FabSwingers.com forum: Hmmm what to do?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well, this weekend my ex got back intouch, we split over her having trust issues. (I wasn't on fab at this point).

I've seen her on and off since we split. And now she wants me back. I love her to bits but she's hard work to say the least. I love my single life it's just so easy. But something's telling me to go back.

Bit worried it may be a case of the grass is greener kinda thing. And just don't know what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex and I split up for the same reason...

Would I have her back...Yes.

Only you can decide what is best for you

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Make a list of the pro's and con's of going back and see if the pro's out weigh the con's. Or say that you want to take it slowly and see where it goes instead of jumping in the deep end without your arm bands...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have no experience to draw upon, but if it is trust...

I say NO

good luck with whatever you decide

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

Assuming you havent been playing yo-yo with each other and this is the 1st time....

Do it.....

If it doesnt work....

Least you tried...

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

you say she's hard work, and that she had trust issues... for me that would be a big red flag, and no going back.

I'm very black and white about things tho, it will have ended for a reason, and unless that reason has been addressed and sorted, then the issue is still there.

an ex is an ex for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will do this defo thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Assuming you havent been playing yo-yo with each other and this is the 1st time....

Do it.....

If it doesnt work....

Least you tried..."

What you mean by playing yo yo?

If you mean sleeping with her then yes we have now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she had trust issues before fab how is she going to accept this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex is the same, we've worked a lot of things out, but there's still a lot more to work on.

She knows I'm on here and I'm living the single life as is she.

I still have strong feelings for her and it wad down to me that we split up. She has since said that she still loves me and wants me in her life, i feel the same but neither of us is ready to go back to the way we were.

Id say go with the flow and don't rush things, if it goes further then good on you both

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By *eal_Dick_TurpinMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Well, this weekend my ex got back intouch, we split over her having trust issues. (I wasn't on fab at this point).

Bit worried it may be a case of the grass is greener kinda thing. And just don't know what to do

what's the difference between a married woman and a single woman?

the married woman has two assholes, and one of the gets up and goes to work in the morning.

Seriously dude, how fucking crazy can one man be, you already broke up, you say yourself you love your simple single life, you say yourself she is hard work, you say yourself this is HER idea not yours....

You are her "Plan B" and that's all you will ever be, if you take her back it will be on her terms, your life will end, and as soon as another Plan A comes along your ass will be history because of "trust issues" all over again.

leopards / spots

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Well, this weekend my ex got back intouch, we split over her having trust issues. (I wasn't on fab at this point).

Bit worried it may be a case of the grass is greener kinda thing. And just don't know what to do

If you are hesitating you don't want her . It's as simple as that.

Love doesn't come into it.

Quite simply you don't want to go back.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I would say throw a dice. You might as well because if you need to ask you don't really want to if it isn't a decision you can make in a heartbeat you don't really want to.

Whatever happens I hope it's for the best for you both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you both give it a trail period and see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well, this weekend my ex got back intouch, we split over her having trust issues. (I wasn't on fab at this point).

Bit worried it may be a case of the grass is greener kinda thing. And just don't know what to do

what's the difference between a married woman and a single woman?

the married woman has two assholes, and one of the gets up and goes to work in the morning.

leopards / spots"

Yeah, think you pretty much hit the nail on the head there!!

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