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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
27 weeks ago

North West

Cheer yourself up when you're on a post-lovely time downer? I had a most splendid weekend but getting back to the chaos of work and everyday life has kicked me up the bum a bit.

I liked being a lady of leisure and fun! Waaaaaaaaaaa

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By *ather WickmasMan
27 weeks ago

The Continental

I pick my guitar up and murder a few basslines.

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
27 weeks ago

North West

I could cause hearing loss for my nearest and dearest by picking up my son's guitars

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
27 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Eat carbs and fat. Probably not the best coping mechanism

Mrs TMN x

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By *andy CanesWoman
27 weeks ago

candy cane lane

Listen to upbeat music

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Do something lovely for myself.

That could be a long bath, running a new to me path, hiking, spending the day at a spa, cooking for myself, treating myself to a cosy new jumper, dress, etc, shoe shopping, making myself feel absolutely stunning outwardly in what I’m wearing and going out full of confidence all alone, reading, reminiscing on the fun, chatting to a friend, watching a funny film, having really nice coffee, wanking, sleeping.

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By *ather WickmasMan
27 weeks ago

The Continental


"I could cause hearing loss for my nearest and dearest by picking up my son's guitars "

That maybe so, but you’re picking yourself up. Sod their hearing.

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By *nnCeeWoman
27 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

Arrange the next fun something...

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By *oozleMan
27 weeks ago

high wycombe

Lots of chilli eating to burn my mind into submission….

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
27 weeks ago

North West


"I could cause hearing loss for my nearest and dearest by picking up my son's guitars

That maybe so, but you’re picking yourself up. Sod their hearing. "

I'll turn the amp up to 11

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
27 weeks ago

North West


"Arrange the next fun something... "

I am thinking about that too

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By *eliWoman
27 weeks ago

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Make sure I have lovely things to look forward to.

Have a relatively low energy day as much as possible.

Bake something comforting. Like a really good coconut and cherry loaf cake.

Self care. I am sorry for using that term but... it's there now

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By *ather WickmasMan
27 weeks ago

The Continental

If all else fails.

There’s a laugh from looking at ma rainbow willy.

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
27 weeks ago

North West


"Make sure I have lovely things to look forward to.

Have a relatively low energy day as much as possible.

Bake something comforting. Like a really good coconut and cherry loaf cake.

Self care. I am sorry for using that term but... it's there now "

See, the low energy day after didn't happen. It was work and straight into a shit storm. I don't think that helped at all.

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By *aomilatteCouple
27 weeks ago

Midlands

Give each other massages and have sex. Plus it's one sleep less until next weekend.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
27 weeks ago

Reading

Sunday evening blues still suck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
27 weeks ago

East Sussex

Booking a holiday usually works for me . Or just going out, getting a cup of coffee and looking at a fresh horizon

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
27 weeks ago

North West


"Booking a holiday usually works for me . Or just going out, getting a cup of coffee and looking at a fresh horizon "

We booked a holiday but it's not till December!!

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By *he love catsCouple
27 weeks ago

South Wales

Listening to music is always the best medicine for me and the Mrs tends to clean everything in sight.

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By *mf123Man
27 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

Spend 4 years with depression

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By *ittlebirdWoman
27 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Normally put some great music on and have an extra (ladywank) or 3. Normally works

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By *eroLondonMan
27 weeks ago

Mayfair

Wear one of my plush underpants, KC². It worked for Mrs TMN and e-by-gum it'll work for you too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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27 weeks ago

East Sussex


"Booking a holiday usually works for me . Or just going out, getting a cup of coffee and looking at a fresh horizon

We booked a holiday but it's not till December!! "

December isn't that far off

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
27 weeks ago

North West


"Spend 4 years with depression "

Well, this cheered me right up

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By *ohnysteMan
27 weeks ago

newcastle under lyme

Picking up a guitar always a good choice Mr Wick

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By *mf123Man
27 weeks ago

with one foot out the door


"Spend 4 years with depression

Well, this cheered me right up "

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
27 weeks ago

Leeds

Sorry your feeling a bit pants OP, I usually try and distract myself and keep busy, good happy music on and do anything and everything to take my mind off the feeling rubbish.

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By *oadsafun1960Man
27 weeks ago

Somerset & Hertfordshire

I just go for a long walk maybe up into the hills and just watch the sun set. Or along a beach and watch the waves and lose myself for a while lost in my thoughts to get everything into perspective and then I head home feeling calmer and less stressed.

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
27 weeks ago

North West


"Booking a holiday usually works for me . Or just going out, getting a cup of coffee and looking at a fresh horizon

We booked a holiday but it's not till December!!

December isn't that far off "

It's about as far away as Christmas was in 2023. That feels like aaaaaaaaaaaaages

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Ah I quite like the chaos of work and everyday life, keeps me sane.

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By *ookie46Woman
27 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Throw myself into work and make sure I have plans to look forward too

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By *inky_couple2020 OP   Couple
27 weeks ago

North West


"Ah I quite like the chaos of work and everyday life, keeps me sane.

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I usually like it too, but I went from a Cloud Nine level of zen and right into a fuck up and hectic stress. It was the contrast, I think

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