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By *ortis8080 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Harrow

I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
25 weeks ago

Carlisle usually

How do you know they're not looking at you?

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By *ortis8080 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Harrow

Because I only get men looking me. I don’t mind that, but I’d like at least one lady

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By *luehairedcumslutCouple
25 weeks ago

St Neots

I've just looked at you but you'd never know as that feature is turned off for us

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
25 weeks ago

Carlisle usually


"Because I only get men looking me. I don’t mind that, but I’d like at least one lady "

I'll double check, but I'm pretty sure I don't have a penis down there.

Women live in ninja mode unless they're new usually.

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By *igR93Man
25 weeks ago

Sarcasm City

Be more confident in yourself, you don’t know if women are looking at you and if they aren't, the best thing anybody can have that makes them attractive is an endless persona of confidence

Asking why people aren’t looking at you is just going to make you seem a little needy..

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By *ortis8080 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Harrow


"I've just looked at you but you'd never know as that feature is turned off for us "

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By *ortis8080 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Harrow


"Because I only get men looking me. I don’t mind that, but I’d like at least one lady

I'll double check, but I'm pretty sure I don't have a penis down there.

Women live in ninja mode unless they're new usually."

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By *ortis8080 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Harrow


"Be more confident in yourself, you don’t know if women are looking at you and if they aren't, the best thing anybody can have that makes them attractive is an endless persona of confidence

Asking why people aren’t looking at you is just going to make you seem a little needy.."

Evidently I am needy

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Mate get used to it on here more like a dating site for gay

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
25 weeks ago

Wirral.


"I've just looked at you but you'd never know as that feature is turned off for us "

I looked at you too. In ninja mode. Most women do.

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By *ortis8080 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Harrow


"I've just looked at you but you'd never know as that feature is turned off for us

I looked at you too. In ninja mode. Most women do. "

That’s very kind of you

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Beware!

They are stealthy so and so’s this lot

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By *parkle1974Woman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

[Removed by poster at 07/06/24 00:43:52]

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By *iss.Bella.Woman
25 weeks ago

Wales

Another stealthy viewer here

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"Another stealthy viewer here "

Sneaky Mc Sneakson

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By *rsKOTCTWoman
25 weeks ago

Leeds

Most women look in stealth mode.

Same as me.

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By *TG3Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. "
Many women look in ninja mode so you can't see they've looked unless they fab your pics, could be many reasons could be your first pic, could be your bi, could be location, age, height just be patient you'll get there in the end

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
25 weeks ago

St Leonards


"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. Many women look in ninja mode so you can't see they've looked unless they fab your pics, could be many reasons could be your first pic, could be your bi, could be location, age, height just be patient you'll get there in the end "

The most sensible thing Fred has said for a good few days.

On this occasion, listen to him OP.

Good luck .

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By *ittlemiss Hal O weenCouple
25 weeks ago

Southampton

I've had a little peek too ...

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By *TG3Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. Many women look in ninja mode so you can't see they've looked unless they fab your pics, could be many reasons could be your first pic, could be your bi, could be location, age, height just be patient you'll get there in the end

The most sensible thing Fred has said for a good few days.

On this occasion, listen to him OP.

Good luck ."

I'm always sensible just not news worthy

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Also women get bombarded with 100s of messages from lots of desperate men on here,no wonder they are very picky, be nice, curious and patient then hopefully you will find someone. Good luck

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By *erryGoldMan
25 weeks ago

Redditch

I get views but can't see who viewed me. I'm working on my profile as I'd prefer to get messages lol

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By *ickyKlungespeareMan
25 weeks ago

St Leonards


"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. Many women look in ninja mode so you can't see they've looked unless they fab your pics, could be many reasons could be your first pic, could be your bi, could be location, age, height just be patient you'll get there in the end

The most sensible thing Fred has said for a good few days.

On this occasion, listen to him OP.

Good luck .I'm always sensible just not news worthy "

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By *ubikslongswordMan
25 weeks ago

East Grinstead


"Because I only get men looking me. I don’t mind that, but I’d like at least one lady "

I guess you don't know about stealth mode, you can choose not to show up on "who's looked at me'

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By *illy IdolMan
25 weeks ago

Midlands

It's worse when they're not in Ninja mode and then they look at you. Then you realise all this time they've not been looking at you. In your head they were looking at you, but in reality they rarely look at you. Even after writing this someone might look at. But realistically, they won't look at me.

If they're in Ninja mode, I'll never find out if they did look at me.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
25 weeks ago

Staffordshire

Here’s looking at you, kid

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By *illy IdolMan
25 weeks ago

Midlands


"Here’s looking at you, kid"

I'll never know if this was for me.

Ninja mode

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

If they're in Ninja mode, it means they want to air fry you.

Run a mile.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
25 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"If they're in Ninja mode, it means they want to air fry you.

Run a mile."

Max crisp

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
25 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"If they're in Ninja mode, it means they want to air fry you.

Run a mile.

Max crisp"

That’s your next profile name

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
25 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"Here’s looking at you, kid

I'll never know if this was for me.

Ninja mode "

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"If they're in Ninja mode, it means they want to air fry you.

Run a mile.

Max crisp

That’s your next profile name"

I like Max Crisp. Dry sense of humour. Up for a roast.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
25 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"If they're in Ninja mode, it means they want to air fry you.

Run a mile.

Max crisp

That’s your next profile name

I like Max Crisp. Dry sense of humour. Up for a roast."

Ruins sausages

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"If they're in Ninja mode, it means they want to air fry you.

Run a mile.

Max crisp

That’s your next profile name

I like Max Crisp. Dry sense of humour. Up for a roast.

Ruins sausages "

Thin Richmond is a good profile name too.

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By *ot to giggleWoman
25 weeks ago

Coventry

i looked at everybody!!! loving Ninja mode -

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By *_welshMan
25 weeks ago

Speke / Chester


" i looked at everybody!!! loving Ninja mode - "

Perv

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
25 weeks ago

Staffordshire


"If they're in Ninja mode, it means they want to air fry you.

Run a mile.

Max crisp

That’s your next profile name

I like Max Crisp. Dry sense of humour. Up for a roast.

Ruins sausages

Thin Richmond is a good profile name too."

Just don’t pop them in Max crisp.

End up with twiglets

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago


"If they're in Ninja mode, it means they want to air fry you.

Run a mile.

Max crisp

That’s your next profile name

I like Max Crisp. Dry sense of humour. Up for a roast.

Ruins sausages

Thin Richmond is a good profile name too.

Just don’t pop them in Max crisp.

End up with twiglets "

Never liked twiglets. Left you with sticky brown fingers.

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By *eorgesdad69Man
25 weeks ago

nottingham

Get a job at McDonalds drive through women will look at you as you pay or hand over their food LOL

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By *ortis8080 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Harrow

I’ve just worked out, how to use stealth/ninja mode. He he! But what I don’t understand, is that if all of these women are looking at me sneakily, you’d assume that at least one would want to chat. Am I that unappealing? Perhaps I am. I really don’t understand women…like at all. Time for some introspection.

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By *TG3Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I’ve just worked out, how to use stealth/ninja mode. He he! But what I don’t understand, is that if all of these women are looking at me sneakily, you’d assume that at least one would want to chat. Am I that unappealing? Perhaps I am. I really don’t understand women…like at all. Time for some introspection. "
yes but for a guy it helps that you show as looking otherwise you're invisible all the time

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By *host63Man
25 weeks ago

Bedfont Feltham


"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. "

My advice is simply to not worry about it.

If women don't look a you return the favour.

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By *ortis8080 OP   Man
25 weeks ago

Harrow


"I’ve just worked out, how to use stealth/ninja mode. He he! But what I don’t understand, is that if all of these women are looking at me sneakily, you’d assume that at least one would want to chat. Am I that unappealing? Perhaps I am. I really don’t understand women…like at all. Time for some introspection. yes but for a guy it helps that you show as looking otherwise you're invisible all the time "

How do you show as looking? I don’t understand this site!!!!

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By *TG3Man
25 weeks ago

Dorchester


"I’ve just worked out, how to use stealth/ninja mode. He he! But what I don’t understand, is that if all of these women are looking at me sneakily, you’d assume that at least one would want to chat. Am I that unappealing? Perhaps I am. I really don’t understand women…like at all. Time for some introspection. yes but for a guy it helps that you show as looking otherwise you're invisible all the time

How do you show as looking? I don’t understand this site!!!! "

filters which come under account if you haven't altered then then you show as having looked

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By *igronnie89Man
25 weeks ago

near you


"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. "

Know the feeling buddy

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By *ittle Miss TinkerbellWoman
25 weeks ago

your head


"I’ve just worked out, how to use stealth/ninja mode. He he! But what I don’t understand, is that if all of these women are looking at me sneakily, you’d assume that at least one would want to chat. Am I that unappealing? Perhaps I am. I really don’t understand women…like at all. Time for some introspection. "

Have you read profiles? Sent messages to people that match what you are looking for? It's not a quick process on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I mean, you've got a mobile phone in front of your face so ... Duh

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By *urry BlokeMan
25 weeks ago

Stalybridge


"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. "

If you are valuing your worth through responses (or lack of) on here, you set yourself up for a bumpy ride

My sexuality, my physical attractiveness to others and my socio-sexual interactions are just a minute part of my worth

In terms of how I find others to enjoy sex with, Fab isn't and never has been a major player

I enjoy the forums, I enjoy a perve at pics and I have enjoyed the meets I've had from here

Enjoy your time here

Enjoy those people you do meet

There will always be an element of lack of response

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By *tlanshiaWoman
25 weeks ago

Chatham

Because your phones Infront of your face.

Your welcome

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By *tew008Man
25 weeks ago

edinburgh


"Because your phones Infront of your face.

Your welcome "

you looked though so it’s worked

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By *2000ManMan
25 weeks ago

Worthing

More men than women op. Join in with forum/cam room chat and make friends. See fab as a social club.

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
25 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

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By *wiss Army KnifeMan
25 weeks ago

Second star to the right…

Women tend to use Ninja mode or a profile view ends up in a “hey there” or “do you want a shag” message!

They get enough of those as it is or they aren’t looking at your profile.

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By *allandathleticMan
25 weeks ago

Asgard


"[looked at OPs profile by poster at 07/06/24 11:17:00]"

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By *hunky GentMan
25 weeks ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Sorry, many are too busy chatting to ne atm.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
25 weeks ago

Stoke

Stealth mode all the way, no one knows who we look at

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By *ittlebirdWoman
25 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change. "

Ninja innit

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod

25 weeks ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Stealth mode all the way, no one knows who we look at "

I use it. Always have.

I don't want folk thinking I'm some kind of pervert after all if I'm viewing someone 200 times a day.

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By *he turned me GreyCouple
25 weeks ago

Warwick and Coventry


"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change.

Ninja innit "

Yes fam

Mr

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By *avexxMan
25 weeks ago

cheshire

youve prob had more views than you have ever had after this post

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By *ittlebirdWoman
25 weeks ago

The Big Smoke


"I really don’t understand it and I’m not entirely sure what I’m doing wrong. I’ve not been rude, crude nor chauvinistic in any way. Perhaps I’m just not that interesting nor physically attractive? I hope that’s not the case, or I shall be devastated. Oh well, plus ça change.

Ninja innit

Yes fam

Mr "

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