FabSwingers.com forum: No mutual respect anymore

By *enfella4u OP Man
28 weeks ago

staffs

I’ve now been on here a while and not gunna lie I’ve had a few real good meets, but from when I started to now it seems no one respects people anymore.

I try to leave messages with content and read profiles and then leave messages in a way to show I’ve read profile but then get no reply at all after I’ve put a lot of thought into a message, not even a common decency no thankyou but thanks for interest reply. Surely we as fellow fabbers and we know what we’re all here for surely we treat one another more respectfully can’t we. Does anyone else feel this way. Would love some messages from women and couples looking for some fun if interested.

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
28 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

You're in the majority looking for the minority, so couples and females can be inundated, to the point where they would need to employ staff to reply to all. Not replying is a 'no thanks' and acceptable.

Generally, if someone is messaging from outside our preferences, they haven't respected our preferences, so don't deserve a respectful reply.

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By *enfella4u OP Man
28 weeks ago

staffs

Thankyou for your reply. Just seen your profile and ur picture look absolutely stunning xx thanks again happy fabbing xx

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
28 weeks ago

Portstewart

Everyone is here for something they want and if you don't or can't provide what they want the amount of replies that a couple could send daily to unsuccessful people could be hundreds so unfortunately for you your target audience has probably heard your k8nd of messages before and could be near an outburst and you could unfortunately ha e it aimed at you 8f you did message someone who wasn't looking for your type specifically

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
28 weeks ago

There and Here

I wouldn't reply no matter how beautifully crafted your message was (assuming I lived closer). Why? Because it's been six years since you uploaded anything except a photo of your cock to your profile and that kinda sends the signal that the words are just that - words. And that says to me that you think saying the nice things and throwing your wang out will get you the sex. Of course you might not actually think that, but perception is important

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
28 weeks ago

Leeds

This gets posted so often

No reply = no thank you, read the fab rules op.

No it's not rude to not reply to a message you never asked for. Do you reply thank you but not for me to all your spam emails?

I used to reply which was met by - why not? Here's my (insert minging cock pic) look what your missing!

Didn't like you anyway fat cunt, your up your own arse, didn't wanna meet.

You know the stuff ego bruised people come out with, so no I don't reply, I didn't ask for the message, is that rude - no!

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By *issBellaWoman
28 weeks ago

Wales

It says your bi cur. Have you tried messaging men?

I had a quick look at your profile dated dick pics and a whiney status. Yea, not getting great vibes sorry OP.

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By *electableicecreamMan
28 weeks ago

The West

This thing about perfectly crafting well thought out messages is a red herring.

I don't send a lot of messages but if I do it's because I have a good reason. That's what I write. Two lines maybe and with the aim of starting a conversation.

Most of my messages get a reply.

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By *allandathleticMan
28 weeks ago

Asgard

I'd pity shag ya OP.

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By *ather WickmasMan
28 weeks ago

The Continental

Normally I’d offer a tip or two but seeing as you won’t be here in 7 days time, I’ll not waste my wisdom.

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By *rHotNottsMan
28 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Thankyou for your reply. Just seen your profile and ur picture look absolutely stunning xx thanks again happy fabbing xx"

I think a lot of men on come across as very whiny, always moaning about not getting replies.

Also a lot of guys seem obsessed with pictures of their own dick.

And desperate to jump on any kind of attention from a female, Always making compliments at any opportunity.

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By *illan-KillashMan
28 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

"I’ve now been on here a while and not gunna lie I’ve had a few real good meets, but from when I started to now it seems no one respects people anymore.

For the sake of argument, say you send 5 messages a day.

At the end of the week you have 35 no thank you messages. At the end of the year you've had 1,825 or an average of 152 a month.

Q1 - Do you reply to all of them with a thank you message?

Q2 - Do you feel better for being rejected 1,825 times?

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By *rHotNottsMan
28 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"This thing about perfectly crafting well thought out messages is a red herring.

I don't send a lot of messages but if I do it's because I have a good reason. That's what I write. Two lines maybe and with the aim of starting a conversation.

Most of my messages get a reply."

Same , I hardly ever send a message & they nearly always get replies.

If you are genuinely attracted to someone after reading their profile or forum posts then it’s not hard to start an interaction, You don’t need to overthink it - just introduce yourselves and tell them why as you’re contacting them.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
28 weeks ago

Leeds

Are you not replying to everyone who's taken time to construct a perfectly good answer to your question on this post OP?

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By *allandathleticMan
28 weeks ago

Asgard

"Are you not replying to everyone who's taken time to construct a perfectly good answer to your question on this post OP? "

Go on, Mrs Kotct!

Hes on the ropes now....

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