FabSwingers.com forum: FWB or fuck buddy

By *haiababe OP Woman
27 weeks ago

North devon

So obviously these are 2 very common terms that people use. But I have a question on people's thought on these word.

Do you think they are interchangeable or do they have seperate meanings.

For me they have seperate meanings.

FWB is someone who you chat to and talk about other stuff, sometimes spend time with that isn't sex related. Etc.

A Fuck Buddy is someone who you basically just enjoy fucking and don't have much of a relationship or conversations outside of sex.

What are your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Yeah I agree with that. Fwb has a deeper connection than just shagging

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By *orphia2003Woman
27 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I'd agree with your definition.

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By *echanichandsMan
27 weeks ago

newcastle upon tyne

Totally agree with what you said

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By *ngel-ishWoman
27 weeks ago

Colchester

Spot on

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By *ocouple69Couple
27 weeks ago

north London

FWB has a more inclusiveness connotation without the complexity and responsibility of a partnership .

FB is more physical connection offering satisfaction without emotion .

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By *rHotNottsMan
27 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Yes , and for me FB’s usually run their course, months even years but eventually stop because theres little interaction outside of the meet ups.

My FWB’s I would hope are for life, sometimes the sex will stop, If one of you is trying a monogamous relationship for a while, and

if you really are ‘friends’ you should respect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

I don't like either.

FB suggest just meaningless sex.

Fwb is far to relationship like.

I prefer hot acquaintances I get naked with.

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By *incepiesMan
27 weeks ago

Nottingham (ish)

Yeah but HAIGNW

Doesn't really roll off the tongue

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By *ocouple69Couple
27 weeks ago

north London

Lol - what about just GN

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"Yeah but HAIGNW

Doesn't really roll off the tongue

It's also a bit close to HIGNFY which conjures up images of Ian Hislop (not the image you want of a sexual partner - unless you are a bit niche!)

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"Yeah but HAIGNW

Doesn't really roll off the tongue

It's also a bit close to HIGNFY which conjures up images of Ian Hislop (not the image you want of a sexual partner - unless you are a bit niche!)"

HAQ (hot acquaintance.....I want to get naked with)

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By *dinburghWomanWoman
27 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I agree with OPs description

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
27 weeks ago

somewhere

I definitely agree with your definitions, unfortunately I found myself in a bit of both a while back, lines got very blurred and that was a bit of a head fuck for a while.

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By *un Rugby playerMan
27 weeks ago

village near hatfield

"Yeah but HAIGNW

Doesn't really roll off the tongue

It's also a bit close to HIGNFY which conjures up images of Ian Hislop (not the image you want of a sexual partner - unless you are a bit niche!)

HAQ (hot acquaintance.....I want to get naked with)"

Ready !

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By *irtyKittenCouple
27 weeks ago

Southampton

"I definitely agree with your definitions, unfortunately I found myself in a bit of both a while back, lines got very blurred and that was a bit of a head fuck for a while."

This sounds like feelings started started to come into play.

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By *ndtheswingersMan
27 weeks ago

colchester

"I definitely agree with your definitions, unfortunately I found myself in a bit of both a while back, lines got very blurred and that was a bit of a head fuck for a while.

This sounds like feelings started started to come into play. "

Catching feels isn't a bad thing though x

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By *haiababe OP Woman
27 weeks ago

North devon

"I don't like either.

FB suggest just meaningless sex.

Fwb is far to relationship like.

I prefer hot acquaintances I get naked with. "

I like your description and it's something I'd possibly use in replace of FB.

But in the case of my fwb, I like to chat to them about stuff like work, kids other shit just like inwould with my female friends. So thats why I use that term because it is a relationship just not a co dependent one.

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By *un Rugby playerMan
27 weeks ago

village near hatfield

GN is a good start .

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By *ngel-ishWoman
27 weeks ago

Colchester

"I definitely agree with your definitions, unfortunately I found myself in a bit of both a while back, lines got very blurred and that was a bit of a head fuck for a while.

This sounds like feelings started started to come into play.

It's not what you expect, well I didnt. But I wouldn't change it now

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
27 weeks ago

Wherever

Why people have a need to put labels on things in a first place? I feel like there is very fine line between those two and it’s ultimately what we make of it, or don’t. I don’t like to over complicate things, which are already complicated enough.

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By *and63Man
27 weeks ago

Brighton

Yeah - sounds about right, but -

Fuck with Benefits ( it may sound better and is more to the point )

Fuck Buddy ( is just a mate who you fuck with )

That more to my way of life

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Fine line between FWB and a relationship so I tend to stick with FB unless both parties want more.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
27 weeks ago

Coventry

No labels! Just sex, and see

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

They are both things others refuse to be for wonko

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"No labels! Just sex, and see

SAS!

I like this.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
27 weeks ago

Coventry

"No labels! Just sex, and see

SAS!

I like this."

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By *ngel-ishWoman
27 weeks ago

Colchester

I like smiling

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By *eliWoman
27 weeks ago

I don't think there's a clear cut definition for lots of people.

Why is that? I'm not sure... people like to make things seem more polite. A FWB sounds nicer than a FB, more socially acceptable. Likewise, using date when you're just fucking someone late at night.

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By *haiababe OP Woman
27 weeks ago

North devon

"I don't think there's a clear cut definition for lots of people.

Why is that? I'm not sure... people like to make things seem more polite. A FWB sounds nicer than a FB, more socially acceptable. Likewise, using date when you're just fucking someone late at night. "

I will admit i use the term dating to describe whatbim doing cos I'm not sure what else to call it in general company.

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By *hrek101Man
27 weeks ago

Herts

Yeah I'd probably agree with those definitions OP. I like a FWB you get best of everything

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By *onkeynutWoman
27 weeks ago

somewhere

I agree with the OP description.

True fwb’s are hard to find though. I don’t really like the term fuck buddy as it’s a bit cold. Somewhere between the two would be ideal, not sure what you would call that

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By *haiababe OP Woman
27 weeks ago

North devon

One of the reasons I do use both terms is cos I see guys that fit both descriptions. One guy we pretty much only talk about sex and often the only time we talk about stuff thay isn't sex still is kind of sex related. For example the only reason we talked about gardening is cos he joked that soon no one will be able to get to my front door to have sex with me. After aex most pir conversations are about pur schedules and when we think we can see each other again.

Another guy we chat via messages about work and live. When I brought a new car he asked to see photos and me tell me some of the specs (not that i know whatthat stuff means). And there wasn't a single comment about it being big enough to have sex in. And after sex we lay there and hug and talk about stuff for ages.

Thays why i feel there is a difference between the 2.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
27 weeks ago

somewhere

"I definitely agree with your definitions, unfortunately I found myself in a bit of both a while back, lines got very blurred and that was a bit of a head fuck for a while.

This sounds like feelings started started to come into play. "

And you would be right lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
27 weeks ago

little house on the praire

I used to just call them gentleman callers. I don't like the term fwb or fb

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By *ittlebirdWoman
27 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

They’re all just friends to me

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By *illy IdolMan
27 weeks ago

Midlands

"They’re all just friends to me

Exactly. They're all the bloody same

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
27 weeks ago

chichester

I keep it simple. Either dating or single. Casual sex is casual sex

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By *ittlebirdWoman
27 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"They’re all just friends to me

Exactly. They're all the bloody same

Not you Willy. You are rear of the year remember

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By *ripfillMan
27 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

"So obviously these are 2 very common terms that people use. But I have a question on people's thought on these word.

Do you think they are interchangeable or do they have seperate meanings.

For me they have seperate meanings.

FWB is someone who you chat to and talk about other stuff, sometimes spend time with that isn't sex related. Etc.

A Fuck Buddy is someone who you basically just enjoy fucking and don't have much of a relationship or conversations outside of sex.

What are your thoughts"

In essence I agree with OP

I guess we all swing from one to the other over time, needs, and pleasure

Currently I am so lucky to have a FWB experience

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By *illy IdolMan
27 weeks ago

Midlands

"They’re all just friends to me

Exactly. They're all the bloody same

Not you Willy. You are rear of the year remember

I'm also just a boy, standing in front of a girl, asking her to love him

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By *ittlebirdWoman
27 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"They’re all just friends to me

Exactly. They're all the bloody same

Not you Willy. You are rear of the year remember

I'm also just a boy, standing in front of a girl, asking her to love him"

Awwww. Bless

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