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"might get recognised from work so don't show it x" Yeah but you would be able to send a face pic to a prospective meet wouldn't you? The OP is talking about people who don't have them to send. | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one" Im really not sure, there is an option to keep them hidden even from private viewing and send with message. Ive had so many guys say they will email me them, one im not giving out my email and two what is the difference from putting it on here and emailing it. If i was going to do something sinister with it i could do it from email. I understand descretion but surely they dont expect you to turn up to a meet blindfolded so you cant see them | |||
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"might get recognised from work so don't show it x Yeah but you would be able to send a face pic to a prospective meet wouldn't you? The OP is talking about people who don't have them to send." ah i see my mistake, comment cheerfully withdrawn | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one Im really not sure, there is an option to keep them hidden even from private viewing and send with message. Ive had so many guys say they will email me them, one im not giving out my email and two what is the difference from putting it on here and emailing it. If i was going to do something sinister with it i could do it from email. I understand descretion but surely they dont expect you to turn up to a meet blindfolded so you cant see them" | |||
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" I understand descretion but surely they dont expect you to turn up to a meet blindfolded so you cant see them" If they could get away with it, I am sure that would be the expectation ! | |||
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"I have face pics in friends only & private but what makes me laugh is the amount of profiles that say no face pic no chat yet all there profile show is stocking clad legs & a bottom " I'd recognise that torso anywhere | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one" Give me your address and then look through your bathroom window | |||
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"I know there are some people that will only send face pics my email to avoid having fabswingers stamped across it. " Maybe because they're using images from Google? :D I have the safari plugin installed to google reverse people's images ... if they're images from years ago on a billion sites, I simply ignore those people as they're clearly using fake images. Especially if they tell you it's a new image. Our images are all over the web for sure, but almost all of the sites you can find them on, be it blogs, porn sites etc ... almost all of them can be traced back to the origin ... ie: us :D | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one Im really not sure, there is an option to keep them hidden even from private viewing and send with message. Ive had so many guys say they will email me them, one im not giving out my email and two what is the difference from putting it on here and emailing it. If i was going to do something sinister with it i could do it from email. I understand descretion but surely they dont expect you to turn up to a meet blindfolded so you cant see them" I don't understand, why people hide their faces or even entire profiles but I guess it is a matter of free choice so good luck to one and all. | |||
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"I have face pics in friends only & private but what makes me laugh is the amount of profiles that say no face pic no chat yet all there profile show is stocking clad legs & a bottom I'd recognise that torso anywhere " haha damn youve got me.! will gladly attach my pics to a message with someone im chatting too.just some many expect that from the off. I mean do you attach a face pic with your first message introducing yourself.?! | |||
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"I know there are some people that will only send face pics my email to avoid having fabswingers stamped across it. " I don't understand why that would be a problem if the connection is made on here. I show enough of my face that anyone who knows me would be able to identify me but I keep the full face picture to send when I choose. | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one Im really not sure, there is an option to keep them hidden even from private viewing and send with message. Ive had so many guys say they will email me them, one im not giving out my email and two what is the difference from putting it on here and emailing it. If i was going to do something sinister with it i could do it from email. I understand descretion but surely they dont expect you to turn up to a meet blindfolded so you cant see them I don't understand, why people hide their faces or even entire profiles but I guess it is a matter of free choice so good luck to one and all. " My profile is hidden but thats different. Its because im not meeting. If i was going to meet someone i wouldnt expect someone to be so stupid as to message a hidden profile, however since its been hidden ive been proved wrong on that score | |||
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"I get i'll send one to your mobile, email or whatsapp. As if im going to give my details out. Why cant they put on in private on here.. Bloody idiots, i give them a wide birth!!" | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one Im really not sure, there is an option to keep them hidden even from private viewing and send with message. Ive had so many guys say they will email me them, one im not giving out my email and two what is the difference from putting it on here and emailing it. If i was going to do something sinister with it i could do it from email. I understand descretion but surely they dont expect you to turn up to a meet blindfolded so you cant see them I don't understand, why people hide their faces or even entire profiles but I guess it is a matter of free choice so good luck to one and all. My profile is hidden but thats different. Its because im not meeting. If i was going to meet someone i wouldnt expect someone to be so stupid as to message a hidden profile, however since its been hidden ive been proved wrong on that score " That figures Hidden profile tell you what I will just message them, do they ever learn? | |||
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"I know there are some people that will only send face pics my email to avoid having fabswingers stamped across it. " This is true. A body pic isn't a worry, but a face pic, even one thatd totally normal and innocent looking with fabswingers and your user name stamped across it can, in the wrong hands, cause a problem for some people with certain jobs. You could always easily set up an email address just for Fab. | |||
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"I know there are some people that will only send face pics my email to avoid having fabswingers stamped across it. I don't understand why that would be a problem if the connection is made on here. I show enough of my face that anyone who knows me would be able to identify me but I keep the full face picture to send when I choose." It's not a problem to me as I will always send mine. But I can understand why some would be reluctant. I find that more understandable than withholding an email address which can easily be a disposable one. | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one" I too have my face pics on private and usually will send on request if I intend meeting. I hate when they ask for email or mobile number to send one. If it can't be sent on here forget it. | |||
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"Given you have to sign in to see anything but a blurry pic on someone's profile, I can't see the defense 'I can't because of work, etc.' ever holding water, as the only way your boss will find out is if he/she is a member too?? " What if someone he works with decides to share his profile anonymously. They may not have thier face pic up so no one would know who it was! He may want his private life kept PRIVATE !!!!!! | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one I too have my face pics on private and usually will send on request if I intend meeting. I hate when they ask for email or mobile number to send one. If it can't be sent on here forget it." Exactly. I don't mind if they don't want to send me a pic via here, because I just won't meet them. I'm not giving out my number or private email just to see a pic. | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one" Because 9 out of 10 profiles are fakes | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one Because 9 out of 10 profiles are fakes" checked all the profiles? | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one Because 9 out of 10 profiles are fakes" 90% chance it's you then? | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one 1000's of fakes on here , dreamers and timewasters they have no intention of meeting let alone show their faces. Its fact Because 9 out of 10 profiles are fakes checked all the profiles?" | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one 1000's of fakes on here , dreamers and timewasters they have no intention of meeting let alone show their faces. Its fact Because 9 out of 10 profiles are fakes checked all the profiles?" but 9 out of 10? | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one Because 9 out of 10 profiles are fakes" and you know this how ????? | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one Because 9 out of 10 profiles are fakes 90% chance it's you then?" 10% chance im not though | |||
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"I have face pics in friends only & private but what makes me laugh is the amount of profiles that say no face pic no chat yet all there profile show is stocking clad legs & a bottom " That's all I show - unless I intend meeting. Then I will gladly show a face pic. | |||
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"Given you have to sign in to see anything but a blurry pic on someone's profile, I can't see the defense 'I can't because of work, etc.' ever holding water, as the only way your boss will find out is if he/she is a member too?? What if someone he works with decides to share his profile anonymously. They may not have thier face pic up so no one would know who it was! He may want his private life kept PRIVATE !!!!!!" It is a risk we all take - and, how would they get access to his profile unless he allows it. As someone has said - this is not blind date. If I am going to meet someone I base that partly on the face I see. I see no face, I see no point in showing mine. Or in arranging a meet. Most on here do the same thing - send face pics on request. If you can't do that then it is going to be very hard for you to get a meet - be prepared for a lot of disappointment. | |||
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"I have face pics in friends only & private but what makes me laugh is the amount of profiles that say no face pic no chat yet all there profile show is stocking clad legs & a bottom That's all I show - unless I intend meeting. Then I will gladly show a face pic." Never 100% believe anything you read on a profile . If it says no face pic no chat then don't chat cause you are very very unlikely to get one back | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one" I get that all the time.. really annoys me. That or wanting my skype or email.I find people like that are so UP Themselves in self importance. I have no time for them at all. | |||
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"I have face pics in friends only & private but what makes me laugh is the amount of profiles that say no face pic no chat yet all there profile show is stocking clad legs & a bottom That's all I show - unless I intend meeting. Then I will gladly show a face pic." same for me tend to stay away v those profiles not worth wasting my time | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one I get that all the time.. really annoys me. That or wanting my skype or email.I find people like that are so UP Themselves in self importance. I have no time for them at all. " | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one I get that all the time.. really annoys me. That or wanting my skype or email.I find people like that are so UP Themselves in self importance. I have no time for them at all. " Not sure I understand why it makes people 'up themselves in self importance'.... | |||
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"Given you have to sign in to see anything but a blurry pic on someone's profile, I can't see the defense 'I can't because of work, etc.' ever holding water, as the only way your boss will find out is if he/she is a member too?? What if someone he works with decides to share his profile anonymously. They may not have thier face pic up so no one would know who it was! He may want his private life kept PRIVATE !!!!!! It is a risk we all take - and, how would they get access to his profile unless he allows it. As someone has said - this is not blind date. If I am going to meet someone I base that partly on the face I see. I see no face, I see no point in showing mine. Or in arranging a meet. Most on here do the same thing - send face pics on request. If you can't do that then it is going to be very hard for you to get a meet - be prepared for a lot of disappointment." No one said anything about not sending a face pic beforehand. Only a fool would meet without seeing a face pic or camming. We're talking about having one as an avatar or on profile. Jeez. | |||
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"Given you have to sign in to see anything but a blurry pic on someone's profile, I can't see the defense 'I can't because of work, etc.' ever holding water, as the only way your boss will find out is if he/she is a member too?? What if someone he works with decides to share his profile anonymously. They may not have thier face pic up so no one would know who it was! He may want his private life kept PRIVATE !!!!!! It is a risk we all take - and, how would they get access to his profile unless he allows it. As someone has said - this is not blind date. If I am going to meet someone I base that partly on the face I see. I see no face, I see no point in showing mine. Or in arranging a meet. Most on here do the same thing - send face pics on request. If you can't do that then it is going to be very hard for you to get a meet - be prepared for a lot of disappointment. No one said anything about not sending a face pic beforehand. Only a fool would meet without seeing a face pic or camming. We're talking about having one as an avatar or on profile. Jeez. " I apologise for misreading. I still would not have it on my avatar. My choice and the risk is too great that someone I do not want to meet (too near work, etc) might recognise me. | |||
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"I have face pics in friends only & private but what makes me laugh is the amount of profiles that say no face pic no chat yet all there profile show is stocking clad legs & a bottom That's all I show - unless I intend meeting. Then I will gladly show a face pic." yes me too but the amount of profiles that say no face pic no chat is stupid in my opinion.as my other message suggests | |||
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"Why are people so scared to show their faces on here. I have mine so friends only can see and happy to send via a message but some just wont. The best one I've had is give me your mobile number and I will send you one I get that all the time.. really annoys me. That or wanting my skype or email.I find people like that are so UP Themselves in self importance. I have no time for them at all. Not sure I understand why it makes people 'up themselves in self importance'...." **** They often say they are too important to show their face in a place like this..Usually means they married and scared to get caught I guess | |||
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"Given you have to sign in to see anything but a blurry pic on someone's profile, I can't see the defense 'I can't because of work, etc.' ever holding water, as the only way your boss will find out is if he/she is a member too?? What if someone he works with decides to share his profile anonymously. They may not have thier face pic up so no one would know who it was! He may want his private life kept PRIVATE !!!!!! It is a risk we all take - and, how would they get access to his profile unless he allows it. As someone has said - this is not blind date. If I am going to meet someone I base that partly on the face I see. I see no face, I see no point in showing mine. Or in arranging a meet. Most on here do the same thing - send face pics on request. If you can't do that then it is going to be very hard for you to get a meet - be prepared for a lot of disappointment. No one said anything about not sending a face pic beforehand. Only a fool would meet without seeing a face pic or camming. We're talking about having one as an avatar or on profile. Jeez. I apologise for misreading. I still would not have it on my avatar. My choice and the risk is too great that someone I do not want to meet (too near work, etc) might recognise me." You donut. xxxxx | |||
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"Given you have to sign in to see anything but a blurry pic on someone's profile, I can't see the defense 'I can't because of work, etc.' ever holding water, as the only way your boss will find out is if he/she is a member too?? " Not necessarily- if your face is known as someone who works in a school an anonymous tip off to that school can cause some grief. Not necessarily sacking. Especially in a church school! Personally I wouldn't like to have to discuss my sex life with management and our Vicar! | |||
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