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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile?" That would take effort.... | |||
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"It's not just the men, plenty of women and couples don't read profiles either in my experience." | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile?" same for women | |||
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"Maybe we should change it to.... "Feel free to message me, see how far it gets you"! " We !!! and yours is hidden | |||
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"Maybe we should change it to.... "Feel free to message me, see how far it gets you"! We !!! and yours is hidden " We as in everyone And its hidden to deter unwanted mail.... That ok with you? | |||
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"Look at the men pretending they get mail from women " I dont get any mail from women | |||
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"Maybe we should change it to.... "Feel free to message me, see how far it gets you"! We !!! and yours is hidden We as in everyone And its hidden to deter unwanted mail.... That ok with you? " Yup, but cant you still get mail | |||
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"Look at the men pretending they get mail from women I dont get any mail from women " Neither do I | |||
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"Maybe we should change it to.... "Feel free to message me, see how far it gets you"! We !!! and yours is hidden We as in everyone And its hidden to deter unwanted mail.... That ok with you? Yup, but cant you still get mail " Yeah, and I still do.... Nothing stops them | |||
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"It's not just the men, plenty of women and couples don't read profiles either in my experience." | |||
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"Look at the men pretending they get mail from women I dont get any mail from women Neither do I " Fishing | |||
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"It's not just the men, plenty of women and couples don't read profiles either in my experience." To be fair in your case, yer avatar is a little distracting! | |||
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"Maybe we should change it to.... "Feel free to message me, see how far it gets you"! We !!! and yours is hidden We as in everyone And its hidden to deter unwanted mail.... That ok with you? Yup, but cant you still get mail Yeah, and I still do.... Nothing stops them " These pesky single guys on a swinging site eh | |||
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"Look at the men pretending they get mail from women I dont get any mail from women Neither do I Fishing " LOL....hardly! | |||
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"It's not just the men, plenty of women and couples don't read profiles either in my experience. To be fair in your case, yer avatar is a little distracting! " Piercing eyes | |||
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"Look at the men pretending they get mail from women I dont get any mail from women Neither do I Fishing LOL....hardly! " Haha | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile?" Definitely isn't just men...lots on here with a 'do as I say not as I do' attitude. Got messaged by a couple asking for meet on a weekday afternoon - my profile states I work full time. There were no pics and both were out of my preferred age range. Yet their profile repeatedly said in caps about how they could only do daytimes and not to message unless you had read the profile, had pics and were within their preferred age range. Took me all of 3 seconds to hit delete on the message and read the messages from single guys that had actually read it! | |||
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"Yes don't think its just men ... woman and couples too ... some are as boring as hell and you read first line ... and its a no go ." | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile?" I do. How else are you going to get an attraction to someone? | |||
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"It's not just the men, plenty of women and couples don't read profiles either in my experience. To be fair in your case, yer avatar is a little distracting! Piercing eyes " Lol...naw, it was more the hot bod and hard cock that made me go and check out the rest of his pics. And it was defo the pics that made me forget to check his profile! | |||
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"It's not just the men, plenty of women and couples don't read profiles either in my experience. To be fair in your case, yer avatar is a little distracting! Piercing eyes Lol...naw, it was more the hot bod and hard cock that made me go and check out the rest of his pics. And it was defo the pics that made me forget to check his profile! " ohhh | |||
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"Not something I have noticed I dont pretend to get mail " | |||
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"Profiles are a mixed thing. One liners dont say anything. Others go on for ever. Some are like a spec for a nuclear reactor. I dont have an answer. " Writing a good profile - or intro message - that tells you all you need to know, but doesn't bore the pants off you is not easy. I've done copywriting in my 'previous life' and even I find it difficult at times to say what you want in a succinct way, which doesn't lead to misunderstandings down the line. | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile?" I just had a look at your profile..........you do waffle on a bit. | |||
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"It's not just the men, plenty of women and couples don't read profiles either in my experience. To be fair in your case, yer avatar is a little distracting! Piercing eyes Lol...naw, it was more the hot bod and hard cock that made me go and check out the rest of his pics. And it was defo the pics that made me forget to check his profile! " I didnt read any of yours lol, your pics are fandabydozy | |||
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"to advertise Sydney University" when I see it I think is it real.? Is there a place a person a law ? Or did one person see it and like sheep just went along ? | |||
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"to advertise Sydney University when I see it I think is it real.? Is there a place a person a law ? Or did one person see it and like sheep just went along ?" it's just a load of pish | |||
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"to advertise Sydney University when I see it I think is it real.? Is there a place a person a law ? Or did one person see it and like sheep just went along ? it's just a load of pish" eloquently put | |||
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"It's not just the men, plenty of women and couples don't read profiles either in my experience. To be fair in your case, yer avatar is a little distracting! Piercing eyes Lol...naw, it was more the hot bod and hard cock that made me go and check out the rest of his pics. And it was defo the pics that made me forget to check his profile! " Thanks, yours are pretty distracting too! | |||
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"to advertise Sydney University when I see it I think is it real.? Is there a place a person a law ? Or did one person see it and like sheep just went along ? it's just a load of pish eloquently put" | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile?" I agree i have spent most of the afternoon telling/blocking guys that Scotland and surrounding areas is no where near Essex, and i am still getting one liners like "Hi how are you?" and no more. | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile? I agree i have spent most of the afternoon telling/blocking guys that Scotland and surrounding areas is no where near Essex, and i am still getting one liners like "Hi how are you?" and no more. " Well? How are you? | |||
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"It's not just the men, plenty of women and couples don't read profiles either in my experience. " | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile? I agree i have spent most of the afternoon telling/blocking guys that Scotland and surrounding areas is no where near Essex, and i am still getting one liners like "Hi how are you?" and no more. " Why would you block someone from Scotland, i live in Grimsby, nowhere near Scotland or Essex, but i've met girls from both regions | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile?" I also had a read at your profile...it is pretty hard reading, very negative, I only read as far as the first set of block capitals, lost interest, maybe that's why nobody reads it! | |||
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"It's not just the men, plenty of women and couples don't read profiles either in my experience." Quite right and the truth is ..Skimming through text looking for keywords is a people thing- not a single male or swinging thing. It happens in all walks of text based life. We've learned not to get wound up about it. We simply block anyone who is obviously not our thing according to our text, and reply to those who are whether they've obviously read the profile text or not. Incidentally we get more no profile readers who are couples than we do from singles....but guessing its almost always a man replying. Maybe it IS a man thing single or not. | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile? I also had a read at your profile...it is pretty hard reading, very negative, I only read as far as the first set of block capitals, lost interest, maybe that's why nobody reads it! " Hadn't read the profile...if 90% are timewasters then why would they read it! | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile? I agree i have spent most of the afternoon telling/blocking guys that Scotland and surrounding areas is no where near Essex, and i am still getting one liners like "Hi how are you?" and no more. Why would you block someone from Scotland, i live in Grimsby, nowhere near Scotland or Essex, but i've met girls from both regions " You may well have, but i am not willing to travel that far only to be faced with a situation like mmmm "No chemistry at all there" And my Profile say's ONLY within a 30 mile radius, there for the answer to the OP'S question is yes men do not read profiles and the only reason is that i say men because it's those who normally only contact me !! | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile? I agree i have spent most of the afternoon telling/blocking guys that Scotland and surrounding areas is no where near Essex, and i am still getting one liners like "Hi how are you?" and no more. Why would you block someone from Scotland, i live in Grimsby, nowhere near Scotland or Essex, but i've met girls from both regions You may well have, but i am not willing to travel that far only to be faced with a situation like mmmm "No chemistry at all there" And my Profile say's ONLY within a 30 mile radius, there for the answer to the OP'S question is yes men do not read profiles and the only reason is that i say men because it's those who normally only contact me !! " I think you missed my point, what if they were staying or to be prepered to stay within a 30 mile radius of you | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile? I agree i have spent most of the afternoon telling/blocking guys that Scotland and surrounding areas is no where near Essex, and i am still getting one liners like "Hi how are you?" and no more. Why would you block someone from Scotland, i live in Grimsby, nowhere near Scotland or Essex, but i've met girls from both regions You may well have, but i am not willing to travel that far only to be faced with a situation like mmmm "No chemistry at all there" And my Profile say's ONLY within a 30 mile radius, there for the answer to the OP'S question is yes men do not read profiles and the only reason is that i say men because it's those who normally only contact me !! I think you missed my point, what if they were staying or to be prepered to stay within a 30 mile radius of you " Now this will depend on how long they are staying, as i always have a social first and then it could be a good couple of weeks before a meet happens | |||
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"profiles can be good or bad like everything here - each to their own i guess - some people like long ones others like short ones (profiles that is ) and what is one persons turn on is anothers turn off" Absolutely. Life's too short to worry about it. | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile? I agree i have spent most of the afternoon telling/blocking guys that Scotland and surrounding areas is no where near Essex, and i am still getting one liners like "Hi how are you?" and no more. Why would you block someone from Scotland, i live in Grimsby, nowhere near Scotland or Essex, but i've met girls from both regions You may well have, but i am not willing to travel that far only to be faced with a situation like mmmm "No chemistry at all there" And my Profile say's ONLY within a 30 mile radius, there for the answer to the OP'S question is yes men do not read profiles and the only reason is that i say men because it's those who normally only contact me !! I think you missed my point, what if they were staying or to be prepered to stay within a 30 mile radius of you Now this will depend on how long they are staying, as i always have a social first and then it could be a good couple of weeks before a meet happens " But if you block them, like you said you did straight away, then you will never know | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile?" Of course, because all men are the same lol Some do, some don't - just like women. No point in ranting about it - just accept that it's the way of a swinging site - not everything is going to be as you want it to be... Also some female profiles are so aggressive that I and many others, i suspect, switch off halfway though. That said, I don't then send a message - but some will try their luck anyway - that's probably what's happening here | |||
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"I never read profiles that start off as a shouty rant" Neither do I message them | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile? I also had a read at your profile...it is pretty hard reading, very negative, I only read as far as the first set of block capitals, lost interest, maybe that's why nobody reads it! Hadn't read the profile...if 90% are timewasters then why would they read it!" Who gives a shit about the ones that don't read it, its the ones that DO that get my reply! No face pic attached?..... ..delete!! Wanna fuck? ....delete!! 20yrs out of age pref?...delete!! | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile? I also had a read at your profile...it is pretty hard reading, very negative, I only read as far as the first set of block capitals, lost interest, maybe that's why nobody reads it! Hadn't read the profile...if 90% are timewasters then why would they read it! Who gives a shit about the ones that don't read it, its the ones that DO that get my reply! No face pic attached?..... ..delete!! Wanna fuck? ....delete!! 20yrs out of age pref?...delete!! " Fookin hell that's a pretty amazing profile you got there ...well the pictures at least - didn't get to the rest of it | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile? I do look at profiles, but come on, so are wrote like war and peace lol, i think there quite boring tbh " Yep but lets face it we are all suppose to be adults and one would think capable of reading. however they arent even capable of scanning a proving and checking intetests, age and looking for.. those three could be checked very easily and save alot of wasted time. They dont even go as far as checking if the person they are messagibg are what they are down as looking for.. ie a bloke looking for women only messages an MF couple !! Brains in their cocks most of them. they even say .. well gotta try havent you.. well no actually you don't as you just look a complete dick basically.. Sorry for rant but bank holiday run of idiots doing (or not) just this today.. anyway i shall sit quietly now and count to 10 | |||
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" Who gives a shit about the ones that don't read it, its the ones that DO that get my reply! No face pic attached?..... ..delete!! Wanna fuck? ....delete!! 20yrs out of age pref?...delete!! Fookin hell that's a pretty amazing profile you got there ...well the pictures at least - didn't get to the rest of it " Lol...wouldn't worry big man, very few do! Great pics...I did read yer profile text....i swear! But...i've forgotten everything but the pics! | |||
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"I want to know why men think it ok to not bother with such a simple task ie reading a profile? I do look at profiles, but come on, so are wrote like war and peace lol, i think there quite boring tbh " It's better to know the ins and outs xx | |||
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"It's not just the men, plenty of women and couples don't read profiles either in my experience." With photos like yours it's hard to concentrate on the text. | |||
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"Look at the men pretending they get mail from women " Hahaha xx | |||
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