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"Personally no, I don't see the point in lying? Mrs " Don’t listen to her, she’s full of shit, before we were married ( and the claws were sunk in ), she had me believing she was a 22 year old called Dave. The mr | |||
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"Personally no, I don't see the point in lying? Mrs Don’t listen to her, she’s full of shit, before we were married ( and the claws were sunk in ), she had me believing she was a 22 year old called Dave. The mr "   | |||
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"The reason I ask is a few instances I've noted of women who made a big deal about the passion they had, but once no longer with them, there was nothing but bad things to say, contradicting that from before. I do conceed this is not all women who state their sexual experiences and generally is from a certain person to say things to gain validation or a need to announce their happiness has increased to make them better as a person. But I've not to memory witnessed a male say one thing then contradict this when they're not flavor of the month personall, I've witnessed men exclusively lie about plenty of other things that you could deem much more toxic, but I'm not talking about those. So just wondering if anyone else had anything to add" People get caught up in the moment. I think what happens is , I see this in my friends and even my own kids , when it’s over for whatever reason, realism kicks in for the woman but the guy stays in some kind of romantic time capsule | |||
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"I don't tend to discuss intimate details about someone without their full consent to do so. And I've never felt the need to ask for that consent." ^^ this | |||
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"How do you mean? Like "yeah, he's a right goer!" when the reality is less than satisfactory? " 
I typically share how terrible every partner I’ve ever had is. It’s one sure way to be certain my mates don’t fuck my fuck buddies.  | |||
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"Personally no, I don't see the point in lying? Mrs Don’t listen to her, she’s full of shit, before we were married ( and the claws were sunk in ), she had me believing she was a 22 year old called Dave. The mr " Ha ha ha | |||
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"I mean, like all things, I guess some do some don’t. Personally I never have, what’s the point in that? Mrs TMN x" There's always some sort of compromise in any relationship, sexual or non. Think that's the point maybe | |||
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"The reason I ask is a few instances I've noted of women who made a big deal about the passion they had, but once no longer with them, there was nothing but bad things to say, contradicting that from before. I do conceed this is not all women who state their sexual experiences and generally is from a certain person to say things to gain validation or a need to announce their happiness has increased to make them better as a person. But I've not to memory witnessed a male say one thing then contradict this when they're not flavor of the month personall, I've witnessed men exclusively lie about plenty of other things that you could deem much more toxic, but I'm not talking about those. So just wondering if anyone else had anything to add" I have. And then the apologies because they were "angry". So perhaps it's confirmation bias on your part. I don't think it's a gendered thing - people fall out of love and realise that it wasn't that great. Or they want to hurt another. Fuck knows, it happens though. | |||
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"Maybe. When they’re on the brink of splitting up maybe, and they tell their friends that amongst Carl’s many faults, is his woeful inability to suck her clit like a Dyson. " I think I have met Carl's ex! | |||
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"Maybe. When they’re on the brink of splitting up maybe, and they tell their friends that amongst Carl’s many faults, is his woeful inability to suck her clit like a Dyson. I think I have met Carl's ex!" She gets around a bit! Making up for her time with Carl no doubt!! | |||
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"When talking with others, especially other women, about how good the sex is with a regular partner for instance? " I fucking hope so!!!…..   | |||
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"The reason I ask is a few instances I've noted of women who made a big deal about the passion they had, but once no longer with them, there was nothing but bad things to say, contradicting that from before. I do conceed this is not all women who state their sexual experiences and generally is from a certain person to say things to gain validation or a need to announce their happiness has increased to make them better as a person. But I've not to memory witnessed a male say one thing then contradict this when they're not flavor of the month personall, I've witnessed men exclusively lie about plenty of other things that you could deem much more toxic, but I'm not talking about those. So just wondering if anyone else had anything to add" This sounds like a coping mechanism for cognitive dissonance. Everyone does it. | |||
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But back to the point of the OP. It’s amazing how things can be recalled differently when the rose tinted glasses are off. | |||
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"Of course they do. They say things like "Size doesn't matter" and "The was the best sex ever", as well as "I never fake my orgasms". "I’ve heard all of these. | |||
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"Personally no, I don't see the point in lying? Mrs Don’t listen to her, she’s full of shit, before we were married ( and the claws were sunk in ), she had me believing she was a 22 year old called Dave. The mr " lol!!! Oh I needed that giggle | |||
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"When talking with others, especially other women, about how good the sex is with a regular partner for instance? " Absolutely it's their superpower. | |||
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