FabSwingers.com forum: “No bi men” why?

By *tupidhead OP Man
25 weeks ago

Pembroke Dock

I get that it’s probably a preference thing, and I respect that. I’m straight myself so it’s not exactly personal but I’m just wondering why so many people have some form of ‘no bi men’ on their profile. It’s not like if someone is bi you must engage in bisexual activity?

I don’t mean to offend anyone at all, I’m just genuinely curious.

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By *ex HolesMan
25 weeks ago

Up North

"I get that it’s probably a preference thing, and I respect that. I’m straight myself so it’s not exactly personal but I’m just wondering why so many people have some form of ‘no bi men’ on their profile. It’s not like if someone is bi you must engage in bisexual activity?

I don’t mean to offend anyone at all, I’m just genuinely bi-curious."

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By *r John WickMan
25 weeks ago

The Continental

A few possible reasons.

They’ve had bad experiences with bi guys

They simply express a preference

They’re scared that we’ll be unable to control our urges and try to jump on the straight guy D

They’re homophobic

Either way, I just bypass the profile and don’t give it another thought.

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By *r John WickMan
25 weeks ago

The Continental

There’s also the assumption that we’re raging cockahllics, and riddled with std’s

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
25 weeks ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

All of the above...

Bi women though we're worshipped even though technically could be exactly the same as the above things stigmatised with bi men by some

Tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

I've heard in the past of pushy bi guys and I suppose that it only takes one or two to meet multiple couples and they will put off loads of people. To be fair it's probably pushy people in general that have the effect but the bi label is easy to pick on. Probably why a large % of people that are open to bi experiences won't put it in their profile in case it scares couples off. In our case if you scare easy we probably aren't for you

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
25 weeks ago

Portstewart

There could be lots of reasons but the 2 biggest would be fear and bigotry but every person has free will to choose why they don't I suppose the same could be said for those ladies who wouldn't meet a bi lady

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By *redwilma666Couple
25 weeks ago

Kilbirnie

As a couple we have met bi guys, Fred is 100% straight, but it has never been a problem

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By *inosaur PantsMan
25 weeks ago

Stourbridge

Honestly I've stopped trying to work out people's reasoning on here.

For couples I guess it's because I'd obviously try to slip my peen into the hubby's bum

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
25 weeks ago

Cheltenham

Probably because we are all riddled with disease *

* I jest of course.... I would be more worried about the "Fab Straight" guys

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

Maybe it’s just personal preference.

Maybe it’s because the straight men in a couple are worried that the bi men might want a bit of their cock.

Maybe it’s the perceived increased risk in infection - studies have shown that gay men are more at risk of STI’s than heterosexual men, and bi men are more at risk than gay men (One source: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3575167/ )

Maybe it’s just bigotry.

Who knows?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
25 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Because they'll stick their dick in anything?

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By *ony MannMan
25 weeks ago

New York City New York USA

A woman I met said now bi men when I met her and we had some good times.

I drifted in to bi activity and she said, she did not mind men who were just a bit bi.

People change. I still chat with her, but since she moved we have not met.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"Because they'll stick their dick in anything?

How does that differ from straight ones then?

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By *ark n kimCouple
25 weeks ago

Durham

If you go to a sweet shop pick and mix,you don't need to put aniseed balls in your bag if you don't like them.all the sweets you do like are there for you.

Bit of a bad metaphor but hopefully people will understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
25 weeks ago

"If you go to a sweet shop pick and mix,you don't need to put aniseed balls in your bag if you don't like them.all the sweets you do like are there for you.

Bit of a bad metaphor but hopefully people will understand."

Ah but if you do put some in unintentionally they might rub some of their flavour off on the other sweets

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By *ris GrayMan
25 weeks ago

Dorchester

"Because they'll stick their dick in anything?

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even a christmas pudding

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By *ebauchedDeviantsPt2Couple
25 weeks ago

Cumbria

When it comes to men we’re only interested in bi, same with women to be honest.

That’s people who have bi on their profile, not “I’m bi really but I don’t put it on my profile” people.

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By *ssex_tomMan
25 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Do gay men pretend to be bi to get the husband and then the wife misses out . ..

Bi men are associated with STIs also. Better to stick with gay men so you know we're you stand

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By *ayPrimeMan
25 weeks ago

Leeds

Can’t tell if some of these replies are satire or not

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By *ansoffateMan
25 weeks ago

Sagittarius A

I've had plenty of threesomes with bi-men and straight men as part of a couple.

I can honestly say there's been no variation with regard to dickhead factor.

I've never felt a pressure to engage in bisexual activity. I'm sure that took exceptional willpower on their behalf though.

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By *r Mrs FuckableCouple
25 weeks ago

Stoke

It's sexual preferences, same as anyone else has sexual preferences, no one is in a position to tell anyone what their preferences should be in my opinion, it's my body and I'll share with who I want, not what society says I have to.... Just saying!

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By *r John WickMan
25 weeks ago

The Continental

"It's sexual preferences, same as anyone else has sexual preferences, no one is in a position to tell anyone what their preferences should be in my opinion, it's my body and I'll share with who I want, not what society says I have to.... Just saying!

No one is suggesting you be told who you share your body with.

You’ve answered the question by saying it’s a preference. Simple as that.

Sadly, others express their preferences in a less than polite manner.

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