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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
24 weeks ago

Cwmbran

How often do you have sex?

Myself and Mr have sex as often as possible, 2-3 times a week and I give him blow jobs on the other days.

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By *r John WickMan
24 weeks ago

The Continental

Varies

Can go from once a month, to once a day.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Depends how often I can see the people I want to have sex with

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By *inUpProWoman
24 weeks ago

Liverpool

I haven't had sex in 8 months now. But when I do, I want it all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Once every 2-3 years

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By *r John WickMan
24 weeks ago

The Continental


"Once every 2-3 years"

You rampant horn monster. I had you pegged for once a decade.

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By *ostAirmenMan
24 weeks ago

crewe

Been over 5yrs and still waiting

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By *arlot o scaraWoman
24 weeks ago

Hell

I had sex at the weekend but as always when one is single, I don’t know where my next shag is coming from

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
24 weeks ago

Cwmbran


"Been over 5yrs and still waiting "

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
24 weeks ago

Glasgow / London


"I had sex at the weekend but as always when one is single, I don’t know where my next shag is coming from "

And, also as always, when you have some sex it just makes you crave more …

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By *.R.MMan
24 weeks ago

Norfolk

It’s been a while

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Define sex?

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By *hortishblondeWoman
24 weeks ago

Essex

Last time about 8 weeks ago but before that I can't remember

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
24 weeks ago

St Leonards

A weekend of sex and socialising every 6-8 weeks with one of two lovers, and anything from 1-3 spontaneous nights each year of casual sex with people I've met that evening.

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By *herry delightWoman
24 weeks ago

Ilfracombe

I used to have it regularly but now only twice a week, unless a FB is staying then 3/4 times a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"Once every 2-3 years

You rampant horn monster. I had you pegged for once a decade. "

The sad thing is I'm not even lying.

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By *ugar kittenWoman
24 weeks ago

home

As a single woman, not often enough

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By *eliWoman
24 weeks ago

.

Once every year.

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By *arialoueWoman
24 weeks ago

bradford

About once a month or months at a time without

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By *ittleJohn5Man
24 weeks ago

Wickham Market

Well the last time was 5 years ago

The joys of being married

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By *electableicecreamMan
24 weeks ago

The West

I'd say a rough average of twice a month since I joined fab. Usually with the same people.

My preference is for sex with people I know well over spending lots of time and energy finding new/random encounters.

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
24 weeks ago

Cwmbran


"Define sex? "

Sexual contact with another person

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
24 weeks ago

Cwmbran


"Well the last time was 5 years ago

The joys of being married "

But why does being married mean an end to sex?

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
24 weeks ago

St Neots

As often as we see each other. Between 2-4 times a week

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By *arla SwingerWoman
24 weeks ago

Somewhere

50 days ago...

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By *viatrixWoman
24 weeks ago

Redhill

When I have a FWB, once a week or every other week.

When I don’t (like now) every six months or so.

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By *egoMan
24 weeks ago

Preston

Not being in a relationship it can vary wildly, but im getting fussier it seems.

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By *andynecklaceWoman
24 weeks ago

West Brom

4/5 times a week

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By *hyandcurious2021Man
24 weeks ago

exeter

Last time was about 8 weeks ago....one of the biggest downsides to being single is the lack of sex

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
24 weeks ago

Maidstone

I've managed about twice this year. I'm not a fan of being single.

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By *ony MannMan
24 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

4 times a day when I'm with one woman but average 4 times a month

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By *herry delightWoman
24 weeks ago

Ilfracombe


"4 times a day when I'm with one woman but average 4 times a month "

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By *urry BlokeMan
24 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Seldomly

Probably an odd thing for someone on a swinging site to say, but I'm not really all that much into sex

I'm not a very sexual being

I like it, but I don't NEED it

I mean, I enjoy it when it happens, but I don't set my clock by it and can go months without giving it a second thought

I think my life is full enough that I don't really miss it

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
24 weeks ago

somewhere

Sometimes Rubix and I do it every day for a couple of weeks and then nothing for a couple of weeks (currently on nothing lol) x

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By *rgasmatron1970Man
24 weeks ago

Bromley


"Define sex?

Sexual contact with another person "

Full penetration or exploring each other's bodies?

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Quality v quantity here!

But we also like to play around with denial and not having sex (but seriously wanting to) can be just as thrilling as going for it frequently, if not better

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"Define sex?

Sexual contact with another person "

Sucking boobs?

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I’m a virgin.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

When ever i can be arsed and have a willing partner

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By *hrek101Man
24 weeks ago

Herts

Some people in this thread are just showing off.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"Some people in this thread are just showing off. "

I know, I am.

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By *.R.MMan
24 weeks ago

Norfolk

I’ve forgotten what it is

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By *ittlebirdWoman
24 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"How often do you have sex?

Myself and Mr have sex as often as possible, 2-3 times a week and I give him blow jobs on the other days. "

Not enough

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I say not enough

She says far too much

So we dont do it enough

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By *usanStoHelitWoman
24 weeks ago

liverpool

Being single not nearly often enough. My preference would be every day I'm not in work but the chances of that being a reality are pretty slim due to a number of factors

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Every night if not to tied or she will put me to sleep with a bj haha makes me feel selfish on them nights but she says don’t think that she likes it .

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By *orbidden eastMan
24 weeks ago

london dodging electric scooters

Every day if I could

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
24 weeks ago

little house on the praire

Not had sex since 2020

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
24 weeks ago

Cwmbran


"Every night if not to tied or she will put me to sleep with a bj haha makes me feel selfish on them nights but she says don’t think that she likes it . "

I enjoy giving Mr blow jobs

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By *ancyXXXWoman
24 weeks ago

Taibach

Daily most of the time until he's got himself some friction burns or my vag is a bit delicate...

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By *lynJMan
24 weeks ago

Morden

With or without someone else?

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By *hagTonightMan
24 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

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By *hagTonightMan
24 weeks ago

From the land of haribos.

The last time was 7 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Once a week

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By *onkeynutWoman
24 weeks ago

somewhere

Fucking never

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
24 weeks ago

Hereabouts

What is sex? Never heard of it

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By *allandathleticMan
24 weeks ago

Asgard

It's all I do. Just have sex 24/7

*he says as he cuddles himself to sleep*

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By *ittlelad69Man
24 weeks ago

clay cross

Wow so many people on here not getting any, thought it was just me

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By *enelope2UWoman
24 weeks ago

Fife

I'd prefer daily but it's pretty much once a month now

How I miss the USA and the real lifestyle not this pishhh here

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By *aizyWoman
24 weeks ago

west midlands


"It's all I do. Just have sex 24/7

*he says as he cuddles himself to sleep*"

At least you're getting some in your dreams tho, silver linings!

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By *allandathleticMan
24 weeks ago

Asgard


"It's all I do. Just have sex 24/7

*he says as he cuddles himself to sleep*

At least you're getting some in your dreams tho, silver linings! "

Daizy! Hope your well?

*he says still cuddling himself to sleep.*

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By *laytime_13Woman
24 weeks ago

Lincs

What, we’re not just here to talk about it

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By *hunky GentMan
24 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"What, we’re not just here to talk about it "

I thought we were all sharing recipes.

Damn.

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By *elboy1978Man
24 weeks ago

Fellgate

I haven’t had sex since last year

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Every couple of days is about average

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By *owestoft ManMan
24 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Since we divorced I only get it if I'm lucky enough to find something at a pub. Never found anything on this site. But while married we had 3sums and more sums at least once a week except for the off week. But then Menopause kicked in and it actually happened more and more every week.

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By *ACOLCouple
24 weeks ago

limerick

Lover and I, if weekdays maybe 3 to 4 times a week and if weekends at least twice a day. We have been together for 14 years and married 12 years if that makes a difference.

Lina.

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
24 weeks ago

East Yorkshire

I give hubby blowjob and oil handjob every morning and most nights or we have sex . On a weekend hubby spends time spoiling me xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

At the mo it seems to be about twice a year lol

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
24 weeks ago

Southampton


"At the mo it seems to be about twice a year lol "

About the same as me at the moment ... faf??

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By *ueerKinkyCoupleCouple
24 weeks ago

Cambridge (She/They And They/Them)

Every day at least once and often more than once. It’s a huge part of our lives and we’re kinky fuckers so there’s always something new to try!

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By *utlongjohnMan
23 weeks ago

close


"I give hubby blowjob and oil handjob every morning and most nights or we have sex . On a weekend hubby spends time spoiling me xxx"

Im jealous

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By *asha86Couple
23 weeks ago

walsall

We average about 3-4 times a week unless she's reading a good book and then that can be a day

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By *imply DeeWoman
23 weeks ago

Wherever

Few times a year.

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By *nnCeeWoman
23 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"It's all I do. Just have sex 24/7

*he says as he cuddles himself to sleep*"

Awwww x

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By *nnCeeWoman
23 weeks ago

East of Eden, West of Hell


"What, we’re not just here to talk about it "

That's the point of this site, is it not?!

Had 2 episodes this year, I think... it may have been 3.

But had some lovely kisses at the weekend, which will hopefully develop further...

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By *ssex_tomMan
23 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Tom asked this question to a friend who had a big grin on his face. Once a year he said.

So why are you grinning?

Tonight's the Night he said

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By *uriousscouserWoman
23 weeks ago

Wirral

Like a bath, I have it once a year whether I need it or not.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
23 weeks ago

Reading

A couple of times a week unless I'm in my off phase when it's 0

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By *esthetic21Man
23 weeks ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Not often enough

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By *orphia2003Woman
23 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

When there is someone I want to fuck, who also wants to fuck me. So anything from several times a week, to once in 6 years.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
23 weeks ago

North Angus

It’s been 3 week but normally weekly

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By *ocktoplaywithMan
23 weeks ago

Derby

Last time was January 2023, so soon be eighteen months. Before that twice in three years.

Pretty much come to the conclusion it isn’t going to happen for me ever again.

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By *hornyx69Man
23 weeks ago

down south and up north


"I've managed about twice this year. I'm not a fan of being single. "

I’m not far from you I would have sex with you everyday

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By *uffolkcouple-bi only OP   Couple
23 weeks ago

Cwmbran

We’re surprised by the number of single women that say they don’t get as much as they’d like.

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By *hoirCouple
23 weeks ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Not as often as we'd like, the kids exhaust us far too much currently but we manage about twice a week on average

P

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By *reamers13Couple
23 weeks ago

Lancashire

At least once a day for sex and probably bjs 3-4 times a week x

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By *uxom redCouple
23 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Not as often as we did ,menopausal and no libido .

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Well I haven’t so far in 2024 and can’t remember if/when in 2023 so that probably tells you all you need to know

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By *r VoyuerMan
23 weeks ago

Northampton

Once a month if I'm lucky. X

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By *r VoyuerMan
23 weeks ago

Northampton

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By *agondaMan
23 weeks ago

Witterings

I have sex every time I have sex.. the frequency isn’t the issue .. the quality is what matters (and the fun, the laughs, the smiles, the orgasms …) x

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By *ira2024Woman
23 weeks ago

SW


"As a single woman, not often enough "

Yeah, I’m part of that club

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By *hunky GentMan
23 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"As a single woman, not often enough

Yeah, I’m part of that club "

Can I join?

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By *agondaMan
23 weeks ago

Witterings


"As a single woman, not often enough

Yeah, I’m part of that club "

Thanks for looking.. I’m tall enough but too old lol

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By *agondaMan
23 weeks ago

Witterings


"As a single woman, not often enough

Yeah, I’m part of that club

Thanks for looking.. I’m tall enough but too old lol"

Or,at least, too old to message you lol

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By *ot to giggleWoman
23 weeks ago

Coventry

more needed !!

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By *hunky GentMan
23 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"more needed !!"

Moreeeeee, you want moreeeee

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
23 weeks ago

Hereabouts

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Only ever in Leap Day. Otherwise, I grow cobwebs and return to my virginal ways.

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By *hunky GentMan
23 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Only ever in Leap Day. Otherwise, I grow cobwebs and return to my virginal ways. "

(Checks the calendar).

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By *esiGalGuy123Man
23 weeks ago

Find me..


"How often do you have sex?

Myself and Mr have sex as often as possible, 2-3 times a week and I give him blow jobs on the other days. "

Once I went off for 3 months and the balls started aching!!

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
23 weeks ago

Wales

Checks last few calenders.

Yep, it's been 2 years

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By *essTTWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

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By *essTTWoman
23 weeks ago

Birmingham

I've had it once so far this year

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By *hunky GentMan
23 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Checks last few calenders.

Yep, it's been 2 years "

You could stop turning me down and let's get it on.

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
23 weeks ago

wonderland.


"How often do you have sex?

Myself and Mr have sex as often as possible, 2-3 times a week and I give him blow jobs on the other days. "

minimum 3 or 4 times a week

. However it would be more if we lived together

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
23 weeks ago

Next Door

Often but need to find the right fwb(s).

Im don't like not having a regular fwb.

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