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"No but it doesn't have to be gender specific. Manners cost nothing. " Agreed. It's evolved. | |||
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"If by chivalry you mean polite treatment just because I'm a woman then I'm not bothered whether it's dead or alive. I want someone to open a door for everyone, hold the lift for everyone. Be generous because that's how they are, not just to win brownie points. J"
There's an old bit of dating advice that you should look to how your date treats the staff, not just how they're treating you.
I look to how people treat everyone, not just those they're trying to impress/ shag. If you won't hold a door for a bloke, you're not charming or polite, you're just manipulative. | |||
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"I had a social at the weekend. I noticed he always walked road side. Very polite" Keeping his sword arm free! When we got married, we were "the wrong way round" about to walk back down the aisle as husband and wife, the registrar said Rubik should be on my right, years ago it would have been his sword arm on his right...he hasn't shut up about wanting a sword for the last 6 years since lol | |||
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"I had a social at the weekend. I noticed he always walked road side. Very polite Keeping his sword arm free! When we got married, we were "the wrong way round" about to walk back down the aisle as husband and wife, the registrar said Rubik should be on my right, years ago it would have been his sword arm on his right...he hasn't shut up about wanting a sword for the last 6 years since lol " 
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"Try turning a man down on here then tell me that chivalry isn’t dead "  thise guys are dicks.
I promise we all aren't. | |||
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"Try turning a man down on here then tell me that chivalry isn’t dead " Turn me down and I'll thank you for taking the time to reply We're not all animals  | |||
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"If by chivalry you mean polite treatment just because I'm a woman then I'm not bothered whether it's dead or alive. I want someone to open a door for everyone, hold the lift for everyone. Be generous because that's how they are, not just to win brownie points. J" Pretty much couldn't put it better myself! Or just be a dick to everyone, whatever floats your boat. But do it because you want to and not because of a person's gender. | |||
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"If by chivalry you mean polite treatment just because I'm a woman then I'm not bothered whether it's dead or alive. I want someone to open a door for everyone, hold the lift for everyone. Be generous because that's how they are, not just to win brownie points. J Pretty much couldn't put it better myself! Or just be a dick to everyone, whatever floats your boat. But do it because you want to and not because of a person's gender." I regret all the times I've held to door open for a female and then slammed it in the face of the gent behind her  | |||
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"If by chivalry you mean polite treatment just because I'm a woman then I'm not bothered whether it's dead or alive. I want someone to open a door for everyone, hold the lift for everyone. Be generous because that's how they are, not just to win brownie points. J Pretty much couldn't put it better myself! Or just be a dick to everyone, whatever floats your boat. But do it because you want to and not because of a person's gender. I regret all the times I've held to door open for a female and then slammed it in the face of the gent behind her "I mean, hyperbole aside you're on about chivalry which is essentially the way a woman is meant to be treated by a man  | |||
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"If by chivalry you mean polite treatment just because I'm a woman then I'm not bothered whether it's dead or alive. I want someone to open a door for everyone, hold the lift for everyone. Be generous because that's how they are, not just to win brownie points. J Pretty much couldn't put it better myself! Or just be a dick to everyone, whatever floats your boat. But do it because you want to and not because of a person's gender. I regret all the times I've held to door open for a female and then slammed it in the face of the gent behind her
I mean, hyperbole aside you're on about chivalry which is essentially the way a woman is meant to be treated by a man "Sorry dude. Wrong emoji... it was supposed to be
For the sarcasm.
Fully on board with treat each as you find them. I think I put that across on most threads like this.
I wanted to know in the modern world if its still sought after. Or if its died.
I think it's safe to say it's died. And that it now more social to just be a decent human regardless of whose infront or behind you  | |||
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"You should be kind, courteous and respectful regardless of your gender to any gender. Unless they're a dick. Then, be a bigger dick "I've been ridiculed for opening doors for people. It's not PC anymore. | |||
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"You should be kind, courteous and respectful regardless of your gender to any gender. Unless they're a dick. Then, be a bigger dick
I've been ridiculed for opening doors for people.
It's not PC anymore. "wow really | |||
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"You should be kind, courteous and respectful regardless of your gender to any gender. Unless they're a dick. Then, be a bigger dick
I've been ridiculed for opening doors for people.
It's not PC anymore. "the last date i went on I even walked round to passenger side and opened the car door for her | |||
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"You should be kind, courteous and respectful regardless of your gender to any gender. Unless they're a dick. Then, be a bigger dick
I've been ridiculed for opening doors for people.
It's not PC anymore. "For every one that ridicules there will be ten who watch and silently note classy. | |||
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"You should be kind, courteous and respectful regardless of your gender to any gender. Unless they're a dick. Then, be a bigger dick
I've been ridiculed for opening doors for people.
It's not PC anymore.
For every one that ridicules there will be ten who watch and silently note classy. "I have stopped slapping their arse as they walk through though. | |||
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"You should be kind, courteous and respectful regardless of your gender to any gender. Unless they're a dick. Then, be a bigger dick
I've been ridiculed for opening doors for people.
It's not PC anymore. the last date i went on I even walked round to passenger side and opened the car door for her"See, this is the sort of thing that would annoy me. I am capable of getting out of a car. Yes, I need wheels to actually depart from the car, but I can open the door. Mr KC would not dream of opening my car door for me. He deposits the wheelchair outside it (in just the right place) and gives me a little wave | |||
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"You should be kind, courteous and respectful regardless of your gender to any gender. Unless they're a dick. Then, be a bigger dick
I've been ridiculed for opening doors for people.
It's not PC anymore.
For every one that ridicules there will be ten who watch and silently note classy.
I have stopped slapping their arse as they walk through though. "You’re soooo 2024 | |||
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"You should be kind, courteous and respectful regardless of your gender to any gender. Unless they're a dick. Then, be a bigger dick
I've been ridiculed for opening doors for people.
It's not PC anymore.
For every one that ridicules there will be ten who watch and silently note classy.
I have stopped slapping their arse as they walk through though.
You’re soooo 2024 "I still tip my hat. | |||
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"I had a social at the weekend. I noticed he always walked road side. Very polite Keeping his sword arm free! When we got married, we were "the wrong way round" about to walk back down the aisle as husband and wife, the registrar said Rubik should be on my right, years ago it would have been his sword arm on his right...he hasn't shut up about wanting a sword for the last 6 years since lol
I would like an axe. Has to he viking though "But a sword would also fit with my name | |||
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"I had a social at the weekend. I noticed he always walked road side. Very polite Keeping his sword arm free! When we got married, we were "the wrong way round" about to walk back down the aisle as husband and wife, the registrar said Rubik should be on my right, years ago it would have been his sword arm on his right...he hasn't shut up about wanting a sword for the last 6 years since lol
I would like an axe. Has to he viking though
But a sword would also fit with my name "Very true. Rubikslongswordwithanaxe is quite a mouthful or so I've heard. | |||
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"I had a social at the weekend. I noticed he always walked road side. Very polite" It’s a habit for me on a date or out with the kids having lived in so many countries where motorbikes pull up and try to rob you! | |||
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"I had a social at the weekend. I noticed he always walked road side. Very polite" That's something I've always done it just feels wrong if I don't do it | |||
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"I think even the term gentleman and lady are somewhat outdated. They set gendered expectations of men and women. Being conscientious and considerate are qualities I appreciate, but there's no necessity to ascribe to traditional cultural expectations. However, I'd be happy for them to bring back duelling. Pistols at dawn, sabres pointy sticks in the pit. Get it on you tube - imagine the clicks." Now theres a business plan! I'd jab jake Paul in the face with the pointy end of a spear! | |||
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"I think even the term gentleman and lady are somewhat outdated. They set gendered expectations of men and women. Being conscientious and considerate are qualities I appreciate, but there's no necessity to ascribe to traditional cultural expectations. However, I'd be happy for them to bring back duelling. Pistols at dawn, sabres pointy sticks in the pit. Get it on you tube - imagine the clicks. Now theres a business plan! I'd jab jake Paul in the face with the pointy end of a spear!" The possibilities are endless. If it's tradition people want let's get back to Bread and Circuses. Let's do decadence with some style and go out with a bang. Hungry, children starving. Sign up today to fight Rishi in the ring, to the death! | |||
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"I'm a thoroughly modern gal in that I pay my own way, expect to be treated the same as a guy etc. But there's something so charming about a chap being chivalrous. I like it. Makes me all warm & fuzzy inside. " You just want the penis, Red | |||
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"For some people polite respect, kindness and consideration are default behaviours. And then you see threads reducing women politicians to sex objects. I don't know if chivalry is dead but if anyone runs a jousting tournament I'll watch. "You’re just thirsty for Lances! | |||
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"For some people polite respect, kindness and consideration are default behaviours. And then you see threads reducing women politicians to sex objects. I don't know if chivalry is dead but if anyone runs a jousting tournament I'll watch.
You’re just thirsty for Lances!"Who is Lance? | |||
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"For some people polite respect, kindness and consideration are default behaviours. And then you see threads reducing women politicians to sex objects. I don't know if chivalry is dead but if anyone runs a jousting tournament I'll watch.
You’re just thirsty for Lances!
Who is Lance?"He’s joust some guy. | |||
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"For some people polite respect, kindness and consideration are default behaviours. And then you see threads reducing women politicians to sex objects. I don't know if chivalry is dead but if anyone runs a jousting tournament I'll watch.
You’re just thirsty for Lances!". | |||
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"For some people polite respect, kindness and consideration are default behaviours. And then you see threads reducing women politicians to sex objects. I don't know if chivalry is dead but if anyone runs a jousting tournament I'll watch.
You’re just thirsty for Lances!
Who is Lance?"The dude Red is bringing back to her lair later  | |||
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"For some people polite respect, kindness and consideration are default behaviours. And then you see threads reducing women politicians to sex objects. I don't know if chivalry is dead but if anyone runs a jousting tournament I'll watch.
You’re just thirsty for Lances!
Who is Lance?
He’s joust some guy."Bravo *claps* | |||
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"So it depends on definitions, I receive fresh flowers weekly, get bought nice things, gets my doors, car door opened for me, he walks on the outside and holds my hand in public. But to talk to him you'd think none of those things, my poor workmates are seriously jealous, so I know 1 guy I can say is still a gentleman. " Does he pull his weight at home? Do you feel like you have an equal partnership? | |||
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"Is it still seen as gentlemanly? Ladies, I'm interested to hear your opinions on the subject. "Not dead. Just some men don't bother as most women would bite their heads of just for being nice Misses | |||
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"Is it still seen as gentlemanly? Ladies, I'm interested to hear your opinions on the subject.
Not dead. Just some men don't bother as most women would bite their heads of just for being nice
Misses "Not most but definitely some, and these few can make a lot of noise! But they do not speak for all women. I cannot stand feminists, wouldn't ever have one as a friend, they do not represent me, my friends or women in general! So guys carry on being nice, we appreciate it! And it doesn't have to mean anything other than being polite and helping someone. I'm sure a 25yr old holding a door for a lady of 70 is not trying to get in her nickers. | |||
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"Is it still seen as gentlemanly? Ladies, I'm interested to hear your opinions on the subject.
Not dead. Just some men don't bother as most women would bite their heads of just for being nice
Misses
Not most but definitely some, and these few can make a lot of noise! But they do not speak for all women. I cannot stand feminists, wouldn't ever have one as a friend, they do not represent me, my friends or women in general! So guys carry on being nice, we appreciate it! And it doesn't have to mean anything other than being polite and helping someone. I'm sure a 25yr old holding a door for a lady of 70 is not trying to get in her nickers. "You do not that feminists don't hate men, right? | |||
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"Is it still seen as gentlemanly? Ladies, I'm interested to hear your opinions on the subject.
Not dead. Just some men don't bother as most women would bite their heads of just for being nice
Misses
Not most but definitely some, and these few can make a lot of noise! But they do not speak for all women. I cannot stand feminists, wouldn't ever have one as a friend, they do not represent me, my friends or women in general! So guys carry on being nice, we appreciate it! And it doesn't have to mean anything other than being polite and helping someone. I'm sure a 25yr old holding a door for a lady of 70 is not trying to get in her nickers.
You do not that feminists don't hate men, right?"Wrong! That's exactly what they do! As said zero time for them. | |||
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"Is it still seen as gentlemanly? Ladies, I'm interested to hear your opinions on the subject.
Not dead. Just some men don't bother as most women would bite their heads of just for being nice
Misses
Not most but definitely some, and these few can make a lot of noise! But they do not speak for all women. I cannot stand feminists, wouldn't ever have one as a friend, they do not represent me, my friends or women in general! So guys carry on being nice, we appreciate it! And it doesn't have to mean anything other than being polite and helping someone. I'm sure a 25yr old holding a door for a lady of 70 is not trying to get in her nickers.
You do not that feminists don't hate men, right?
Wrong! That's exactly what they do! As said zero time for them."*not this feminist | |||
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"Is it still seen as gentlemanly? Ladies, I'm interested to hear your opinions on the subject.
Not dead. Just some men don't bother as most women would bite their heads of just for being nice
Misses "This is true. Also women also need to act on a way to be worthy of it. Too many women use it for their own selfish ends | |||
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"I think it's a dying art tbh. It's deffinatly a generational thing too I will hold a door I will go to the bar I will give up my seat I will be polite to women. It's just how I was brought up. Respect and manners go a long way. However today's generation seem to think otherwise ? " ^^This 100% | |||
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