FabSwingers.com forum: Did you get better with age?

By *allandathletic OP Man
over a year ago

Asgard

.. as per title.

Do you think you've grown into a look, or where you gifted enough to always be at the forefront of fashion, style and beauty?

I've definitely got better with age.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

No. Not externally but I love me as I am. Every last bit of it

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By *jg83Man
over a year ago

BURNLEY

I don't know if I've grown into a look I think I just care less what people think as I've got older

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think I've remained more or less the same.

I look old, I have looked young.

I have become more mature and I thank god for that! There's something a little off putting to me when people make a virtue from remaining immature their entire life

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By *iss_KateTV/TS
over a year ago

Redhill

I've always been happy with my look and body.

I just wish I had the make up application skills that I have now back when I was younger.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I've always been happy with my look and body.

I just wish I had the make up application skills that I have now back when I was younger."

I just wish I had make up skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Not externally but I love me as I am. Every last bit of it "

This

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Oh I've definitely grown into myself over the years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worry less but others tell me I’ve gotten better with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always been happy with my look and body.

I just wish I had the make up application skills that I have now back when I was younger.

I just wish I had make up skills.

& definitely this

zero make-up skills

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I think I have got more confident with age and I find confident men and women very attractive..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm not old but I'm a hell of a lot more confident of myself and how I look than I used to be, still a long way to go but I'm getting there, hitting the gym will help I'm sure.

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By *icky KlungespeareMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

Oooohhh..a bit more nuanced for me I think (maybe everyone?).

I've "suited" my look 3-6, 15-19, 23-27, 40-45, 48-50, 57 onwards.

I've suited my mind 3-6, 40 onwards.

Both things probably come together as the overall package, both self-view and how others view.

Not sure if that helps your original question, but it's all I've got OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I'm fatter, saggier and less tolerant of people

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"I've always been happy with my look and body.

I just wish I had the make up application skills that I have now back when I was younger.

I just wish I had make up skills.

& definitely this

zero make-up skills"

Sigh, amen sister.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
over a year ago

Glasgow / London

I was an awkward teenager. I like myself so much better now.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Have I got better with age...

Let's see, if I were to shed my fem persona, don my usual jeans, boots and t-shirt, and my big old 1960s-issue army greatcoat, and go and sit on a park bench, or grassy bank... I'd look like Aqualung (of the Jethro Tull song).

When I was 22, at university, I was doing just that one day, when some friends espied me from afar - and accused me of looking like Aqualung! To be fair, I was eyeing little girls (well, first year students) with bad intent...

So from this we can deduce that, at best I've not got better with age. In reality, I'm now grey and bald except for my straggly long hair at the back, and my teeth are definitely worse. So I've probably got worse.

Here endeth the reflection.

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By *ensual_KarmaMan
over a year ago

London

most definitely… I do feel and think I am getting better with age - maturing like a fine wine. Also makes me think I have my best years to live

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

No I used to be cool, now I’m a mess who looks homeless most days.

The mr

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Not sure if I have gotten better with age but I certainly care less what others think and I guess that has given me increased confidence which just improves things all round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely looked much better/ slimmer when I was younger...I just didn't appreciate it and didn't really make the most of what I had. I've learnt how to do that now so although I'm not as attractive physically as I was, I make more of what I've got, and I've learnt what suits me and what doesn't if that makes sense?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"No I used to be cool, now I’m a mess who looks homeless most days.

The mr "

Ahaha! I'm ahead - I ALWAYS looked like a homeless mess...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. as per title.

Do you think you've grown into a look, or where you gifted enough to always be at the forefront of fashion, style and beauty?

I've definitely got better with age."

Men do girls don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fashion, style and beauty I don't really care for.

I dress how I want, I'm not a trend follower I've no desire to be cool.

I don't know if I've got better with age but I've got better with not trying to fit in & not caring.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I make a half arse attempt to look ok but fashion escapes me. There's a few things I look good in but mostly I'll end wearing things badly or tipping something down the front of me.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

I’ve definitely got better with age. Although now I’m old….

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

Apart from by the obvious aging I haven't changed much. My clothes are much the same (I have suits and shoes that I bought in my twenties - lapels a bit wider than fashionable now but just try and get that cloth these days!

My leisure activity is the same; my first sex with a girl was joining a friend and his sister (very naughty but we were young), so a threesome and I have been swinging ever since.

Getting better? Always good?

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By *icky KlungespeareMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

"No I used to be cool, now I’m a mess who looks homeless most days.

The mr

Ahaha! I'm ahead - I ALWAYS looked like a homeless mess...

Trump you both. I have been homeless.

Never a mess tbh.

Although occasionally stinky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always been happy with my look and body.

I just wish I had the make up application skills that I have now back when I was younger.

I just wish I had make up skills.

& definitely this

zero make-up skills

Sigh, amen sister.

Not to worry sis. since it's the inner beauty that counts. Looks can come and go but the heart stays pure...

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"No I used to be cool, now I’m a mess who looks homeless most days.

The mr

Ahaha! I'm ahead - I ALWAYS looked like a homeless mess...

Trump you both. I have been homeless.

Never a mess tbh.

Although occasionally stinky."

You be Stinky, I'll be The Brain.

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

My leisure activity is the same; my first sex with a girl was joining a friend and his sister (very naughty but we were young), so a threesome and I have been swinging ever since.

Getting better? Always good?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"I've always been happy with my look and body.

I just wish I had the make up application skills that I have now back when I was younger.

I just wish I had make up skills.

& definitely this

zero make-up skills

Sigh, amen sister.

Not to worry sis. since it's the inner beauty that counts. Looks can come and go but the heart stays pure..."

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By *icky KlungespeareMan
over a year ago

St Leonards

"No I used to be cool, now I’m a mess who looks homeless most days.

The mr

Ahaha! I'm ahead - I ALWAYS looked like a homeless mess...

Trump you both. I have been homeless.

Never a mess tbh.

Although occasionally stinky.

You be Stinky, I'll be The Brain."

xxxx

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

I’m comfortable in my own skin but it’s crap getting old!

Need little blue pills to get hard, stamina is rubbish and I rarely cum. When I do it’s a teaspoonful. Few years ago I had a glass cutter erection that lasted hours, would keep going for hours and cum in buckets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know if I’ve gotten better at anything or within myself. Makeup skills are pretty reasonable. I wear what’s comfy and suits me which as it turns out can still sit in that femmy queer space without going all TV about it. But 50 years old and fem gay is a pretty dire place to be. Something went terribly wrong. I blame additives in food. Brexit didn’t turn me masc which was a disappointment. Still can’t cook. What a time to be alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fashion has never been something I'm bothered about. I've learned to know what clothes suit my shape, whereas I was clueless in my youth.

As for beauty... I've lost the puppyfat moonface and have cheekbones now. That's probably the only improvement

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Confidence for sure. Looks...better than my teens! The long-haired headbanger look was not good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

And my boobs got bigger

And my bum

And I gained a bit more chub

But I'm okay with that!

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

I’d say I’ve definitely got better with age, to a point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think so. More solid. Look better. Fit as I've ever been, although knees are gone. Can still turn heads. Told I look ten years younger.

Too bad there's no one here to appreciate it, and hasn't been for a long time, my BP's stuffed, my PSA too high, on TRT, and I'm broke as a church rat. I could have been good but once you peak it's a quick way down.

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By *mooth8Man
over a year ago

s hertfordshire

Well ive looked at a few of the posters pics and can say i dont know what you looked like years back but you look pretty damn good now!

I'm not sure if I like myself more now but I'm happier that I'm confident in knowing and looking for what I want and not what other people want.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Yes for us both without doubt.

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

Definitely happier with my body and looks now. I used to go to the gym a lot, but I found that I was always hunting for more muscles. 5 years ago I swapped to endurance sports instead (ironman triathlon). I lost some muscle mass, but I'm a lot fitter and happier with the 'new me'.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

We're both definitely in best shape we've ever been. Plus we've both moved well beyond any bull in our lives . So would say we've grown into our age well x

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I think so, maybe a lot of it is psychological though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely, I am a better person now than I was in my twenties. Life has taught me some valuable lessons.

( I did have some great fun in my twenties though

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

I'm more comfortable with who I am rather than getting better with age.

I've also learned to give less of a f*ck about what other people think as I've aged.

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

My mindset definitely has.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Im more comfortable with my body.

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By *mooth8Man
over a year ago

s hertfordshire

"Im more comfortable with my body. "

your body would comfort me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I've remained more or less the same.

I look old, I have looked young.

I have become more mature and I thank god for that! There's something a little off putting to me when people make a virtue from remaining immature their entire life"

Uh oh. Think I may have been reprimanded (if the hat fits and all that)!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I've improved with age in many respects. Confidence, looks, fashion sense, conversation. It's been quite the journey

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By *ansoffateMan
over a year ago

Sagittarius A

I'm always slightly ahead of the curve.

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By *urry BlokeMan
over a year ago

Up until being 50, yes

The last 3 years have taken their toll both physically and emotionally however

I've aged all of a sudden.

I now look my age.

I have changed emotionally too

I am harder in general and quite dismissive of people

I stress about the smallest of inconvenience and my anxiety levels have no apparent ceiling

Overthinking is my new hobby

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By *ark73XXXMan
over a year ago

North Staffs/South Cheshire

Away from this site, I’m ok

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By *MisschiefxTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I've got more refined with age but always been pretty consistent with style.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Hmmm. Mr KC thinks he's improved with age. I think I've not, but he disagrees. I don't like how my skin has wrinkled recently.

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I am happy with a 1970s look I do not follow fashion I am more sexually adventurous than I was when younger

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I definately peaked late 30s then shit starting breaking. I’m optimistic that I’ll peak again though. The mindset is there. Just need to tell the body to keep up

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Nope, while I've never been pretty I was much more attractive at 20 than I am at 50.

I've grown comfortable with my looks though (bar the menopausal acne which I devoutly hope will clear up once I'm through it). Not quite the same thing but I no longer feel the discontent I felt in my 20s and 30s, wanting to change, wanting to be different.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

haha yea of course - now i dont give a dam and its all about me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but only because I can grow a beard now. I look like a dinner lady without one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

I managed to double my weight nearly in 4 months shortly after I hit 30 and can't shift it (hopefully lipo will help). So I just got fat

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By *amacurious11Man
over a year ago

sevenoaks

Older

fatter

greyer

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

In some ways yes, in other ways definitely not

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By *amacurious11Man
over a year ago

sevenoaks

Made me laugh

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By *r CheeseMan
over a year ago

742 Evergreen Terrace

I did, up to a point, and after my accident, and recovery, it was downhill.

If I was a horse, they'd have shot me. I'm sure some people still would...

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By *ANDA!Man
over a year ago

DUMFRIES

As I've got older I've began to give less of a shit what others think. Haircut that wouldn't be out of place on Peaky Blinders, kinda long greying beard, wearer of comic or sci-fi related shirts and rarely seen wearing anything other than jeans and brightly coloured trainers.

If people dont like it, don't look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the neck down yes, from neck up fuck no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I grew into my ears.

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By *zeroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think so. I'm in far better shape than I was in my teens and early twenties. Think it's more to do with growth of confidence too.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I got creakier, so I'm gonna go with "no".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eurgh no, I was in my prime in my early twenties. Rapidly down hill since.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm waiting to get confirmation that I did.. I almost certainly did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Aging like milk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope. Aging like milk"

Like a Five Guys peanut butter and bacon milkshake

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By *asual_WandererWoman
over a year ago

A spot you want me

Yes, but I've a strong sense I'm peaking, so jump in quick it's all down hill from here

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

yes i have better shape now than when i was 40 for sure

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I think I just got more confident , I never felt attractive, always felt different & didn’t really approach women but people who knew me in my 20s or now looking at old photos say I was hot

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By *B..Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Had a great time in my 20’s plateaued in my 30/40’s but come alive again in my 50’s and enjoying every minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm head first down the slippery slope.

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By *d mirerMan
over a year ago

lost

I’ve got better at being me as I’ve gotten older , as in more comfortable with who I am and happier being me .

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By *itSurreyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Reigate

Peaked my levels of cool when I was 17, but since hitting 40, it’s coming back….well I think so anyways. Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My skin is better

My figure is better

I’ve learned to work with my face

I’ve learned the clothing styles that suit me best

I know what and who I like

I have more wisdom (not that it stops my pulling a Misty each and every day)

I’m enjoying life - which i suspect is the defining thing.

And most of all. I give zero shits about what anyone else thinks about the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My skin is better

My figure is better

I’ve learned to work with my face

I’ve learned the clothing styles that suit me best

I know what and who I like

I have more wisdom (not that it stops my pulling a Misty each and every day)

I’m enjoying life - which i suspect is the defining thing.

And most of all. I give zero shits about what anyone else thinks about the above

Copy /paste... Plus add sorting out my crazy hair!

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By *orphia2003Woman
over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Just stopped giving a shit. I've finally grown into the grumpy old woman I've been for years. It's wonderful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not as baby faced as I used to be and I also refuse to be clean shaven. So yeah definitely prefer myself now.

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