FabSwingers.com forum: Wedding pics

By *plshrops OP Couple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

We have seen a few profiles with there wedding pictures on.

it makes us feel a little un-easy

what do other think.

we are not judging anyone

just expressing how it makes us feel..

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

I think it's probably the most certain way of proving they are a genuinely married couple...and that's very important to some. I don't really see why it would make anyone feel uneasy though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't see any problem with it

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By *plshrops OP Couple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Just a reminder of the wows you make in front of every one and then do the opposite on here.

Maybe a little guilt trip that's all.

like we said that's just our take on it.

as for the pics you could do that via private message if you needed to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The opposite of which vows, to love to cherish to look after? How is being on here doing the opposite? Are you married OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone thinks people are doing the exact opposite of their wedding vows I'd suggest they are in the wrong place.

Do you only meet unmarried couples?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

not quite understanding whats so wrong with a wedding picture either .. not sure why its any different to any other picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they real wedding pics or are they into cosplay!

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By *plshrops OP Couple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

yes happily 15 years

it was a big step for us to start swinging 10 or so years ago.

nothing to do with jealousy

the moral guilt thing was the biggest hurdle.

about what people would think of us

we are not judging anyone so not looking for any arguments

just asked what other peoples views were

I they are different from ours or not we don't mind

as we said It was more of a guilt trip.

seeing the pics.

we are not bible bashers either

perhaps we are just a bit old fashioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you're not judging but you are completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes happily 15 years

it was a big step for us to start swinging 10 or so years ago.

nothing to do with jealousy

the moral guilt thing was the biggest hurdle.

about what people would think of us

we are not judging anyone so not looking for any arguments

just asked what other peoples views were

I they are different from ours or not we don't mind

as we said It was more of a guilt trip.

seeing the pics.

we are not bible bashers either

perhaps we are just a bit old fashioned."

but you don't have to be married to have moral misgivings

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

we've been together for 15 years but aren't married .. whats the big deal about being married .. im not getting that bit sorry ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's fine to show wedding pics it shows the trust and understanding a couple have and FTP be open and honest about who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok predictive text struck again lol

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By *plshrops OP Couple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Do you only meet unmarried couples?

our profile shows some of the meets we have had..

its not the marriage wow bit it was just the wedding dress pics

as we keep saying we are not judging just asked if anyone else had the same thoughts.

It would not stop us meeting a Cpl that had a wedding pic on the profile either.

just not what we would do.

love /personal intimacy/ wows

are different from recreational sex and social fun and we will keep a clear line between the 2.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

the price of wedding photography - get every single use you can of the buggers! Besides, its the day you are going to look your very best

All seriousness tho - I'm not sure this is the time or place for them, but each to their own. If they feel happy sharing them, then good for them

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By *plshrops OP Couple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

You say you're not judging but you are completely

No we are not all we said was how it made US feel and asked what everyone thought.

we now feel like the ones being judged for asking the question.

wedding dresses are associated with churches not swingers clubs that's all

we were thinking.

sorry for asking your opinions we don't post here very often and now realise why now.

we will keep our thoughts to ourselves in future.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

I've got a pic of me on my wedding day in my friends gallery. I love how I look in the pic and I'm open about being married, that's why I have it on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if it was just about the dress why mention vows at all? It seems another thread along the lines of 'this is our opinion, if others don't agree we will make a big show of saying we won't be posting on here again'

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By *r and mrs bangerboobsCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Hhmm, we aren't comfortable about seeing wedding pics on profiles either.

We aren't saying its wrong or right, but we all are allowed to have our likes/dislikes and preferences.

Slightly off topic, this site appears to have different guidelines, as opposed to its sister site, about what pics are acceptable.....there are pics on here showing other people clearly in the background/pics of children in the background too......

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Pics liek that can be reported - shouldn't be anyone else clearly in the pic and defo no under 18s. Click to report and admin should deal with them

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By *r and mrs bangerboobsCouple
over a year ago

Bridgend

@ lady bee......it's not isolated ones that have slipped thru the net....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We wouldn't use our wedding pictures they're over 25 years old for a start and we feel that they are representative of a part of our relationship that we don't want to share here.

If someone else does want to use theirs that's up to them but it's not something I like to see.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"You say you're not judging but you are completely

No we are not all we said was how it made US feel and asked what everyone thought.

we now feel like the ones being judged for asking the question.

wedding dresses are associated with churches not swingers clubs that's all

we were thinking.

sorry for asking your opinions we don't post here very often and now realise why now.

we will keep our thoughts to ourselves in future.

Don't let this one experience put you off. I've seen plenty if posts where people express shock at seeing wedding photos . Join in, express your opinion it's what makes it fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their pics, their profiles, if they are happy to display their wedding pics, then it is entirely their prerogative, whether others like it or not!

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By *plshrops OP Couple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Their pics, their profiles, if they are happy to display their wedding pics, then it is entirely their prerogative, whether others like it or not!

Our posting was more about how it made us feel and questioned weather our reaction to it was in the minority or not.

it was not about was it right or wrong to use wedding pics or not that's their choice.

it caused us to think about how we felt about it that's all.

the profile in question only had 2 photos on it one showed a close up of the naked ladies genitals the other was full length wedding picture of them both.

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By *plshrops OP Couple
over a year ago

shrewsbury

It seems another thread along the lines of 'this is our opinion, if others don't agree we will make a big show of saying we won't be posting on here again

Our comment about not posting was based on the reply's suggesting that our thoughts made us unsuitable for this site - we call that being judged just because we raised the issue.

we did not state that the people showing wedding pics where scum or immoral or anything else detrimental

we just asked a question about what other people thought about it and if anyone else thought the same as we did.

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