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By (user no longer on site) OP   
32 weeks ago

So ..I've been doing alot of thinking about this one because I'm normally the dominant guy..however..I wud like to try out being the one being dominated by another women. Not attending clubs at the moment but I'm open to private meets. Any domineering women out there?

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Dommes are in high demand...I think your best bet is to pay a professional

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By *inger_SnapWoman
32 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Plenty... But you have to really know what you want your experience to be. And what's in it for the lady?

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By *mmaleiaWoman
32 weeks ago

Trowbridge


"Any domineering women out there?"

Domineering & dominant women are very different species, don’t get them mixed up…

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
32 weeks ago


"Plenty... But you have to really know what you want your experience to be. And what's in it for the lady?"

I'm not sure...I'm intrigued. What's on the menu.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"Plenty... But you have to really know what you want your experience to be. And what's in it for the lady?

I'm not sure...I'm intrigued. What's on the menu.lol"

Check a pro dommes page and approach appropriately...is my advice ??

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
32 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Plenty... But you have to really know what you want your experience to be. And what's in it for the lady?

I'm not sure...I'm intrigued. What's on the menu.lol"

If you don't know what you want, it's difficult for anyone to provide it.

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago

Hubby would like to be dommed by a woman too!

I’d actually quite like to see that myself

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By *rBobbMan
32 weeks ago

Birmingham


"So ..I've been doing alot of thinking about this one because I'm normally the dominant guy..however..I wud like to try out being the one being dominated by another women. Not attending clubs at the moment but I'm open to private meets. Any domineering women out there?"

This is a huge subject and can very quickly turn into a mine field if you are not careful. what do you mean "try out"?

My advice to you is go and do some research into the lifestyle and the many different types of Domme's out there.

Understand what it is exactly you want. Are you looking a scene Domme or a 24/7 lifestyle?

These are just some of the basic questions you should know the answer to before even trying to engage with a Domme.

Remember the whole dynamic is a two was street.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
32 weeks ago


"So ..I've been doing alot of thinking about this one because I'm normally the dominant guy..however..I wud like to try out being the one being dominated by another women. Not attending clubs at the moment but I'm open to private meets. Any domineering women out there?

Just a women who takes control I think...little rough here and there..do as Ur told kinda thing .

This is a huge subject and can very quickly turn into a mine field if you are not careful. what do you mean "try out"?

My advice to you is go and do some research into the lifestyle and the many different types of Domme's out there.

Understand what it is exactly you want. Are you looking a scene Domme or a 24/7 lifestyle?

These are just some of the basic questions you should know the answer to before even trying to engage with a Domme.

Remember the whole dynamic is a two was street."

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By *inger_SnapWoman
32 weeks ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Don't send unsolicited dick pics OP

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
32 weeks ago

East Anglia


"Hubby would like to be dommed by a woman too!

I’d actually quite like to see that myself "

I do love to have control over a man. But lots of things need to be agreed before any session

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
32 weeks ago

your head

There's loads of dominate women around OP, echoing above, read up and research before you approach anyone. Get an idea of what you want. Do you just want someone to take control during sex? Or a little more than that?

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By (user no longer on site)
32 weeks ago


"Hubby would like to be dommed by a woman too!

I’d actually quite like to see that myself

I do love to have control over a man. But lots of things need to be agreed before any session "

Oh I can make arrangements for this with you. Just send me pics after hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
32 weeks ago


"There's loads of dominate women around OP, echoing above, read up and research before you approach anyone. Get an idea of what you want. Do you just want someone to take control during sex? Or a little more than that? "

Probably to take control,little humiliation perhaps..that kind of thing.

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By *ueerKinkyCoupleCouple
32 weeks ago

Cambridge (She/They And They/Them)

The demand for Dommes is huge so the competition for their time is ferocious.

If you’re willing to pay, you can ask for what you want and you’ll probably find a provider.

If you don’t want to pay, you’ll need to think about what you’d like to experience.

What would you like to feel (scared, cared for, pain, objectification, fear, humiliation etc etc)? What experience have you had? What are your limits?

If you don’t have much experience, do some research so you understand the kinks you’re talking about. You can take BDSM quizzes online to get some ideas.

Lots of people approach me saying they “have no limits” and I can ”do anything”. These are red flags.

Do you know what you want to try?

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By *ansoffateMan
32 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

So many pretend predators, so few can bring me to my knees.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
32 weeks ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"So ..I've been doing alot of thinking about this one because I'm normally the dominant guy..however..I wud like to try out being the one being dominated by another women. Not attending clubs at the moment but I'm open to private meets. Any domineering women out there?"

Gatehouse run regular Domme lead events, you could always go and speak to one of the Dommes there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
32 weeks ago


"The demand for Dommes is huge so the competition for their time is ferocious.

If you’re willing to pay, you can ask for what you want and you’ll probably find a provider.

If you don’t want to pay, you’ll need to think about what you’d like to experience.

What would you like to feel (scared, cared for, pain, objectification, fear, humiliation etc etc)? What experience have you had? What are your limits?

If you don’t have much experience, do some research so you understand the kinks you’re talking about. You can take BDSM quizzes online to get some ideas.

Lots of people approach me saying they “have no limits” and I can ”do anything”. These are red flags.

Do you know what you want to try? "

As I was saying further up... probably just to be told what to do,little humiliation perhaps..for them to take control. Not pain...or anything like that..maybe being tied up, restraints so they can touch or tease how they like..that kinda thing.

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