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By (user no longer on site) OP   
24 weeks ago

Seems like men like it more

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By *punk n gushCouple
24 weeks ago

Walmer, Deal

Think it seems to be

As a couple we would rather get to know people as we prefer regular meets that said we have done spontaneous meets if we're away but find we don't have as much fun with them

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

Commonly men tend towards spontaneous sexuality, women tend to be more reactive.

*Tend towards. Some, not all.

But also, as a woman, if I want a quick fuck, I've got people I can call and know I have a hassle free and already known to be good time lined up. Arranging to meet a complete stranger, dealing with logistics and safety for them to potentially either flake out and not show up or do show up be decidedly mediocre in bed, really kill my "I want to fuck right now" vibe right off. I'll just call a fuck buddy or visit a club instead.

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By *eviant-Kinky-CoupleCouple
24 weeks ago

town


"Seems like men like it more"

We both dislike spontaneous meets. Mr even more so!

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By *isntacrowdMan
24 weeks ago

Devonshire


"Commonly men tend towards spontaneous sexuality, women tend to be more reactive.

*Tend towards. Some, not all.

But also, as a woman, if I want a quick fuck, I've got people I can call and know I have a hassle free and already known to be good time lined up. Arranging to meet a complete stranger, dealing with logistics and safety for them to potentially either flake out and not show up or do show up be decidedly mediocre in bed, really kill my "I want to fuck right now" vibe right off. I'll just call a fuck buddy or visit a club instead."

That’s very well answered.

Thank you for sharing your insight about this topic

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By *ellhungvweMan
24 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I like them but then I also spontaneously meet couples and single ladies so I guess they like them as well.

Just one part of the rich tapestry that is fab.

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By *he love catsCouple
24 weeks ago

South Wales

Fuck and Go is where the future is

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By *andy CanesWoman
24 weeks ago

south


"Seems like men like it more"
men are just glad of a meet

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By *arla SwingerWoman
24 weeks ago

Somewhere

Spontaneous for men on Fab sometimes seems to equal...

'Are you free right now?' (at 3am on a Sunday)

'I can pick you up from your house in the car now' (from a total randomer)

'Can you come round mine now and fuck me, whilst the Mrs is asleep?' (ummm )

My spontaneous - I may chat to you, see if we're compatible and you're not a psychopath. I may have some time within the next month to meet for a coffee

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By *electableicecreamMan
24 weeks ago

The West

I generally don't do spontaneous. Or if I do the circumstances have to be exceptional.

Life's too short for bad sex. I'd rather wait a couple of days and make time for someone I know.

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By *ycanNightsMan
24 weeks ago

Workington

Spontaneous with someone I know , like...into...fuck yes.

Otherwise absolutely not...

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"Spontaneous with someone I know , like...into...fuck yes.

Otherwise absolutely not...

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Agreed

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
24 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Spontaneous with someone I know , like...into...fuck yes.

Otherwise absolutely not...

"

Oh. Very this too.

Late night horny and some random I've never spoken to messages me at midnight asking if I want to go over and suck their dick? Fuck no.

Late night horny and someone that I'm into asks if I want to ch0ke on their dick at stupid o'clock? Get driving bitch

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By *wimmingbadgerMan
24 weeks ago

Leicester

Spontaneous meet with a random stranger in a layby at 3am? Definitely not. With someone i've got to know a bit first? Definitely yes

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By *inosaur PantsMan
24 weeks ago

Stourbridge

With someone new? Would do nothing for me whatsoever.

I need at least some connection with anyone before doing the sex, I'd rather just have a wank otherwise tbh.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
24 weeks ago

Coventry


"Spontaneous with someone I know , like...into...fuck yes.

Otherwise absolutely not...

"

Yep!!

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By *eliWoman
24 weeks ago

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It's not for me in the slightest which will come as no surprise to anyone who knows me.

I like the eroticism of anticipation, the enjoyment of being able to relax fully around someone, someone who knows my body and I theirs.

That desire... for me it's really important. I think spontaneous could be hot but only if it's someone I already know. We talk. I've kissed them. And many others thing.

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By *inosaur PantsMan
24 weeks ago

Stourbridge


"It's not for me in the slightest which will come as no surprise to anyone who knows me.

I like the eroticism of anticipation, the enjoyment of being able to relax fully around someone, someone who knows my body and I theirs.

That desire... for me it's really important. I think spontaneous could be hot but only if it's someone I already know. We talk. I've kissed them. And many others thing. "

Perfect

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By *ycanNightsMan
24 weeks ago

Workington


"Spontaneous with someone I know , like...into...fuck yes.

Otherwise absolutely not...

Oh. Very this too.

Late night horny and some random I've never spoken to messages me at midnight asking if I want to go over and suck their dick? Fuck no.

Late night horny and someone that I'm into asks if I want to ch0ke on their dick at stupid o'clock? Get driving bitch "

Beep beep bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

With a FB or FWB, yes. One was referred to as Miss Sponteneity, she'd call up on a whim to see if I was up for it (also liked me calling her)

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By *WB85Man
24 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Not all of us.

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