FabSwingers.com forum: Feelings..

By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

Has anyone ever met someone off this site for fun and the other person has gotten feeling afterwards?

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Has anyone ever met someone off this site for fun and the other person has gotten feeling afterwards?

I was that other person.

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By *parkle1974Woman
35 weeks ago

Leeds

My ex and I met on here...both had no intentions of having a relationship but it happened x

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By *ongandharderMan
35 weeks ago

Rotherham

"Has anyone ever met someone off this site for fun and the other person has gotten feeling afterwards?

I'd probably have to meet more people first

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

I don’t have feelings.

Beep.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
35 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"I don’t have feelings.

Beep. "

You ready for a good oiling then ?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
35 weeks ago

Herts/Beds/Lomdon

"I don’t have feelings.

Beep.

You ready for a good oiling then ?"

I’m best when well lubricated tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

I personally have not developed feelings for anyone I have met on this site as I can not risk it, but I have had others have developed feelings towards me.

I have to tell them that it's not going to happen no matter what.

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By *eliWoman
35 weeks ago

Eurgh no, don't be so disgusting.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
35 weeks ago

Okehampton

Cleared up with a cream

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By *ansoffateMan
35 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Horrendous cases of the feelies have occurred it's like an epidemic.

Be careful it's contagious.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Someone told me the L word. Is that a massive no in the unspoken rules of Fab?

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By *esiGalGuy123Man
35 weeks ago

Find me..

"Has anyone ever met someone off this site for fun and the other person has gotten feeling afterwards?

Nope, have been disappointed with meets!

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By *eroLondonMan
35 weeks ago

Mayfair

"Has anyone ever met someone off this site for fun and the other person has gotten feeling afterwards?

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Yes, but it was the other way around.

I make no apologies for being a romantic old fool.

I'm open for it to happen again. I make no apologies for that either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
35 weeks ago

"Someone told me the L word. Is that a massive no in the unspoken rules of Fab? "

Oh no! The forbidden L word

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By *ansoffateMan
35 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

The L word, I've had it said twice

Love Love Love

Love is all you need

Love it

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Love

Blue meanies are everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

"Has anyone ever met someone off this site for fun and the other person has gotten feeling afterwards?

I was that other person.

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

They’re only human

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
35 weeks ago

North West

"They’re only human

FFS, that picture

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"They’re only human

FFS, that picture

I just noticed it

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By (user no longer on site)
35 weeks ago

Well there is worse places to meet in the world.

And the universe does have a sense of humour

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By *enelope2UWoman
35 weeks ago

Fife

Here no the UK thinks sex is still Taboo I wouldn't be compatible long term

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
35 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I like feelings. I even know how to handle them without turning into a neurotic mess.

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By *irthandgirthMan
35 weeks ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I met someone and had some cheesy garlic bread once.. I think that's the same thing.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
35 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I love feelings. They mean the relationships you build on here are real. I’m here to build connections not have meaningless fucks. That being said they are friendships, some of them really close. I love some of the people I’ve met. Am I in love with them? Absolutely Not

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By *bckentMan
16 weeks ago

Medway Area

I did once... couple on here invited me over. After a few meets the wife started texting me pics and blwing kisses. She probably felt nothing but I could feel stuff happening i wasnt expecting. Her hubby saw some of the messages and called me up and said its over. That was a few years ago... few months after I blocked their profile because I noticed I would visit it from time to time when I really shouldnt. Think they moved back to India.

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

It happens, we are all human. It's just more confusing when you love and care for someone you know will never be your person. Embrace them, communicate them and as long as you are both on the same page, feelings aren't a bad thing just a bad circumstance.

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
16 weeks ago

your head

Yep, it was both of us though and we're still together. I like feelings, they don't scare me

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By *bckentMan
16 weeks ago

Medway Area

Honestly I felt like shit for months after. Felt like a broke his trust and the fact that I couldnt look myself in the mirror and say I would have dont it different if given another chance made me think a little less of myself. We think we are one thing then life shows us another side of ourselves/myself I wasnt quite proud of. Now every asian lady reminds me of her and ... aw feelings rushing back. I better quit.

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By *aintsnsinnersCouple
16 weeks ago

Tamworth

We met a single middle aged guy on a meet in a pub, he kept saying to my wife to leave me and live with him then saying only joking !

After the meet he kept hinting to her to leave me and meet him !

Then he txt to say he would meet her without me there ffs.

Oh and we could still be friends lol

Wanker !!!!!!!

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By *orphia2003Woman
16 weeks ago

Tonypandy.

Yes, I've caught the feelings for someone. Someone told me they got the feelings for me.

Wasn't the same person. All feelings put aside. Neither person in my life anymore.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
16 weeks ago

Paradise, Herts

Yes of course. And vice versa. Feelings don’t scare me.

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By *ookie46Woman
16 weeks ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Not afraid of catching the feels. Rare I let someone get that close though. It can open you up to being vulnerable but vulnerability can be a really beautiful thing

But embrace them, nurture them, roll with them and have good honest open communication

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By *ripfillMan
16 weeks ago

Paris, New York, Hong Kong and Havant

Absolutely not …. Loved every moment (s)

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By *bckentMan
16 weeks ago

Medway Area

"We met a single middle aged guy on a meet in a pub, he kept saying to my wife to leave me and live with him then saying only joking !

After the meet he kept hinting to her to leave me and meet him !

Then he txt to say he would meet her without me there ffs.

Oh and we could still be friends lol

Wanker !!!!!!!"

And this is where we differ. I never wanted her to leave him. I was quite happy to continue as usual and there was def never any talk of she leaving him..

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By *tephanie63Woman
16 weeks ago

BRIDGWATER

I dated someone briefly I met on Fab a couple of years ago. It was all going well until he went off with an ex...

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By *sWyldWoman
16 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Feelings are wonderful though. I love that part. You can enjoy them if you are honest, open and respectful.

I don't do half hearted in anything

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By *ecret-64Couple
16 weeks ago

Wrexham

This has happened several times to my wife. 2 guys have each fallen for her big time.

She actually enjoyed this though.

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By *ffervescentMan
16 weeks ago

winfrith

"Has anyone ever met someone off this site for fun and the other person has gotten feeling afterwards?

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Does she love you Op ?

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By *ell GwynnWoman
16 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

I love feelings. That new connection energy is great, and I embrace it when it comes. I've met people on here who I feel a deep friendship love for, both platonic and sexual. I can be really fond of someone and appreciate it for exactly what it is without needing to turn it into joint bank accounts and awkward family Christmases with the in-laws. Been there, done that, and I know I’m not going back. For me, it's about being present with those feelings and letting them develop naturally, without forcing them to fit into the usual relationship boxes.

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By *ohn.Wick.Man
16 weeks ago

The Continental

Yes, many years ago. I had someone catch the feels and turned 🦇 💩 cray cray. It ended up with police and restraining orders involved.

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By *nya NeesWoman
16 weeks ago

Brum

My aim is to always avoid 😁

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By *uperS77Man
16 weeks ago

Gloucester

Sorry what’s a meet?

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By *issmorganWoman
16 weeks ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, met my partner almost 9 years ago on here and it turned into more than nsa.

I wasn't looking for anything more at the time, but it just happened.

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
16 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Yes, and I've caught the feelings too. I've never been afraid of it happening either way. Open and honest communications are the only way to navigate what happens next.

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By *oast-coupleCouple
15 weeks ago

Prestatyn

I suppose that we are strange in that we welcome feelings.

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By *tsJustKateWoman
15 weeks ago

London

I have been that person. Having 'feelings' for someone isn't a bad thing, but unfortunately he didn't feel the same. Oh well!

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By *nya NeesWoman
15 weeks ago

Brum

"My aim is to always avoid 😁"

Maybe that didn't work 😂

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By *os_GoddessofdawnWoman
15 weeks ago

In the clouds

Not yet

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By *dam1971Man
15 weeks ago

Bedford

Yes, and I’d happily do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Nope. But I am emotionally unavailable

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