FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

I can’t remember if I’ve done one of these before…

Do you write them? Have you ever written a bad one? …. If someone didn’t ’meet the mark’ would you actually write an honest veri or just not write one to prevent upset?

Do you keep them ‘basic’ just maybe to show the person is real rather than discuss the meet?

I’m intrigued to find out peoples thoughts

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30 weeks ago

I never write graphic verifications. I don’t see verifications as a sex review and find those details should be kept between those who made the memories.

Reading verifications that say things to the like of leaving very little to the imagination of others, and paint a picture of what that person’s orifices feel and look like make my stomach queasy.

The one verification I ever had that was that level of detail was never one I made visible.

Nowadays, I don’t see the need to share my verifications with the whole of Fab. I may show one or two if I send someone a first message but it’s actually from someone who I’ve never had sex with and is a friend I met here on Fab some years back. It simply speaks of my personality and character.

In the future, I’m not bothered to give or receive verifications. Or if I do receive them, I’m not fussed to show them as if they are badges of honour. Not saying those who display them do see them as such.

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I never write graphic verifications. I don’t see verifications as a sex review and find those details should be kept between those who made the memories.

Reading verifications that say things to the like of leaving very little to the imagination of others, and paint a picture of what that person’s orifices feel and look like make my stomach queasy.

The one verification I ever had that was that level of detail was never one I made visible.

I totally understand this…. I feel they are hopefully good for proving real…

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I think people can read too much into verifications. Beyond the basic thing of verifying that someone is who they say they are, Fab veris are largely just a nice thing to do for each other after meeting up. Sort of a ‘Hey, thanks. I like you and I’m going to give you a wee thing that says so.’

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By *urnedoutniceagainMan
30 weeks ago

louth

Some verifications end up being short stories when they should be short and sweet. As for bad verifications, even if you left a bad verification the receiver would just choose not to show it

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
30 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

I leave verifications for people that I'd recommend meeting. I don't tend towards too graphic on sexual ones.

There's no point leaving a negative one. They'll still get the count on the verification summary as if its a good one and hide the text.

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By *agerMorganMan
30 weeks ago

Canvey Island

I tend not to leave graphic ones, as it doesn’t speak to the person and their personality and what they’re like to be around.

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By *ornycougaWoman
30 weeks ago

Wherever I lay my hat

I usually write them - but not always. For meets where we did the sex I think you can tell from veris I write if it was good and I would go back for seconds if the opportunity arose, from those where they weren't for me. If it's meh I will focus on their redeeming qualities. If it was a disaster I wouldn't write one. I get irritated by people who write gushing veris for everyone irrespective of what they really thought about the person.

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By *eliWoman
30 weeks ago

I wouldn't bother giving energy/headspace to writing a negative one. Not writing one is enough (but me not leaving one isn't always a negative).

I don't write or display sexual ones, it doesn't mean I don't like reading them back but it does mean I'm not comfortable sharing that on here. I like social ones but I'm not fussed if I get them or not.

I don't overthink what I write, I just put how I'm feeling in that moment in time and hope the receiver likes it.

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By *rBobbMan
30 weeks ago

Birmingham

I would never disclose any private details in a verification. The time you spend with someone is strictly between you and them.

I will always be open and honest with regards to my thoughts of the time we spent together. My thoughts about them and how they made me feel. They are never off the cuff and I usually spend a lot of time thinking about what I want to say.

Everything I write in a verification about someone is heartfelt and true.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
30 weeks ago

cardiff

I hate them, especially the sexual graphic ones. I don't display any bar one. They just make me go eeewwww

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Yes. I leave them for a way of the next person that comes across their profile to see that they are genuine. Hopefully there’s a hint of their character, as I can assure you, the text will never paint a big enough picture that they typed.

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By *ongandharderMan
30 weeks ago

Rotherham

"I can’t remember if I’ve done one of these before…

Do you write them? Have you ever written a bad one? …. If someone didn’t ’meet the mark’ would you actually write an honest veri or just not write one to prevent upset?

Do you keep them ‘basic’ just maybe to show the person is real rather than discuss the meet?

I’m intrigued to find out peoples thoughts

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I have wrote one an honest review and opinion

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I usually write them - but not always. For meets where we did the sex I think you can tell from veris I write if it was good and I would go back for seconds if the opportunity arose, from those where they weren't for me. If it's meh I will focus on their redeeming qualities. If it was a disaster I wouldn't write one. I get irritated by people who write gushing veris for everyone irrespective of what they really thought about the person. "

Well I know what to look out for now

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I leave verifications for people that I'd recommend meeting. I don't tend towards too graphic on sexual ones.

There's no point leaving a negative one. They'll still get the count on the verification summary as if its a good one and hide the text."

Good point I didn’t think of that

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I think people can read too much into verifications. Beyond the basic thing of verifying that someone is who they say they are, Fab veris are largely just a nice thing to do for each other after meeting up. Sort of a ‘Hey, thanks. I like you and I’m going to give you a wee thing that says so.’"

Seems like good way of loooking at things

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
30 weeks ago

St Neots

We've only written and received one so far but Very basic and to confirm genuine. We can quickly become less attracted to a profile with lots of graphic ones and don't understand the desire to display them

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Some verifications end up being short stories when they should be short and sweet. As for bad verifications, even if you left a bad verification the receiver would just choose not to show it "

Good point

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

there is no point in writing a bad verification as they wouldnt show it anyway! makes me laugh when people comment on the number i have, I have actually been to a few socials as well as run a couple so thats why there are so many - i dont share private ones, they are nice to read for me, but I have had someone say some awful things so I dont bother now.

I have never seen anyone displaying a negative verification - what would you write? 'Met 'X' he was totally shit, turned up late and looked like he hadnt bothered to wash or change his clothes before he came. actually he could have been to the gym prior to the meeting due to the amount of sweat oh his brow '

(its fictional!) I havent met him - yet

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
30 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

It’s been a while since i wrote or received (a meet one) but i remember never to be to graphic in what we got up to.

A general one about what they were like as a person, that i enjoyed myself and if there was something that stood out for the better i would put it in tastefully.

I asked the same in return.

As for the not so good meets i treated them like a job reference and put whatever positives there where and there was always a positive side.

Then leave out anything bad, you could always read between the lines if you compared them to my other verifications.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

A wonderful woman from Fab who I was lucky enough to be with for a while once described my veris as ‘Your TripAdvisor reviews’ and I’ve found the whole system amusing ever since.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
30 weeks ago

Leeds

I've written many, never a graphic one I don't like them.

I'd never write a bad one because what's the point? They just wouldn't display it.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
30 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"A wonderful woman from Fab who I was lucky enough to be with for a while once described my veris as ‘Your TripAdvisor reviews’ and I’ve found the whole system amusing ever since."

Fuckadvisor, innit?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Fuckadvisor, innit?

I like that. Totally stealing it.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
30 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Fuckadvisor, innit?

I like that. Totally stealing it.

You can pay me royalties in kind.

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By *allandathleticMan
30 weeks ago

Asgard

I don't write them. I don't pursue them.

Someone else's opinion of others is of no interest to me.

I take you, as I find you, and base my opinion on how you hold yourself. Not others.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
30 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

We don’t mind displaying them but we don’t display any graphic ones.

If our veri’s put people off then they wouldn’t have been the type we’d get on with anyway.

Hopefully they show us as easy going types who live in the moment.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"You can pay me royalties in kind."

Do you mean the sex? You mean in sex, don’t you.

(Or biscuits. Maybe you mean biscuits.)

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
30 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"You can pay me royalties in kind.

Do you mean the sex? You mean in sex, don’t you.

(Or biscuits. Maybe you mean biscuits.)

Sexy biscuits?

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By *electableicecreamMan
30 weeks ago

The West

I used to wax lyrical in the veri's I wrote in my early days. These days I tend to keep them short and sweet and genuinely complementary to the person.

I've been verified by someone who I passed in a corridor at an event and by someone else I've never met. I guess some people just like to collect them.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Sexy biscuits?"

Like a garibaldi? Or maybe something with thick dark chocolate on top …

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Graphic verifications are cringe at best, nobody needs to know what happened, just that a good time was had by all and that they are genuine

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

I think veris maybe mean more to people who don’t use the forums. We can get a good feel for each others’ character on here, from all the day to day chat. If you didn’t have that, maybe you’d pay more attention to verifications. I know I check them when someone I’ve not seen around before messages me.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"We don’t mind displaying them but we don’t display any graphic ones.

I dont think I’ve ever received a graphic one, ….

There’s a New fantasy on my bucket list.

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By *he love catsCouple
30 weeks ago

South Wales

We don't give or receive them it's written in our profile so nobody gets disappointed, its totally our business who we meet with and what we get up to.

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By *allandathleticMan
30 weeks ago

Asgard

The trouble with verifications is, they capture a moment.

All the below is fictional.

*A could be stunning, amazing in bed. However A* also has far right ideology. So A* is actually a C***.

The verifications of amazing nights of passion do not change the fact A* is a C***. And nor do they change my wish to be around anyone of that mind set.

If you need me to prove I am who I say I am before any meet is going ahead. There's ways with pieces of paper and inanimate objects that I can prove the authenticity of my body.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"I dont think I’ve ever received a graphic one, …. There’s a New fantasy on my bucket list.

MsWyld and I had a go at writing very, very graphic ones for each other, just for our own amusement. I’m not sure anyone even noticed, really. It was ages ago, and they’re long gone now, but they made us smile at the time.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
30 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Sexy biscuits?

Like a garibaldi? Or maybe something with thick dark chocolate on top …"

Malted milk stuck up a fanny?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Malted milk stuck up a fanny?"

Hardcore. I see you.

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By *parkle1974Woman
30 weeks ago

Leeds

Too many people cause drama and trouble due to verifications. Who I meet and what I do with them no-one else's business.

I have never left or received a graphic one.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
30 weeks ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Malted milk stuck up a fanny?

Hardcore. I see you.

Better than a hobnob, those oats are a bugger to get out.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
30 weeks ago

Glasgow / London

"Better than a hobnob, those oats are a bugger to get out."

Quite scratchy against my cock too, if you don’t get them all. Not pleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Ones I've had before are slightly humourous I guess.

I can't have any now else I wouldn't be able to play along when people think I'm a guy.

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By *illy IdolMan
30 weeks ago

Midlands

"Ones I've had before are slightly humourous I guess.

I can't have any now else I wouldn't be able to play along when people think I'm a guy. "

OMG

She does meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Ones I've had before are slightly humourous I guess.

I can't have any now else I wouldn't be able to play along when people think I'm a guy.

OMG

She does meet people "

I did.

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By *illy IdolMan
30 weeks ago

Midlands

"Ones I've had before are slightly humourous I guess.

I can't have any now else I wouldn't be able to play along when people think I'm a guy.

OMG

She does meet people

I did.

OMG

She did meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"Ones I've had before are slightly humourous I guess.

I can't have any now else I wouldn't be able to play along when people think I'm a guy.

OMG

She does meet people

I did.

OMG

She did meet people"

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By *B69Woman
30 weeks ago

Wiltshire

I’m not a fan of them, I’d rather no one knew my business, I will write one if asked, I only use them to check the person is legitimate and display one for that reason. As for the amount of meets someone has had well that’s not accurate as people who have returned ask to be verified again and send another one.

As others have said no one would publish a negative verification unless in jest

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"A wonderful woman from Fab who I was lucky enough to be with for a while once described my veris as ‘Your TripAdvisor reviews’ and I’ve found the whole system amusing ever since.

Fuckadvisor, innit?

I should have titled the thread with this .. damn it

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By *ittlebirdWoman
30 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

I don’t accept or give sexual verifications. They’re all fun, social ones. My sex life is my business

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I used to wax lyrical in the veri's I wrote in my early days. These days I tend to keep them short and sweet and genuinely complementary to the person.

I've been verified by someone who I passed in a corridor at an event and by someone else I've never met. I guess some people just like to collect them."

Like the of days with panini stickers? Got, got ..need

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Sexy biscuits?

Like a garibaldi? Or maybe something with thick dark chocolate on top …

Malted milk stuck up a fanny?"

Is this the ‘graphic’ type people are referring to?

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Ones I've had before are slightly humourous I guess.

I can't have any now else I wouldn't be able to play along when people think I'm a guy. "

You’re not a guy

this is brand new information

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I’m not a fan of them, I’d rather no one knew my business, I will write one if asked, I only use them to check the person is legitimate and display one for that reason. As for the amount of meets someone has had well that’s not accurate as people who have returned ask to be verified again and send another one.

As others have said no one would publish a negative verification unless in jest

Have you had it often that others have asked you to veri them even though you haven’t met since they returned?

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By *ee-LiteWoman
30 weeks ago

Where there’s no dick pics

Absolutely agree

A verification is to state that the person/persons you meet are genuine, not a stream of consciousness of their sexual prowess, that reads like a porn novel

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I don’t accept or give sexual verifications. They’re all fun, social ones. My sex life is my business

And the person who you shared it with you?

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Absolutely agree

A verification is to state that the person/persons you meet are genuine, not a stream of consciousness of their sexual prowess, that reads like a porn novel"

You know what, reading that made me realise I’ve never read a porn novel

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

I never go into detail of a good meet, cos its no ones business what went on.

If it's a bad meet, there's no point leaving a verification. They won't publish it just show it in the summary,so it's just a number.

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I never go into detail of a good meet, cos its no ones business what went on.

If it's a bad meet, there's no point leaving a verification. They won't publish it just show it in the summary,so it's just a number. "

That’s fair … do you tell them it was a bad meet? Or is it just a case of it happened we go our separate ways and it doesn’t need to be logged haha

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By *eroLondonMan
30 weeks ago

Mayfair

Well OP, I'm quite insouciant about verifications on the whole. I read them, I receive them and I like to write them in garrulous prose. There will never be the perfect or correct answer on how others view verifications. The devil is in the detail and the content, and how well they are received or perceived by others.

I've never written a bad one. The bad verifications are the ones that are never written.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
30 weeks ago

Wirral

I don't show any that are graphic, most of the ones I show are social ones but they say that I am a real person and I have turned up, which is all I'm looking for them to do.

I'm not particularly arsed if someone doesn't leave me a veri; I figure I've got enough. I'll always leave one if someone I've met asks me to as I know plenty of people do place importance on them.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
30 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I don’t accept or give sexual verifications. They’re all fun, social ones. My sex life is my business

And the person who you shared it with you?

Well yes. Obviously. What a stupid question

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

"I never go into detail of a good meet, cos its no ones business what went on.

If it's a bad meet, there's no point leaving a verification. They won't publish it just show it in the summary,so it's just a number.

That’s fair … do you tell them it was a bad meet? Or is it just a case of it happened we go our separate ways and it doesn’t need to be logged haha "

I just leave it alone. I say nothing. Cos you boys gave fragile egos that tend to get moody if told your not good at the sex

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By *B69Woman
30 weeks ago

Wiltshire

As others have said no one would publish a negative verification unless in jest

Have you had it often that others have asked you to veri them even though you haven’t met since they returned? "

Yes quite often, you see it on people’s profiles saying if we met previously say hi and verify

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I don’t accept or give sexual verifications. They’re all fun, social ones. My sex life is my business

And the person who you shared it with you?

Well yes. Obviously. What a stupid question

Sorry couldn’t resist … silly me

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I never go into detail of a good meet, cos its no ones business what went on.

If it's a bad meet, there's no point leaving a verification. They won't publish it just show it in the summary,so it's just a number.

That’s fair … do you tell them it was a bad meet? Or is it just a case of it happened we go our separate ways and it doesn’t need to be logged haha

I just leave it alone. I say nothing. Cos you boys gave fragile egos that tend to get moody if told your not good at the sex"

Ouch that generalisation really hurt my ego

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

As others have said no one would publish a negative verification unless in jest

Have you had it often that others have asked you to veri them even though you haven’t met since they returned?

Yes quite often, you see it on people’s profiles saying if we met previously say hi and verify

Ah yes I’ve seen that…..

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By *rishcuriosityWoman
30 weeks ago

Derry

I've written a verification in the past literally just stating that I can verify the person is real. Surely that's what it should be anyway. Why is it a review on your skills? Good lord

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
30 weeks ago

The Town by The Cross

"I can’t remember if I’ve done one of these before…

Do you write them? Have you ever written a bad one? …. If someone didn’t ’meet the mark’ would you actually write an honest veri or just not write one to prevent upset?

Do you keep them ‘basic’ just maybe to show the person is real rather than discuss the meet?

I’m intrigued to find out peoples thoughts

What do you mean 'meet the mark' .........

If they say they are 45 and 6ft 3 and they look 45 and 6ft 3 when I meet them then they have passed.....

A veri should just be to say the person is a real person and look like they say on the tin or at least like their pics

It's not an opinion on their sexual prowess

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By *ealitybitesMan
30 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't write play related veries and wouldn't display it either if I received one.

I've never had to write a negative verification but they're pointless anyway because they just wouldn't display it.

My very first fab meet was with a crazy and extremely dangerous woman but I left the site immediately after because I thought everyone here was a loon.

If I had stayed and written her a negative review warning others no-one would ever have seen it.

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By *rHotNottsMan
30 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Jusr reminded me I need to write one !

I love to receive them but tend not to display them anymore . Mine are a mix of very nice personal things from lovers past and present , socials and some pure filth. Never received or needed to write a bad one

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
30 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

Chatgtp for a veri these days, God when did I get so lazy....

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

False advertising.

Profile picture was taken 15 years ago.

Dog bit me when I entered the home. White wine was served at room temperature and the advertised night of my life ended prematurely when she dislocated her hip and I had to call an ambulance.

To top it all off I received a parking ticket as they had not provided me with a parking permit.

Did help myself to sone food from the fridge though to make a breakfast for myself. But as I had to make it myself I have also scored down for this.

3/10

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I can’t remember if I’ve done one of these before…

Do you write them? Have you ever written a bad one? …. If someone didn’t ’meet the mark’ would you actually write an honest veri or just not write one to prevent upset?

Do you keep them ‘basic’ just maybe to show the person is real rather than discuss the meet?

I’m intrigued to find out peoples thoughts

What do you mean 'meet the mark' .........

If they say they are 45 and 6ft 3 and they look 45 and 6ft 3 when I meet them then they have passed.....

A veri should just be to say the person is a real person and look like they say on the tin or at least like their pics

It's not an opinion on their sexual prowess"

Meet the mark of being who they say they are … for example if they say they’re 6ft & 42 and they’re not…then do you write this?

Equally … if you were a graphic veri writer … which some are … and your meet didn’t live up to / ‘meet the nark’ of their sexual prowess would you write this.

Meet the mark can be whatever you wish it to be..end of the day peoples interpretations vary no matter what is written, no?

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By *oxy jWoman
30 weeks ago

taunton somerset

verification have lost there value with so many idiots on here thinking it wont hurt to give one ''oh i feel sorry for him lets pretend we met help them out on top of all those who are giving themselves verification from different accounts ....

and then we have the cam verification hands down the biggest waste of time on fab it should be got rid of like the old phone verification..

so if im meeting via fab i no longer bother looking at verification i no longer give them unless they ask and i dont ask for them .... i do everything selection my way my selection process and for me it works not been let down it years and heavy use of the block button = easy life on fab

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"Chatgtp for a veri these days, God when did I get so lazy....

Mr "

I’m yet to try gpt….maybe I need to take the plunge

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By *oxy jWoman
30 weeks ago

taunton somerset

oh and i dont show mine as i found out someguys like to play games with them and contact those youve meet even had one guy telling them i no longer wanted to meet them some really de ranged folk on here

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"verification have lost there value with so many idiots on here thinking it wont hurt to give one ''oh i feel sorry for him lets pretend we met help them out on top of all those who are giving themselves verification from different accounts ....

and then we have the cam verification hands down the biggest waste of time on fab it should be got rid of like the old phone verification..

It seems you have this sussed

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"oh and i dont show mine as i found out someguys like to play games with them and contact those youve meet even had one guy telling them i no longer wanted to meet them some really de ranged folk on here"

Wow…that’s strange

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By *ustBoWoman
30 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't see any point in writing a bad veri as people wouldn't show it anyhow.

Only twice have I being tempted to and decided not to as they would just gain a Veri and not show it anyhow. It wasn't anything to do with sex with either of them anyhow both meets were socials. But both guys were just horrible individuals who thought they were owed sex.

I have never written a graphic veri and never will.

Now I don't think I could even be bothered writing any for anyone first.If I get a Veri from someone I meet I would send one back but that's the only time.

I don't rely on veris never have, I tend to make my mind up myself about people rather than rely on the smoke blowing that a lot of veris are anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

"I don't see any point in writing a bad veri as people wouldn't show it anyhow.

I have never written a graphic veri and never will.

Now I don't think I could even be bothered writing any for anyone first.If I get a Veri from someone I meet I would send one back but that's the only time.

I don't rely on veris never have, I tend to make my mind up myself about people rather than rely on the smoke blowing that a lot of veris are anyhow. "

Is there anyway to highlight the horribleness of the individuals to warn others ?

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By *ealitybitesMan
30 weeks ago

Belfast

Wow…that’s strange "

It's not really tbh and it's not just guys.

I've had women work their way through my verifications and befriend them and then try to extract as much personal info as they can from them about me.

I've had a woman contact someone I verified asking her to persuade me to get in touch as she was well outside my age filters and when she was told to feck off she then started a thread hoping I would respond.

I've also had a woman I had only exchanged a couple of messages with contact a friend through verifications and tell her to back off and stop holding me back and claimed I had put her up to it.

Nothing is strange on here.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
30 weeks ago

Coventry

"Fuckadvisor, innit?

I like that. Totally stealing it.

hahah love this

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By (user no longer on site)
30 weeks ago

Jeez so many typos

I've had 2 meets who refused to send then as they didn't believe in them. Maybe for them it didn't mean anything but for me it was like getting my first star on a mcdonalds team member badge. I was upset for a whole 2 mins

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By *enelope2UWoman
30 weeks ago

Fife

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By *enelope2UWoman
30 weeks ago

Fife

keep it generic as not all meets are sexual or meant to indicate what I do or they do

Guys are brainless and think what you do or did will be what everyone gets from meeting them or myself

I don't write a verification after every meet because i might see them 6 times that week or 3 times that day.

If the guy is too specific I don't display it or if he was a pretending nice but was a wet dick hunting fraud I'm not verifying him.

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By *rHotNottsMan
30 weeks ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Wow…that’s strange

It's not really tbh and it's not just guys.

I've had women work their way through my verifications and befriend them and then try to extract as much personal info as they can from them about me.

Wow there are women that would actually do that ……like pretend to befriend other women just to extract information, to trade or use on here , surely not, surely we must be making that shit up ,

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By *enegadeM OP Man
30 weeks ago

Oxfordshire

Wow…that’s strange

It's not really tbh and it's not just guys.

I've had women work their way through my verifications and befriend them and then try to extract as much personal info as they can from them about me.

I've also had a woman I had only exchanged a couple of messages with contact a friend through verifications and tell her to back off and stop holding me back and claimed I had put her up to it.

Nothing is strange on here. "

I mean that is strange whether you’re on here or not… that’s strange behaviour … and also no matter your gender no1 suggested it was just one …. if you’re acting that way surely it’s not just me that sees that as strange ?

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
30 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"Chatgtp for a veri these days, God when did I get so lazy....

I’m yet to try gpt….maybe I need to take the plunge "

Dorset nothing for the laziness qualities tbf,

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
30 weeks ago

Central

I see verifications as a tool to guide others evaluate truthfulness and reliability of users. It's best to only include information that supports this goal.

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