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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

Do you fancy anyone?

No names obviously but... do you?

Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?

I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?

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By *oozleMan
3 weeks ago

high wycombe

I’m enamoured by someone …..

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Nope. Don’t fancy anyone RN

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Ah this is depressing.

Yes. Yes I do fancy a couple of people.

Do they fancy me? Maybe one does. The rest do not. Sigh.

I’m obvious when I fancy people yeah. I think they should know. But if I wanted them to know I would tell them with words rather than hoping they get the hint.

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By *educing_EmCouple
3 weeks ago

Tipperary

I actually do you know and think it's reciprocated.

I don't know if I'm obvious but I don't try to hide it.

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By *iddlesticksMan
3 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

"Nope. Don’t fancy anyone RN

I beg your very pardon.

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By *ansoffateMan
3 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

Except my partner, not right now no.

Well a little kinda, but that would be a bit awkward.

She totally knows and teases me. I just

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By *allandathleticMan
3 weeks ago

Asgard

There are a few I'm physically drawn to.

I don't know if they know it.

In my mind I've been obvious. But then again I could be a million miles away.

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By *iddlesticksMan
3 weeks ago

My nan’s spare room.

I do fancy people, I fancy some for their looks, some for their personality and some for simply being beautiful people.

I know that in the main that fancying is unrequited but flirty friendships are there and that’s ok with me.

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By *weetCherryWoman
3 weeks ago

London

I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited

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By *enegadeMMan
3 weeks ago

oxford

"Do you fancy anyone?

No names obviously but... do you?

Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?

I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"

I have a few ladies I fancy at the moment …. Just not reciprocated unfortunately

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"I’m enamoured by someone ….."

Ohhh. I like that. Enamoured. It's not very Fab friendly though is it?

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
3 weeks ago

St Neots

I have a hankering for someone (not sure that's a better word than fancy or not, will test it out for a while).

I doubt they have a hankering for me back.

I might make it a tiny bit obvious but not too much

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By *oozleMan
3 weeks ago

high wycombe

"I’m enamoured by someone …..

Ohhh. I like that. Enamoured. It's not very Fab friendly though is it? "

Isn’t everything fab friendly nowadays though?

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

I fancy some someones. I always do. I think falling in love or lust a little bit every single day is an essential, exciting part of being alive.

But that’s just me.

I don’t hide it. I think half the forum can tell when I fancy someone.

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By *odfather returnsMan
3 weeks ago

Suffolk/Norfolk border

There’s one person I do quite fancy, I think they have an inkling but cannot be sure.

I certainly wouldn’t message them in case it caused any awks

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"Nope. Don’t fancy anyone RN

You know you don't have to give up your best friend if you do, don't you? :D

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Yes I do.

It's nice, isn't it?

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
3 weeks ago

your head

There are a couple of people Im attracted to currently, the feeling is mutual as far as I'm aware. I've not been told otherwise.

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By *ell GwynnWoman
3 weeks ago

North Yorkshire

Yes, I do. AND I believe it's reciprocated.

That's my face when I receive a message because I have the self-possession of an excited puppy.

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
3 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

"Do you fancy anyone?

No names obviously but... do you?

Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?

I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"

Yes I do and yes they do, I make it quite obvious when I do.

There are a few which I find myself drawn to but not going out on a limb yet (forumites) and off forum there’s a potential

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
3 weeks ago

somewhere

Apart from my husband, no I don't fancy anyone.

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"Ah this is depressing.

Yes. Yes I do fancy a couple of people.

Do they fancy me? Maybe one does. The rest do not. Sigh.

I’m obvious when I fancy people yeah. I think they should know. But if I wanted them to know I would tell them with words rather than hoping they get the hint.

Wait why is this depressing? Nooooo this is meant to be a cute, happy thread where people can share their happy.

Yeah, it's better for people to make it clear (if they want to) rather than hints. I don't think we (a general we) pick up on hints too well.

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Nope. Don’t fancy anyone RN

You know you don't have to give up your best friend if you do, don't you? :D"

. I would though. Obvs

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"I fancy some someones. I always do. I think falling in love or lust a little bit every single day is an essential, exciting part of being alive.

But that’s just me."

I agree

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"I actually do you know and think it's reciprocated.

I don't know if I'm obvious but I don't try to hide it.

Yay Em! Love this for you, hope you keep an empty laundry basket next.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
3 weeks ago

Laceby

There are a few people who are giving us fanny flutters and cock twinges yes.

We are chatting and hopefully they’ll progress into more

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By *educing_EmCouple
3 weeks ago

Tipperary

"I actually do you know and think it's reciprocated.

I don't know if I'm obvious but I don't try to hide it.

Yay Em! Love this for you, hope you keep an empty laundry basket next.

One could only dream of such a thing Meli

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By *ustaboutSaneMan
3 weeks ago

My World

Yes I have had my eyes on someone for a while but unfortunately my age filters me out by a couple years as she has it set for those just younger than herself for now.

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By *r John WickMan
3 weeks ago

The Continental

Yes. Very very much so.

I think that the feeling is mutual too.

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By *.T.Man
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

I'm in the unrequited club...

Apart from the obvious geography limitations that typically hamper things, I have reached out to her in the past, but haven't manage to tickle her pickle.

I shall continue to admire from afar as I know when not to push.

Fancy? yep.

Admire? 100%

Want to do things with her? Both in and out of the bedroom.

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited

Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I do, in fact fancy someone. And I think they fancy me.

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"There are a few I'm physically drawn to.

I don't know if they know it.

In my mind I've been obvious. But then again I could be a million miles away."

Yeah that's true. Being direct... some people excel at it, others perhaps beat around the proverbial bush a tad. I'd like to think you have been though.

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By *mughh69Man
3 weeks ago

kerry

I'm a bit of a butterfly

someone new everyday lol

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"I have a hankering for someone (not sure that's a better word than fancy or not, will test it out for a while).

I doubt they have a hankering for me back.

I might make it a tiny bit obvious but not too much

Hankering makes me think of food. A particular type of food. My fiancé was shocked I'd not heard of this advert so made me watch this hank Marvin advert.

Why do you doubt it? They've given no indication or you're a bit hard on yourself?

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By *histle do nicelyMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow South

Im very flirty

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By *B69Woman
3 weeks ago

south west

Yes someone has my attention, it’s going well

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By *ommy trucker1Man
3 weeks ago

south wales

Yeah, theres lots i fancy, tbh fab is like a sweet shop to a kid. So much choice but can only manage 1.2, maybe 3 sweets at a time. Does anyone fancy me well I have been verified a few times, so I guess so.

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By *oody BMan
3 weeks ago

Mcr. - The Gilded Palace of Sin

I adore a few women.

I genuinely fancy someone, and have for a while.

I seriously have the hots for a sexy woman and I have proper got a crush on a third.

So yeh, 3 women are on my mind.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
3 weeks ago

Sherwood Forest

Yep we fancy loads

unfortunately the feelings probably aren't reciprocated but its all good anyway as we still like to have a stealthy peak

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By *nnCeeWoman
3 weeks ago

East Surrey

There's a few people I'd like to get to know better, yes.

There's one person I know likes me, who is awesome, but I don't feel the same way about them and that makes me sad cos I think things would be electric with them, but you can't make your heart feel things it doesn't want to.

I'm not good at hiding how I feel, especially in person. So if I fancy someone most people would be able to tell! Not sure how much that translates onto the forum though.

I'd rather someone tell me outright if they fancied me. I'm not good at reading signs! If it wasn't reciprocated, I would try to let them down gently, I don't think I'm a meanie.

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"I fancy some someones. I always do. I think falling in love or lust a little bit every single day is an essential, exciting part of being alive."

This is so beautifully put. See, more posts like this, from your big brain? It would be glorious. I know you're not keen on Hozier but there's a song called Someone New which perfectly describes that feeling. I adore the rush of feeling alive I get from it.

"I don’t hide it. I think half the forum can tell when I fancy someone."

Not in the slightest Rosie, you're very subtle.

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
3 weeks ago

somewhere

As in do I want to fuck them?

Yes.

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"Yes I do.

It's nice, isn't it?"

Yay Pete! And a sensible post from you.

It is indeed rather nice. Hope it continues to make you smile (I'm imagining it does but who knows).

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Not in the slightest Rosie, you're very subtle."

There’s that poker face I was praising you for just the other day. You’re a marvel, Meli.

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"Yes, I do. AND I believe it's reciprocated.

That's my face when I receive a message because I have the self-possession of an excited puppy.

This is so cute and I can see your face doing exactly that. It's nice to lean in to the happiness of a crush/fancy and I love seeing my friends

happy.

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By *abtastic Mr FoxMan
3 weeks ago

A den in the Glen

Not so much on the forums. A few that I find attractive might not do it for me with their negative outlook or posts. Usually the ones I find firing my rockets in threads aren't my type, plus I live miles away from anyone, plus loads more. So there really is no point getting too excited. I do well enough without needing the love of the fora folk. That said there are a few lovely people who I chat to and should the opportunity arise, I would meet up with.

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"There are a few people who are giving us fanny flutters and cock twinges yes.

We are chatting and hopefully they’ll progress into more

Yay K! I hope they're feeding your voicenote kink and it does progress, x

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By *cfc1884Man
3 weeks ago

Leicester

Yes I do. I wish women would be more obvious though. They're ever so hard to read sometimes

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
3 weeks ago

St Neots

"I have a hankering for someone (not sure that's a better word than fancy or not, will test it out for a while).

I doubt they have a hankering for me back.

I might make it a tiny bit obvious but not too much

Hankering makes me think of food. A particular type of food. My fiancé was shocked I'd not heard of this advert so made me watch this hank Marvin advert.

Why do you doubt it? They've given no indication or you're a bit hard on yourself?"

True! But I say "fancy" with food aswell. I fancy a pizza right now.

Been small indications they might do but who the fuck really knows wihh this place

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By *illy IdolMan
3 weeks ago

~Rear of the Year winner 2024~

"Yes I do. I wish women would be more obvious though. They're ever so hard to read sometimes "

One of life's great mysteries there buddy

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"Yes. Very very much so.

I think that the feeling is mutual too. "

You get that Wick dipped John.

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By *heBelladonnaWoman
3 weeks ago

Somewhere Out There In The World

I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"

I delight in ...

I’m fond of…

I’m bedazzled by…

I’m charmed by…

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By *inxy777Woman
3 weeks ago

essex

Yes I do, but don’t think it will go anywhere x

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By *illy IdolMan
3 weeks ago

~Rear of the Year winner 2024~

Yes, there's a few I fancy. Even a couple in this thread

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"I do, in fact fancy someone. And I think they fancy me.

Yay Davina!

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
3 weeks ago

North Wales

Attracted to a few.

Fancy a handful

And for one or two it's a bit more than fancying.

But each one brightens my day one way or another

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
3 weeks ago

North Wales

"Attracted to a few.

Fancy a handful

And for one or two it's a bit more than fancying.

But each one brightens my day one way or another

I just re read and that last sentence made me gag a little

but I'm keeping it there for comedic value

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By *eyond PurityCouple
3 weeks ago

Laceby

"There are a few people who are giving us fanny flutters and cock twinges yes.

We are chatting and hopefully they’ll progress into more

Yay K! I hope they're feeding your voicenote kink and it does progress, x"

The kink is just for you and your voice - still waiting on your BJ voice note

This isn’t faux flirting - This is real

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By *allandathleticMan
3 weeks ago

Asgard

"There are a few I'm physically drawn to.

I don't know if they know it.

In my mind I've been obvious. But then again I could be a million miles away.

Yeah that's true. Being direct... some people excel at it, others perhaps beat around the proverbial bush a tad. I'd like to think you have been though.

It's a fine balance between confident/arrogance and subtle. I tend to try to remain subtle.

I don't believe I'm anything special so I don't force myself upon others. However, I'm here and open to conversation, if they chose to make a connection.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
3 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Not really, I haven't met anyone for ages.... Months! Not even anyone local to crush on... Hoping to change that going forward from this month. So keep fingers crossed for me, I need a little bit of joy in my life

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By *weetCherryWoman
3 weeks ago

London

"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited

Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?"

It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling

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By *rbobbMan
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

I do.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
3 weeks ago

Wirral

I fancy him and judging by his enthusiasm when we're together he appears to fancy me. Hurrah!

There are others I half-heartedly fancy, some on here I find attractive, but it's unreciprocated.

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited

Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?

It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling

I’m needing help with rsd

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By *enelope2UWoman
3 weeks ago

Fife

No I wish though

Missing regular who understood what friends and benefits meant not these ....... Nowadays on this site

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
3 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Yes, I rather do. It does feel reciprocated. Exciting isn't it!

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By *ot to giggleWoman
3 weeks ago

Coventry

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By *ot to giggleWoman
3 weeks ago

Coventry

.......... sigh ..... yep ..... we will see

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
3 weeks ago

Essex

My mojo is out of whack. I do. Then I don’t. But I still do.

No idea if it’s reciprocated. I imagine I’m a nightmare to deal with at the moment.

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By *weetCherryWoman
3 weeks ago

London

"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited

Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?

It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling

I’m needing help with rsd "

Occupational therapy and ADHD focused CBT, look into it Pickle

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited

Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?

It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling

I’m needing help with rsd

Occupational therapy and ADHD focused CBT, look into it Pickle

If I ever get my diagnosis.

but doing cbt soon hopefully for my terribly negative thoughts about myself

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By *dinburghWomanWoman
3 weeks ago

Edinburgh

Currently no and if anyone fancies me I’m usually blissfully unaware of hints

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By *ittlebirdWoman
3 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited

Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?

It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling

I’m needing help with rsd

Occupational therapy and ADHD focused CBT, look into it Pickle

If I ever get my diagnosis.

but doing cbt soon hopefully for my terribly negative thoughts about myself

The CBT should really help darling. It certainly helped me. Sending kisses

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By *azrich87Man
3 weeks ago

kings lynn

There might be someone but it hard to know if they feel the same

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited

Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?

It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling

I’m needing help with rsd

Occupational therapy and ADHD focused CBT, look into it Pickle

If I ever get my diagnosis.

but doing cbt soon hopefully for my terribly negative thoughts about myself

The CBT should really help darling. It certainly helped me. Sending kisses

I am not willing to pay for private anymore so I’ll just take what I get.

But the positive reviews make me optimistic

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By *weetCherryWoman
3 weeks ago

London

"I do fancy someone but I know it’s unrequited

Well this is sad. Has it lessened because it's unrequited?

It has now, thank you. I still fancy their pants, though. But a lot of time and distance have been of great help, not to mention RSD counselling

I’m needing help with rsd

Occupational therapy and ADHD focused CBT, look into it Pickle

If I ever get my diagnosis.

but doing cbt soon hopefully for my terribly negative thoughts about myself

The CBT should really help darling. It certainly helped me. Sending kisses

I am not willing to pay for private anymore so I’ll just take what I get.

But the positive reviews make me optimistic

"
got you a bit of advice on your DMs

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?

I delight in ...

I’m fond of…

I’m bedazzled by…

I’m charmed by…

I quite like I'm fond of. And also if someone says they're intoxicated by me. Oh, also bewitched. Bedazzled makes me think of Liz Hurley which isn't a bad thing.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
3 weeks ago

North West

"Do you fancy anyone?

No names obviously but... do you?

Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?

I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"

There's one or two. Definitely the odd one reciprocated. And I'm obvious as fuck, but only when I want to be

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

"My mojo is out of whack. I do. Then I don’t. But I still do."

Mild chaos from you is so very on-brand though.

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By *indeyesbigsmileMan
3 weeks ago

Newport

I am slightly infatuated by someone at present. I'm trying not to be but you know when someone just does everything for you. They don't know and I'm not sure I want to be rejected so keeping it to myself at mo.

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"There's a few people I'd like to get to know better, yes.

I'm not good at hiding how I feel, especially in person. So if I fancy someone most people would be able to tell! Not sure how much that translates onto the forum though.

I'd rather someone tell me outright if they fancied me. I'm not good at reading signs! If it wasn't reciprocated, I would try to let them down gently, I don't think I'm a meanie.

No you can't sadly. It's either there or it isn't, well at least the potential is.

You're not a meanie clearly; you want to let people down and don't like the thought of hurting them. That's really sweet, x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
3 weeks ago

Leeds

Can’t say I do, and probably not.

The mr

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By *ew horizons33Man
3 weeks ago

everywhere

I would say yes I do !!!

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
3 weeks ago

Maidstone

It's complicated. Probably. Maybe 1 or 2 *shrugs* I don't think there's much reciprocation.

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By *reat me rightWoman
3 weeks ago

Rotherham

Well, I did, things were going swimmingly for months then all of a sudden I'm up and ghosted

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By *ew horizons33Man
3 weeks ago

everywhere

"Well, I did, things were going swimmingly for months then all of a sudden I'm up and ghosted "

Horrible when that happens

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By *weetCherryWoman
3 weeks ago

London

"Well, I did, things were going swimmingly for months then all of a sudden I'm up and ghosted "

Oh no, I’m sorry

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"Well, I did, things were going swimmingly for months then all of a sudden I'm up and ghosted "

Ach, that's really crap, sorry to read that. I hope you're able to move past it, x

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By *ad NannaWoman
3 weeks ago

East London

I fancy someone who I know likes me, but I'm not his type.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
3 weeks ago

Leeds

There's lots of people I find attractive but fancy there is a few.

There's a few I'd like to get to know better & may possibly fancy them if that would happen.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
3 weeks ago

Herts

"Do you fancy anyone?

No names obviously but... do you?

Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?

I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"

I'm not very subtle

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By *heBelladonnaWoman
3 weeks ago

Somewhere Out There In The World

I fancy pouncing on someone.

I am gitty like a schoolgirl with every exchange with someone.

I visualise someone naked and rubbing their body against mine, their lips pressed against mine, their scent flooding my olfactory nerves and dancing in delight. The thought and mental imagery of this makes me moist at times.

Do they know? I can be overtly direct and obvious. I don’t do good dancing around the bush. Bold and in your face at some point is my style. I doubt they have to question whether I am besotted or not.

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By *nnCeeWoman
3 weeks ago

East Surrey

"There's a few people I'd like to get to know better, yes.

I'm not good at hiding how I feel, especially in person. So if I fancy someone most people would be able to tell! Not sure how much that translates onto the forum though.

I'd rather someone tell me outright if they fancied me. I'm not good at reading signs! If it wasn't reciprocated, I would try to let them down gently, I don't think I'm a meanie.

No you can't sadly. It's either there or it isn't, well at least the potential is.

You're not a meanie clearly; you want to let people down and don't like the thought of hurting them. That's really sweet, x"

Thank you

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By *nnCeeWoman
3 weeks ago

East Surrey

"Do you fancy anyone?

No names obviously but... do you?

Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?

I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?

I'm not very subtle "

How could you be, with that appendage

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?"

I know I flirt widely on these here forums, but I hope that when I really, really want to get together with someone they know it from our chats in private.

If I’m asking to see you, that’s a pretty heavy hint.

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By *ea monkeyMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

I fancy a few people, I’ve a crush on a couple of folks and I’m interested in a few.

I don’t hold with this Highlander approach

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair

Yes. I do. And she's a fool to fancy me. And for once it's not a forumite.

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"I fancy a few people, I’ve a crush on a couple of folks and I’m interested in a few.

I don’t hold with this Highlander approach "

What's the Highlander approach? Generational reference difference.

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

"What's the Highlander approach? Generational reference difference."

“There can be only one.”

(Watch Highlander, Meli. It’s an all-timer.)

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"I fancy pouncing on someone.

I am giddy like a schoolgirl with every exchange with someone."

Yes! Giddy. What a perfect word. I'm prone to being a bit giddy. A bit soft and easily excitable and walking around with a smile on my face. I hope that continues for you Bella, x

"I visualise someone naked and rubbing their body against mine, their lips pressed against mine, their scent flooding my olfactory nerves and dancing in delight. The thought and mental imagery of this makes me moist at times. "

I was talking about this earlier with a very dear hobbit friend. You know, about being craved, desired fiercely. When the thought of them ignites a physical response, when it's a Pavlovian reaction to reading them, their name, hearing their voice... I truly adore that energy.

"Do they know? I can be overtly direct and obvious. I don’t do good dancing around the bush. Bold and in your face at some point is my style. I doubt they have to question whether I am besotted or not.

And again with besotted. The lexicon.

Yes, bold and direct is how I imagine you, that's very much a compliment.

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"What's the Highlander approach? Generational reference difference.

“There can be only one.”

(Watch Highlander, Meli. It’s an all-timer.)"

Because it's you telling me to, I'll briefly consider it for a few minutes before deciding against it.

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By *ea monkeyMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester (he/him)

"What's the Highlander approach? Generational reference difference.

“There can be only one.”

(Watch Highlander, Meli. It’s an all-timer.)"

Bingo!

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

"What's the Highlander approach? Generational reference difference.

“There can be only one.”

(Watch Highlander, Meli. It’s an all-timer.)

Because it's you telling me to, I'll briefly consider it for a few minutes before deciding against it."

You'll enjoy it. You like that fantasy shit.

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"What's the Highlander approach? Generational reference difference.

“There can be only one.”

(Watch Highlander, Meli. It’s an all-timer.)

Because it's you telling me to, I'll briefly consider it for a few minutes before deciding against it.

You'll enjoy it. You like that fantasy epicness."

I do JP, really touched you remembered.

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"I fancy someone who I know likes me, but I'm not his type.

Does that matter? If he likes you, he likes you. Why does type come in to it?

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
3 weeks ago

somewhere

"I fancy someone who I know likes me, but I'm not his type.

Does that matter? If he likes you, he likes you. Why does type come in to it?"

See. I can get this. I've turned down or just generally been a dick with guys before where I don't meet their previous types.

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By *allandathleticMan
3 weeks ago

Asgard

"I fancy someone who I know likes me, but I'm not his type.

Does that matter? If he likes you, he likes you. Why does type come in to it?"

By saying "I'm not his type" your entering a self cancelling culture. Where you believe he wouldn't look twice at you based on his past.

What if he's doing the same?

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By *RWoodyCouple
3 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

I think the term 'fancy' fits perfectly Meli, to me it makes it sound like a flirty attraction, far removed from an emotional connection.

Right now, yes I'd say I fancy a couple of people.

Mrs J xx

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"I think the term 'fancy' fits perfectly Meli, to me it makes it sound like a flirty attraction, far removed from an emotional connection.

Right now, yes I'd say I fancy a couple of people.

Mrs J xx"

Ah that's true. Fancy makes sense when applied in a more swinging context, more lust based.

For me, fancy isn't quite an accurate description. A crush? But then that has a slightly... daft and silly connotation.

Anyway, yay to you fancying people!

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By *or-QueeningMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester

"Do you fancy anyone?

No names obviously but... do you?

Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?

I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"

Yes I do - a few people. In all but one case - no they don't. In one case the one time we met so far ended with her instigating kissing. Am I obvious? Depends on the situation I suppose. Not being obvious enough has cost me in the past so normally no, I'm not.

As for an alternative to 'fancy', how about 'Is there anyone who stirs your soul into an upheaval at the moment?' That's the source of all great literature - an upheaved soul.

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By *kphooeyMan
3 weeks ago

Finchley

"Do you fancy anyone? "

No.

"No names obviously but... do you?"

Still no.

"Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone? "

N/A

"I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"

Are you attracted to someone?

Do you want to jump someone's bones?

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By *eli OP Woman
3 weeks ago

"Yes I do - a few people. In all but one case - no they don't. In one case the one time we met so far ended with her instigating kissing. Am I obvious? Depends on the situation I suppose. Not being obvious enough has cost me in the past so normally no, I'm not.

As for an alternative to 'fancy', how about 'Is there anyone who stirs your soul into an upheaval at the moment?' That's the source of all great literature - an upheaved soul."

Oh O-F, I hope you find more confidence in yourself to be a bit more... obvious and go for it.

Stirs your soul in to an upheaval... I like it but it sounds tad brutal if that makes sense? Perhaps not in a fun way. I don't think I want anyone to ever upheaval my soul. :D

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By *iving Bi a TryMan
3 weeks ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Yes! and Yes!

Fancy can be replaced with desire.

BUT .... see my recent post in the lounge that says more about similar. I'm either grinning like a Cheshire Cat or trying to stifle tears.

Gbat

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By *ustBoWoman
3 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

The only person on here I fancy is the person I'm meeting, so he knows already

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By *or-QueeningMan
3 weeks ago

Manchester

As for an alternative to 'fancy', how about 'Is there anyone who stirs your soul into an upheaval at the moment?' That's the source of all great literature - an upheaved soul.

Oh O-F, I hope you find more confidence in yourself to be a bit more... obvious and go for it.

Stirs your soul in to an upheaval... I like it but it sounds tad brutal if that makes sense? Perhaps not in a fun way. I don't think I want anyone to ever upheaval my soul. :D"

Thank-you Meli. Sadly at my age I doubt any great personality change is going to happen, however much I might wish it.

I was quoting Robert Benchley in the wonderful film Mr Parker and the Vicious Circle which stars Jennifer Jason Leigh as Dorothy Parker. I couldn't think of anything original. I'm such a charlatan.

Lovely new profile pic by the way Meli.

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By *urry BlokeMan
3 weeks ago

Meli

I am intrigued by (and still trying to get a measure of) a forumite who I had not noticed until recently

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By *ittlemissmistressKCouple
3 weeks ago

Southampton

Yes I do, yes they know I'm crushing on them, nope I don't think it's reciprocated . . Shrug.. le sigh...

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By *inosaur PantsMan
3 weeks ago

Stourbridge

"Do you fancy anyone?

No names obviously but... do you?

Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?

I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?"

Yes

Maybe. No

Desire

Done.

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By *ddie1966Man
3 weeks ago

Paper Town Central, Essex.

Like.... yes

Fancy.....no

Do they know..... probably...

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By *histle do nicelyMan
3 days ago

Glasgow South

I'm very flirty which usually gets flirty replies..I love it .Always a maybe on the go

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By *omptationMan
3 days ago

liverpool

Yep. She’s one of my best friends and I can never tell her how I truly feel.

We’ve recently discussed how she’d like another baby, but she doesn’t want to date anyone and a bring a man into her children’s lives… so I half jokingly offered and she thanked me for the offer and kissed my cheek, but we’ve not spoken about it since

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By *heBelladonnaWoman
3 days ago

Somewhere Out There In The World

Today I fancy a lady, a few men, and a close friend.

Tomorrow, who knows!

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By *otSoPoshWoman
3 days ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I currently have a yen and a yearning for someone. And a desire for someone. An attraction to someone as well. Two of them know, I assume... if they don't by now I'm going to have to invest in flipping skywriters... and the third probably has an inkling but it's really just a fun flirtatious friendship and I can't imagine the attraction is reciprocal or requited, which is absolutely fine as I like us as we are. If that makes any sense.

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By *restonguy1981Man
2 days ago

preston

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By *restonguy1981Man
2 days ago

preston

I have and I have also lost out and regretted in too

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By *inUpProWoman
2 days ago

Liverpool

I've got my eye on someone. Hoping he fancies me

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By *issdimplesWoman
2 days ago

scotland

Yes i do.. not sure if feeling is mutual tho

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By *restonguy1981Man
2 days ago

preston

"I currently have a yen and a yearning for someone. And a desire for someone. An attraction to someone as well. Two of them know, I assume... if they don't by now I'm going to have to invest in flipping skywriters... and the third probably has an inkling but it's really just a fun flirtatious friendship and I can't imagine the attraction is reciprocal or requited, which is absolutely fine as I like us as we are. If that makes any sense.

Sky writers aren’t cheap

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By *ikesEmBigMan
2 days ago

Herts

"Do you fancy anyone?

No names obviously but... do you?

Do they fancy you? Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?

I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?

I'm not very subtle

How could you be, with that appendage

Lol well it's not always out

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
2 days ago

Manchester-ish

"Yes, I rather do. It does feel reciprocated. Exciting isn't it!

I'm glad this thread was revived. I can come back and say it was reciprocated.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
2 days ago

Wherever

Not at the moment, no.

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By *ife NinjaMan
2 days ago

Dunfermline

Yes. They don't

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By *ndtheswingersMan
2 days ago

colchester

I do like mad

Really luckily she does too. I'm a really lucky bloke x

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By *viatrixWoman
2 days ago

Redhill

I don’t.

I spent the last 7 days virtually on the other side of the world, and more than once I was very tempted to delete my account.

I think Fab has served its purpose for me. I have had the most electric and thrilling experiences with the most incredible people. But I have also experienced deep heartbreak and I wonder if the highs are worth the deep lows I get into.

Sex drive is gone -for now- … the joys of menopause I guess- so didn’t delete my account but I think I will just stick around for the forum and the attention I get, haha.

Lol, such an essay to answer such a simple question.

No, I don’t fancy anyone right now.

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By *eli OP Woman
2 days ago

"Yes, I rather do. It does feel reciprocated. Exciting isn't it!

I'm glad this thread was revived. I can come back and say it was reciprocated.

Yay Julie! This makes me so incredibly happy for you.

I'm really happy about the bump as well.

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By *eli OP Woman
2 days ago

"Meli

I am intrigued by (and still trying to get a measure of) a forumite who I had not noticed until recently "

So, two weeks later... have you got the measure of the forumite? Intrigued is such a good word.

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By *enital_mAnMan
2 days ago

nottinghamshire

I believe there’s someone for everyone to feel attracted to in some way, shape or form here.

If you haven’t found them yet, you will!

My positivity for the day is now done

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
2 days ago

St Leonards

I'm keeping this to FABWorld rather than Big World.

Do you fancy anyone?

Yeah, about a dozen "a bit", a few who might become people to meet over the coming years, and one who I'd really like to become a regular lover next year.

No names obviously but... do you?

Honestly Meli - there's a thin line between tautology and rhetoric. I just answered you!

Do they fancy you?

The dozen, a bit; the few, a bit more; the one, more than a bit more.

Are you quite... obvious when you do fancy someone?

Not on the threads - I'll make that clear on private message.

I don't think I'm too keen on the word fancy any more, any other suggestions?

No xx

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
2 days ago

Wherever

"I don’t.

I spent the last 7 days virtually on the other side of the world, and more than once I was very tempted to delete my account.

Sex drive is gone -for now- … the joys of menopause I guess- so didn’t delete my account but I think I will just stick around for the forum and the attention I get, haha.

Lol, such an essay to answer such a simple question.

No, I don’t fancy anyone right now.

Same for me, sans “the most electric and thrilling experiences” part.

To the point I needed to give myself a pep talk this morning, and admit that when I feel nauseous with anxiety because I’m supposed to be meeting someone, it’s time for me to go.

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By *eli OP Woman
2 days ago

"I don’t.

I spent the last 7 days virtually on the other side of the world, and more than once I was very tempted to delete my account.

Sex drive is gone -for now- … the joys of menopause I guess- so didn’t delete my account but I think I will just stick around for the forum and the attention I get, haha.

Lol, such an essay to answer such a simple question.

No, I don’t fancy anyone right now.

Hey Avi, honestly any time you want to essay an answer? Feel free to. If anything, my threads are a good place for that.

The highs are always worth the lows. So you feel things deeply. There's the potential for a more keen, sharper hurt. There's also the potential for real joy, the sort of giddy state that readily brings you to a smile when you think of them.

Stick around for the forums, the attention. I think and hope that in time your libido will return. And so will your desire to embrace life, even if it does lead to hurt.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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2 days ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Yes.

There's always someone I fancy.

My partner, obvs, but also other people that I see now and then, some I chat to on here, some I know in vanilla life and some sat round the pool that we're by right now.

There's varying degrees of 'fancying' to me. From a deep, semi permanent/permanent level, through to just a brief moment of 'ooft, they're hot' observation from a distance.

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By *rsMistyPeaksWoman
2 days ago

Essex

My mojo is back to normal…

And yes. Very much yes.

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By *opping_inCouple
2 days ago

Bournemouth

You'd have to be very picky to find absolutely nobody on here fanciable, I mean there is every kind of everyone here - them fancying you back and being within travelling and accommodating criteria that's another matter.

Fortunately I sleep in the same bed as the one I fancy the most on here

(well normally when I don't leave her at home)

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By *indergirlWoman
2 days ago

somewhere, someplace

Yes and I very much doubt so

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By *ndtheswingersMan
2 days ago

colchester

"Yes and I very much doubt so"

They'd be mad not to x

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By *agatoXXXMan
2 days ago

Carol Vorderman's underwear drawer.

I'm not sure.

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By *restonguy1981Man
2 days ago

preston

"Yes and I very much doubt so"

Sad if that is the case and they definitely must be crazy or have their eyes painted on

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By *agatoXXXMan
2 days ago

Carol Vorderman's underwear drawer.

"Yes and I very much doubt so

Sad if that is the case and they definitely must be crazy or have their eyes painted on

They could be stuck on googly eyes.

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