeks ago

Birmingham


"After reading an interesting thread by _electableicecream I was inspired.

Go check out his Who Cums First thread it’s an excellent debate.

I am asking for volunteers for a poll, you have to be a woman to vote although all input is welcome.

How often does the man make sure you cum first?

Are guys like that mythical?

Share your thoughts for all the world to see and settle this debate once and for all…probably be another thread next week

My opinion is biased because I orgasm very easily and always have multiple orgasms so it's 'always' for me

We need all opinions or how are we going to get a full picture?

You cum easily?

I may message you as it would give my ego a boost when I make a woman orgasm whilst losing my virginity "

It's a blessing and a curse tbh lol

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By *eliWoman
22 weeks ago

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"Men like that aren't mythical but they're not getting a gold sticker. Sorry.

I could probably come with a good kiss so yeah. I'm not very impressed with the I make a woman come first shtick. Bravo, well done you.

I've said it in another thread but there's far too much focus on orgasms.

That’s a shame I like stickers!!

But you make an excellent point, you can cum through kissing alone?

Now that is legendary, it must make for a Merry time at Christmas parties "

Ha, I said I probably could. It's really not difficult for me to come and I think that's made me a bit, no a massive amount, less impressed by people who brag about making women come multiple times.

I like lovers who enjoy the sensuality of sex, the eroticism of sharing your body with another. When it's all about how many orgasms I can have to inflate their insufferable ego, I switch off.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Ladies, be honest, how often does a man make you cum, PERIOD?"

That’s what the poll is for…it’s a sharing of views and opinions.

Are there more talkers than walkers, is making them cum first that important, do they find it enjoyable without a guarantee of an orgasm.

Hopefully reading through the post shows be interesting and educational.

I love a deep dive

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"My man can make me cum before him every time, it doesn't necessarily mean he does... sometimes it's amazing to be ravaged hard and fast and feel him cumming leaving me wanting more... if he's teasing me and keeping me on the edge he might wait until we cum together... but mostly I cum first.

With meets, it's very very rare for me to cum and if I do it's usually hound joining in that does it

X "

It seems you have that winning formula, I bet a lot communication and reading each other’s moods has made for what sounds like a match made in heaven.

I would of thought on a meet it would add something extra and take you over the edge or does it also you like hound to finish the job?

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"After reading an interesting thread by _electableicecream I was inspired.

Go check out his Who Cums First thread it’s an excellent debate.

I am asking for volunteers for a poll, you have to be a woman to vote although all input is welcome.

How often does the man make sure you cum first?

Are guys like that mythical?

Share your thoughts for all the world to see and settle this debate once and for all…probably be another thread next week

My opinion is biased because I orgasm very easily and always have multiple orgasms so it's 'always' for me

We need all opinions or how are we going to get a full picture?

You cum easily?

I may message you as it would give my ego a boost when I make a woman orgasm whilst losing my virginity

It's a blessing and a curse tbh lol "

I can guess why it can be both

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Men like that aren't mythical but they're not getting a gold sticker. Sorry.

I could probably come with a good kiss so yeah. I'm not very impressed with the I make a woman come first shtick. Bravo, well done you.

I've said it in another thread but there's far too much focus on orgasms.

That’s a shame I like stickers!!

But you make an excellent point, you can cum through kissing alone?

Now that is legendary, it must make for a Merry time at Christmas parties

Ha, I said I probably could. It's really not difficult for me to come and I think that's made me a bit, no a massive amount, less impressed by people who brag about making women come multiple times.

I like lovers who enjoy the sensuality of sex, the eroticism of sharing your body with another. When it's all about how many orgasms I can have to inflate their insufferable ego, I switch off."

If there is ever a winter social I am packing the mistletoe

But back to your point, I see a lot of people “brag” about their prowess or make promise that they can’t deliver on!

I guess you have been on a while and can read between the lines and have an educated guess who lives up to a meets expectations!!

And it is probably an eye roll from you and others who see this kind of thing.

Mmm I like your thinking and I agree with you that sensual, seductive play is a massive turn on.

I even like kisses and cuddles but with that said I do like rough play and having “happy endings” all round!!

It’s why I chose my username I am versatile and love variety.

Going with the flow and enjoying the experience whatever our mood takes us to is the order of the day.

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By *ellinever70Woman
22 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"Oh and also I'm a once is enough woman. The longer I'm here the more I feel that women are expected to be multi orgasmic without exception. "

I don't like that it's often women that perpetuate that myth

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By *eliWoman
22 weeks ago

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"Oh and also I'm a once is enough woman. The longer I'm here the more I feel that women are expected to be multi orgasmic without exception.

I don't like that it's often women that perpetuate that myth "

Do women? I've read most women on here talk about their experience and yet acknowledge and understand that others aren't the same. Women often say I can* rather than *all* can. If a woman talks about her experience and people want to think that applies to all, that's on them.

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By *he Silver FuxMan
22 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"Oh and also I'm a once is enough woman. The longer I'm here the more I feel that women are expected to be multi orgasmic without exception.

I don't like that it's often women that perpetuate that myth

Do women? I've read most women on here talk about their experience and yet acknowledge and understand that others aren't the same. Women often say I can* rather than *all* can. If a woman talks about her experience and people want to think that applies to all, that's on them."

Too many men sitting in Doctors waiting rooms reading sex advice in 8 year old Cosmo magazines

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By *dventuresWithEveWoman
22 weeks ago

SW Birmingham outskirts

Whether I have cum or not, so far men have always satisfied me first (or tried to) before seeking their own climax.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
22 weeks ago

Maidstone

I really don't have sex like it's a goal scoring activity. For me it's always just a mutually enjoyable sexy time... so I wouldn't have a clue if the guy is making sure I cum first because that's never even a thing. We just go with the flow. (Pun completely intended)

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By *viatrixWoman
22 weeks ago

Redhill

My last FWB would go on for hours and he made me cum so many times I lost count. Seriously. No point in exaggerating or lying. I would come home with jelly legs and a postcoital high that lasted weeks.

Fuck, I’m never going to get that again. He was also my physical ideal.

*cries in Telenovela Spanish*

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Most have aside from the first guy I was with. They make sure I cum first in clubs without fail.

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By *cLovin2Man
22 weeks ago

Reading

Whilst I do try to ensure that the woman is satisfied first, some women are harder work than others.

So you have to listen to them and do what they want. I'm seeing a lady, who's one of these ladies who doesn't cum easily. But practice and persistence has led to a situation where she will demand sex.

I must be doing summat right

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Men will talk the talk beforehand, but during, it's all about them.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
22 weeks ago

Tamworth

1.

I've encountered 1 male who could manage this and I opted to marry him.

I'm not going to count any of the guys we've played with as my husband ensures I cum before play starts.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Oh and also I'm a once is enough woman. The longer I'm here the more I feel that women are expected to be multi orgasmic without exception.

I don't like that it's often women that perpetuate that myth

Do women? I've read most women on here talk about their experience and yet acknowledge and understand that others aren't the same. Women often say I can* rather than *all* can. If a woman talks about her experience and people want to think that applies to all, that's on them.

Too many men sitting in Doctors waiting rooms reading sex advice in 8 year old Cosmo magazines "

That actually had me laughing so hard I think i peed myself!!

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Whether I have cum or not, so far men have always satisfied me first (or tried to) before seeking their own climax."

Looks like you have met some pleasers

Makes sense in one regard, we need a time to reload and if you have just been satisfied the chance of getting another orgasm through penetration is higher

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By *essTTWoman
22 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Oh and also I'm a once is enough woman. The longer I'm here the more I feel that women are expected to be multi orgasmic without exception.

I don't like that it's often women that perpetuate that myth "

I don't think it's mostly women who say this.

Most women actually acknowledge that some women can and some can't orgasm at all never mind have multiples

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By *essTTWoman
22 weeks ago

Birmingham


"Whilst I do try to ensure that the woman is satisfied first, some women are harder work than others.

So you have to listen to them and do what they want. I'm seeing a lady, who's one of these ladies who doesn't cum easily. But practice and persistence has led to a situation where she will demand sex.

I must be doing summat right "

I think "hard work" is probably the wrong phrase to use when referring to a woman who finds it difficult to orgasm

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"I really don't have sex like it's a goal scoring activity. For me it's always just a mutually enjoyable sexy time... so I wouldn't have a clue if the guy is making sure I cum first because that's never even a thing. We just go with the flow. (Pun completely intended)"

Mutually enjoyable sexy time, you should write a book and make that the title!!

Chapter 1 Getting into the flow

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"My last FWB would go on for hours and he made me cum so many times I lost count. Seriously. No point in exaggerating or lying. I would come home with jelly legs and a postcoital high that lasted weeks.

Fuck, I’m never going to get that again. He was also my physical ideal.

*cries in Telenovela Spanish* "

I am so sorry for your loss and i would be grieving too.

I will hold a vigil in your honour and pray you find someone like him again!!

I think we should all spare a moment and pray Ms A recovers from this devastating blow and finds a worthy successor

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By *he Silver FuxMan
22 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"My last FWB would go on for hours and he made me cum so many times I lost count. Seriously. No point in exaggerating or lying. I would come home with jelly legs and a postcoital high that lasted weeks.

Fuck, I’m never going to get that again. He was also my physical ideal.

*cries in Telenovela Spanish* "

Ay caramba Sorry for your loss

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By *unx2019Couple
22 weeks ago

Edinburgh for few days

I think I must be one of the lucky ones. It takes very little to make me cum and normally have multiple orgasms. There's been a couple of times where have cum continually, so yes I always cum first

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By *he Silver FuxMan
22 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

I’ve had meets with a couple of women who were very matter of fact from the start.. they don’t orgasm, ever. Never had, never will. Don’t try, just enjoy… but I’m such a fucking pleaser I found this very hard to resolve into what I believed to be then a completely unacceptable selfish act and it felt quite hollow. It took a good while to resolve that pleasure and fun doesn’t necessarily require an orgasm and not to feel guilty about it.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
22 weeks ago

Essex

It varies wildly. Some do, some don’t.

Cumming is nice, but not always vital. Sometimes amazing sex is amazing without.

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By *electableicecreamMan
22 weeks ago

The West


"I’ve had meets with a couple of women who were very matter of fact from the start.. they don’t orgasm, ever. Never had, never will. Don’t try, just enjoy… but I’m such a fucking pleaser I found this very hard to resolve into what I believed to be then a completely unacceptable selfish act and it felt quite hollow. It took a good while to resolve that pleasure and fun doesn’t necessarily require an orgasm and not to feel guilty about it. "

There's the rub. I think a lot of men feel that way and it manifests in different behaviours.

Where does it come from?

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"My last FWB would go on for hours and he made me cum so many times I lost count. Seriously. No point in exaggerating or lying. I would come home with jelly legs and a postcoital high that lasted weeks.

Fuck, I’m never going to get that again. He was also my physical ideal.

*cries in Telenovela Spanish*

I am so sorry for your loss and i would be grieving too.

I will hold a vigil in your honour and pray you find someone like him again!!

I think we should all spare a moment and pray Ms A recovers from this devastating blow and finds a worthy successor "

This is ironically very on mark for a Spanish speaking telenovela.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"My last FWB would go on for hours and he made me cum so many times I lost count. Seriously. No point in exaggerating or lying. I would come home with jelly legs and a postcoital high that lasted weeks.

Fuck, I’m never going to get that again. He was also my physical ideal.

*cries in Telenovela Spanish*

I am so sorry for your loss and i would be grieving too.

I will hold a vigil in your honour and pray you find someone like him again!!

I think we should all spare a moment and pray Ms A recovers from this devastating blow and finds a worthy successor

This is ironically very on mark for a Spanish speaking telenovela. "

You know I am better with Italian but now you come to mention it, the irony isn’t lost on me

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"I’ve had meets with a couple of women who were very matter of fact from the start.. they don’t orgasm, ever. Never had, never will. Don’t try, just enjoy… but I’m such a fucking pleaser I found this very hard to resolve into what I believed to be then a completely unacceptable selfish act and it felt quite hollow. It took a good while to resolve that pleasure and fun doesn’t necessarily require an orgasm and not to feel guilty about it. "

I get you brother, as a pleaser I equated pleasing with a guaranteed orgasm but as has been said it’s not always necessary.

Took a while to get my head around that but if a woman finds it more difficult and wants one I have always been open to adding a few things to get her wish

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
22 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I don't always want to cum first. I like to indulge the man. I cum easily so it's not like it's not going to happen

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By *cLovin2Man
22 weeks ago

Reading


"Men will talk the talk beforehand, but during, it's all about them. "

Sounds like you have had some selfish lovers. As not all women are the same, all men are not the same.

The talk is a form of marketing to get her knickers off. Admittedly some guys will be all marketing and no substance. But there will be others also that have more performance than marketing. You need to pick the right ones.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"I don't always want to cum first. I like to indulge the man. I cum easily so it's not like it's not going to happen"

Mmm i have heard a few women say this.

I am getting the feeling that maybe the men who put guarantees on their bio or messages should read this thread.

We know most of them don’t read the forums, which is a shame as there is a wealth of information here.

You don’t have to tailor yourself to what you think a woman wants just be yourself as there’s someone for everyone.

I feel like Jerry Springer doing a final thought

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By *ittlebirdWoman
22 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

^^ Be kind to yourself and each other

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By *aitonelMan
22 weeks ago

Travelling


"^^ Be kind to yourself and each other "

"Be excellent to each other. Party on, dudes!" is far superior to JS's attempt considering the hypocrisy of him saying it just after he exploited a load of people on TV in the name of entertainment.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"^^ Be kind to yourself and each other

"Be excellent to each other. Party on, dudes!" is far superior to JS's attempt considering the hypocrisy of him saying it just after he exploited a load of people on TV in the name of entertainment. "

San Dimas rocks

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By *cLovin2Man
22 weeks ago

Reading


"^^ Be kind to yourself and each other

"Be excellent to each other. Party on, dudes!" is far superior to JS's attempt considering the hypocrisy of him saying it just after he exploited a load of people on TV in the name of entertainment. "

Needed an electric guitar burst there

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By *ittlebirdWoman
22 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"^^ Be kind to yourself and each other

"Be excellent to each other. Party on, dudes!" is far superior to JS's attempt considering the hypocrisy of him saying it just after he exploited a load of people on TV in the name of entertainment. "

Bless them and their 15 minutes

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"^^ Be kind to yourself and each other

"Be excellent to each other. Party on, dudes!" is far superior to JS's attempt considering the hypocrisy of him saying it just after he exploited a load of people on TV in the name of entertainment.

Needed an electric guitar burst there "

God we’re showing our age!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"

I feel like Jerry Springer doing a final thought "

Random useless tangent…

Once I sat next to Jerry Springer on a flight. He had two very yappy dogs, and his sister oddly looks exactly like him but with boobs.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"

I feel like Jerry Springer doing a final thought

Random useless tangent…

Once I sat next to Jerry Springer on a flight. He had two very yappy dogs, and his sister oddly looks exactly like him but with boobs. "

Jerry Springer with boobs….the mind boggles

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
22 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"… his sister oddly looks exactly like him but with boobs. "

That’s a challenging wank.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
22 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"… his sister oddly looks exactly like him but with boobs.

That’s a challenging wank."

But not impossible?

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By *he Silver FuxMan
22 weeks ago

Uttoxeter


"My last FWB would go on for hours and he made me cum so many times I lost count. Seriously. No point in exaggerating or lying. I would come home with jelly legs and a postcoital high that lasted weeks.

Fuck, I’m never going to get that again. He was also my physical ideal.

*cries in Telenovela Spanish*

I am so sorry for your loss and i would be grieving too.

I will hold a vigil in your honour and pray you find someone like him again!!

I think we should all spare a moment and pray Ms A recovers from this devastating blow and finds a worthy successor

This is ironically very on mark for a Spanish speaking telenovela. "

I’m all about Jane the Virgin drama but with Sofia Vergara Modern Family Sass

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
22 weeks ago

Newcastle

I would say about 70% may try, but only about 50% succeed…

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"I would say about 70% may try, but only about 50% succeed…"

I bet you make the men cum first with how gorgeous you are

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

In my 20's to early 30's it was about 30% that made me cum

In my mid 30's and early 40's ... only I made me cum .... and I had a long sexual drought.

Since divorcing 5 years ago about 70% of people I have slept with ... including those from fab.

Frankly some just don't care or try .... amd some don't listen and ignore gentle suggestions.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"My last FWB would go on for hours and he made me cum so many times I lost count. Seriously. No point in exaggerating or lying. I would come home with jelly legs and a postcoital high that lasted weeks.

Fuck, I’m never going to get that again. He was also my physical ideal.

*cries in Telenovela Spanish*

I am so sorry for your loss and i would be grieving too.

I will hold a vigil in your honour and pray you find someone like him again!!

I think we should all spare a moment and pray Ms A recovers from this devastating blow and finds a worthy successor

This is ironically very on mark for a Spanish speaking telenovela.

I’m all about Jane the Virgin drama but with Sofia Vergara Modern Family Sass"

Sofia Vergara mmmm good choice!!

You have excellent taste in women Mr Fox

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"In my 20's to early 30's it was about 30% that made me cum

In my mid 30's and early 40's ... only I made me cum .... and I had a long sexual drought.

Since divorcing 5 years ago about 70% of people I have slept with ... including those from fab.

Frankly some just don't care or try .... amd some don't listen and ignore gentle suggestions. "

By not listening I guess when you tell them higher, lower or stop trying to spell letters they don’t listen or if you move into the right position they move into the wrong position again?

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By *herry delightWoman
22 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

Well I have just had a fabulous day at a club, with a mix of men I have played with before and some I haven't and I can tell everyone of them made sure I cum first, in some cases I had to call a time out to recover.

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
22 weeks ago

Maidstone


"I really don't have sex like it's a goal scoring activity. For me it's always just a mutually enjoyable sexy time... so I wouldn't have a clue if the guy is making sure I cum first because that's never even a thing. We just go with the flow. (Pun completely intended)

Mutually enjoyable sexy time, you should write a book and make that the title!!

Chapter 1 Getting into the flow "

*I'm doing this*

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
22 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"But not impossible? "

Nothing’s impossible, my miniature avian chum.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Well I have just had a fabulous day at a club, with a mix of men I have played with before and some I haven't and I can tell everyone of them made sure I cum first, in some cases I had to call a time out to recover. "

Yaaay we have a winner

Good for you Cherry, now you can bask in the post orgasms bliss

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"I really don't have sex like it's a goal scoring activity. For me it's always just a mutually enjoyable sexy time... so I wouldn't have a clue if the guy is making sure I cum first because that's never even a thing. We just go with the flow. (Pun completely intended)

Mutually enjoyable sexy time, you should write a book and make that the title!!

Chapter 1 Getting into the flow

*I'm doing this*"

Can I have a mention in the credits, I am willing to collaborate on this project

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"But not impossible?

Nothing’s impossible, my miniature avian chum."

That’s the nicest thing i have ever heard LB called!!

I just call her a twat and she calls me worse!!

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
22 weeks ago

Plymouth, South west


"My man can make me cum before him every time, it doesn't necessarily mean he does... sometimes it's amazing to be ravaged hard and fast and feel him cumming leaving me wanting more... if he's teasing me and keeping me on the edge he might wait until we cum together... but mostly I cum first.

With meets, it's very very rare for me to cum and if I do it's usually hound joining in that does it

X

It seems you have that winning formula, I bet a lot communication and reading each other’s moods has made for what sounds like a match made in heaven.

I would of thought on a meet it would add something extra and take you over the edge or does it also you like hound to finish the job?"

We have great communication and as you say, all about the mood.

I love the extra excitement swinging brings and hound would love it if someone else made me cum like he does, but its him that pushes me over the edge, not the other person if that makes sense....

Either way I count myself very lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

Some have some havent

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"

I feel like Jerry Springer doing a final thought

Random useless tangent…

Once I sat next to Jerry Springer on a flight. He had two very yappy dogs, and his sister oddly looks exactly like him but with boobs.

Jerry Springer with boobs….the mind boggles "

I forget that lady’s name that won that one singing programme years ago. I think she was Irish and went on to be a big success. Susan or Sue something or other… well if I’ve not sent you for a loop, think of her but with Jerry’s face and glasses. Dressed in the same fashion as the Sue lady.

Total wanking vibes all around, Rose-Tinted.

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By *herry delightWoman
22 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"Well I have just had a fabulous day at a club, with a mix of men I have played with before and some I haven't and I can tell everyone of them made sure I cum first, in some cases I had to call a time out to recover.

Yaaay we have a winner

Good for you Cherry, now you can bask in the post orgasms bliss "

I am still basking in a orgasms bliss. What's more I have a FB staying the night so more orgams to cum.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"My man can make me cum before him every time, it doesn't necessarily mean he does... sometimes it's amazing to be ravaged hard and fast and feel him cumming leaving me wanting more... if he's teasing me and keeping me on the edge he might wait until we cum together... but mostly I cum first.

With meets, it's very very rare for me to cum and if I do it's usually hound joining in that does it

X

It seems you have that winning formula, I bet a lot communication and reading each other’s moods has made for what sounds like a match made in heaven.

I would of thought on a meet it would add something extra and take you over the edge or does it also you like hound to finish the job?

We have great communication and as you say, all about the mood.

I love the extra excitement swinging brings and hound would love it if someone else made me cum like he does, but its him that pushes me over the edge, not the other person if that makes sense....

Either way I count myself very lucky "

You’re a very lucky couple indeed!!

Do you fancy collaborating on Scarlet’s book with me?

You can have your own chapter

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"In my 20's to early 30's it was about 30% that made me cum

In my mid 30's and early 40's ... only I made me cum .... and I had a long sexual drought.

Since divorcing 5 years ago about 70% of people I have slept with ... including those from fab.

Frankly some just don't care or try .... amd some don't listen and ignore gentle suggestions.

By not listening I guess when you tell them higher, lower or stop trying to spell letters they don’t listen or if you move into the right position they move into the wrong position again? "

I've been clear with some before meeting I don't like being fisted or finger blasted whilst they try to make me squirt because I do not squirt ... but yet some still try.

The subtle move doesn't always work. Sometimes it's the ... moving the hand ... or ask them to go slower etc ... but some just don't care.

The very worse of course don't even try

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By *ittlebirdWoman
22 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"But not impossible?

Nothing’s impossible, my miniature avian chum."

Thank you my favourite man-tart

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"

I've been clear with some before meeting I don't like being fisted or finger blasted whilst they try to make me squirt because I do not squirt ... but yet some still try.

The subtle move doesn't always work. Sometimes it's the ... moving the hand ... or ask them to go slower etc ... but some just don't care.

The very worse of course don't even try "

I just don’t get it.

My favourites are the people who start off with “I make everyone cum”. A 100% success self proclaimed success rate, reads to me as a lazy fucker who thinks they know what every singable person needs. The type that are one trick ponies, and do everything exactly the opposite of what you’ve clearly expressed suits you.

Those are the types I don’t bother wasting my time dreaming of being naked with. Ever.

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By *nnCeeWoman
22 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"I think "hard work" is probably the wrong phrase to use when referring to a woman who finds it difficult to orgasm "

Meh, no, I'm just hard work.

In more ways than one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"

I've been clear with some before meeting I don't like being fisted or finger blasted whilst they try to make me squirt because I do not squirt ... but yet some still try.

The subtle move doesn't always work. Sometimes it's the ... moving the hand ... or ask them to go slower etc ... but some just don't care.

The very worse of course don't even try

I just don’t get it.

My favourites are the people who start off with “I make everyone cum”. A 100% success self proclaimed success rate, reads to me as a lazy fucker who thinks they know what every singable person needs. The type that are one trick ponies, and do everything exactly the opposite of what you’ve clearly expressed suits you.

Those are the types I don’t bother wasting my time dreaming of being naked with. Ever.

"

Very true I've stopped meeting those type too

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
22 weeks ago

North West


"

I've been clear with some before meeting I don't like being fisted or finger blasted whilst they try to make me squirt because I do not squirt ... but yet some still try.

The subtle move doesn't always work. Sometimes it's the ... moving the hand ... or ask them to go slower etc ... but some just don't care.

The very worse of course don't even try

I just don’t get it.

My favourites are the people who start off with “I make everyone cum”. A 100% success self proclaimed success rate, reads to me as a lazy fucker who thinks they know what every singable person needs. The type that are one trick ponies, and do everything exactly the opposite of what you’ve clearly expressed suits you.

Those are the types I don’t bother wasting my time dreaming of being naked with. Ever.

"

My favourites are the ones who listen when you say it's hard for you to cum. Then they just go with the flow and bam! You cum. I really like those ones

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By *exycarlashane181Couple
22 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

Previously I've been left high and dry... However now with my current partner he always makes sure I cum first

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By *CLM87Woman
22 weeks ago

Derbyshire

I always cum first, usually cum a fair few times before the guy does tbf

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By *iberius61Man
22 weeks ago

Pontefract


"...How often does the man make sure you cum first?

Are guys like that mythical?"

I would take a guess that the guys on FAB are in general more sexually liberated than the great unwashed. They are aware of female sexual pleasure as a concept, and probably do make an attempt to ensure that their lady partners enjoy the encounter and want to come back for more.

Most, and most of the time. Of course there will always be exceptions.

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By *ellinever70Woman
22 weeks ago

Ayrshire


"...How often does the man make sure you cum first?

Are guys like that mythical?

I would take a guess that the guys on FAB are in general more sexually liberated than the great unwashed. They are aware of female sexual pleasure as a concept, and probably do make an attempt to ensure that their lady partners enjoy the encounter and want to come back for more.

Most, and most of the time. Of course there will always be exceptions. "

Yeah, I don’t think guys on fab are that much different than guys in the real world

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By *rand Central CoupleCouple
22 weeks ago

Glasgow

i don’t necessarily want to cum with guys on fab. it varies

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"In my 20's to early 30's it was about 30% that made me cum

In my mid 30's and early 40's ... only I made me cum .... and I had a long sexual drought.

Since divorcing 5 years ago about 70% of people I have slept with ... including those from fab.

Frankly some just don't care or try .... amd some don't listen and ignore gentle suggestions.

By not listening I guess when you tell them higher, lower or stop trying to spell letters they don’t listen or if you move into the right position they move into the wrong position again?

I've been clear with some before meeting I don't like being fisted or finger blasted whilst they try to make me squirt because I do not squirt ... but yet some still try.

The subtle move doesn't always work. Sometimes it's the ... moving the hand ... or ask them to go slower etc ... but some just don't care.

The very worse of course don't even try "

That sounds familiar but it’s not so much teeth, use the tongue a little, you can use your hand as well or not so hard I want it one piece when you’re done!!

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"

I've been clear with some before meeting I don't like being fisted or finger blasted whilst they try to make me squirt because I do not squirt ... but yet some still try.

The subtle move doesn't always work. Sometimes it's the ... moving the hand ... or ask them to go slower etc ... but some just don't care.

The very worse of course don't even try

I just don’t get it.

My favourites are the people who start off with “I make everyone cum”. A 100% success self proclaimed success rate, reads to me as a lazy fucker who thinks they know what every singable person needs. The type that are one trick ponies, and do everything exactly the opposite of what you’ve clearly expressed suits you.

Those are the types I don’t bother wasting my time dreaming of being naked with. Ever.

"

At least you can spot the red flags before you even dream of get naked with them!!

Good pointers to spot a waste of time before you waste it

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"

I've been clear with some before meeting I don't like being fisted or finger blasted whilst they try to make me squirt because I do not squirt ... but yet some still try.

The subtle move doesn't always work. Sometimes it's the ... moving the hand ... or ask them to go slower etc ... but some just don't care.

The very worse of course don't even try

I just don’t get it.

My favourites are the people who start off with “I make everyone cum”. A 100% success self proclaimed success rate, reads to me as a lazy fucker who thinks they know what every singable person needs. The type that are one trick ponies, and do everything exactly the opposite of what you’ve clearly expressed suits you.

Those are the types I don’t bother wasting my time dreaming of being naked with. Ever.

My favourites are the ones who listen when you say it's hard for you to cum. Then they just go with the flow and bam! You cum. I really like those ones "

Go with the flow seems to be a running theme,

Maybe a thread to highlight this point is needed but the ones who need to read it never grace the forum!!

Lucky for you have found some that pay attention

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Previously I've been left high and dry... However now with my current partner he always makes sure I cum first "

I am liking these success stories and it seems that a lot get together. Fab love stories do happen from time to time.

My faith is slowly being restored

I am becoming an optimist?

Nah way to cynical for that

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By *viatrixWoman
22 weeks ago

Redhill


"My last FWB would go on for hours and he made me cum so many times I lost count. Seriously. No point in exaggerating or lying. I would come home with jelly legs and a postcoital high that lasted weeks.

Fuck, I’m never going to get that again. He was also my physical ideal.

*cries in Telenovela Spanish*

I am so sorry for your loss and i would be grieving too.

I will hold a vigil in your honour and pray you find someone like him again!!

I think we should all spare a moment and pray Ms A recovers from this devastating blow and finds a worthy successor

This is ironically very on mark for a Spanish speaking telenovela.

I’m all about Jane the Virgin drama but with Sofia Vergara Modern Family Sass"

*lights candles and looks at the effigy of St. Anthony turned upside down*

May I find such a delight again!

*dramatic telenovela music*

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"...How often does the man make sure you cum first?

Are guys like that mythical?

I would take a guess that the guys on FAB are in general more sexually liberated than the great unwashed. They are aware of female sexual pleasure as a concept, and probably do make an attempt to ensure that their lady partners enjoy the encounter and want to come back for more.

Most, and most of the time. Of course there will always be exceptions. "

From what i have heard it’s like anywhere else it’s a mixed bag and the same goes for women.

Just because they’re on Fab doesn’t necessarily mean they’re great in bed.

It would be nice if everyone was but that’s not how the World works.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
22 weeks ago

Reading

Many do but I often wish they wouldn't.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"My last FWB would go on for hours and he made me cum so many times I lost count. Seriously. No point in exaggerating or lying. I would come home with jelly legs and a postcoital high that lasted weeks.

Fuck, I’m never going to get that again. He was also my physical ideal.

*cries in Telenovela Spanish*

I am so sorry for your loss and i would be grieving too.

I will hold a vigil in your honour and pray you find someone like him again!!

I think we should all spare a moment and pray Ms A recovers from this devastating blow and finds a worthy successor

This is ironically very on mark for a Spanish speaking telenovela.

I’m all about Jane the Virgin drama but with Sofia Vergara Modern Family Sass

*lights candles and looks at the effigy of St. Anthony turned upside down*

May I find such a delight again!

*dramatic telenovela music* "

You paint a melancholy picture Aviatrix

Let’s hope it’s a happy ending to the telenovela rather than a Greek Tragedy

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
22 weeks ago

Plymouth, South west


"My man can make me cum before him every time, it doesn't necessarily mean he does... sometimes it's amazing to be ravaged hard and fast and feel him cumming leaving me wanting more... if he's teasing me and keeping me on the edge he might wait until we cum together... but mostly I cum first.

With meets, it's very very rare for me to cum and if I do it's usually hound joining in that does it

X

It seems you have that winning formula, I bet a lot communication and reading each other’s moods has made for what sounds like a match made in heaven.

I would of thought on a meet it would add something extra and take you over the edge or does it also you like hound to finish the job?

We have great communication and as you say, all about the mood.

I love the extra excitement swinging brings and hound would love it if someone else made me cum like he does, but its him that pushes me over the edge, not the other person if that makes sense....

Either way I count myself very lucky

You’re a very lucky couple indeed!!

Do you fancy collaborating on Scarlet’s book with me?

You can have your own chapter "

I love a collaboration I'm not sure who scarlet is or why she's got a book but it sounds an excellent read... can you elaborate?

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"My man can make me cum before him every time, it doesn't necessarily mean he does... sometimes it's amazing to be ravaged hard and fast and feel him cumming leaving me wanting more... if he's teasing me and keeping me on the edge he might wait until we cum together... but mostly I cum first.

With meets, it's very very rare for me to cum and if I do it's usually hound joining in that does it

X

It seems you have that winning formula, I bet a lot communication and reading each other’s moods has made for what sounds like a match made in heaven.

I would of thought on a meet it would add something extra and take you over the edge or does it also you like hound to finish the job?

We have great communication and as you say, all about the mood.

I love the extra excitement swinging brings and hound would love it if someone else made me cum like he does, but its him that pushes me over the edge, not the other person if that makes sense....

Either way I count myself very lucky

You’re a very lucky couple indeed!!

Do you fancy collaborating on Scarlet’s book with me?

You can have your own chapter

I love a collaboration I'm not sure who scarlet is or why she's got a book but it sounds an excellent read... can you elaborate? "

Scarlett Seduction she gets what it’s all about .

Going with the flow and mutual satisfaction.

Scroll up for further details.

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By *ubadubdubWoman
22 weeks ago

Hereabouts


"After reading an interesting thread by _electableicecream I was inspired.

Go check out his Who Cums First thread it’s an excellent debate.

I am asking for volunteers for a poll, you have to be a woman to vote although all input is welcome.

How often does the man make sure you cum first?

Are guys like that mythical?

Share your thoughts for all the world to see and settle this debate once and for all…probably be another thread next week "

Most guys I've been with have shown desire to hold back for my pleasure BUT I don't want them to! I absolutely love when guys orgasm, I want them to not hold back, let loose all over me! I'll pleasure myself on you after

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"After reading an interesting thread by _electableicecream I was inspired.

Go check out his Who Cums First thread it’s an excellent debate.

I am asking for volunteers for a poll, you have to be a woman to vote although all input is welcome.

How often does the man make sure you cum first?

Are guys like that mythical?

Share your thoughts for all the world to see and settle this debate once and for all…probably be another thread next week

Most guys I've been with have shown desire to hold back for my pleasure BUT I don't want them to! I absolutely love when guys orgasm, I want them to not hold back, let loose all over me! I'll pleasure myself on you after "

With that resume your inbox should be filled with offers….only another 300+ to sort through

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By *eally_RosieWoman
22 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I don’t think I’ve ever had a guy cum before me. I am incredibly orgasmic… often having well into double figures or even hundreds when I have sex. I can orgasm from a good kiss, or even a touch, so it happens pretty much immediately.

That being said there’s no bigger compliment than a guy coming quickly with me. I love it, especiallyif they stick around to go again xx

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By *77incuncutMan
22 weeks ago

Doncaster

I always stick around and go again sometimes again ??

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"…..

How often does the man make sure you cum first?

Are guys like that mythical?

…."

What should I have to ‘make her’ … she can help out.

But seriously, if she relaxes, and she’s into it and into them and gets involved she’s more likely to enjoy the experience and have an orgasm much more easily.

If she’s just lying there waiting for him to do some kind of trick…. She could be waiting a while.

It goes both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"I always stick around and go again sometimes again ?? "

This is what my nightmares are made of

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

9/10 times I always do my best to make the lady come first that one time slide be if she’s being stubborn and can’t come lol It’s far easier for men to cum and unfair in the lady to not be pleasured and feel satisfied or feel the ‘release’.

Unless it’s just blow job and she just wants to give then fair play but if we’re having sex too then it’s important to ensure mutual satisfaction

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

I don’t remember it happening any other way.

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By *illie fitMan
22 weeks ago

Bournemouth

I have a medical condition where I take a lot of medication each day, resulting in not being able to orgasm myself

So I’m quite happy to say I definitely make a woman cum before I do

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago

On my own i cum very easily and fast, but in company i can find it too distracting and overwhelming and overstimulating

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"I don’t think I’ve ever had a guy cum before me. I am incredibly orgasmic… often having well into double figures or even hundreds when I have sex. I can orgasm from a good kiss, or even a touch, so it happens pretty much immediately.

That being said there’s no bigger compliment than a guy coming quickly with me. I love it, especiallyif they stick around to go again xx"

Must make you one happy Lady, I hope you avoid those massage chairs in shopping centres

Do you keep it quiet and let the guys think they are a sexual God?

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By *esthetic21Man
22 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

I like to make sure the lady has reached orgasm before I do. I usually don't cum at all which can be a problem sometimes

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"…..

How often does the man make sure you cum first?

Are guys like that mythical?

….

What should I have to ‘make her’ … she can help out.

But seriously, if she relaxes, and she’s into it and into them and gets involved she’s more likely to enjoy the experience and have an orgasm much more easily.

If she’s just lying there waiting for him to do some kind of trick…. She could be waiting a while.

It goes both ways. "

Now here is the voice of experience I suspect Woody is more a man of action than words

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"I have a medical condition where I take a lot of medication each day, resulting in not being able to orgasm myself

So I’m quite happy to say I definitely make a woman cum before I do "

The last part sounds good but the first part not so good.

I can only hope you find a way for your orgasms to return.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"I always stick around and go again sometimes again ??

This is what my nightmares are made of "

Never happy Coyote, what would make you happy?

So far only WWIII has had you speak with any joy

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"On my own i cum very easily and fast, but in company i can find it too distracting and overwhelming and overstimulating "

I have a few tips for that problem… my courses start at the reasonable price of £19.99 a month.

Satisfaction guaranteed

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"On my own i cum very easily and fast, but in company i can find it too distracting and overwhelming and overstimulating

I have a few tips for that problem… my courses start at the reasonable price of £19.99 a month.

Satisfaction guaranteed "

.. Money back guarantee??

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By *uckslut and MCouple
22 weeks ago

Poole


"In the swinging world with other men, next to none, make me cum first. Thinking about it, very little of my body count make me cum during a meet.

I am sorry to hear that and can only hope there was some pleasure to be had!!"

I'm a numbers girl. I'd rather have 20, 30 or more guys in a setting. It's all about high numbers for me.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"On my own i cum very easily and fast, but in company i can find it too distracting and overwhelming and overstimulating

I have a few tips for that problem… my courses start at the reasonable price of £19.99 a month.

Satisfaction guaranteed

.. Money back guarantee??

"

Subject to T&C, nobody ever reads them

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"On my own i cum very easily and fast, but in company i can find it too distracting and overwhelming and overstimulating

I have a few tips for that problem… my courses start at the reasonable price of £19.99 a month.

Satisfaction guaranteed

.. Money back guarantee??

Subject to T&C, nobody ever reads them "

I look forward to inspecting your finer details

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
22 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"On my own i cum very easily and fast, but in company i can find it too distracting and overwhelming and overstimulating

I have a few tips for that problem… my courses start at the reasonable price of £19.99 a month.

Satisfaction guaranteed

.. Money back guarantee??

Subject to T&C, nobody ever reads them

I look forward to inspecting your finer details "

Are you flirting with me Ms Midnight?

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By (user no longer on site)
22 weeks ago


"On my own i cum very easily and fast, but in company i can find it too distracting and overwhelming and overstimulating

I have a few tips for that problem… my courses start at the reasonable price of £19.99 a month.

Satisfaction guaranteed

.. Money back guarantee??

Subject to T&C, nobody ever reads them

I look forward to inspecting your finer details

Are you flirting with me Ms Midnight? "

Ohhhh how will you find out

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By *herry delightWoman
22 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"…..

How often does the man make sure you cum first?

Are guys like that mythical?

….

What should I have to ‘make her’ … she can help out.

But seriously, if she relaxes, and she’s into it and into them and gets involved she’s more likely to enjoy the experience and have an orgasm much more easily.

If she’s just lying there waiting for him to do some kind of trick…. She could be waiting a while.

It goes both ways. "

It does work both ways, you only get out what you put in, if both people don't gets involved then it's unlikely that the woman will cum.

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By *injaprincessWoman
22 weeks ago

herehere

Well…. Previously it was dull and boring ……

Now I’m more all about me! lol

So there are many times where I’ve gasm’d all night and he hasn’t

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By *cLovin2Man
22 weeks ago

Reading


"Well…. Previously it was dull and boring ……

Now I’m more all about me! lol

So there are many times where I’ve gasm’d all night and he hasn’t

"

I hope you lit him a cigarette to make up for it

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By *injaprincessWoman
22 weeks ago

herehere


"Well…. Previously it was dull and boring ……

Now I’m more all about me! lol

So there are many times where I’ve gasm’d all night and he hasn’t

I hope you lit him a cigarette to make up for it "

Of course I always roll a big bifta each and get him a drink …. His words were he enjoys it more every time I gush ….

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"On my own i cum very easily and fast, but in company i can find it too distracting and overwhelming and overstimulating

I have a few tips for that problem… my courses start at the reasonable price of £19.99 a month.

Satisfaction guaranteed

.. Money back guarantee??

Subject to T&C, nobody ever reads them

I look forward to inspecting your finer details

Are you flirting with me Ms Midnight?

Ohhhh how will you find out "

I I think I have my answer already

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"Well…. Previously it was dull and boring ……

Now I’m more all about me! lol

So there are many times where I’ve gasm’d all night and he hasn’t

I hope you lit him a cigarette to make up for it

Of course I always roll a big bifta each and get him a drink …. His words were he enjoys it more every time I gush …. "

Some guys love the pent up frustration!!

You could roll me a Bob Marley sized one and I would still be pissed off

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By *cLovin2Man
21 weeks ago

Reading


"Well…. Previously it was dull and boring ……

Now I’m more all about me! lol

So there are many times where I’ve gasm’d all night and he hasn’t

I hope you lit him a cigarette to make up for it

Of course I always roll a big bifta each and get him a drink …. His words were he enjoys it more every time I gush …. "

I hope you are taking lessons in ho to give good head to make up for his lack of orgasm

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By *imi_RougeWoman
21 weeks ago

Portsmouth

It's never happened, but I don't cum easily.

If it did happen, that would probably be it for me, done and dusted lol so it's best they don't.

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By *wiss Army Knife OP   Man
21 weeks ago

Second star to the right…


"It's never happened, but I don't cum easily.

If it did happen, that would probably be it for me, done and dusted lol so it's best they don't."

You should copy and paste this for potential meets, i expect to hear this from woman talking about a guy!!

First time for everything

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By *uriousscouserWoman
21 weeks ago

Wirral

I'm blessed in how easily I orgasm. I'm not sure it would be possible for a man to beat me to the finish line. Even when they've been attempting orgasm denial, I've still orgasmed long before they were ready.

Thankfully I can keep going so he (usually) gets to finish too.

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