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By *luehairedcumslut OP   Couple
23 weeks ago

St Neots

Lots of lovely posts about us dads. Being a dad is so rewarding and every day I spend with my boy is a blessing.

But how about a massive FUCK YOU to all those "Dad's" that never stepped up, were nasty cunts, put their own needs ahead of their kids, put extra pressure on all those mums.

Not even sure mine is still alive or not as I cut all contact with him in my teens but FUCK YOU. Life has been so much better without you in it

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
23 weeks ago

Hell

Thanks for all the daddy issues, Dad

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
23 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

On a day for celebrating those who did, I'd rather not give energy to those who didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"On a day for celebrating those who did, I'd rather not give energy to those who didn't "

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By *esthetic21Man
23 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

What's the point? It's like drinking poison yourself and expecting these dad's to die. Go get sone fresh air and reset your thought process

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By *lex4660Man
23 weeks ago

Thame


"On a day for celebrating those who did, I'd rather not give energy to those who didn't "

100%

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By *orthern_nudieMan
23 weeks ago

leeds

Aha thanks dad for never being there, made my life simpler

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By *orthern_nudieMan
23 weeks ago

leeds

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By *ocknrollerMan
23 weeks ago

Glasgow/Stirlingshire


"On a day for celebrating those who did, I'd rather not give energy to those who didn't "

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By *luehairedcumslut OP   Couple
23 weeks ago

St Neots


"What's the point? It's like drinking poison yourself and expecting these dad's to die. Go get sone fresh air and reset your thought process"

Very true, it's the only day I ever hold any resentment.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
23 weeks ago

in Lancashire


"On a day for celebrating those who did, I'd rather not give energy to those who didn't "

Totally this..

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By *luehairedcumslut OP   Couple
23 weeks ago

St Neots


"On a day for celebrating those who did, I'd rather not give energy to those who didn't "

Very True again

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
23 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Lots of lovely posts about us dads. Being a dad is so rewarding and every day I spend with my boy is a blessing.

But how about a massive FUCK YOU to all those "Dad's" that never stepped up, were nasty cunts, put their own needs ahead of their kids, put extra pressure on all those mums.

Not even sure mine is still alive or not as I cut all contact with him in my teens but FUCK YOU. Life has been so much better without you in it

"

Some resentment coming out there Op...

Mr

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By *oodmessMan
23 weeks ago

yumsville

Seems a bit of a waste of energy. Not only to focus on a negative but to focus negatively on a day where as you say, you've not acted as yours did (applies to women taking up that role).

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By *ester.jamesMan
23 weeks ago

birmingham


"On a day for celebrating those who did, I'd rather not give energy to those who didn't "

This and the fact i have the common saying (when my family is brought up) I don’t have a dad. I don’t have a father. I have a Jason

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By *luehairedcumslut OP   Couple
23 weeks ago

St Neots


"Lots of lovely posts about us dads. Being a dad is so rewarding and every day I spend with my boy is a blessing.

But how about a massive FUCK YOU to all those "Dad's" that never stepped up, were nasty cunts, put their own needs ahead of their kids, put extra pressure on all those mums.

Not even sure mine is still alive or not as I cut all contact with him in my teens but FUCK YOU. Life has been so much better without you in it

Some resentment coming out there Op...

Mr "

Yep...the only day it gets in my head abit, as I just don't understand it. I've got happy thoughts now.. Sooo all good haha

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
23 weeks ago

in Lancashire

On such days I can emphasize with anyone for whom the 'day' might trigger bad memories, and whilst it's easier to say having not been there a strategy going forward might be to not let that persons negative behaviours continue to affect you..

Move on and be you not tainted by them..

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
23 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Lots of lovely posts about us dads. Being a dad is so rewarding and every day I spend with my boy is a blessing.

But how about a massive FUCK YOU to all those "Dad's" that never stepped up, were nasty cunts, put their own needs ahead of their kids, put extra pressure on all those mums.

Not even sure mine is still alive or not as I cut all contact with him in my teens but FUCK YOU. Life has been so much better without you in it

Some resentment coming out there Op...

Mr

Yep...the only day it gets in my head abit, as I just don't understand it. I've got happy thoughts now.. Sooo all good haha "

I can understand why it would play on your head today of all days, maybe you shouldn't try and understand it, but understand how you experienced it, and how it's impacted your life, you may find that it starts to ease a little bit...

Mr

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By *luehairedcumslut OP   Couple
23 weeks ago

St Neots


"On such days I can emphasize with anyone for whom the 'day' might trigger bad memories, and whilst it's easier to say having not been there a strategy going forward might be to not let that persons negative behaviours continue to affect you..

Move on and be you not tainted by them.. "

100%

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By *utterfly64Woman
23 weeks ago

Raynes Park

Feeling sad for my kids as their dad passed away. Hope they are remembering him today

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
23 weeks ago

Hell


"On such days I can emphasize with anyone for whom the 'day' might trigger bad memories, and whilst it's easier to say having not been there a strategy going forward might be to not let that persons negative behaviours continue to affect you..

Move on and be you not tainted by them.. "

We are us because of important figures in our lives and their behaviours and influence shape us (nurture over nature)

It’s impossible to be “us” without being influenced or tainted by other people and our experiences with them.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
23 weeks ago

Coventry

I hear you OP - my kid struggled with Father's day at school, the run up to the 'making cards' and shit - so we changed it to happy Godfather's day, and she made things for him.

Another single parent friend used it as a favourite male role model day.

They aint always there but its their loss, find one who was if you can xxx

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By *luehairedcumslut OP   Couple
23 weeks ago

St Neots


"Lots of lovely posts about us dads. Being a dad is so rewarding and every day I spend with my boy is a blessing.

But how about a massive FUCK YOU to all those "Dad's" that never stepped up, were nasty cunts, put their own needs ahead of their kids, put extra pressure on all those mums.

Not even sure mine is still alive or not as I cut all contact with him in my teens but FUCK YOU. Life has been so much better without you in it

Some resentment coming out there Op...

Mr

Yep...the only day it gets in my head abit, as I just don't understand it. I've got happy thoughts now.. Sooo all good haha

I can understand why it would play on your head today of all days, maybe you shouldn't try and understand it, but understand how you experienced it, and how it's impacted your life, you may find that it starts to ease a little bit...

Mr"

Thanks mate. Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago


"Lots of lovely posts about us dads. Being a dad is so rewarding and every day I spend with my boy is a blessing.

But how about a massive FUCK YOU to all those "Dad's" that never stepped up, were nasty cunts, put their own needs ahead of their kids, put extra pressure on all those mums.

Not even sure mine is still alive or not as I cut all contact with him in my teens but FUCK YOU. Life has been so much better without you in it

"

I get where you're coming from and this day isn't always a celebration, it can be a triggering day and a day of loss/mourning for what you missed out on in terms of a wonderful nurturing Father.

If it's any consolation, there are many out there who feel the same so take heart that you are not alone in this difficult day and you have had the chance to not repeat the pattern with your own child xx

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
23 weeks ago

in Lancashire


"On such days I can emphasize with anyone for whom the 'day' might trigger bad memories, and whilst it's easier to say having not been there a strategy going forward might be to not let that persons negative behaviours continue to affect you..

Move on and be you not tainted by them..

We are us because of important figures in our lives and their behaviours and influence shape us (nurture over nature)

It’s impossible to be “us” without being influenced or tainted by other people and our experiences with them. "

I agree with the former but we have choices as to whether we allow or continue with negative or plain wrong aspects that we didn't like..

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By *luehairedcumslut OP   Couple
23 weeks ago

St Neots


"Lots of lovely posts about us dads. Being a dad is so rewarding and every day I spend with my boy is a blessing.

But how about a massive FUCK YOU to all those "Dad's" that never stepped up, were nasty cunts, put their own needs ahead of their kids, put extra pressure on all those mums.

Not even sure mine is still alive or not as I cut all contact with him in my teens but FUCK YOU. Life has been so much better without you in it

I get where you're coming from and this day isn't always a celebration, it can be a triggering day and a day of loss/mourning for what you missed out on in terms of a wonderful nurturing Father.

If it's any consolation, there are many out there who feel the same so take heart that you are not alone in this difficult day and you have had the chance to not repeat the pattern with your own child xx"

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By *parkle1974Woman
23 weeks ago

Leeds

My dad is the only male I will ever trust x

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By *luehairedcumslut OP   Couple
23 weeks ago

St Neots


"

We are us because of important figures in our lives and their behaviours and influence shape us (nurture over nature)

It’s impossible to be “us” without being influenced or tainted by other people and our experiences with them. "

Yeah don't think some people understand the consequences of their words/actions towards their kids that can impact them well into adulthood.

Sorry for such a negative thread folks... Sometimes things just spill over that probably shouldnt

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By *piritualBlackBWW1979Woman
23 weeks ago

Medway


"Lots of lovely posts about us dads. Being a dad is so rewarding and every day I spend with my boy is a blessing.

But how about a massive FUCK YOU to all those "Dad's" that never stepped up, were nasty cunts, put their own needs ahead of their kids, put extra pressure on all those mums.

Not even sure mine is still alive or not as I cut all contact with him in my teens but FUCK YOU. Life has been so much better without you in it

"

I feel this quote, thankfully not about my own Dad though.

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By *eebubbles76Man
23 weeks ago

Halifax


"Lots of lovely posts about us dads. Being a dad is so rewarding and every day I spend with my boy is a blessing.

But how about a massive FUCK YOU to all those "Dad's" that never stepped up, were nasty cunts, put their own needs ahead of their kids, put extra pressure on all those mums.

Not even sure mine is still alive or not as I cut all contact with him in my teens but FUCK YOU. Life has been so much better without you in it

"

Totally with you, not seen my dad since I was 13 I think

Don't even know if he is still alive

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
23 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"Lots of lovely posts about us dads. Being a dad is so rewarding and every day I spend with my boy is a blessing.

But how about a massive FUCK YOU to all those "Dad's" that never stepped up, were nasty cunts, put their own needs ahead of their kids, put extra pressure on all those mums.

Not even sure mine is still alive or not as I cut all contact with him in my teens but FUCK YOU. Life has been so much better without you in it

Some resentment coming out there Op...

Mr

Yep...the only day it gets in my head abit, as I just don't understand it. I've got happy thoughts now.. Sooo all good haha

I can understand why it would play on your head today of all days, maybe you shouldn't try and understand it, but understand how you experienced it, and how it's impacted your life, you may find that it starts to ease a little bit...

Mr

Thanks mate. Wise words "

No worries mate

Mr

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By *ot to giggleWoman
23 weeks ago

Coventry


"

We are us because of important figures in our lives and their behaviours and influence shape us (nurture over nature)

It’s impossible to be “us” without being influenced or tainted by other people and our experiences with them.

Yeah don't think some people understand the consequences of their words/actions towards their kids that can impact them well into adulthood.

Sorry for such a negative thread folks... Sometimes things just spill over that probably shouldnt "

it happens and sometimes its good to vent. Mine is my waste of space mother, but one good thing from it - showed me the type of parent i was not going to be xxx

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
23 weeks ago

Glasgow

Mine has passed but we had a poor relationship for many reasons

My daughters is an idiot who has alienated her but blames me for doing so, they barely speak now despite her giving him several “second chances” he blows it every time! Infuriates and saddens me on her behalf. She’s an adult and handles it as well as possible but I know it hurts her.

Not every dad/father is worthy of the title.

So yea, I hear ya op, and I send my heartfelt support as yes I’m finding today hard too.

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