FabSwingers.com forum: Are the Forums getting worse?

By *ustincamebridge OP Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Genuine question, we would see the odd one we would not bother reading. Now it’s the odd one we read

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

It always ebbs and flows for content. Your own moods and perceptions play a part as well.

If you're not feeling it or just enjoying them for now, go do something else. They'll still be here if you choose to wander back later

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

Not really noticed any difference to be honest. There is always so much variety. The amazing thing is anyone can post a thread so hopefully we will see some from you on subjects you like more.

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"It always ebbs and flows for content. Your own moods and perceptions play a part as well.

If you're not feeling it or just enjoying them for now, go do something else. They'll still be here if you choose to wander back later

I am with this. I do agree with OP that it is, for me, in an ebb phase but others seem to enjoy it so that’s ok. It will come back to stuff I enjoy at some point - it always does.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

The forums don’t exist in a vacuum, they’re created by all of us. Sure, big characters will come and go but the content is down to us posters. Sometimes I’m feeling it, sometimes not.

Mrs TMN x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

FFS !!!!!

I never realised that Thread Starters were paid employees!

I've been labouring for free.

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Having been gone for several years... It's exactly the same

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

O.P. What topic will you start today?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone makes the forums what it is, if there isn't much for you make some or have a little break.

There's quiet and busy periods and there's times when I look and see nothing of interest and other times I do, it's just how it is.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Having been gone for several years... It's exactly the same "

Give over it's not !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?

I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?

I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.

You mean im not utterly hilarious?!

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?

I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.

You mean im not utterly hilarious?!

I think she misses the funny people who also had pretty penises.

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By *obilebottomMan
over a year ago

All over

"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?

I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.

You mean im not utterly hilarious?!

I find you a scream

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By *quizzlyMan
over a year ago

Ryde

I hang out here because you don't really find forums in this format any more. I miss the old internet of the 2000's

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By *r Tom FooleryMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Genuine answer. I don't know

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By *r Tom FooleryMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?

I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.

I think most of the funny people end up getting banned

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?

I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.

I think most of the funny people end up getting banned "

Yeah, we do

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By *r Tom FooleryMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?

I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.

I think most of the funny people end up getting banned

Yeah, we do

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I think she misses the funny people who also had pretty penises."

Hopefully they still have their pretty penises, even if they’ve left the forums. Unless she’s been cutting them off and keeping them.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed

But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Sorry didn’t realise we were all here for your entertainment.

I’ll try better.

The mr

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Rummage Under Jumper

"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?

I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.

Errr you’re obviously missing my regular comedy gold!! And my penis is pretty!!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed

But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break

I get that totally

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?

I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.

You mean im not utterly hilarious?!

I think she misses the funny people who also had pretty penises."

I don't have a penis, pretty or otherwise

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?

I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.

You mean im not utterly hilarious?!

I find you a scream

Aah thanks

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

The people who don't like them could actually post about some topic's they do like, problem solved.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed

But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break

Me too ....... but only recently. Never for years

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By *illy IdolMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?

I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.

Talk about making a pop at everyone here

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

There are 35 threads on page one of the lounge.

Some are more than a day old.

I've opened 3 of them and this is the second one I have contributed to but the first today.

I don't think they are any worse than they have been.

In fact I would go so far as to say they are better in some ways when certain celebs aren't posting/trolling/whining/stirring.

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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago

My own little world

No. Some are repetitive though ie people posting a morning thread when one’s already open etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed

But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break

^ This last bit ... I don't come in the forums often but when I do there can sometimes be characters who are a tad intimidating, so I just leave and find a thread that I feel more comfortable in. The forums are what you make them, I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't like what you see, maybe contribute some threads you do want to see?

I don't find them that great at the minute, I miss the funny people.

Talk about making a pop at everyone here

It's not my fault they aren't funny.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"I hang out here because you don't really find forums in this format any more. I miss the old internet of the 2000's"

It looks just fine on my XP machine which I use all the time, still!

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By *stwo2023Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Genuine question, we would see the odd one we would not bother reading. Now it’s the odd one we read"

Post more interesting threads then. You've only posted 5 out of the 35 your most recently engaged in.

It's all subjective anyway. I wouldn't have found some of the threads you created as worth reading and I'm sure you wouldn't mine, had I actually started some recently

Evie

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

"I hang out here because you don't really find forums in this format any more. I miss the old internet of the 2000's"

It looks just fine on my XP machine which I use all the time, still!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed

But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break

Currently with one of your favourite leavers, Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its change ever other post now is wank / tribute / foreskin or no foreskin / penis size / whu cant i get a meet ..so its deffo changed very few couples now post it fact i think very few swingers now post ..

the lounge is not being used as should or designed for ie the non sexual stuff

advice forum is now a place where you go to see who you can block as its full of people who cannot do a simple this is me profile if they cant do that then what hope do they have on this scene...

stupid games everywhere

and lastly more wank and wankers wanking wanks everywhere

to alot its about porn /wank not swinging so yes the forums have changed

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's not like the bar was ever really that high

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"It's not like the bar was ever really that high"

The bar was so low I tripped over it

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

There are a lot more posts I avoid than contribute now - some people/discussions just make my eyes roll/bleed.

But they are easily ignored.

If I cared enough, I’d create threads of interest, instead of creating a thread to moan about the lack of interesting threads.

Sometimes a thread draws you back in and spawns many threads from it. Obviously one tit/one bollock/one toe type threads are cutting edge

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

This is a genuine response too.

I feel I can't really comment on the content so much, when I very rarely create a thread. I'm just too lazy to commit to maintaining it. Well that's not entirely fair, my life is quite active at the moment and one minute I have time the next minute I don't. I am quite appreciative of those who put the effort in, even if it's not always content that instantly appeals to me.

If there's content you wish there was more of that option is always there to create it yourself?

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

Never fear, I’m still here

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"There are a lot more posts I avoid than contribute now - some people/discussions just make my eyes roll/bleed.

But they are easily ignored.

If I cared enough, I’d create threads of interest, instead of creating a thread to moan about the lack of interesting threads.

Sometimes a thread draws you back in and spawns many threads from it. Obviously one tit/one bollock/one toe type threads are cutting edge

The 1 Tit was a work of art, more threads please

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums have always been full of those that like the sound of their own whinges. Nothing much has changed except I'm on my best behavior these days

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

"Genuine question, we would see the odd one we would not bother reading. Now it’s the odd one we read"
no. Been seeing this for years. They are what you make them. Same as everything in life

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Sorry didn’t realise we were all here for your entertainment.

I’ll try better.

The mr "

Yes you’re definitely off-form lately, are you Ill ? Relationship issues? Please try harder , we want our £5 worth….

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By *ostindreamsMan
over a year ago

London

I think it has a lot to do with weather

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

east of Stamford

They could've been, but I'm back now so they should be better.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed

But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break

Currently with one of your favourite leavers, Red

Aw, is it Jim? Please tell me its Jim

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We tend to dip in and out of the forum as it can be a bit blah at times, definitely think they used to be more fun than now, I’d love to come on here for a good old belly laugh which I don’t seem to come across these days, people just seem a bit more uptight, unhappy and complain quite a bit but I’m forever hopeful of a bit of humour and laughter, sorry if this offends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They peaked on 2005.

17th July if memory serves.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Think it’s generally a lot better than at any point I can remember in the last few years

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed

But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break

Currently with one of your favourite leavers, Red

Aw, is it Jim? Please tell me its Jim

I mean, I'm not with him now, so many hours later. But yes. EJ. We had lunch and coffee and whatnot.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed

But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break

Currently with one of your favourite leavers, Red

Aw, is it Jim? Please tell me its Jim

I mean, I'm not with him now, so many hours later. But yes. EJ. We had lunch and coffee and whatnot. "

Aah, lovely. I miss him xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

They are very repetitive at the moment...same posters/similar topics.

Newbies still get torn to shreds on most which is quite sad to see which puts a lot off from contributing further x

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By *arley QuimWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"I'm not finding them much fun at the minute, either. Most folk I enjoyed interacting with have left - either of their own accord or were removed

But, because I'm a contrary cow, I also enjoy them more when certain folk take a break

Currently with one of your favourite leavers, Red

Aw, is it Jim? Please tell me its Jim

I mean, I'm not with him now, so many hours later. But yes. EJ. We had lunch and coffee and whatnot.

Aah, lovely. I miss him xx"

There's so many folk who seemed to get the mass heave ho! A few years ago... Tis what it is, and mostly it's just a perm forum ban... The forums are pretty dire anyway. Soo you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes just missing interesting, new, fun discussions. Mostly just the same stories/ topics

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It's a bit moany currently. It happens, it's quite a cyclic thing. Get outside OP. Go do something else. Return when it's feeling less meh to you.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I'm going to go and do a moany thread.

Power of suggestion n all that. I'm highly suggestible. What can I say

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The forum changes in cycles. Just focus on what you add

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"They are very repetitive at the moment...same posters/similar topics.

Newbies still get torn to shreds on most which is quite sad to see which puts a lot off from contributing further x"

It’s been like that for years, in fairness…

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"They are very repetitive at the moment...same posters/similar topics.

Newbies still get torn to shreds on most which is quite sad to see which puts a lot off from contributing further x

It’s been like that for years, in fairness…"

That's true

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I'm going to go and do a moany thread.

Power of suggestion n all that. I'm highly suggestible. What can I say"

Love it Granny. Please also make sure you include some stock phrases, they really make my year.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

I’ve done a “send boobs” post and I think it’s the first time nobody has sent boobs!

The decline is terminal!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"Yes!

I’ve done a “send boobs” post and I think it’s the first time nobody has sent boobs!

The decline is terminal!

Footballs on, what do you expect?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

east of Stamford

It's up to us to lift them up.

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By *agatoXXXMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace

"Yes!

I’ve done a “send boobs” post and I think it’s the first time nobody has sent boobs!

The decline is terminal!

Footballs on, what do you expect?

Nobody in Scotland is watching. Have they not sent any?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

No, the pack mentality of denigration and condescension has always been here. It has improved slightly after Covid though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes!

I’ve done a “send boobs” post and I think it’s the first time nobody has sent boobs!

The decline is terminal!

Footballs on, what do you expect?

Nobody in Scotland is watching. Have they not sent any?"

The Scots have let me down…

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By *agatoXXXMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace

"Yes!

I’ve done a “send boobs” post and I think it’s the first time nobody has sent boobs!

The decline is terminal!

Footballs on, what do you expect?

Nobody in Scotland is watching. Have they not sent any?

The Scots have let me down…

And I have no boobs to send.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Yes!

I’ve done a “send boobs” post and I think it’s the first time nobody has sent boobs!

The decline is terminal!

Footballs on, what do you expect?

Nobody in Scotland is watching. Have they not sent any?

The Scots have let me down…

They let EVERYONE down

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By *urry BlokeMan
over a year ago

I think they have become quite insular

I won't use the C Word

It's overworked

I do, however, see many valid comments ignored whilst trivial comments from others are jumped on with gusto

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By *ony MannMan
over a year ago

South Newton

I do recall help and hits, they are still seem to be here, but not some many discussions as there use to be.

There are alot more show us your pics threads, not so many that get me thinking about offering coffee to someone

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By *agatoXXXMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace

"I think they have become quite insular

I won't use the C Word

It's overworked

I do, however, see many valid comments ignored whilst trivial comments from others are jumped on with gusto"

I don't like that word either, and I see it being used in a childish way, as though they had just learned, and use it purely for shock value. It's not clever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they have become quite insular

I won't use the C Word

It's overworked

I do, however, see many valid comments ignored whilst trivial comments from others are jumped on with gusto

I don't like that word either, and I see it being used in a childish way, as though they had just learned, and use it purely for shock value. It's not clever."
I'm not sure if you are talking about the same C bomb ...

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