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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Apart from the usual single word or one-line messages, what kind of messages are the ones which have you reaching for the delete button? And I'm NOT talking spelling and grammar!

For me it is the lengthy sexual fantasy. Really puts me off. I find it presumptuous. They don't know me and have no idea what I like and they often include something that is a big NO for me as they tend to throw everything in but the kitchen sink!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I shall say theese only once..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha ha you get them to,ive read one that was massively long and well written from someone i have never spoken to,and then when you get to the bottom and see the pic its like...really

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Ha ha ha you get them to,ive read one that was massively long and well written from someone i have never spoken to,and then when you get to the bottom and see the pic its like...really "

LOL yes, that too! The text and pics often do not match!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from the usual single word or one-line messages, what kind of messages are the ones which have you reaching for the delete button? And I'm NOT talking spelling and grammar!

For me it is the lengthy sexual fantasy. Really puts me off. I find it presumptuous. They don't know me and have no idea what I like and they often include something that is a big NO for me as they tend to throw everything in but the kitchen sink!!"
I would like to message you but sadly I am too old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ha ha ha you get them to,ive read one that was massively long and well written from someone i have never spoken to,and then when you get to the bottom and see the pic its like...really

LOL yes, that too! The text and pics often do not match!"
Yes! You read through the message thinking hmmm and nodding to yourself, only to find that there is no attraction once you see the pics

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I got a good one the other day. Something like 'if I drop my standards will you drop your knickers?'. When I said he'd just insulted me he said he was joking. Not good to attempt that sort of humour when trying to catch someones eye.

I'll also delete straight away any messages along the lines of 'do you Skype/cam etc?' or 'I am looking for a regular partner'.

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I got a good one the other day. Something like 'if I drop my standards will you drop your knickers?'. When I said he'd just insulted me he said he was joking. Not good to attempt that sort of humour when trying to catch someones eye.

I'll also delete straight away any messages along the lines of 'do you Skype/cam etc?' or 'I am looking for a regular partner'."

God, I hate being asked to cam. Anyone could record it, and often they don't really want to meet just have a wanks while talking dirty which I'm not interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a str8 guy for me it's the messages from other guys asking to play. Why why why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who address only L, with no acknowledgement of ours being a couple profile. Usually, it's something like hey gorgeous or some such thing. I'll usually come back with hey sexy boy you are hot, it's joe here. Strangely, they take offence!

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Guys who address only L, with no acknowledgement of ours being a couple profile. Usually, it's something like hey gorgeous or some such thing. I'll usually come back with hey sexy boy you are hot, it's joe here. Strangely, they take offence!"

LOL bet you scare them off!

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Being a str8 guy for me it's the messages from other guys asking to play. Why why why?"

I'm with you on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys who address only L, with no acknowledgement of ours being a couple profile. Usually, it's something like hey gorgeous or some such thing. I'll usually come back with hey sexy boy you are hot, it's joe here. Strangely, they take offence!

LOL bet you scare them off!"

That is the general idea. It's the age old problem of people looking at pics and failing to read a very straightforward profile. It's not as if its war and peace!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones asking whereabouts in Liverpool we are. In a first message it just shouts stalker.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I got a good one the other day. Something like 'if I drop my standards will you drop your knickers?"

If I drop my boxers, will you drop to your knees

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"The ones asking whereabouts in Liverpool we are. In a first message it just shouts stalker. "

Never thought about it like that! Now you've got me thinking about another way of filtering!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a few asking what my real name is

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By *B9 Queen OP   Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I like how I am often called 'stunning'. Really? You can tell that from just shoes and legs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones I get offering the 'mother and daughter combo experience'

..no really; I've had quite a few of those sorts of emails.

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