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"Just message me at least once a month and we're besties. " Once a month? Yuh nuh ave fren inna real life? | |||
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"Veryyyy… have to listen to all my Bipolar Type II shit. Not an easy feat! " Damn. I really liked you. Oh well. Another one bites the dust | |||
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"Veryyyy… have to listen to all my Bipolar Type II shit. Not an easy feat! Damn. I really liked you. Oh well. Another one bites the dust" I need cuddling too | |||
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"The ones that I talk to most days and actively seek the company of are usually partners. The ones I swap memes with and occasional updates on fun things that happened in between the "So when we banging?" texts and occasionally go out in public with, they're friends with benefits. If we don't hang out in public and the only message history is arranging to bang, they're definitely more in fuck buddy territory." You speak for me too here | |||
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"The ones that I talk to most days and actively seek the company of are usually partners. The ones I swap memes with and occasional updates on fun things that happened in between the "So when we banging?" texts and occasionally go out in public with, they're friends with benefits. If we don't hang out in public and the only message history is arranging to bang, they're definitely more in fuck buddy territory." This | |||
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"I like it if we can message/talk frequently about life/random stuff as well as sexy fun." This for me too but it has to be a 2 way street. | |||
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"Just message me at least once a month and we're besties. Once a month? Yuh nuh ave fren inna real life?" The ones that want sex aren't actual friends. Just acquaintances. So a message once a month is sufficient. | |||
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"My ideal FWB situation is someone I can hang our with as well as fuck - doesn't have to be all the time but I want to like and feel comfortable with a person if I'm going to get naked with them. If I can watch a film with them, snuggled up on the sofa then that suits me." This is dangerous territory for the old feelings to creep in with one of you though | |||
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"How friendly do you need to be? " Fwends Obvs | |||
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"The ones that I talk to most days and actively seek the company of are usually partners. The ones I swap memes with and occasional updates on fun things that happened in between the "So when we banging?" texts and occasionally go out in public with, they're friends with benefits. If we don't hang out in public and the only message history is arranging to bang, they're definitely more in fuck buddy territory." That’s a pretty good rundown, i think i need to jot this down!! Thanks | |||
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"How friendly do you need to be? " My last FWB had a jacuzzi - that was definitely a benefit. Not convinced about the friends bit, tended to disagree on all sorts of things (education, health care, local government, politics). Gosh, may as well have been married to her. | |||
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"We are friends first so we talk, hang out etc the sex is a bonus. " Exactly this ^ A night out or a weekend break occasionally too !! One can dream | |||
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"We are friends first so we talk, hang out etc the sex is a bonus. Exactly this ^ A night out or a weekend break occasionally too !! One can dream " Wanna hang out and maybe fuck? | |||
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"I had a FWB once " That was a short story, you should of finished with The End | |||
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"I had a FWB once That was a short story, you should of finished with The End " Lol The End taddaaa. | |||
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"I had a FWB once That was a short story, you should of finished with The End Lol The End taddaaa." Better | |||
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"I had a FWB once That was a short story, you should of finished with The End Lol The End taddaaa. Better " Thanks | |||
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"I had a FWB once That was a short story, you should of finished with The End Lol The End taddaaa. Better Thanks " Fancy a trip to Margate, hang around the arcade and maybe fuck later? | |||
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"I had a FWB once That was a short story, you should of finished with The End Lol The End taddaaa. Better Thanks Fancy a trip to Margate, hang around the arcade and maybe fuck later? " I'm washing my hair or I would have said yes lol | |||
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"I had a FWB once That was a short story, you should of finished with The End Lol The End taddaaa. Better Thanks Fancy a trip to Margate, hang around the arcade and maybe fuck later? I'm washing my hair or I would have said yes lol" Jesus he knows how to get a womens attention doesnt he | |||
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"We are friends first so we talk, hang out etc the sex is a bonus. Exactly this ^ A night out or a weekend break occasionally too !! One can dream Wanna hang out and maybe fuck? " Only if coffee is involved | |||
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"I had a FWB once That was a short story, you should of finished with The End Lol The End taddaaa. Better Thanks Fancy a trip to Margate, hang around the arcade and maybe fuck later? I'm washing my hair or I would have said yes lol Jesus he knows how to get a womens attention doesnt he" Oh yeah it’s first class all the way with me!! Look, if she wasn’t wasting her hair we would be heading to Margate | |||
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"We are friends first so we talk, hang out etc the sex is a bonus. Exactly this ^ A night out or a weekend break occasionally too !! One can dream Wanna hang out and maybe fuck? Only if coffee is involved " Of course! I'm not a monster | |||
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"I had a FWB once That was a short story, you should of finished with The End Lol The End taddaaa. Better Thanks Fancy a trip to Margate, hang around the arcade and maybe fuck later? I'm washing my hair or I would have said yes lol Jesus he knows how to get a womens attention doesnt he Oh yeah it’s first class all the way with me!! Look, if she wasn’t wasting her hair we would be heading to Margate " You mean washing lol | |||
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"I had a FWB once That was a short story, you should of finished with The End Lol The End taddaaa. Better Thanks Fancy a trip to Margate, hang around the arcade and maybe fuck later? I'm washing my hair or I would have said yes lol Jesus he knows how to get a womens attention doesnt he Oh yeah it’s first class all the way with me!! Look, if she wasn’t wasting her hair we would be heading to Margate You mean washing lol " No I meant wasting, i could be putting it in plaits while we sit on the beach eating candy floss | |||
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"I had a FWB once That was a short story, you should of finished with The End Lol The End taddaaa. Better Thanks Fancy a trip to Margate, hang around the arcade and maybe fuck later? I'm washing my hair or I would have said yes lol Jesus he knows how to get a womens attention doesnt he Oh yeah it’s first class all the way with me!! Look, if she wasn’t wasting her hair we would be heading to Margate You mean washing lol No I meant wasting, i could be putting it in plaits while we sit on the beach eating candy floss " Oooooohhh and I do like candyfloss too | |||
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"Just message me at least once a month and we're besties. " Lol. Lots of besties in here after that post I imagine | |||
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"I'd say they need to be somebody who would be friends if the benefits weren't there.... " I agree with that but they end up trying to control people and spoil it | |||
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"I'd say they need to be somebody who would be friends if the benefits weren't there.... I agree with that but they end up trying to control people and spoil it " It's worse when they give up talking to you and forget to tell you the FWB time was over without them knowing it | |||
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"We are friends first so we talk, hang out etc the sex is a bonus. Exactly this ^ A night out or a weekend break occasionally too !! One can dream Wanna hang out and maybe fuck? Only if coffee is involved Of course! I'm not a monster " Then I'm willing | |||
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"Some people want a relationship without actually putting effort in and they call it "fwb" Constant communication every day and staying over a big no when it comes to these things...." Why is staying over a no for a FWB? Or is it just something you don't like to do? | |||
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"Some people want a relationship without actually putting effort in and they call it "fwb" Constant communication every day and staying over a big no when it comes to these things.... Why is staying over a no for a FWB? Or is it just something you don't like to do? " Just something I don't like to do and I see that as something I'd only like to do with someone I'm genuinely interested in | |||
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"Some people want a relationship without actually putting effort in and they call it "fwb" Constant communication every day and staying over a big no when it comes to these things.... Why is staying over a no for a FWB? Or is it just something you don't like to do? Just something I don't like to do and I see that as something I'd only like to do with someone I'm genuinely interested in " Fair enough | |||
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"Meeting someone for sex to me = FB Lots of communication, doing non sex stuff as well as sex stuff = relationship = exclusive (and can include swinging) = feelings FWB and grey area between FB and relationship that doesn't work for me" Same | |||
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"How friendly do you need to be? " Quite friendly. I'm not just a warm hole or ³ | |||
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"The ones that I talk to most days and actively seek the company of are usually partners. The ones I swap memes with and occasional updates on fun things that happened in between the "So when we banging?" texts and occasionally go out in public with, they're friends with benefits. If we don't hang out in public and the only message history is arranging to bang, they're definitely more in fuck buddy territory." Mostly this. Only the friends keep catching feelings, it’s most annoying. Would add monogamy to the top one, and long term future plans in order to define as a relationship over fwb. I may message/socialise with fwb a bit more than described as above but that romantic connection would be missing. | |||
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"Just message me at least once a month and we're besties. " Can we be besties haha | |||
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"how friendly do you want ? clothes on / clothes off or both?" With you definitely both | |||
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"Ideally regular messages and when meeting up, I'd like it to be more than just the sex. I love the chatting and laughing and intimacy that goes along with it." What he said | |||
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"Friendly enough to know their order at a coffee shop. Maybe their favourite brand of Spanish beer? " This seems a sensible SI unit | |||
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"Friendly enough to know their order at a coffee shop. Maybe their favourite brand of Spanish beer? This seems a sensible SI unit " My favourite recent discovery is that there’s a Greek beer called Mythos. I love it. Can someone order me 6.432Mm (Megamythos) plz | |||
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"Friendly enough to know their order at a coffee shop. Maybe their favourite brand of Spanish beer? This seems a sensible SI unit My favourite recent discovery is that there’s a Greek beer called Mythos. I love it. Can someone order me 6.432Mm (Megamythos) plz " Done. Would you be kind enough to purchase me 1.5 sL please? s = soya L = latte | |||
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" My favourite recent discovery is that there’s a Greek beer called Mythos. I love it. " I discovered Mythos twenty years ago. It’s the only ever I’ve ever liked. | |||
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"Friendly enough to know their order at a coffee shop. Maybe their favourite brand of Spanish beer? This seems a sensible SI unit My favourite recent discovery is that there’s a Greek beer called Mythos. I love it. Can someone order me 6.432Mm (Megamythos) plz Done. Would you be kind enough to purchase me 1.5 sL please? s = soya L = latte" 1.5sL roughly equates to 1GrSbsL (Grande Starbucks soya latte) | |||
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" My favourite recent discovery is that there’s a Greek beer called Mythos. I love it. I discovered Mythos twenty years ago. It’s the only ever I’ve ever liked. " I envy yourself! How on earth is there a beer called Mythos and I’d not known about this!? What a name for a beer! May Zeus smite those who disapprove. | |||
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"Friendly enough to know their order at a coffee shop. Maybe their favourite brand of Spanish beer? This seems a sensible SI unit My favourite recent discovery is that there’s a Greek beer called Mythos. I love it. Can someone order me 6.432Mm (Megamythos) plz Done. Would you be kind enough to purchase me 1.5 sL please? s = soya L = latte 1.5sL roughly equates to 1GrSbsL (Grande Starbucks soya latte) " | |||
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