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By *hubbychecker OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Porstmouth

Ever think your self moving away is a good idea until the novelty wears off, genuinly looking for freinds around Hampshire

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By *r John WickMan
24 weeks ago

The Continental

Sport clubs

Hobby clubs

Coffee mornings

All good ways to make friends in a new place

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Go to London. Lots of sex clubs

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
24 weeks ago

somewhere

I've moved about 15 times in the last 10 years, 3 of those times I've moved counties or different towns, where I am now is the longest I have been anywhere since 2014, aside from fab friends I have zero friends here and I've been here 3 years, do I want a bunch of friends here? I don't know because I don't seem very good at friendships and seem happier just on my own with my cats and husband lol x

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
24 weeks ago

St Neots

Hear ya, moved to be closer to my son. Now I'm penniless and friendless. Still worth it though

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By *ing00Man
24 weeks ago

Kettering Area

get a motorbike! great fun and has a great social side

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By *urry BlokeMan
24 weeks ago

Stalybridge

I'd like to move away, but it wouldn't be easy

I'm lucky to live on the edge of a city so whilst I look out onto rolling hills, I'm still only 5 minutes from a train station with inter city connections, 10 minutes from a hospital with an a&e, 20 minutes from a motorway and 30 minutes from the city centre

I don't think I'd want to lose all that

I know it's achievable elsewhere, but at what cost?

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By *ittlebirdWoman
24 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

Nope. I’ve moved away from all my friends and family and absolutely love it. There’s some good suggestions for making new friends further up in the thread OP. Hope you find your happy place

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By *hubbychecker OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Porstmouth

Go to London. Lots of sex clubs

I moved from London to Hampshire

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By *hubbychecker OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Porstmouth

Hear ya, moved to be closer to my son. Now I'm penniless and friendless. Still worth it though

Sucks doesn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

Pressure on me to move to the back of beyond (Cornwall). I love London. Instead encouraging my son to get a job here.

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By *hubbychecker OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Porstmouth

I've moved about 15 times in the last 10 years, 3 of those times I've moved counties or different towns, where I am now is the longest I have been anywhere since 2014, aside from fab friends I have zero friends here and I've been here 3 years, do I want a bunch of friends here? I don't know because I don't seem very good at friendships and seem happier just on my own with my cats and husband lol x

Would probably be a lot easier if I had a partner. Just find it hard to get a work/social balance, you know

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By *hubbychecker OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Porstmouth

Nope. I’ve moved away from all my friends and family and absolutely love it. There’s some good suggestions for making new friends further up in the thread OP. Hope you find your happy place

Thanks, I'll definitely look out for some things

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago

I moved to the sticks from London OP, best move I ever made for quality of life and peace and quiet.

I occasionally miss the hustle and bustle so I just hop on a train to get my fix

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By *r John WickMan
24 weeks ago

The Continental

Press the reply and quote button, it’ll make your answers make a bit more sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
24 weeks ago


"Go to London. Lots of sex clubs

I moved from London to Hampshire "

Ah…

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By *hubbychecker OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Porstmouth

Sport clubs

Hobby clubs

Coffee mornings

All good ways to make friends in a new place

Have seen my belly hahaha I won't be doing any sports haha, thanks for the advice I'll definitely have a look at what's going on around my area

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By *icecouple561Couple
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24 weeks ago

East Sussex

It's very difficult to make friends as an adult.

There are a few groups on Facebook dedicated to forming platonic friendships. I've also seen posts on local groups asking of anyone would like to meet for coffee.

Hobby clubs etc can be horribly cliquey unless there's one or two people willing to be inclusive. The same goes for coffee mornings.

Check with neighbours if they know of any social activities too.

Good luck, I know from experience how difficult it can be.

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By *ou only live onceMan
24 weeks ago

London

What do you want, OP? I don't mean that facetiously, but moving won't magic up friends. Live somewhere you like to live first and foremost. I agree with the advice above about finding a hobby - what do you enjoy doing?

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By *hubbychecker OP   Man
24 weeks ago

Porstmouth

It can be very overwhelming

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By *ot to giggleWoman
24 weeks ago

Coventry

i have moved so much over the years, this is the longest i have been in one place for the kid's schooling - now i notice it because she is doing her own thing now.

Go to fab socials in your area - i have and we have a lovely group of friends now.

There's the usual sports clubs etc, get a dog - meet so many people dog walking at the same time each day ! or borrow a dog - there may be someone who would love someone to walk their dog for them

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By *enelope2UWoman
24 weeks ago

Fife

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

24 weeks ago

East Sussex


"It can be very overwhelming "

Yes, it can be.

Start small by saying hello to neighbours or people in the queue in shops. It kind of practices sociable habits if you see what I mean

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
24 weeks ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

There's a nudist beach in Portsmouth. Eastney beach I believe..

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