FabSwingers.com forum: Do meets actually happen on here?

By *ig Trent steel OP Man
25 weeks ago

Manchester

Been here for 6 weeks now. Had what I thought at the time was a progressive conversations with 7 different singles and couples. All has gone well up until arrangements made to meet either social settings or private. After that it’s silence. They agree to meet but then cut contact.

I understand its 200 men to 1 women on this site so standing out from the crowd in itself is quite the challenge also me having the same profile pics and every other dude on here doesn’t help.

Because of the number of men on this site is a lot greater then women I feel men have given some but not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited.

I stress not all females on this site have the attitude iv come across. Iv had some wonderful conversations with gorgeous women on here but Iv also been shocked at some of the replies from let’s say lesser attractive females (some built like cement trucks)

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By *r John WickMan
25 weeks ago

The Continental

Yes they do.

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By *oo..Woman
25 weeks ago

Boo's World

Yes

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By *oastofReadingMan
25 weeks ago

Reading

Yep, they do happen.

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By *ealitybitesMan
25 weeks ago

Belfast

6 weeks is a blink of an eye here.

It's hardly long enough for the cement to set.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
25 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

Yes, I’ve met a few on this site, they all contacted me 1st, apart from the social veris from clubs/socials

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By *r John WickMan
25 weeks ago

The Continental

Did you really need to insult women you deem unattractive to you?

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By *oo..Woman
25 weeks ago

Boo's World

"Built like cement trucks- you've just killed yourself on fab"!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
25 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Meets happen all the time.

Patience is key.

As is probably not alienating your target market by being negative about their physical characteristics.

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By *mmaleiaWoman
25 weeks ago

East Northamptonshire

"lesser attractive females (some built like cement trucks)

Sorry, musta been having an off day

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By *ex HolesMan
25 weeks ago

Up North

It’s becoming a picture sharing and ego boosting site dude unfortunately

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By *s2pervsCouple
25 weeks ago

Truro

Yep, happens all the time for some...

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By *londebiguyMan
25 weeks ago

Southport

I've not really had any problems.

The odd strange conversation and some rude people but mostly all relaxed and positive interaction.

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By *orningGlory555Man
25 weeks ago

Wells

without being a parrot, they do, patience is key, a lot of them.

socials and clubs are very good for making meets easier in the future as you will build connections and contacts.

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By *urry BlokeMan
25 weeks ago

Stalybridge

See, it's the last comment that is the killer

Why should women 'built like cement trucks' not have choice on who they chat to or meet?

It reads like you think they should just accept or be grateful for any offers they get

I dare say that comment alone will make you unattractive to a lot of other women too

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By *ittlebirdWoman
25 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

""Built like cement trucks- you've just killed yourself on fab"!

I came here to say this

Good luck with your endeavours OP

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Nah 6 weeks.

The mandem aren’t even trying anymore

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By *ittlebirdWoman
25 weeks ago

The Big Smoke

"Nah 6 weeks.

The mandem aren’t even trying anymore"

Truth

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Nah 6 weeks.

The mandem aren’t even trying anymore

Truth "

Nobody wants to work anymore. Bring back WORK ETHIC

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By *oastalNomadMan
25 weeks ago

España

Yep. Depends what you want, and if you pick up on signals (helps to have a car).

Some people want patience, and you already know people can be choosey, especially if they're an in demand group.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Cement truck?

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By *he love catsCouple
25 weeks ago

South Wales

I think it's down to where you live it's highly populated here, we turn away so many people that we don't want to but just don't have enough time.

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By *ascaIMan
25 weeks ago

Cheshire Liverpool Manchester

"(helps to have a car)"

Or even a cement truck. As long as it gets you from A to B

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
25 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry

"Been here for 6 weeks now. Had what I thought at the time was a progressive conversations with 7 different singles and couples. All has gone well up until arrangements made to meet either social settings or private. After that it’s silence. They agree to meet but then cut contact.

I understand its 200 men to 1 women on this site so standing out from the crowd in itself is quite the challenge also me having the same profile pics and every other dude on here doesn’t help.

Because of the number of men on this site is a lot greater then women I feel men have given some but not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited.

I dont think your doing yourself any favours here op, you're narrative Is, how so I say it, what's the word. That's it

Fucked

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By *exymarvelMan
25 weeks ago

cardiff

I understand its 200 men to 1 women on this site so standing out from the crowd in itself is quite the challenge also me having the same profile pics and every other dude on here doesn’t help.

Because of the number of men on this site is a lot greater then women I feel men have given some but not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited.

Yes they do. Some dont ask for or give veries either. You defo have a way with words that screams self entitlement. Just be friendly, if it happens it happens

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By *ewguy PaulMan
25 weeks ago

Herts

Personally I like women built like cement trucks as you put it. Not done yourself any favours with that comment. Open your eyes and look beyond size and looks of a woman

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By *parkle1974Woman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

I'm sure after your very last comment, you will be inundated with offers

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By *carlet SeductionWoman
25 weeks ago

Maidstone

*beep beep beep beep* cement truck reversing...

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By *ex HolesMan
25 weeks ago

Up North

I’d love to crash my cement truck over a nice pair of titties

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Ba da dum dum dum another one bites the dust

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

Yes they happen.

I'm sure them cement trucks will be all over you now!

Why are you even messaging "cement trucks" anyway? Are you that desperate you've just messaged anyone with tits regardless of if you find them attractive?

I mean chances are looking great for you now you've insulted the people you want to meet.

Men

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By *imply DeeWoman
25 weeks ago

Wherever

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By *oo..Woman
25 weeks ago

Boo's World

"Cement truck? "

Round

Big bellies

And massive behinds

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By *eliWoman
25 weeks ago

Op, you're allowed to be a bit bummed that people keep on going silent once you've agreed to meet each other. I'd find that really frustrating as well.

I think yes, sure, some women do act like cocks and men can enable that with heaps of false platitudes about an elbow or a zoomed in cleavage.

I don't think someone's value is based on their aesthetic though. If that's a problematic view you've expressed before I can understand why people have gone silent on you.

We shouldn't think someone's merit, their worth is based on their appearance. Fat or slim. People can be absolute weapons regardless of their appearance. That's the issue you should be looking at, not misdirection of your disappointment causing you to have such disdain for fat women.

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By *ellhungvweMan
25 weeks ago

Cheltenham

OP I will leave everyone else to flail you alive over the cement comment - my observation would be that those 7 “progressive” conversations were not actually with coupes or ladies. You have very likely been talking to a guy in each one of them.

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By *adyBugsWoman
25 weeks ago

cognito

Gotta love a forum thread self filter

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By *ewguy PaulMan
25 weeks ago

Herts

I've been working on sites for years ,so seen any cement trucks,not once have I felt like it resembled a woman. More like a man as it dumps it load and goes

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By *he love catsCouple
25 weeks ago

South Wales

I can sort of see his point from a couples profile on the looks department, in the non fab world me and the Mrs are pretty equal on the looks department, whereas on fab she could have her pick of gorgeous guys a lot more handsome than me but I'm probably not going to find anyone as good looking as her. So I sort of see where he's coming from even though I don't like the way he's put it.

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
25 weeks ago

Sheffield

Your profile is blank…so not sure what you are expecting. Also I can probably guess the single women you were chatting too…weren’t actually women

Just because someone doesn’t want to meet you, doesn’t mean they aren’t meeting others.

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By *rBobbMan
25 weeks ago

Birmingham

Yes Op. Meets happen. Patients is key.

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By *ellhungvweMan
25 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Yes Op. Meets happen. Patients is key. "

You pick them up at the hospital?

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple
25 weeks ago

Manchester-ish

Well. Would love to hang around but my mate Bob needs me at the building site.

Dizzy (aka J)

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By *ikeygarcia75Man
25 weeks ago

Goffs Oak

"Nah 6 weeks.

The mandem aren’t even trying anymore"

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
25 weeks ago

Wirral.

OP, it ain't just guys this happens to. Spend my time chatting to guys on here for them to just disappear.

But then I remember that I resemble a cement truck. *Shrugs*

Shit happens

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By *ewguy PaulMan
25 weeks ago

Herts

Can Poor your cement on me anytime

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By *he Silver FuxMan
25 weeks ago

Uttoxeter

There are all shapes and sizes on this site and the complete spectrum across what society / media / entitled misogynistic dickheads determines what is deemed to be conventionally attractive. There are more, what can only be described as less than desirable blokes on here than you could believe (just take a scroll through VideoChat streams and see them tugging away at themselves to confirm this observation), yet they’re generally a happy bunch and some of them connect and get meets..

Logically we must assume you have been messaging women you have called ‘cement trucks’ otherwise you wouldn’t have complained about their negative responses. Bet you would have met them if any had agreed to meet? Take it down a notch, pump those brakes and best keep opinions to yourself.

Meets do happen on here, socials happen here, parties arranged, clubs and festivals…

There’s a lot of sex happening because of this site - I’m at a party tonight (people I’ve never met before) and a first meeting with a gorgeous woman tomorrow evening who I’m going to pound through the mattress. Try harder, be nice, don’t complain, positive vibes only…

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Omg cement trucks. I just saw that. HOF tweet.

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By *endalshaggersCouple
25 weeks ago

Kendal

Great way of getting more attention to your profile in extra views in the hope someone may message you and take you up on the offer.

Not that I'm cyncial, of course

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By *weet LisaTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Crawley

The Op's been rejected absolutely flat.

He has a very sore botty.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I was kind of feeling a bit sorry for you up until that last sentence.

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
25 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

""Built like cement trucks- you've just killed yourself on fab"!

I think they call it Fabacide, at least that’s what they called it the last time I committed it

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Stockport

I have a friend from here who helped me mix cement... (Self levelling screed for a garage floor actually, but close enough)

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By *agnar73Man
25 weeks ago

glasgow-ish

As Bryan adams once said ‘ain’t no use in complainin’’

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By *2000ManMan
25 weeks ago

Worthing

Did you send them a face pic op? You must ensure it's similar to someone they like "on the telly". 95% or below similarity is not acceptable unfortunately.

Said with tongue in cheek! Just treat fab as a social club and join in with chat.

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By *riel13Woman
25 weeks ago

Northampton

I'm not actually sure what the first bit has to do with the second

might have to re read it

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By *riel13Woman
25 weeks ago

Northampton

Oh... And why do you message women you think aren't attractive! Odd...

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

As a couple of cement trucks we are doing alright with meets.

Good luck tho OP.

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By *illan-KillashMan
25 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

""Built like cement trucks- you've just killed yourself on fab"!

There should be a "Fabiside" emoji.

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By *mf123Man
25 weeks ago

with one foot out the door

No not sinse i stopped putting the tip in em

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By *iss DevilWoman
25 weeks ago

Bedford

OP, what a wonderful example of a human being you are, with a now hidden profile. Entitled much? And to answer your thread title, yes, meets do happen, even for the "cement trucks".

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By *heel markMan
25 weeks ago

beside the sea

""Built like cement trucks- you've just killed yourself on fab"!

There should be a "Fabiside" emoji.

I highly doubt a few people blocking him on a miniscule part of the site only a fraction of user's venture into is going to spoil his chances .

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Central

Yes, all the time.

You're very new and it pays to have realistic expectations only here.

As well as to show respect for everyone here, especially those who you may have need to count on, for support. Your words "not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited' are perhaps just a little unwise

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I understand its 200 men to 1 women on this site so standing out from the crowd in itself is quite the challenge also me having the same profile pics and every other dude on here doesn’t help.

Because of the number of men on this site is a lot greater then women I feel men have given some but not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited.

Us women that are built like cement trucks, are actually attractive to some men, actually, quite a lot of men. But well done for making it easier for us to filter you out

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By *electableicecreamMan
25 weeks ago

The West

Man messages women he has a low opinion of only to find out the feeling is mutual.

Thread.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
25 weeks ago

Central

"I have a friend from here who helped me mix cement... (Self levelling screed for a garage floor actually, but close enough)"

Swing?

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By *oozleMan
25 weeks ago

high wycombe

Yes meets do indeed happen, but effort, attraction and conversations are what make all the difference… read profiles, contribute to forums, write stories etc, this will all help with people getting to know you and building friendships and socials etc. Go to clubs and meet also, that’s a good way to see people from here I have heard.

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By *ivemealadybonerWoman
25 weeks ago

somewhere

I'm almost positive I've had one, I mean I'm sure I didn't invent my husband (although for the longest time, some of doughnuts friends didn't think I was real lol)

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton

""Built like cement trucks- you've just killed yourself on fab"!

With a pair of concrete boots

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
25 weeks ago

Lol this cement truck has the same right to say no to someone than anyone else, and yeah meets on here happen every day.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
25 weeks ago

Reading

There are dwindling people here just for attention. There are also people who do meet. Checking that they have recent veris can help.

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By *usty_anneWoman
25 weeks ago

peterhead

I understand its 200 men to 1 women on this site so standing out from the crowd in itself is quite the challenge also me having the same profile pics and every other dude on here doesn’t help.

Because of the number of men on this site is a lot greater then women I feel men have given some but not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited.

Cement trucks??? Ouch.

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By *ysonfuryMan
25 weeks ago

Stockport

Meets definitely happen, 6 weeks is not long on here so give it time and be patient and see where it leads. Enjoy the fab adventure

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By *rucking-HellMan
25 weeks ago

Northampton

"Do meets actually happen on here?"

No. Never.

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By *rishVikingMan
25 weeks ago

Shankill

Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

We all hide behind our devices talking rubbish in the forums. No one meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Tis but a myth, people don’t socialise anymore

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
25 weeks ago

your head

Yes, they do

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By *nywhereyouwantMan
25 weeks ago

Weston-Super-Mare

They do I’ve had two fantastic meets but they’ve both been spontaneous meets, persistence is key

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By *ascal1475Man
25 weeks ago

york

Yes they do .

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By *umagain58Man
25 weeks ago

London

Yes often for me as love the ladies

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By *esse_hotwifeCouple
25 weeks ago

London

Not for us and we are clear on that

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Been here for 6 weeks now. Had what I thought at the time was a progressive conversations with 7 different singles and couples. ……..

Iv also been shocked at some of the replies from let’s say lesser attractive females (some built like cement trucks)

I wonder if they know who they are ….

*shakes head.

Some thoughts you should keep to yourself.

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By *evonrobMan
25 weeks ago

Kingsbridge

"OP, it ain't just guys this happens to. Spend my time chatting to guys on here for them to just disappear.

But then I remember that I resemble a cement truck. *Shrugs*

Shit happens "

Definitely my kind of truck!!

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By *evonrobMan
25 weeks ago

Kingsbridge

Some great comments on here. I’m not sure you’re right for Fab, maybe take a break and think about your approach?

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By *illan-KillashMan
25 weeks ago

London/Sussex/Surrey/Berks/Hants

I understand its 200 men to 1 women on this site so standing out from the crowd in itself is quite the challenge also me having the same profile pics and every other dude on here doesn’t help.

Because of the number of men on this site is a lot greater then women I feel men have given some but not all women on here a higher sense of value then what’s actually merited.

Thet do.

But not for everyone.

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