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By *ake_or_death OP   Man
38 weeks ago

Manchester

...is sexual activity that doesn't include penetration - so, oral, mutual masturbation, stimulation of the body, not just the genitals, etc.

So, for those of you for whom penetrative sex is part of your sex life, could you be satisfied with a meet where you only practiced outercourse but no intercourse, either as a giver or a receiver?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
38 weeks ago

Central


"...is sexual activity that doesn't include penetration - so, oral, mutual masturbation, stimulation of the body, not just the genitals, etc.

So, for those of you for whom penetrative sex is part of your sex life, could you be satisfied with a meet where you only practiced outercourse but no intercourse, either as a giver or a receiver?"

Not permanently

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

That would be like going to McDonalds and just having a salad

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By *eliWoman
38 weeks ago

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Outercourse is decidedly unsexy a term.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
38 weeks ago

Leeds

I'd say outersex (I'm with Meli that name ain't sexy)

Is probably the what me and the Mr do the most, the actual sex is probably least on the list.

So yeah I think I could do outersex meets.

Although if they asked for outersex I'd block them.

That word.....

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By *eordieJeansCouple
38 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Might as well just shake hands and be on your way.

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
38 weeks ago

Leeds


"Might as well just shake hands and be on your way."

Holds out hand...

FAOutersex?

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By *eliWoman
38 weeks ago

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Word aside, yes, I have done, yes I'll probably do so again. I love kissing and have a slight oral fixation.

Whilst penetration is great, albeit brief at times, I really enjoy the "foreplay" side of things. Love seeing how someone responds to me in that way.

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By *urry BlokeMan
38 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Without wishing to be a pedant, isn't performing oral on a man penetration?

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By *eliWoman
38 weeks ago

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"Without wishing to be a pedant, isn't performing oral on a man penetration? "

Hahaha oh fuck. Honestly, I'm not sober enough for this mindblowing revelation. Okay, so vaginal penetration and anal is out.

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By *urry BlokeMan
38 weeks ago

Stalybridge

Pedantry over, non-penetrative sex is kinda common with a lot of gay couples

I have quite a lot of gay friends and very few of them have penetration based sex lives / relationships

Personally, I can't think of anything worse than a bloke fucking me and I only fuck men if I'm in a relationship with one

All the meets I've had with men from over the years have been oral only

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By *ittlebirdWoman
38 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"...is sexual activity that doesn't include penetration - so, oral, mutual masturbation, stimulation of the body, not just the genitals, etc.

So, for those of you for whom penetrative sex is part of your sex life, could you be satisfied with a meet where you only practiced outercourse but no intercourse, either as a giver or a receiver?"

Yes. For sure

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By *ellinever70Woman
38 weeks ago

Ayrshire

I couldn't be satisfied with anyone using that term

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By *rBobbMan
38 weeks ago

Birmingham


"...is sexual activity that doesn't include penetration - so, oral, mutual masturbation, stimulation of the body, not just the genitals, etc.

So, for those of you for whom penetrative sex is part of your sex life, could you be satisfied with a meet where you only practiced outercourse but no intercourse, either as a giver or a receiver?"

Absolutely yes. Depending on the dynamic of the relationship between you both.

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By *eordieJeansCouple
38 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Might as well just shake hands and be on your way.

Holds out hand...

FAOutersex? "

That’s as adventurous as my hands will get tonight.

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By *ornycougaWoman
38 weeks ago

MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat

Occasionally and with the right person - yes, I have done this. All the time with no penetration - no, I would be left wanting more.

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

Not done this sort of thing since I was a teenager and had to do what you could, when you could!!

Would I be happy with it now?

Maybe if the “outercourse” was that good or it could just leave me wanting more!!

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
38 weeks ago

kent

We could. We can. We do. x

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago


"We could. We can. We do. x"

I am guessing it’s good then?

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By *B69Woman
38 weeks ago

Wiltshire

Only occasionally, I need that feeling of being well fucked

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By *knorwichcoupleCouple
29 weeks ago

Norwich

It is often all a cuckold gets from his cuckoldress. The other guy/Bull generally want the wife to only have his cock in her pussy. Hence the term "pussy free" cuckold hubby. Generally if the cuck was aloud to use his penis in the wifes pussy, she would say she is a one cock cuckoldress.

Sophie

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By *ipsforlipsMan
29 weeks ago

Midlands


"...is sexual activity that doesn't include penetration - so, oral, mutual masturbation, stimulation of the body, not just the genitals, etc.

So, for those of you for whom penetrative sex is part of your sex life, could you be satisfied with a meet where you only practiced outercourse but no intercourse, either as a giver or a receiver?"

Yes, can and have done. Mixed things up and gave each meeting an "anything could happen" layer of excitment

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By *aomilatteCouple
29 weeks ago

Midlands

Commonly known as soft play? We've had many such meets.

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By *onkeynutWoman
29 weeks ago

somewhere

Permanently, no.

Occasionally, yes. But I do find if ‘outercourse’ (yes it’s such an unsexy word!) is good then it leaves me wanting to be fucked and if that doesn’t happen it can be incredibly frustrating.

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By *ozzybear1981Man
29 weeks ago

preston

Outercourse works in the build up, the intensity of bringing climax with touch, tongue, fingers, teeth and exploring the weak spots.

But that clearly has to lead to completely intense fucking too.

Can’t have one without the other

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By *allySlinkyWoman
29 weeks ago

Leeds


"Without wishing to be a pedant, isn't performing oral on a man penetration?

Hahaha oh fuck. Honestly, I'm not sober enough for this mindblowing revelation. Okay, so vaginal penetration and anal is out. "

What about a tongue, fingers or toes in the mouth ?

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I’ve discovered something really exciting about non penetrative sex. The anticipation and build up it creates. If that’s all there ever was in definitely, I don’t know, but to only have that with no expectation of penetration for a prolonged time until we were gagging for more, yes that could be fun.

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By *hunky GentMan
29 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I’ve discovered something really exciting about non penetrative sex. The anticipation and build up it creates. If that’s all there ever was in definitely, I don’t know, but to only have that with no expectation of penetration for a prolonged time until we were gagging for more, yes that could be fun.

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I'd give it a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
29 weeks ago

I've yet to have a meet where there's no penetrative sex but an Outercourse-only meet would be good. Gives a massive build up of what's to come (pardon the pun) and leaves the parties satisfied nonetheless.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
29 weeks ago

Leeds

How does outercourse differ from soft swing ?

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By *uriousscouserWoman
29 weeks ago

Wirral

Honestly? No.

I can orgasm without penetration but it's a paltry, sepia-toned affair compared to the glorious technicolour fireworks that happen when there's something inside me to clench against.

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