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" I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority. Why?" Is it because her pleasure is the priority.  | |||
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"A lady can cum several times.. where as I can usually manage ony 2 times in a session suits allways good to let a lady cum first" Can all women really cum several times? | |||
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"A lady can cum several times.. where as I can usually manage ony 2 times in a session suits allways good to let a lady cum first Can all women really cum several times?" I have done, but it rarely happens | |||
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"Because my young Sirrah, it is the height of chivalry and devilish gentlemanship when it comes/cums to the prioritisation of the opposite sex...in the bedchamber. In the game of love and conquest coming last is every lothario's desire. We love to please and we are pleased to love. " I prefer a grand finale with Ride of the Valkyries at full volume. There's nothing like the smell of victory first thing in the morning. | |||
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"Because my young Sirrah, it is the height of chivalry and devilish gentlemanship when it comes/cums to the prioritisation of the opposite sex...in the bedchamber. In the game of love and conquest coming last is every lothario's desire. We love to please and we are pleased to love. · I prefer a grand finale with Ride of the Valkyries at full volume. There's nothing like the smell of victory first thing in the morning." • How could I forget the 'Valkyries? Thank you my dear friend. xx | |||
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" I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority. Why?" Because they expect them to stand more of a chance with the women if they sounded selfish?? Maybe…..  | |||
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"Because my young Sirrah, it is the height of chivalry and devilish gentlemanship when it comes/cums to the prioritisation of the opposite sex...in the bedchamber. In the game of love and conquest coming last is every lothario's desire. We love to please and we are pleased to love. · I prefer a grand finale with Ride of the Valkyries at full volume. There's nothing like the smell of victory first thing in the morning. • How could I forget the 'Valkyries? Thank you my dear friend. xx" The Valkyrie would insist on cumming first, after all they’ve got a ride to be getting on with. I goddamn love the smell of napalm in the morning. | |||
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"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman. This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well." They normally fall asleep during. | |||
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"The egg. The egg always cums before the chicken. Or is it backwards? "We need a poll from the women to decide this one!! | |||
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"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman. This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well. They normally fall asleep during. " Keep a cattle prod beside the bed | |||
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"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman. This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well. They normally fall asleep during. Keep a cattle prod beside the bed" That’s what I poke them in the back with. They think it’s my cock  | |||
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"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman. This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well. They normally fall asleep during. Keep a cattle prod beside the bed" Ooh that's new I haven't tried that is it good? | |||
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"Keep a cattle prod beside the bed" The fun thing here, Em, is that I’m not entirely sure you’re joking.  | |||
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"Because my young Sirrah, it is the height of chivalry and devilish gentlemanship when it comes/cums to the prioritisation of the opposite sex...in the bedchamber. In the game of love and conquest coming last is every lothario's desire. We love to please and we are pleased to love. · I prefer a grand finale with Ride of the Valkyries at full volume. There's nothing like the smell of victory first thing in the morning. • How could I forget the 'Valkyries? Thank you my dear friend. xx The Valkyrie would insist on cumming first, after all they’ve got a ride to be getting on with. I goddamn love the smell of napalm in the morning. " It's so true and it's important to grease that pole no one needs friction burns. Kudos for getting the reference!  | |||
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" I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority. Why?" I don’t come so ladies first | |||
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"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman. This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well. They normally fall asleep during. Keep a cattle prod beside the bed That’s what I poke them in the back with. They think it’s my cock "Because your sex is electric? | |||
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"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman. This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well. They normally fall asleep during. Keep a cattle prod beside the bed Ooh that's new I haven't tried that is it good? " Try it and see  | |||
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"Keep a cattle prod beside the bed The fun thing here, Em, is that I’m not entirely sure you’re joking. " | |||
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"I like it when she cums first (and repeatedly) because I love the way a lady tightens as she has an orgasm. I find that a real turn on and several of those is much better than me cumming and then having to wait a while to recharge." Is there nothing else to do in the dwell time? | |||
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"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there..." ^ this. | |||
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"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there..." Sometimes, I feel this pressure for me to orgasm first makes it counterintuitive to orgasm full stop. Which can take the fun out of sex itself. | |||
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"I like it when she cums first (and repeatedly) because I love the way a lady tightens as she has an orgasm. I find that a real turn on and several of those is much better than me cumming and then having to wait a while to recharge. Is there nothing else to do in the dwell time?" Why put in unneeded dwell time if it is not the thing that really turns me on? | |||
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I cannot remember the last time I came first. | |||
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"Women have multiple orgasms often in quick succession , I have 1-3 the whole night so I’m hanging on to it as long as possible
I cannot remember the last time I came first."Some women* | |||
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"Once I cum I just want to relax, think it's an evolutionary thing, I always please the woman first, then get my way with her after wards, then we can relax together and cuddle " We like to relax after cumming too. | |||
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"How about both at the same time?" Even better! | |||
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"Women have multiple orgasms often in quick succession , I have 1-3 the whole night so I’m hanging on to it as long as possible
I cannot remember the last time I came first."• ...I shall remind you: it was last year, during that Charity Wankathon. | |||
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"Women have multiple orgasms often in quick succession , I have 1-3 the whole night so I’m hanging on to it as long as possible
I cannot remember the last time I came first.
Some women* "What I mean is the biology is clearly different. It’s very very for a guy to just carry on having sex after has climaxed and have more orgasms. Sure there are women don’t do this, just like there are women who never or very rarely orgasm through sex & guys who find it very difficult to reach orgasm through oral or penetration even, but they are exceptions. On the whole women have several orgasms in one session, and guys have only one. | |||
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"They think by saying that it’s going to guarantee them unlimited access to all the vag! Given that a lot of women (myself included) struggle to cum the first time and even more so when there’s pressure added, the statement is pretty useless. " YEY!!! YOUR BACK!!! | |||
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"They think by saying that it’s going to guarantee them unlimited access to all the vag! Given that a lot of women (myself included) struggle to cum the first time and even more so when there’s pressure added, the statement is pretty useless. YEY!!! YOUR BACK!!!"  | |||
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"They think by saying that it’s going to guarantee them unlimited access to all the vag! Given that a lot of women (myself included) struggle to cum the first time and even more so when there’s pressure added, the statement is pretty useless. YEY!!! YOUR BACK!!!" For now! | |||
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"They think by saying that it’s going to guarantee them unlimited access to all the vag! Given that a lot of women (myself included) struggle to cum the first time and even more so when there’s pressure added, the statement is pretty useless. YEY!!! YOUR BACK!!! For now! " Hey  | |||
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"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman. This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well. They normally fall asleep during. Keep a cattle prod beside the bed Ooh that's new I haven't tried that is it good? Try it and see "Dearest Em, if you were any more stimulating I fear the question of who came first could be blown clear out of the window. | |||
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"I once had a partner that would peak in a climax and just stay there. We never found an end to it. I could just wear myself out. I was a bit younger (alot younger) and I have to say I felt a bit unmanned that I couldn't get her over the edge. So maybe it's not all bravado? Is it possible there's something there in notions of masculinity and achievement." This reminds me of a Margaret cho sketch about lesbians having to call it. | |||
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" I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority. Why?" Because it sounds nice doesn't it? Makes a woman think he won't shoot and leave, or that's what they think. It's ridiculously easy for me to come many, many times so I don't think it's that reassuring really. Nor impressive if someone can make me come a few times before they decide that's their cue to come - you've not suddenly unlocked some hidden orgasms in me, I've been doing that for many years. There's far too much emphasis on orgasms, on saying the right thing. Don't be a dick before, during or after. That's all I want. | |||
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" I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority. Why? Because it sounds nice doesn't it? Makes a woman think he won't shoot and leave, or that's what they think. " It always reads as a little obsequious to me. | |||
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"A lady can cum several times.. where as I can usually manage ony 2 times in a session suits allways good to let a lady cum first Can all women really cum several times?" All depends on how good the man is as I know a huge amount of woman who never cum they fake it | |||
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"If I could cum first... I probably would every so often. I take fucking ages sometimes though and sometimes not at all so she always has cum first 99% of the time " I feel you on this one mate I’m the same it annoys me like hell sometimes | |||
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"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman. This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well. They normally fall asleep during. Keep a cattle prod beside the bed That’s what I poke them in the back with. They think it’s my cock
Because your sex is electric?"That’s better than I could have come up with.
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"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman. This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well. They normally fall asleep during. Keep a cattle prod beside the bed" What? Only one? | |||
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"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman. This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well. They normally fall asleep during. Keep a cattle prod beside the bed Ooh that's new I haven't tried that is it good? Try it and see
Dearest Em, if you were any more stimulating I fear the question of who came first could be blown clear out of the window. "I fear the reality of me is far less exciting | |||
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"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman. This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well. They normally fall asleep during. Keep a cattle prod beside the bed That’s what I poke them in the back with. They think it’s my cock
Because your sex is electric?
That’s better than I could have come up with.
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"They think by saying that it’s going to guarantee them unlimited access to all the vag! Given that a lot of women (myself included) struggle to cum the first time and even more so when there’s pressure added, the statement is pretty useless. " Yey hello you! Good to see you back. | |||
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"It's ridiculously easy for me to come many, many times so I don't think it's that reassuring really. Nor impressive if someone can make me come a few times before they decide that's their cue to come - you've not suddenly unlocked some hidden orgasms in me, I've been doing that for many years." Preach, Meli. I’ve had partners who are orgasming by the time I’ve first touched their nipples. I’m not going to take that as a signal that it’s now my turn. | |||
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"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first? They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties
Miss S x"Does sex have to stop just because a dudes cum? Sure, grab a glass of water. But it doesn't have to stop. I've had some hotel meets that have gone on for hours. Not constant clearly. But there's been an element of sexual play involved. | |||
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"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first? They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties
Miss S x"Reason number 2 | |||
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"A lady can cum several times.. where as I can usually manage ony 2 times in a session suits allways good to let a lady cum first Can all women really cum several times?" Not all, some can, some can't. I'm lucky, have been described in one of my veris from couple's profile as an "orgasm machine" lol. | |||
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"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first? They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties
Miss S x
Does sex have to stop just because a dudes cum?
Sure, grab a glass of water. But it doesn't have to stop.
I've had some hotel meets that have gone on for hours. Not constant clearly. But there's been an element of sexual play involved."I was close to mentioning multiple sessions but didn't. I suppose not everyone can just have a glass of water and go again
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"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first? They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties
Miss S x
Reason number 2 "Most likely yes
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"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first? They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties
Miss S x
Does sex have to stop just because a dudes cum?
Sure, grab a glass of water. But it doesn't have to stop.
I've had some hotel meets that have gone on for hours. Not constant clearly. But there's been an element of sexual play involved.". A glass of sparkling water no doubt! | |||
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"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first? They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties
Miss S x
Does sex have to stop just because a dudes cum?
Sure, grab a glass of water. But it doesn't have to stop.
I've had some hotel meets that have gone on for hours. Not constant clearly. But there's been an element of sexual play involved..
A glass of sparkling water no doubt! "You've ruined it for me forever. | |||
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 then I’ll do my best to cum 1st. But that means putting her in some kinky positions that will probably make her cum 1st! | |||
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"Well maybe because when the male finishes that's usually the end so it makes sense for the woman to cum first? They are probably only stating all that on their profile to 1. Because that's what they truly want to do or 2. So they can get into lots of panties
Miss S x
Does sex have to stop just because a dudes cum?
Sure, grab a glass of water. But it doesn't have to stop.
I've had some hotel meets that have gone on for hours. Not constant clearly. But there's been an element of sexual play involved..
A glass of sparkling water no doubt!
You've ruined it for me forever." | |||
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"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there..." This. Alll the time this!! | |||
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"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman. This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well. They normally fall asleep during. Keep a cattle prod beside the bed" Now your talking, preparing my sleep mask and earplugs | |||
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"It's written because there's a stereotype that men will just cum and roll over with no concern for the woman. This is bollox really and sure there's women who do that to men as well. They normally fall asleep during. Keep a cattle prod beside the bed Ooh that's new I haven't tried that is it good? Try it and see
Dearest Em, if you were any more stimulating I fear the question of who came first could be blown clear out of the window.
I fear the reality of me is far less exciting "And I fear I'd fall for your charms... Bailar esta bachata | |||
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"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there..." I didn't buy the cinema ticket to just watch the trailers. | |||
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"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there... I didn't buy the cinema ticket to just watch the trailers." Yea, I want to watch the whole film, not just see the ending | |||
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"Because my young Sirrah, it is the height of chivalry and devilish gentlemanship when it comes/cums to the prioritisation of the opposite sex...in the bedchamber. In the game of love and conquest coming last is every lothario's desire. We love to please and we are pleased to love. " That's creepy | |||
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"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there... I didn't buy the cinema ticket to just watch the trailers. Yea, I want to watch the whole film, not just see the ending "The end is the good part | |||
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"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there... I didn't buy the cinema ticket to just watch the trailers." Sometimes the trailers are the best part though. Dune 2 was disappointing. Avatar 2 - just no. Wish I'd waited for them to come free with Prime now, I could have stayed in my pyjamas. | |||
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"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there... I didn't buy the cinema ticket to just watch the trailers. Yea, I want to watch the whole film, not just see the ending
The end is the good part"Not always. Sometimes a big anti climax. | |||
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"The thing is who cares, so much emphasis is put on trying to achieve an orgasm or who cums first. What about the journey there and all the other lovely stuff getting there... I didn't buy the cinema ticket to just watch the trailers. Yea, I want to watch the whole film, not just see the ending
The end is the good part"But it doesn't need to be the only good part though. | |||
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" I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority. Why?" Women tend to require a lot more attention than men or something like that. | |||
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" I often see posts/bios, written by men that say the woman always cums first and her pleasure is the priority. Why? Women tend to require a lot more attention than men or something like that. " good delivery. | |||
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