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"just turned 51 - so many women here have their cut off at 50 - lol makes me feel sooooo old and as if i'm past it when i actually feel in my prime and up for lots of sexy naughty fun is 51 so old for you women lol" ahem... you have 30 to 70 as your preference... so if others have 50 as their upper preference such is life... | |||
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"for me being 25.. i guess 51 is old " Sniff | |||
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"for me being 25.. i guess 51 is old Sniff " Pervert.... | |||
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"NO, 51 IS NOT OLD " At least, it wasn't when you were... | |||
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"NO, 51 IS NOT OLD At least, it wasn't when you were... " Only another 318 days and I will be 52, having struggled through "The Old Barrier" | |||
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"for me being 25.. i guess 51 is old " If I could get my creaking bones off the sofa I'd top meself! | |||
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"for me being 25.. i guess 51 is old If I could get my creaking bones off the sofa I'd top meself! " lol need a lift ? | |||
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"NO, 51 IS NOT OLD At least, it wasn't when you were... Only another 318 days and I will be 52, having struggled through "The Old Barrier" " In 20 days I will be.... Errrr... Well let's say I'm heading towards the "senior barrier" | |||
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"just turned 51 - so many women here have their cut off at 50 - lol makes me feel sooooo old and as if i'm past it when i actually feel in my prime and up for lots of sexy naughty fun is 51 so old for you women lol" At least you're honest about it - so many of here are not - women included | |||
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"I am 52 this year and definitely do not class myself as old. Maybe 20 years ago it was old, but times have changed. I look 10 years younger and feel at least 20 years younger. Society unfortunately dictates that 50+ is old, society needs to change with the times too." If you take care of yourself, age is nothing but a number. That's why people are obsessed with youth! | |||
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"for me being 25.. i guess 51 is old Sniff Pervert...." Old Pervert apparently | |||
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"51 is not old ........its feckin ancient " Lol......sob | |||
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"A person becomes old when they let themselves be old. " This is very true. Remain vital and interested, mix with all age groups, don't patronise the young accept that you can learn from them just as they can learn from you and get a decent haircut you'll remain youthful. No one can remain young except Dorian Grey and Dr Who | |||
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"51 is not old ........its feckin ancient " you still would though | |||
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"just turned 51 - so many women here have their cut off at 50 - lol makes me feel sooooo old and as if i'm past it when i actually feel in my prime and up for lots of sexy naughty fun is 51 so old for you women lol At least you're honest about it - so many of here are not - women included " Too right there! A woman I met off another site about 3 years ago (when I was a young thing of 48!) was 55 then. I had a quick look on there a week or two ago and found her. And guess what? She's now..... 53. | |||
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"just turned 51 - so many women here have their cut off at 50 - lol makes me feel sooooo old and as if i'm past it when i actually feel in my prime and up for lots of sexy naughty fun is 51 so old for you women lol" why would someone else's preference make you feel 'past it'.. 51 is older by definition than lesser numbers.. but how you feel is more than just figures or other folks perceptions.. only ones 'umble opinion'.. | |||
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" At least you're honest about it - so many of here are not - women included Too right there! A woman I met off another site about 3 years ago (when I was a young thing of 48!) was 55 then. I had a quick look on there a week or two ago and found her. And guess what? She's now..... 53." Thats ok when you can get away with it.... Seen some on here men and women anf thought.... | |||
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"just turned 51 - so many women here have their cut off at 50 - lol makes me feel sooooo old and as if i'm past it when i actually feel in my prime and up for lots of sexy naughty fun is 51 so old for you women lol" OP - on here, yes I would agree it is 'limiting' due to the arbitary way the majority of people (male and female) apply their age limits. Mine aren't cast on stone, but - hey! - if that's someones preference... who am I to question it? But, funny how I have met people in clubs or anywhere in the real world and been surprised, nay, staggered when I find out their REAL ages: have met a 28 year old recently who I would have sworn was not a day under 40! And, a while back, a 66 yr old lady (yes, SIXTY SIX) who looked a lot better than some women 20 years her junior... Don't let it get you down mate - life's too short.. | |||
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"My husband will be 54 this year and I will 50 I dont want anyone older than me, so my cutoff age is 50. I went below my lower age limit with a meet but i failed to check his age so never say never maybe. Must admit have seen some pretty good bodies on guys over 50 but something must be stopping me I guess " .?? Bet hubby is chuffed. LOL | |||
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"I'm 10years younger apparently...heeeheeeheee..up yas aw! " | |||
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"A person becomes old when they let themselves be old. ...... No one can remain young except Dorian Grey and Dr Who" | |||
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"just turned 51 - so many women here have their cut off at 50 - lol makes me feel sooooo old and as if i'm past it when i actually feel in my prime and up for lots of sexy naughty fun is 51 so old for you women lol" You yourself have a lower age of 30 set.. We all have our preferences for whatever reason and I think its a little hypacrytical to say something about others preferences you don't fit into when you have ytour own | |||
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"Apparently one is "only as old as the women you feel" ....works for me " That's what they say.... | |||
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"A person becomes old when they let themselves be old. This is very true. Remain vital and interested, mix with all age groups, don't patronise the young accept that you can learn from them just as they can learn from you and get a decent haircut you'll remain youthful. No one can remain young except Dorian Grey and Dr Who" Mind you, wouldn't mind being Dr Who.. some of his 'assistants' (lol!) have been pretty hot... | |||
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"My husband will be 54 this year and I will 50 I dont want anyone older than me, so my cutoff age is 50. I went below my lower age limit with a meet but i failed to check his age so never say never maybe. Must admit have seen some pretty good bodies on guys over 50 but something must be stopping me I guess .?? Bet hubby is chuffed. LOL" No idea, we dont have sex is why im on here. like I said re upper age limit never say never | |||
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"never felt uncomfortable meeting ppl the same age as my parents,never had a meet 'mother' me lol pretty open minded, but I know I wouldnt want a relationship with someone my parents ages..namely because, one day I'd like kids.. but I know I'm here for shagging mainly, so it would never really be an issue" We are open minded and I understand what you mean but you have to cut off somewhere and since we both prefer nearer our own ages we chose the limits we have | |||
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"wow - this has created some discussion - good or sorry - whichever side you stand on - lol guess the thing is not to worry and keep saying hi to peeps - and see what they say - whether they have age limits or not" ...just dont message them | |||
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"For me as your a single guy then yes 51 is way over my upper limit. Also yes people have set limits at 50 and I'm sure you will find that they don't really go for people at the higher or lower end of their age limits but have stretched it already and made 50 the absoloute cut off! So don't think your only one year out there limit what should it matter.. Cos your prob more like 10 years older than what they prefer" Agree. | |||
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"I prefer guys between 40 and 60 but you auld fucks are shit at takin care of yer bodies...so my preference is kinda hard to find! " My body is a temple, might be the budda's temple though lol | |||
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"I prefer guys between 40 and 60 but you auld fucks are shit at takin care of yer bodies...so my preference is kinda hard to find! " Don't know where you've been looking, but this "auld fuck" has maintained his shape | |||
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"51 is not old ........its feckin ancient you still would though " possibly aslong as its a female we're talking about | |||
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"just turned 51 - so many women here have their cut off at 50 - lol makes me feel sooooo old and as if i'm past it when i actually feel in my prime and up for lots of sexy naughty fun is 51 so old for you women lol At least you're honest about it - so many of here are not - women included Too right there! A woman I met off another site about 3 years ago (when I was a young thing of 48!) was 55 then. I had a quick look on there a week or two ago and found her. And guess what? She's now..... 53." I've encountered that phenomenon too! Man I saw for a couple of years was 56 to my 47. I'm 52 he's now 49! We can fool ourselves all we like. Doesn't matter how we feel or look, over 50 is old! Personally being told I look good for my age is not a compliment: I'm 52, no lines or wrinkles, don't dress or act like Granny Dryden...but I'm 52!!! Old! Nowt I can do about that but enjoy, won't be pretending I'm 30 though...that would be ridiculous! | |||
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"just turned 51 - so many women here have their cut off at 50 - lol makes me feel sooooo old and as if i'm past it when i actually feel in my prime and up for lots of sexy naughty fun is 51 so old for you women lol At least you're honest about it - so many of here are not - women included Too right there! A woman I met off another site about 3 years ago (when I was a young thing of 48!) was 55 then. I had a quick look on there a week or two ago and found her. And guess what? She's now..... 53. I've encountered that phenomenon too! Man I saw for a couple of years was 56 to my 47. I'm 52 he's now 49! We can fool ourselves all we like. Doesn't matter how we feel or look, over 50 is old! Personally being told I look good for my age is not a compliment: I'm 52, no lines or wrinkles, don't dress or act like Granny Dryden...but I'm 52!!! Old! Nowt I can do about that but enjoy, won't be pretending I'm 30 though...that would be ridiculous! " No. Over 50 is NOT 'old'. Over 50 is 'experienced'... in all sorts of things. Okay, I can't do a few things like I could when I was 25, but I feel a LOT more fulfilled as a person now than I ever did then. And as far as swinging is concerned, yes I had a whale of a time in my 20's when I stumbled upon this strange little world, but I am NOW under no illusions just what I was to a lot of the couples and women I met then - just a young fit guy who made THEM feel good about themselves. What I got out of it was of no concern to the majority. I would like to think that I learned from that, and wouldn't treat anyone younger than me like that. It's about passing on an attitude and broader experience of enjoying recreational sex in all it's many and varied forms - not just about using anyone - and that only comes with the passing of a (few!!) years... But yer still NOT old luv!!!! | |||
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"51 is not old ........its feckin ancient you still would though " *raises eyebrow and fashions a cheeky smile* | |||
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"I prefer guys between 40 and 60 but you auld fucks are shit at takin care of yer bodies...so my preference is kinda hard to find! Don't know where you've been looking, but this "auld fuck" has maintained his shape " Hehe...I like your humour big man..but you've maintained the shape of a pregnant woman tho! | |||
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"for me being 25.. i guess 51 is old Sniff " Gran your a spring chicken and finger licking good , xxx see I can tell a lot from a eye , lol window to the soul. | |||
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"A person becomes old when they let themselves be old. " There have been experiments on rejuvenation, incl the tv one where they put a group of people somewhat away from their birth year into a house. They were expected to self-care, and live as if it was still the 1970's, when they were younger. They took psychological tests, before and after the week long test, and they lowered their mental age. 'Can you trick your ageing body into feeling younger? - http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-11284180' So, age is in our minds, as well as our bodies. It's a shame for those with an age just a day or more over the fab age limits, as this could restrict their rejuvenation too, if they shag as if it was last year. | |||
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"Apparently one is "only as old as the women you feel" ....works for me " makes you 42 then lol Hope it don't work the other way around or I'm in trouble | |||
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"Mmmm....I'll start worrying about it in about 20 years time until then...... " Time keeps on slipping into the future..... | |||
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"I'm 51, and in my prime, I might add " I'll second that | |||
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"Don't let it worry you too much. I'm an old fucker too " Me and you together then xx | |||
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"I'm 51, and in my prime, I might add " you certanlly are I have met you too and wat a fine lady you are | |||
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