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By *reggSausage OP   Man
28 weeks ago

derby

Got deleted, so I blocked her, not because I’m a spoilt brat throwing a tantrum but because for me on here it’s good housekeeping and means I won’t message and bother the lady again, anyone else do this or am I OCD

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Lol u brat m8 only jokeing

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
28 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I would absolutely love it if more people did that than the ones who just message again when they forget they've already shot their shot

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
28 weeks ago

Leeds

I wish more people did do that.

Mrs

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By *oodmessMan
28 weeks ago

yumsville

If you're being OCD, don't bloc, instead save your message in private notes so if you're about to message again or whoever messages you, you have it to read again. You can then see if you would have replied or you give back the ignore with added mwahahhhahaa

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By *ife NinjaMan
28 weeks ago

Dunfermline

I don't see an issue with that

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
28 weeks ago

Naughty Lane


"I don't see an issue with that "

Neither do i

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By *eyond PurityCouple
28 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

Would be the best way or at the least make a note on the profile to remind you it was a firm no thanks.

K

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By *issBellaWoman
28 weeks ago

Wales

It's better for both parties.

I had several messages off one person over two months. In those messages he'd apologised twice for messaging me a second time

I felt bad not replying, so told him he's too local and blocked to avoid a repeat performance.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
28 weeks ago

London or Bedford


"Got deleted, so I blocked her, not because I’m a spoilt brat throwing a tantrum but because for me on here it’s good housekeeping and means I won’t message and bother the lady again, anyone else do this or am I OCD "

Me too

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
28 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

It’s a good practice and some women do it.

I think it prevents a nasty message for basically saying “your not what I or we are looking for”

I don’t take offence.

But i always used to delete the message and block if I got a read but no reply or deleted.

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By *ife NinjaMan
28 weeks ago

Dunfermline


"It's better for both parties.

I had several messages off one person over two months. In those messages he'd apologised twice for messaging me a second time

I felt bad not replying, so told him he's too local and blocked to avoid a repeat performance.

"

It was to talk about your finely honed derriere, obviously

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
28 weeks ago

Norwich

Seems like a reasonable strategy

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By *orphia2003Woman
28 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Makes complete sense to me.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
28 weeks ago

somewhere

That's some good fabmin right there tbh! Wish there was more like you x

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By *ou only live onceMan
28 weeks ago

London

Nope, very sensible Fabmin.

That or a private note so you don't message again, but still want to look at their profile/perve their hot pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago

Lots of people do it, if it works for you then who cares what anyone else thinks.

I have opened messages from guys before and gone back later to reply to find they've blocked me.

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By *r Tom FooleryMan
28 weeks ago

Coventry


"Lots of people do it, if it works for you then who cares what anyone else thinks.

I have opened messages from guys before and gone back later to reply to find they've blocked me. "

Curveball

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By *aughtynottsCouple
28 weeks ago

Outside Nottingham

Bit too easy on here to press delete by accident I think done it many a time and tried pressing back button and it's gone ooops

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By *inger_SnapWoman
28 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

More people should do that, especially after the 2nd or third msg lol

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By *ittleshit-SteveMan
28 weeks ago

Devon

I agree with above posts, just good practice

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By *herry delightWoman
28 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

When I get to over a hundred messages I deleted all my messages.

It doesn't mean I not interested in a person just trying to keep on top of my message.

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By *parkle1974Woman
28 weeks ago

Leeds

You need to do a masterclass on this OP....teach other men to do the same.

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By *ackformore100Man
28 weeks ago

Tin town


"Got deleted, so I blocked her, not because I’m a spoilt brat throwing a tantrum but because for me on here it’s good housekeeping and means I won’t message and bother the lady again, anyone else do this or am I OCD "

She wanted to reply, she was waiting for you to visit... But pressed delete by accident. But if you're looking for housekeeping I have a pile of ironing for next weeks work shirts to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"Got deleted, so I blocked her, not because I’m a spoilt brat throwing a tantrum but because for me on here it’s good housekeeping and means I won’t message and bother the lady again, anyone else do this or am I OCD "

Nothing wrong with this, I do the same. They have no obligation to tell you they're not interested so blocking them to ensure you don't mistakenly message them again is good practice.

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
28 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

I think it's sensible of you op, saves you sending her another message in future.

The block button is a great function on here.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
28 weeks ago

Coventry

you do FAB how you want to use it - I dont use my block button much to be honest, ignoring works

although saying that I did use it yesterday - needed dusting off

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By *ister_ee_1981Man
28 weeks ago

Sunniest Exeter...

No issues as far as I can see. If, whoever you were messaging was interested in you, then they would reply.

Use the housekeeping tools as you are fit, and find someone thats interested in you.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
28 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

I blocked a guy just last night for repeatedly sending me messages even though I'd opened none of them. The last straw was the message he sent last night giving out because I'd commented on a forum post but hadn't bothered replying to him.

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By *uger n Spice78Couple
28 weeks ago

South East Coast


"Got deleted, so I blocked her, not because I’m a spoilt brat throwing a tantrum but because for me on here it’s good housekeeping and means I won’t message and bother the lady again, anyone else do this or am I OCD "

We do this as well.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
28 weeks ago

BRIDPORT

Yeah, but then you won’t be able to carry on perving their pics

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By *reggSausage OP   Man
28 weeks ago

derby

My logic is also only message ladies when they are actually online, I know this could add more vagueness as they might be online and not actually paying attention

Ladies in here do get hundreds if not thousands of messages and sifting through that isn’t easy and in my own uninformed opinion it’s just as hard for the ladies as the men, just my two pence worth so don’t shoot me for it.

I think the ladies should from time to time change the age range they are looking for to something random like 41 to 41 (choose your number) as not only does this restrict your messages but it also allows the ladies to carry on messaging who they want any age without seeing the inbox racking up the numbers whilst online, maybe there should be a sort of implementation of best practice, who knows

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By *ib.Man
28 weeks ago

Hampshire

I do this too - saves them clogging my search if they're not interested.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
28 weeks ago

Reading

People, men and women get to use the block button however they wish. You are answerable to noone.

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By *hunky GentMan
28 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've started doing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
28 weeks ago


"My logic is also only message ladies when they are actually online, I know this could add more vagueness as they might be online and not actually paying attention

Ladies in here do get hundreds if not thousands of messages and sifting through that isn’t easy and in my own uninformed opinion it’s just as hard for the ladies as the men, just my two pence worth so don’t shoot me for it.

I think the ladies should from time to time change the age range they are looking for to something random like 41 to 41 (choose your number) as not only does this restrict your messages but it also allows the ladies to carry on messaging who they want any age without seeing the inbox racking up the numbers whilst online, maybe there should be a sort of implementation of best practice, who knows"

I do this when I know I'm not even gonna look at them, it's a tad egotistic just to leave it to rack up knowing full well you'll just bulk delete.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
28 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"My logic is also only message ladies when they are actually online, I know this could add more vagueness as they might be online and not actually paying attention

Ladies in here do get hundreds if not thousands of messages and sifting through that isn’t easy and in my own uninformed opinion it’s just as hard for the ladies as the men, just my two pence worth so don’t shoot me for it.

I think the ladies should from time to time change the age range they are looking for to something random like 41 to 41 (choose your number) as not only does this restrict your messages but it also allows the ladies to carry on messaging who they want any age without seeing the inbox racking up the numbers whilst online, maybe there should be a sort of implementation of best practice, who knows"

I do. It’s at 99

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