FabSwingers.com forum: Who cums first

By *electableicecream OP Man
23 weeks ago

The West

I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority.

Why?

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By *r John WickMan
23 weeks ago

The Continental

It’s an outdated train of thought.

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By *iddlesticksMan
23 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority.

Why?"

Is it because her pleasure is the priority.

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By *r John WickMan
23 weeks ago

The Continental

They see it as some sort of selling point to attain the access to the poon.

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By *algraMan
23 weeks ago

Colchester

A lady can cum several times.. where as I can usually manage ony 2 times in a session suits allways good to let a lady cum first

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By *electableicecream OP Man
23 weeks ago

The West

"A lady can cum several times.. where as I can usually manage ony 2 times in a session suits allways good to let a lady cum first"

Can all women really cum several times?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
23 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

"A lady can cum several times.. where as I can usually manage ony 2 times in a session suits allways good to let a lady cum first

Can all women really cum several times?"

I have done, but it rarely happens

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By *eroLondonMan
23 weeks ago

Covent Garden

Because my young Sirrah, it is the height of chivalry and devilish gentlemanship when it comes/cums to the prioritisation of the opposite sex...in the bedchamber.

In the game of love and conquest coming last is every lothario's desire.

We love to please and we are pleased to love.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

If I cum first I am asleep in 30 seconds so has to be lady's first

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
23 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

Because it’s quicker to fake an orgasm than wait until Kingdom cum for one…..lulls guys into a false sense of superiority

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By *otmyrealname99Man
23 weeks ago

Manchester

The winner?

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By *heonixrising500Man
23 weeks ago

Barnsley

Because seeing and hearing the woman cum is a massive turn on

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By *WB85Man
23 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Always the lady comes first.

Once I've come once or twice.....all that has my attention is snacks and sleep.

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By *ansoffateMan
23 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Because my young Sirrah, it is the height of chivalry and devilish gentlemanship when it comes/cums to the prioritisation of the opposite sex...in the bedchamber.

In the game of love and conquest coming last is every lothario's desire.

We love to please and we are pleased to love. "

I prefer a grand finale with Ride of the Valkyries at full volume.

There's nothing like the smell of victory first thing in the morning.

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By *eroLondonMan
23 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"Because my young Sirrah, it is the height of chivalry and devilish gentlemanship when it comes/cums to the prioritisation of the opposite sex...in the bedchamber.

In the game of love and conquest coming last is every lothario's desire.

We love to please and we are pleased to love.

I prefer a grand finale with Ride of the Valkyries at full volume.

There's nothing like the smell of victory first thing in the morning."

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How could I forget the 'Valkyries? Thank you my dear friend. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority.

Why?"

Because they expect them to stand more of a chance with the women if they sounded selfish?? Maybe…..

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By *iddlesticksMan
23 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Because my young Sirrah, it is the height of chivalry and devilish gentlemanship when it comes/cums to the prioritisation of the opposite sex...in the bedchamber.

In the game of love and conquest coming last is every lothario's desire.

We love to please and we are pleased to love.

I prefer a grand finale with Ride of the Valkyries at full volume.

There's nothing like the smell of victory first thing in the morning.

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How could I forget the 'Valkyries? Thank you my dear friend. xx"

The Valkyrie would insist on cumming first, after all they’ve got a ride to be getting on with.

I goddamn love the smell of napalm in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

The egg. The egg always cums before the chicken. Or is it backwards?

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By *allandathleticMan
23 weeks ago

Asgard

That depends on how selfish I'm feeling

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By *illy IdolMan
23 weeks ago

Midlands

I don't mind holding the door for anyone, but I usually cum first

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By *educing_EmCouple
23 weeks ago

Tipperary

It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well.

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23 weeks ago

"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well."

They normally fall asleep during.

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
23 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

"The egg. The egg always cums before the chicken. Or is it backwards?

We need a poll from the women to decide this one!!

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By *educing_EmCouple
23 weeks ago

Tipperary

"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well.

They normally fall asleep during. "

Keep a cattle prod beside the bed

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
23 weeks ago

Leeds

It puts me off, many women struggle to orgasm it's fact, so does that mean they'll just keep going until the end of time? Sometimes it's nice to finish second and bask in the afternoon cum tiredness without having to carry on performing.

You guys cum and it's done, we cum and you want more and more, it can be nice to lay back and relax after a good orgasm.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well.

They normally fall asleep during.

Keep a cattle prod beside the bed"

That’s what I poke them in the back with. They think it’s my cock

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By *heonixrising500Man
23 weeks ago

Barnsley

My lady had enough after cum 4 times

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By *ansoffateMan
23 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well.

They normally fall asleep during.

Keep a cattle prod beside the bed"

Ooh that's new I haven't tried that is it good?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
23 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Keep a cattle prod beside the bed"

The fun thing here, Em, is that I’m not entirely sure you’re joking.

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By *ansoffateMan
23 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"Because my young Sirrah, it is the height of chivalry and devilish gentlemanship when it comes/cums to the prioritisation of the opposite sex...in the bedchamber.

In the game of love and conquest coming last is every lothario's desire.

We love to please and we are pleased to love.

I prefer a grand finale with Ride of the Valkyries at full volume.

There's nothing like the smell of victory first thing in the morning.

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How could I forget the 'Valkyries? Thank you my dear friend. xx

The Valkyrie would insist on cumming first, after all they’ve got a ride to be getting on with.

I goddamn love the smell of napalm in the morning. "

It's so true and it's important to grease that pole no one needs friction burns.

Kudos for getting the reference!

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By *electableicecream OP Man
23 weeks ago

The West

I once had a partner that would peak in a climax and just stay there. We never found an end to it. I could just wear myself out. I was a bit younger (alot younger) and I have to say I felt a bit unmanned that I couldn't get her over the edge.

So maybe it's not all bravado? Is it possible there's something there in notions of masculinity and achievement.

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By *etropolitainMan
23 weeks ago

Redworth Co Durham

I’d always make the lass cum first

Always

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By *ellhungvweMan
23 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I like it when she cums first (and repeatedly) because I love the way a lady tightens as she has an orgasm. I find that a real turn on and several of those is much better than me cumming and then having to wait a while to recharge.

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By *anted by NightMan
23 weeks ago

Shangri-La

I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority.

Why?"

I don’t come so ladies first

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By *educing_EmCouple
23 weeks ago

Tipperary

"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well.

They normally fall asleep during.

Keep a cattle prod beside the bed

That’s what I poke them in the back with. They think it’s my cock

Because your sex is electric?

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By *educing_EmCouple
23 weeks ago

Tipperary

"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well.

They normally fall asleep during.

Keep a cattle prod beside the bed

Ooh that's new I haven't tried that is it good? "

Try it and see

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By *educing_EmCouple
23 weeks ago

Tipperary

"Keep a cattle prod beside the bed

The fun thing here, Em, is that I’m not entirely sure you’re joking.

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By *electableicecream OP Man
23 weeks ago

The West

"I like it when she cums first (and repeatedly) because I love the way a lady tightens as she has an orgasm. I find that a real turn on and several of those is much better than me cumming and then having to wait a while to recharge."

Is there nothing else to do in the dwell time?

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By *weetiepie99Woman
23 weeks ago

cardiff

The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there...

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By *allandathleticMan
23 weeks ago

Asgard

"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there..."

^ this.

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By *allandathleticMan
23 weeks ago

Asgard

Just to add. Sex for me isn't a destination its a journey. If your only ever focused on the destination you miss the beauty along the way.

*that's got to end up in my bio some day

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there..."

Sometimes, I feel this pressure for me to orgasm first makes it counterintuitive to orgasm full stop. Which can take the fun out of sex itself.

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By *etcouple22Couple
23 weeks ago

Salisbury

Because if she enjoys it we get invited back

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By *ellhungvweMan
23 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Is there nothing else to do in the dwell time?"

Why put in unneeded dwell time if it is not the thing that really turns me on?

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By *amhorniestMan
23 weeks ago

Surrey

How about both at the same time?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Once I cum I just want to relax, think it's an evolutionary thing, I always please the woman first, then get my way with her after wards, then we can relax together and cuddle

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By *rHotNottsMan
23 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Women have multiple orgasms often in quick succession , I have 1-3 the whole night so I’m hanging on to it as long as possible

I cannot remember the last time I came first.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Women have multiple orgasms often in quick succession , I have 1-3 the whole night so I’m hanging on to it as long as possible

I cannot remember the last time I came first."

Some women*

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By *ony MannMan
23 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

I enjoy the moment a woman comes, yes I do like her to cum before me....unless once is enough for her...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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23 weeks ago

East Sussex

Because they think it's the right thing to say.

Women are individuals as are men. Mutual pleasure is the aim however that looks.

Anyone who is hell bent on making me cum first will be disappointed. If a guy insists that's what he wants surely that's for his pleasure not mine

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

"Once I cum I just want to relax, think it's an evolutionary thing, I always please the woman first, then get my way with her after wards, then we can relax together and cuddle "

We like to relax after cumming too.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

"How about both at the same time?"

Even better!

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By *eroLondonMan
23 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"Women have multiple orgasms often in quick succession , I have 1-3 the whole night so I’m hanging on to it as long as possible

I cannot remember the last time I came first."

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...I shall remind you: it was last year, during that Charity Wankathon.

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By *hunky GentMan
23 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Me first, sorry.

But round 2 will be along shortly.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
23 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

If it's my day to be spoiled hubby always makes sure I cum over and over. Before I tell him to throw me over and fuck me hard till his cums XX

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By *rHotNottsMan
23 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Women have multiple orgasms often in quick succession , I have 1-3 the whole night so I’m hanging on to it as long as possible

I cannot remember the last time I came first.

Some women* "

What I mean is the biology is clearly different. It’s very very for a guy to just carry on having sex after has climaxed and have more orgasms.

Sure there are women don’t do this, just like there are women who never or very rarely orgasm through sex & guys who find it very difficult to reach orgasm through oral or penetration even, but they are exceptions. On the whole women have several orgasms in one session, and guys have only one.

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By * and R cple4Couple
23 weeks ago

swansea

It's a very outdated view, and some women probably fake a orgasm just to make the man feel better as for some reason some men see it as a failure if they fail to make her cum.

It's somehow by some men seen as a badge of honour and the more times he can make her cum the bigger the badge.

I've had the most incredible sex without Cumming and it's never made me feel like the last hour or 2 was a complete waste of my time.

All women are different,

Some women can only cum once as they just get to sensitive while overs can cum multiple times some women need cliforis stimulation others don't.

I enjoy myself just as much watching the man cum he don't have to think he's less than because I don't cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

They think by saying that it’s going to guarantee them unlimited access to all the vag!

Given that a lot of women (myself included) struggle to cum the first time and even more so when there’s pressure added, the statement is pretty useless.

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By *allandathleticMan
23 weeks ago

Asgard

"They think by saying that it’s going to guarantee them unlimited access to all the vag!

Given that a lot of women (myself included) struggle to cum the first time and even more so when there’s pressure added, the statement is pretty useless. "

YEY!!! YOUR BACK!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"They think by saying that it’s going to guarantee them unlimited access to all the vag!

Given that a lot of women (myself included) struggle to cum the first time and even more so when there’s pressure added, the statement is pretty useless.

YEY!!! YOUR BACK!!!"

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By *aitonelMan
23 weeks ago

Travelling

"They think by saying that it’s going to guarantee them unlimited access to all the vag!

Given that a lot of women (myself included) struggle to cum the first time and even more so when there’s pressure added, the statement is pretty useless.

YEY!!! YOUR BACK!!!"

For now!

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"They think by saying that it’s going to guarantee them unlimited access to all the vag!

Given that a lot of women (myself included) struggle to cum the first time and even more so when there’s pressure added, the statement is pretty useless.

YEY!!! YOUR BACK!!!

For now! "

Hey

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By *addy bareMan
23 weeks ago

lakeside

I try and hold off so we cum together.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
23 weeks ago

Hereabouts

They say it, but it's rare. I practically always have to get myself off later..

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By *ansoffateMan
23 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well.

They normally fall asleep during.

Keep a cattle prod beside the bed

Ooh that's new I haven't tried that is it good?

Try it and see

Dearest Em, if you were any more stimulating I fear the question of who came first could be blown clear out of the window.

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By *he love catsCouple
23 weeks ago

South Wales

I will just edge until she wants me to cum, I am able to wait for as long as she likes. Sometimes she will ask me to cum at the same time as her so we finish together.

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By *razyjohnMan
23 weeks ago

derby

My ex love me to cum first, then carry on fucking which give her intense orgasm knowing my cum is inside her.

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
23 weeks ago

St Neots

If I could cum first... I probably would every so often. I take fucking ages sometimes though and sometimes not at all so she always has cum first 99% of the time

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By *arkSovereignMan
23 weeks ago

Lancashire

I always prefer her to cum first so plenty of tongue and finger action from me. Seeing her cum makes me cum even harder!

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By *heelerMan
23 weeks ago

Northants

The milkman

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Sod that!

I’m very competitive, I always wanna win! Nobody remembers who comes second

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By *lueLotusWoman
23 weeks ago

the wilderness

"I once had a partner that would peak in a climax and just stay there. We never found an end to it. I could just wear myself out. I was a bit younger (alot younger) and I have to say I felt a bit unmanned that I couldn't get her over the edge.

So maybe it's not all bravado? Is it possible there's something there in notions of masculinity and achievement."

This reminds me of a Margaret cho sketch about lesbians having to call it.

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By *till gameMan
23 weeks ago

two doors down

"The milkman"

Well he is the fastest milkman in the west

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By *eliWoman
23 weeks ago

I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority.

Why?"

Because it sounds nice doesn't it? Makes a woman think he won't shoot and leave, or that's what they think.

It's ridiculously easy for me to come many, many times so I don't think it's that reassuring really. Nor impressive if someone can make me come a few times before they decide that's their cue to come - you've not suddenly unlocked some hidden orgasms in me, I've been doing that for many years.

There's far too much emphasis on orgasms, on saying the right thing. Don't be a dick before, during or after. That's all I want.

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By *anted by NightMan
23 weeks ago

Shangri-La

I think first orgasm should be count as a warm up. After that it’s time for the real work out.so ladies first

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By *essTTWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

They think it's what women want to hear. It's up there with the men who think telling a woman they will make them squirt is enticing.

When in reality not all women can orgasm and not all women can squirt, so when men write things like that it can make some women feel intimidated as they think they are expected to have multiple orgasms while squirting like a garden hose

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By *electableicecream OP Man
23 weeks ago

The West

I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority.

Why?

Because it sounds nice doesn't it? Makes a woman think he won't shoot and leave, or that's what they think.

It always reads as a little obsequious to me.

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By *hrops56Man
23 weeks ago

Telford

I always want the woman to cum first ,it's the best part of the sexual act (apart from orgasm obviously).Knowing that you've given her the ultimate pleasure is a massive turn on .

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By *og-ManMan
23 weeks ago

somewhere

For me my partner is very orgasmic and so orgasms a few times well before any penetrative sex anyway

Me... fall asleep within mins of my first orgasm but wake up refreshed and ready to go again anyway so its better I cum second

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By *lueLotusWoman
23 weeks ago

the wilderness

I'm multi orgasmic but for me it's like loads of little earthquakes sometimes I don't even bother mentioning it as I'm just enjoying the feels but if a guy is making it his goal to make me cum that's pressure I don't want and can be off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"A lady can cum several times.. where as I can usually manage ony 2 times in a session suits allways good to let a lady cum first

Can all women really cum several times?"

All depends on how good the man is as I know a huge amount of woman who never cum they fake it

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By *agnar73Man
23 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

Rather see a women have pleasure before me.

Also seen the comments on the cum and go lads and that’s not me either

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"If I could cum first... I probably would every so often. I take fucking ages sometimes though and sometimes not at all so she always has cum first 99% of the time

I feel you on this one mate I’m the same it annoys me like hell sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well.

They normally fall asleep during.

Keep a cattle prod beside the bed

That’s what I poke them in the back with. They think it’s my cock

Because your sex is electric?"

That’s better than I could have come up with.

*hi 5

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well.

They normally fall asleep during.

Keep a cattle prod beside the bed"

What? Only one?

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By *ee69Man
23 weeks ago

glasgow

Some of us guys get pure turned on with pleasing a women , everyone different tho

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By *educing_EmCouple
23 weeks ago

Tipperary

"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well.

They normally fall asleep during.

Keep a cattle prod beside the bed

Ooh that's new I haven't tried that is it good?

Try it and see

Dearest Em, if you were any more stimulating I fear the question of who came first could be blown clear out of the window.

I fear the reality of me is far less exciting

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By *educing_EmCouple
23 weeks ago

Tipperary

"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well.

They normally fall asleep during.

Keep a cattle prod beside the bed

That’s what I poke them in the back with. They think it’s my cock

Because your sex is electric?

That’s better than I could have come up with.

*hi 5"

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

"They think by saying that it’s going to guarantee them unlimited access to all the vag!

Given that a lot of women (myself included) struggle to cum the first time and even more so when there’s pressure added, the statement is pretty useless. "

Yey hello you! Good to see you back.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
23 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"It's ridiculously easy for me to come many, many times so I don't think it's that reassuring really. Nor impressive if someone can make me come a few times before they decide that's their cue to come - you've not suddenly unlocked some hidden orgasms in me, I've been doing that for many years."

Preach, Meli.

I’ve had partners who are orgasming by the time I’ve first touched their nipples. I’m not going to take that as a signal that it’s now my turn.

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By *mf123Man
23 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Tbh i can pop multiple times so not really an issue physically but i have a rule 3 orgasms before i put my dick in

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By *JcuriousCouple
23 weeks ago

Derby

Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first?

They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties

Miss S x

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By *allandathleticMan
23 weeks ago

Asgard

"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first?

They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties

Miss S x"

Does sex have to stop just because a dudes cum?

Sure, grab a glass of water. But it doesn't have to stop.

I've had some hotel meets that have gone on for hours. Not constant clearly. But there's been an element of sexual play involved.

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By *arkSovereignMan
23 weeks ago

Lancashire

"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first?

They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties

Miss S x"

Reason number 2

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By *iss DevilWoman
23 weeks ago

Bedford

"A lady can cum several times.. where as I can usually manage ony 2 times in a session suits allways good to let a lady cum first

Can all women really cum several times?"

Not all, some can, some can't. I'm lucky, have been described in one of my veris from couple's profile as an "orgasm machine" lol.

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By *JcuriousCouple
23 weeks ago

Derby

"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first?

They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties

Miss S x

Does sex have to stop just because a dudes cum?

Sure, grab a glass of water. But it doesn't have to stop.

I've had some hotel meets that have gone on for hours. Not constant clearly. But there's been an element of sexual play involved."

I was close to mentioning multiple sessions but didn't.

I suppose not everyone can just have a glass of water and go again

Miss S x

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By *JcuriousCouple
23 weeks ago

Derby

"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first?

They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties

Miss S x

Reason number 2

Most likely yes

Miss S x

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By *naswingdressWoman
23 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a line that people think makes them more attractive.

It's unimaginative at best, a lie at worst.

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By *arkSovereignMan
23 weeks ago

Lancashire

"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first?

They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties

Miss S x

Does sex have to stop just because a dudes cum?

Sure, grab a glass of water. But it doesn't have to stop.

I've had some hotel meets that have gone on for hours. Not constant clearly. But there's been an element of sexual play involved."
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A glass of sparkling water no doubt!

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By *allandathleticMan
23 weeks ago

Asgard

"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first?

They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties

Miss S x

Does sex have to stop just because a dudes cum?

Sure, grab a glass of water. But it doesn't have to stop.

I've had some hotel meets that have gone on for hours. Not constant clearly. But there's been an element of sexual play involved..

A glass of sparkling water no doubt! "

You've ruined it for me forever.

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By *rispyDuckMan
23 weeks ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

It’s not a competition lol

Unless we fucking for a prize

then I’ll do my best to cum 1st. But that means putting her in some kinky positions that will probably make her cum 1st!

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By *arkSovereignMan
23 weeks ago

Lancashire

"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first?

They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties

Miss S x

Does sex have to stop just because a dudes cum?

Sure, grab a glass of water. But it doesn't have to stop.

I've had some hotel meets that have gone on for hours. Not constant clearly. But there's been an element of sexual play involved..

A glass of sparkling water no doubt!

You've ruined it for me forever."

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
23 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there..."

This. Alll the time this!!

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
23 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well.

They normally fall asleep during.

Keep a cattle prod beside the bed"

Now your talking, preparing my sleep mask and earplugs

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By *ansoffateMan
23 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman.

This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well.

They normally fall asleep during.

Keep a cattle prod beside the bed

Ooh that's new I haven't tried that is it good?

Try it and see

Dearest Em, if you were any more stimulating I fear the question of who came first could be blown clear out of the window.

I fear the reality of me is far less exciting

And I fear I'd fall for your charms...

Bailar esta bachata

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there..."

I didn't buy the cinema ticket to just watch the trailers.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
23 weeks ago

cardiff

"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there...

I didn't buy the cinema ticket to just watch the trailers."

Yea, I want to watch the whole film, not just see the ending

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
23 weeks ago

belfast

"Because my young Sirrah, it is the height of chivalry and devilish gentlemanship when it comes/cums to the prioritisation of the opposite sex...in the bedchamber.

In the game of love and conquest coming last is every lothario's desire.

We love to please and we are pleased to love. "

That's creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there...

I didn't buy the cinema ticket to just watch the trailers.

Yea, I want to watch the whole film, not just see the ending

The end is the good part

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By *ansoffateMan
23 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there...

I didn't buy the cinema ticket to just watch the trailers."

Sometimes the trailers are the best part though.

Dune 2 was disappointing. Avatar 2 - just no. Wish I'd waited for them to come free with Prime now, I could have stayed in my pyjamas.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
23 weeks ago

cardiff

"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there...

I didn't buy the cinema ticket to just watch the trailers.

Yea, I want to watch the whole film, not just see the ending

The end is the good part"

Not always. Sometimes a big anti climax.

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By *r99mr99Man
23 weeks ago

Ealing

I'm a pleasure Dom, she cums first because I enjoy it that way. It's kinda selfish really.

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By *coobyABCMan
23 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Coming second is just first loser!

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By *r99mr99Man
23 weeks ago

Ealing

"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there...

I didn't buy the cinema ticket to just watch the trailers.

Yea, I want to watch the whole film, not just see the ending

The end is the good part"

But it doesn't need to be the only good part though.

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By *unchalMan
23 weeks ago

Dartford

I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority.

Why?"

Women tend to require a lot more attention than men or something like that.

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By *ansoffateMan
23 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority.

Why?

Women tend to require a lot more attention than men or something like that.

good delivery.

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