FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked list.. How many on yours?

By *orphia2003 OP Woman
24 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

I have 206 people on my blocked list, I just counted them. Didn't realise it was so many. Predominantly single men, but as they are by far the demographic that contact me most, it stands to reason.

With a few exceptions I don't usually block people I haven't spoken to, so have to assume I've had some sort of online interaction with most of them.

How many are on your list?

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
24 weeks ago

Leeds

Only a handful on this account, on the couples one too many to count

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By *erry bull1Man
24 weeks ago

doncaster

None

I just delete messages , they soon stop bothering me

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By *allandathleticMan
24 weeks ago

Asgard

Just a few on mine. For alsorts of reasons.

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By *ascaIMan
24 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

5… for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Quite a lot, it's usually gay/bi messaging me dirty stuff when I have stated I am not into men

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By *heeseandCrackersCouple
24 weeks ago

Newcastle

30. Mainly for people who aren’t interested in us. No sense in messaging them further. Only a few we’ve blocked due to being abusive.

Would be nice if we could make some extra custom lists. Just having friends and hot list is quite limited.

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By *hrek101Man
24 weeks ago

Herts

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
24 weeks ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

I don't know as you can only see the most recent 240 ish and mines way over that

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Uh.

So many I can't see the people I blocked more than a few weeks ago on the list

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By *8on33Man
24 weeks ago

winfrith

big fat zero on mine .

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By *avexxMan
24 weeks ago

cheshire

only a couple,,

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By *loria JamesTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Durham

123 on mine x

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By *uckurcumMan
24 weeks ago

Bishop Auckland

4.,..They each deserve it ....utter idiots ...

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By *roadShoulderzMan
24 weeks ago

Petersfield

159 on my block list and only 12 friends. I guess I'm not a nice person

(If you use the "find" function on the block list page and search for "remove" you get the total. Saves counting)

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By *ealitybitesMan
24 weeks ago

Belfast

40 odd on mine.

Mostly people I've never spoken to but they don't fit my preferences so it's the best way of keeping a tidy and relevant updates page.

Then a mixture of women and couples who either have a horrible attitude on the forums or a pleasant forum persona and are completely different in private.

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By *naswingdressWoman
24 weeks ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've hit the block button squillions of times. I don't know how many have gone UNLOS though.

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By *obilebottomMan
24 weeks ago

All over

643

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By *os19Man
24 weeks ago

Edmonton

Zero I either reply to a message if I am interested or can offer advice or if I am not interested just delete

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

154 by my count

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By *en ukMan
24 weeks ago

harrow London

I have few

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

"159 on my block list and only 12 friends. I guess I'm not a nice person

(If you use the "find" function on the block list page and search for "remove" you get the total. Saves counting)"

It only shows the most recent 240 though.

Anyone blocked before those ones you can't see unless you unblock the newer ones or they go unlos.

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By *rucking-HellMan
24 weeks ago

Northampton

Only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Too many to count

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By *istressSubCuckMan
24 weeks ago

Winchester

Just the one currently

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By *ellhungvweMan
24 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Loads. People who aren’t a match or people who think I am not a match and then I have counter blocked.

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
24 weeks ago

coleraine

13 men 5 couples.

Men for being complete nut jobs

It has been fascinating how abusive couples can be.

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By *urry BlokeMan
24 weeks ago

Stalybridge

One of which is my next door neighbour

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
24 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

2 I fink......

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By *LR68Man
24 weeks ago

Peterborough

Only 1 .. purely because the 'update status' she puts outs, so negative it had me rolling my eyes everytime i saw them

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By *ou only live onceMan
24 weeks ago

London

41. Mainly people I think are twunts, with a smattering of people who kept messaging me when I didn't want them to.

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By *issalignedTV/TS
24 weeks ago

London

Lost count but I’m aware that it’s kept on a separate server

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By *oxy jWoman
24 weeks ago

somerset

im a heavy blocker so 1000s id say you can only see the most recent on your list so anything over that number falls of the page ... i think its 200 or 250 after that you can see them on your list

i block for many reasons not all bad but to make my fab easier especially local

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By *alcon77Man
24 weeks ago

under the sun & the moon

About 40

-forum related, mostly.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
24 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

I'd say 700/1000, we automatically block all men within 10miles so our list right there is huge.

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By *JandCMCouple
24 weeks ago

cardiff

We have 26 blocked, normally block then when they keep sending same messages like

"do you wanna fuck" 4 or 5 times within a few days.

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By *anae21Woman
24 weeks ago

Nearer than you think

Loads.

Some because they've been a twat to me, some because they said something distasteful on the forums, some because they'll never be my type.

It's an easy filter.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
24 weeks ago

somewhere

267

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

130 ish

I hardly get any updates now!

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By *iberius61Man
24 weeks ago

Pontefract

Only 1, someone I recognised. Beyond that I'm a man, I don't have the numbers that the ladies and couples have so it's at a level that's easy to just ignore any I'm not interested in.

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By *uenevereWoman
24 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

Loads... I add an about 5 most weekends, when men have had a drink, get the horn and send stupid messages.

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By *issmorganWoman
24 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Absolutely loads of them.

For minging status updates, pics I don't like or sending dick pics.

Somw couples in there too.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
24 weeks ago

Wirral.

I've been on here for almost 5 years. The block button is getting used now more than ever.

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By *ouples_EroticaXXXCouple
24 weeks ago

manchester

"I have 206 people on my blocked list, I just counted them. Didn't realise it was so many. Predominantly single men, but as they are by far the demographic that contact me most, it stands to reason.

With a few exceptions I don't usually block people I haven't spoken to, so have to assume I've had some sort of online interaction with most of them.

How many are on your list?"

You have taken the time to count?

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By *undayGirl 69Woman
24 weeks ago

Coalville

Honestly… hundreds.

It only needs be a word, saying or pic that I don’t like n they’re gone.

I don’t see the point in not blocking.

On the rare occasion I did make exceptions… they proved my first instincts right.

I don’t doubt my judgement anymore.

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By *entlemanrogueMan
24 weeks ago

Motherwell

I just counted and it's 179 total

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By *zeroMan
24 weeks ago

Glasgow

Only 5

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By *anae21Woman
24 weeks ago

Nearer than you think

"Loads.

Some because they've been a twat to me, some because they said something distasteful on the forums, some because they'll never be my type.

It's an easy filter. "

You made me count. 197

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By *laytime_13Woman
24 weeks ago

Lincs

Every now and again I think about lifting my message filters, then read threads like this and think nah…

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
24 weeks ago

Newcastle

Hundreds. Not sure how long the block list goes back but can’t see the end of mine.

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By *aitonelMan
24 weeks ago

Travelling

Lots!

I've taken to blocking those that either have no interest in me, or I them.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
24 weeks ago

Southampton

"Lots!

I've taken to blocking those that either have no interest in me, or I them. "

Yay I'm not blocked

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By *rBobbMan
24 weeks ago

Birmingham

5 on mine

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By *rishVikingMan
24 weeks ago

Shankill

I’m on everyone’s blocked list ahah

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By *hortishblondeWoman
24 weeks ago

Essex

6 on mine

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By *aizyWoman
24 weeks ago

west midlands

30 on mine.

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By *andy CanesWoman
24 weeks ago

south

About 20 odd

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
24 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Well I've been here 18 years and block for all kinds of reasons, so it's a good few.

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By *eardedbloke300Man
24 weeks ago

cardiff

About 20 so far.

Mainly guys that want to meet even though I'm straight but there are a few just to clear up the updates. The ones where they're only seeking a category I clearly don't fit in to.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
24 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

47, repeat messengers, repeat friend adds, or they’re local & I don’t like seeing their updates & what they had for dinner via their stretched out bum hole

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By *ulu00Woman
24 weeks ago

Donegal

More on my block list than my hotlist anyway lol

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By *ah HumbugMan
24 weeks ago

here and there

You all need to add wonko

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By *ifewantsmore777Couple
24 weeks ago

North West

Currently 239….more than we expected

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By *hunky GentMan
24 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Currently 239….more than we expected"

Crikey.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
24 weeks ago

Southampton

"I’m on everyone’s blocked list ahah"

Oh no, you're on my hotlist

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By *orbidden eastMan
24 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Too many, there are a lot of twats in the world

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By *essiCouple
24 weeks ago

suffolk

Not as many as there should be..

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By *hunky GentMan
24 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I think I have about 10.

I know I'm too easy on some people

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By *eeshelleTV/TS
24 weeks ago

Marlow

Blimey I've just had a count up, 140 but I have been on here over ten years

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
24 weeks ago

your head

More than I can see. Definitely over 200.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

"I have 206 people on my blocked list, I just counted them. Didn't realise it was so many. Predominantly single men, but as they are by far the demographic that contact me most, it stands to reason.

With a few exceptions I don't usually block people I haven't spoken to, so have to assume I've had some sort of online interaction with most of them.

How many are on your list?"

Oh fabguys hundreds, on here 3

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I block accounts so they don’t keep showing up in my searches. If they’re not what I’m looking for and I’m not what they want there’s no reason to see each others profiles.

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By *arialoueWoman
24 weeks ago

bradford

Too many

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By *xonman53Man
24 weeks ago

Thame

Got to 200 then lost count as accidently hit the profile...

But do block local profiles that I am blocked from messaging to keep updates clear

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By *adyBugsWoman
24 weeks ago

cognito

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Just checked.. 15.

All of them petty reciprocal blocks when I notice they’ve blocked me - I never block first.

If I knew everyone who had blocked me I’m sure it would run into the hundreds!

Some real random profiles on there tbh!

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By *luefire2Couple
24 weeks ago

just somewhere around here

All those that send dick pictures and "meet now" messages.....so quite a few

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By *y AmoreMan
24 weeks ago

london

A few. I think about 16

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By *he beard and the bumCouple
24 weeks ago

Lancashire

76 profiles on ours. Either people who have been offensive or those we suspect are fake profiles.

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
24 weeks ago

dublin

Only little over 10. Mainly guys when we had single men open to messaging us for a day tbh. I’d imagine that number be MUCH higher if we had kept it open

No offence intended men but some on here ruin it for the majority of you (and us)

- Mrs

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By *iseekingbiCouple
23 weeks ago

N ireland and West Midlands

Quite a lot. Some are blocked due to being eejits or dreamers. Some because we don't fancy them. Some are blocked because we aren't what they are looking for -saves looking at their profile again. Block button always hit when we get " hi, how are you?"message. Also when straight men contact us. Its a great thing, the block button.

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By *hief_Of_AlwaysMan
23 weeks ago

London or Bedford

Infinite

If they’re not interested, I add a Private Note & block ‘em so I know not to try again & why

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Alot !! xx

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By *ustincider888Man
23 weeks ago

Preston Ish

It's taking too long to scroll and count them.

That's how many

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By *aiducMan
23 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Only 10 - blocked for various reasons

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By *MandMMCouple
23 weeks ago

Welwyn garden city

Just 13 at the moment.

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23 weeks ago

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
23 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

Honestly???too many to count...

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By *ittleshit-SteveMan
23 weeks ago

Devon

Just over a 100 now

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By *stwo2023Couple
23 weeks ago

Worcester

Don't know, don't care

Evie

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
23 weeks ago

Wales

Wow, I'm kind this time round

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Just 13 at the moment. "

Unlucky for some…well 13 really

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
23 weeks ago

Reading

So so many.

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By *ubikslongswordMan
23 weeks ago

East Grinstead

15 on mine usually they're knackered there because I've messaged someone and they've deleted so I've seen it as no interest, so I block them to make sure I don't message them again

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By *ndtheswingersMan
23 weeks ago

colchester

20ish

Mostly people who aren't interested in me so I don't bother them again

A couple who are arseholes

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By *oneyBee200Woman
23 weeks ago

Kent

Only two so far but the list will definitely be longer soon.

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By * and M lookingCouple
23 weeks ago

Worcester

We are well in excess of 20,000 on ours.

We just block anyone outside our preferences as it just saves time and effort.

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By *amierebelMan
23 weeks ago

nae danger.

24 on mine and some I have no idea why I actually blocked them

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By *ravelling_WilburyMan
23 weeks ago

Beverley

50. Generally profile pictures that I never wanted to scroll past again (a cock jizzing, etc) and a few catfish/unpleasant people

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
23 weeks ago

Gloucester

Hundreds various reasons

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
23 weeks ago

Hell

9. I don’t block people often, I’m pretty good at just ignoring people.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

"Uh.

So many I can't see the people I blocked more than a few weeks ago on the list

Astonished I'm not on this, 4 on my blocked list.

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By *racyCockloverTV/TS
23 weeks ago

WC1N

24 on my block list.

The latest was added yesterday.

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By *orksRockerMan
23 weeks ago

Bradford

Too numerous to count....

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
23 weeks ago

Around the Midlands

28 on ours

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
23 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Too many and I do block without contact. If they are not what I am seeking or them for me why have them appear on searches etc

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
23 weeks ago

ashford

31 x

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
23 weeks ago

Bristol.

"I have 206 people on my blocked list, I just counted them. Didn't realise it was so many. Predominantly single men, but as they are by far the demographic that contact me most, it stands to reason.

With a few exceptions I don't usually block people I haven't spoken to, so have to assume I've had some sort of online interaction with most of them.

How many are on your list?"

Probably around the same number as you, tho I have no desire to count them!!

I block people I am not interested in...

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By *aughtynottsCouple
23 weeks ago

Outside Nottingham

After 18 years on here I dread to think, I'm not about to count them that's for sure

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By *appycouple300Couple
23 weeks ago

North Dorset

Over 1000

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By *asons_CarounnCouple
23 weeks ago

Manchester

Based on the ‘who loves barebacking thread 23’ 175 messages per thread, plus others we aren’t interested in, probably 5000+

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
23 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I’ve never blocked anyone on here.

There’s plenty of people I ignore though.

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By *punk n gushCouple
23 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

Lol very 1

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By *aughtynottsCouple
23 weeks ago

Outside Nottingham

"Based on the ‘who loves barebacking thread 23’ 175 messages per thread, plus others we aren’t interested in, probably 5000+ "

Same we go through those forums and make sure we block as many as possible.

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
23 weeks ago

Southampton

"I’ve never blocked anyone on here.

There’s plenty of people I ignore though."

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By *eilandChazzCouple
23 weeks ago

Gloucester

Hundreds ! Block capitals on our profile that univited friends invites will result in a block, but people just ignore that to view our private gallery !

Not interested in guys wanking over our pics and videos xx.

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By *nnocentOneWoman
23 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Ooh God knows! I just hope the blocks are limitless.

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
23 weeks ago

St Leonards

212, mostly single women, but I use it as a filter rather than a grumpy response.

Probably half a dozen people (singles, couples) who've pissed me off, the rest are just people I know I wouldn't meet so the block button stops me going through their profiles again.

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By *ickie_RankingMan
23 weeks ago

London

31, bad isn't it

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By *rchie300Man
23 weeks ago

Hamworthy

Zero on mine , a lot different for a dude on here , I’m guessing most blocked people on here are men !!!!!

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By *ustBoWoman
23 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've never counted. I have quite a few though.I was a lot more block happy when I first joined here now I only block when someone is a complete gob shite or if they have blocked me.

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By *ublinstud_MisstattooCouple
23 weeks ago

City Centre

No clue. We haven't seen the bottom of it in a while. Our last account had 4 times more at least

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
23 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

Less than 20, some are counter blocks, others are too close to home and others because of views expressed on threads or messages sent

Tinder

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
23 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

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By *ennieTVTV/TS
23 weeks ago

dublin

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By *veryday_Couple_NextdoorCouple
23 weeks ago

Bristol

Over 50, gave up counting after that

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