FabSwingers.com forum: first encounters of the 3 or 4th kind

By *ickedxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Just a quick question, we're a new couple and was pretty sure our first meet was going to be a like minded couple, however I've seen on a few profiles that they have done mmf or ffm and say they want to try a couple. Just want to know what's best to begin with or is it just a personal view.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just a quick question, we're a new couple and was pretty sure our first meet was going to be a like minded couple, however I've seen on a few profiles that they have done mmf or ffm and say they want to try a couple. Just want to know what's best to begin with or is it just a personal view. "

mmf for you and ffm for him. As a gentleman I always insist on "ladies first" so you should have what you want.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, meeting a like minded couple first worked well for us as it was about everyone having mutual fun. I think if we had met a single man or lady, one of us may have been concerned about having more attention than the other (not jealousy-just an awareness of ensuring everyone was enjoying themselves equally).

We have done mff and I found myself being anxious about ensuring she felt comfortable and welcome and getting just as much attention as I was getting.

crystal

By *ickedxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"For me, meeting a like minded couple first worked well for us as it was about everyone having mutual fun. I think if we had met a single man or lady, one of us may have been concerned about having more attention than the other (not jealousy-just an awareness of ensuring everyone was enjoying themselves equally).

We have done mff and I found myself being anxious about ensuring she felt comfortable and welcome and getting just as much attention as I was getting.

crystal"

That's what we was thinking its great advise thanks