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"It’s great to get a selfie early, had someone on the hotlist for sometime, thought yes, that’s the one, built up the courage for some conversation. Selfies exchanged, and it was like - oh no, they’re not what we thought they looked like. Swift honest apologies made, and now hunting for the next one. What’s anyone else’s feelings when the face doesn’t match your thoughts from the profile and body pics? How do you respond, or do you just block, delete and wish you hadn’t seen them at all? " I don't know. Nobody has ever sent me a face pic. | |||
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"I like an early selfie just to ensure that the pic matches the ones on here. If they aren’t for me I’m honest and fair and polite and it’s a “thanks but no thanks”. Obviously worded differently but in a respectful manner " That’s kind of like how we replied, fairly but truthfully, not being brutal, just said it’s not our cup of tea (very English of us) | |||
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"It’s why I have them up on my profile ready to go, don’t want to be on the end of the “oof, that’s not what I was expecting” conversation lol " Wishing we were brave enough to share our pictures openly on our profile, but with our line of work, we don’t need our names being spread about the work place by someone coming across them. | |||
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"If you send a face pic and get a block then at least you know you are not their type. Seems harsh - especially if they started the messaging - but that’s life." That's happened to me !! Clearly I'm hideous | |||
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"Most have a face only a mother would love " I'm not sure even my mother would love my face | |||
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"It’s great to get a selfie early, had someone on the hotlist for sometime, thought yes, that’s the one, built up the courage for some conversation. Selfies exchanged, and it was like - oh no, they’re not what we thought they looked like. Swift honest apologies made, and now hunting for the next one. What’s anyone else’s feelings when the face doesn’t match your thoughts from the profile and body pics? How do you respond, or do you just block, delete and wish you hadn’t seen them at all? " This is why I regularly have face pics on public and why I won't engage in conversation without seeing his face. Too many beautiful torsos with faces that I just can't kiss on here | |||
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"It’s why I have them up on my profile ready to go, don’t want to be on the end of the “oof, that’s not what I was expecting” conversation lol " Haha same | |||
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"This person can see this topic and is probably gutted and a little pissed off right now that you're talking about them" She didn't mention any names. And the person she's talking about may not be on the forum | |||
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"I was going to say maybe they have a great personality But I suppose this is fab.. " yep some shallow folk on here. Haha | |||
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"I was going to say maybe they have a great personality But I suppose this is fab.. " I know loads of people with great personalities that I'm not interested in fucking. It's hard to imagine a scenario, at least for me, where someone's face isn't a fundamental part of physical attraction. Maybe for some people. Do you fuck people you're not physically attracted to? | |||
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"We probably go more on personality, you can have a great looking face but be a right c**k in real life " You can be a right cock, whatever you look like... And unattractive doesn't mean, not good looking... This is why people can't handle rejection, I think... Also... An attractive face without a decent personality means they instantly become unattractive... It's all very complicated ennit? | |||
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"We probably go more on personality, you can have a great looking face but be a right c**k in real life You can be a right cock, whatever you look like... And unattractive doesn't mean, not good looking... This is why people can't handle rejection, I think... Also... An attractive face without a decent personality means they instantly become unattractive... It's all very complicated ennit? " And even being attracted to someone's looks and personality doesn't guarantee chemistry in person so there's another hurdle. Yay haha | |||
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"We probably go more on personality, you can have a great looking face but be a right c**k in real life You can be a right cock, whatever you look like... And unattractive doesn't mean, not good looking... This is why people can't handle rejection, I think... Also... An attractive face without a decent personality means they instantly become unattractive... It's all very complicated ennit? And even being attracted to someone's looks and personality doesn't guarantee chemistry in person so there's another hurdle. Yay haha " Yes! It's a bloody minefield! | |||
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"I was going to say maybe they have a great personality But I suppose this is fab.. I know loads of people with great personalities that I'm not interested in fucking. It's hard to imagine a scenario, at least for me, where someone's face isn't a fundamental part of physical attraction. Maybe for some people. Do you fuck people you're not physically attracted to?" This would tie in to the whole “I guess it is fab” statement But no I do believe initial attraction is an extremely important factor in any relationship | |||
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"I feel disappointed but also a bit dumb for conjuring up a face based on chatting... It's a bit like seeing a film made of a well loved book and the characters don't look how i wanted them to but of course they don't and I'm an idiot for thinking they would. " Live and learn, Life is a learning experience | |||
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"I feel disappointed but also a bit dumb for conjuring up a face based on chatting... It's a bit like seeing a film made of a well loved book and the characters don't look how i wanted them to but of course they don't and I'm an idiot for thinking they would. " I've seen my look of confusion or disappointment on my face reflected in the faces people I've met without exchanging face pictures. That said, I've had the same look on my face after meeting people that shaved off a decade of their life with filters too. | |||
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