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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is there a noted difference between how you flirt with women versus men?

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Yes.

I am super up front with men I want to fuck.

When I find a woman hot I just get tongue tied and panic

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By *arley QuimWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

I am super up front with men I want to fuck.

When I find a woman hot I just get tongue tied and panic

Yes hahaa! I just go all coy and smile like a shy 5 year old

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

Yes, I'm shit at flirting with women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women

Yep, me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

I am super up front with men I want to fuck.

When I find a woman hot I just get tongue tied and panic

This is exactly how I am too

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By *inky PaulMan
over a year ago

Tibshelf

"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women

Yep, me too

Get a room you two

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By *ickie76XXXMan
over a year ago

dartford

"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women

Yep, me too

Get a room you two

Don’t be a spoil sport Paul lol, let them carry on, I was enjoying the flirty exchange between them lol

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By *ittlemissFlirtyCouple
over a year ago

The bottom of the River Ankh

"Yes.

I am super up front with men I want to fuck.

When I find a woman hot I just get tongue tied and panic

Interestingly ( or not ) I've never tried flirting with a woman irl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but that’s because I have zero gaydar so I’m not as confident

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Yes.

I am super up front with men I want to fuck.

When I find a woman hot I just get tongue tied and panic

I guess that’s answered my question then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women

Yep, me too

Me three. I turn into a gritty schoolgirl who has never even been kissed.

I cringe at the sight of what I must look like trying to flirt with a woman.

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By *hortishblondeWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I'm just shit at flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the real world I'm not very good at flirting with anyone

On here I can just about flirt with men, to a degree. With women, I think I just come across like the annoying one in the ladies on a night out, that just won't piss off and shut up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

With this knowledge we, women, would be a right group together in the same room trying to flirt with one another.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

"In the real world I'm not very good at flirting with anyone

On here I can just about flirt with men, to a degree. With women, I think I just come across like the annoying one in the ladies on a night out, that just won't piss off and shut up

I like those ones, it's usually me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the real world I'm not very good at flirting with anyone

On here I can just about flirt with men, to a degree. With women, I think I just come across like the annoying one in the ladies on a night out, that just won't piss off and shut up

I like those ones, it's usually me

It's always me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With this knowledge we, women, would be a right group together in the same room trying to flirt with one another.

A room full of nervous, stuttering women, sounds hot I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I just naturally flirt with everyone. Until

I catch myself and realise. Then I get all awkward. Usually resulting in me spilling something or falling over..

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
over a year ago

your head

"With this knowledge we, women, would be a right group together in the same room trying to flirt with one another.

Might be okay if it's in the ladies

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

The bi-panic is real!

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I don't know how to flirt with either so I'm equally useless

I just chat and wait hoping someone I like makes the first move

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"With this knowledge we, women, would be a right group together in the same room trying to flirt with one another.

I'm surprised any women ever get it on with other women, based on this

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"Yes.

I am super up front with men I want to fuck.

When I find a woman hot I just get tongue tied and panic

Yeah, that's me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep it very real and open with all females , cut all pretence and sarcasm etc until I know them better (still have a laugh) . Respect both parts of a couple but perhaps it’s an inbuilt nod to us both knowing all the unwritten rules and associated crap females generally have imposed on them socially .

Or maybe I just like birds lol

Parting x

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Is there a noted difference between how you flirt with women versus men?

Not for me. If I like someone I flirt. A lot

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

Actually, I flirt like a wanton hussy here. Put me in a real life situation, and I won't do anything - too worried I'm imposing myself on someone and coming off as a dick.

I'd be such a disappointment if I ever went to a social.

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By *usanStoHelitWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

I'm shit at flirting with both but am rendered almost mute by women.

The age old quandary of men disgust me and women terrify me but somehow I want very much to shag both

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

A friend shared this song and it's amazing!

Good bi - Beth McCarthy

https://youtu.be/Twm54ZCdPhE?si=bhd-cHhGdF36yTVe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"With this knowledge we, women, would be a right group together in the same room trying to flirt with one another.

I'm surprised any women ever get it on with other women, based on this

For me, there’s a difference between flirting with just any women and those women that I know are bi/gay. The latter, I have no problem. Otherwise, I stumble and trip over my own two feet and do wonder how I manage to end up with women full stop.

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
over a year ago

Manchester-ish

"Actually, I flirt like a wanton hussy here. Put me in a real life situation, and I won't do anything - too worried I'm imposing myself on someone and coming off as a dick.

I'd be such a disappointment if I ever went to a social.

I'm certain you wouldn't, but also, this is me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't flirt with either sex

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"I don't flirt with either sex "

No, you're not in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't flirt with either sex

No, you're not in

I'm not in a tin???

Canned goods are not for everyone

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"I don't flirt with either sex

No, you're not in

I'm not in a tin???

Canned goods are not for everyone "

That's do true.

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By *hotographer 30Man
over a year ago

rochdale

Wife shy curious but confidence is growing.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

"I don't flirt with either sex

No, you're not in

I'm not in a tin???

Canned goods are not for everyone

That's do true. "

It's canned laughter I can't stomach...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't flirt with either sex "

This is so me, I’m the worst flirt in the world and have no idea when someone might be flirting with me. To me knowledge no one has ever done it in the wild

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By *iberius61Man
over a year ago

Pontefract

"With this knowledge we, women, would be a right group together in the same room trying to flirt with one another.

Now that would be a reality TV program I'd pay to watch

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By *afkaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham (ish)

"Yes.

I am super up front with men I want to fuck.

When I find a woman hot I just get tongue tied and panic

Same ^^

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By *r99mr99Man
over a year ago

Ealing

I think there's a different way society views bisexuality in different genders. It's about being open and exploding for women, and for many men it's shameful and full of the need to keep it hidden.

So I think for men they get more to the point when flirting and it's less of a romantic or intimate endeavor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I feel like women don't notice when I flirt with them so I try to be more obvious.

This in turn makes me feel like a creepy weirdo and I end up walking away in shame

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By *cLovin2Man
over a year ago

West Drayton

"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women

Yep, me too

Me three. I turn into a gritty schoolgirl who has never even been kissed.

I cringe at the sight of what I must look like trying to flirt with a woman.

You're all women, you must know how you want to be approached/seduced. I can't believe you can be worse than us guys. You have a distinct advantage here

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Yes I feel like women don't notice when I flirt with them so I try to be more obvious.

This in turn makes me feel like a creepy weirdo and I end up walking away in shame

Some do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women

Yep, me too

Me three. I turn into a gritty schoolgirl who has never even been kissed.

I cringe at the sight of what I must look like trying to flirt with a woman.

You're all women, you must know how you want to be approached/seduced. I can't believe you can be worse than us guys. You have a distinct advantage here "

Ironically, we aren’t a carbon copy of one another. I may like to be approached and seduced in a completely different way than the next lady, etc. Individualistic and all that.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women

Yep, me too

Me three. I turn into a gritty schoolgirl who has never even been kissed.

I cringe at the sight of what I must look like trying to flirt with a woman.

You're all women, you must know how you want to be approached/seduced. I can't believe you can be worse than us guys. You have a distinct advantage here

Ironically, we aren’t a carbon copy of one another. I may like to be approached and seduced in a completely different way than the next lady, etc. Individualistic and all that.

Strange isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I feel like women don't notice when I flirt with them so I try to be more obvious.

This in turn makes me feel like a creepy weirdo and I end up walking away in shame

Some do "

They notice and don't flirt back or they flirt and I don't notice?

This is a minefield ughhh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, I'm not great at flirting with men. I'm worse at flirting with women

Yep, me too

Me three. I turn into a gritty schoolgirl who has never even been kissed.

I cringe at the sight of what I must look like trying to flirt with a woman.

You're all women, you must know how you want to be approached/seduced. I can't believe you can be worse than us guys. You have a distinct advantage here

Ironically, we aren’t a carbon copy of one another. I may like to be approached and seduced in a completely different way than the next lady, etc. Individualistic and all that.

Strange isn’t it?

Unthinkable!

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Yes I feel like women don't notice when I flirt with them so I try to be more obvious.

This in turn makes me feel like a creepy weirdo and I end up walking away in shame

Some do

They notice and don't flirt back or they flirt and I don't notice?

This is a minefield ughhh"

On fab just use

And if you really mean it

* secret code

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By *irty_little_blondeWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

"I don't know how to flirt with either so I'm equally useless

I just chat and wait hoping someone I like makes the first move

This is me also

I find it hard to read people if they like me or not

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By *laytime_13Woman
over a year ago

Lincs

"With this knowledge we, women, would be a right group together in the same room trying to flirt with one another.

Where can I sign up

Terrible at flirting with the men folk, god help me with the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I feel like women don't notice when I flirt with them so I try to be more obvious.

This in turn makes me feel like a creepy weirdo and I end up walking away in shame

Some do

They notice and don't flirt back or they flirt and I don't notice?

This is a minefield ughhh

On fab just use

And if you really mean it

* secret code "

Five fluttery eyelashes....got it

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes. Well, I don't think I flirt really. But let's pretend I do. I don't know, with men it's a different style? Women it's more friendly and silly. Until I realise that there's mutual attraction.

There are a couple of women who give me bi-panic. One I'm seeing next weekend - she's adorable and so smart. And cute and a great kisser and we can spend ages kissing and then it's interspersed with giggles because she'll break off and say how beautiful I am. Which really brings out the bi-panic.

I want to learn how to flirt with anyone. Everyone. Should make that a resolution.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Yes I feel like women don't notice when I flirt with them so I try to be more obvious.

This in turn makes me feel like a creepy weirdo and I end up walking away in shame

Some do

They notice and don't flirt back or they flirt and I don't notice?

This is a minefield ughhh

On fab just use

And if you really mean it

* secret code "

Cheat codes

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By *ittlebirdWoman
over a year ago

The Big Smoke

"Yes I feel like women don't notice when I flirt with them so I try to be more obvious.

This in turn makes me feel like a creepy weirdo and I end up walking away in shame

Some do

They notice and don't flirt back or they flirt and I don't notice?

This is a minefield ughhh

On fab just use

And if you really mean it

* secret code

Cheat codes

Sowwy. There’s nobody else here though… it’s still a secret

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

It used to be awful when we started this account and having to watch C flirt with women on chat

In the end I had to check things before she sent anything

Now, she flirts more with women than men - she said she finds it much easier with women now and harder with men!…

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"It used to be awful when we started this account and having to watch C flirt with women on chat

In the end I had to check things before she sent anything

Now, she flirts more with women than men - she said she finds it much easier with women now and harder with men!…

Sorry, this tickled me

I've got these "checking homework" type vibes

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Went out with a guy several months ago. Quiet pub, quiet bar, no one else around.

Chatted about this and that, normal stuff. Had a little kiss near the end.

Next day, he said he didn't feel the vibe on the date. I said no worries and thank you. We're still friends and chat sometimes.

But in my head, I was thinking, "Date ? Was this meant to be a date ? I thought it was just a guy chat in a pub."

I had no idea it was a "date" as such.

Then again, I am not a "flirter" with men or women. It's not part of my vocabulary or in my comfort zone. But I certainly didn't expect I should "flirt" with a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im crap at flirting with anyone..

Maybe I need to practice?

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