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"A quicker way to ask the question is “do the birds like fat blokes?”" I suppose, but like I suppose is there a niche group of them who actually prefer fat blokes? | |||
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"A muscular and well defined man is only attractive to me if I'm already into the person they are. And no more so than the fat guy that gets me "Thanks, I guess I shouldn’t just generalise really | |||
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"On fab I’m sure there are. And I think bigger men are seen as more desirable than bigger women in media/ film etc. but yeah I wouldn’t expect it to be the majority who are into big men. But people are. People will be. I mean people have sex with me and I’ve got a belly. " Thanks for this, it is reassuring | |||
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"Belly is a variable that's less important than other selection criteria for me." Thanks for the reply | |||
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"Are there any women out there who genuinely look and prefer the more rounded man to the buff one?" I bloody hope so! | |||
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"Great question, and one I ponder whether it counts again men on here. The fact is most women on here are deluged with emails. Men are not. On a normal dating site, women wouldn't be so picky about the body... more about whether the man has a cute smile, nice eyes etc and how he actually comes across. On sites like Fab where it's more about the sex, women can afford to be picky and will more than likely only answer to profiles with the hottest bods and biggest cocks." I don’t know if that’s true. But if it is, it’s not surprising that people would be most interested in those things. If men were inundated with messages from women they’d probably choose the women they deemed to be most desirable too. That’s the nature of the game. | |||
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"Great question, and one I ponder whether it counts again men on here. The fact is most women on here are deluged with emails. Men are not. On a normal dating site, women wouldn't be so picky about the body... more about whether the man has a cute smile, nice eyes etc and how he actually comes across. On sites like Fab where it's more about the sex, women can afford to be picky and will more than likely only answer to profiles with the hottest bods and biggest cocks. I don’t know if that’s true. But if it is, it’s not surprising that people would be most interested in those things. If men were inundated with messages from women they’d probably choose the women they deemed to be most desirable too. That’s the nature of the game. " I find muscled dudes off putting. Like they are going to be so vain they'll give me hardly any attention because they'd be too busy trying to catch their own reflection in a mirror. Or that they won't like my plus size body (cant see a meet progressing that far if they don't like my body). Dad bods rule. Especially big bi ones. | |||
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"Great question, and one I ponder whether it counts again men on here. The fact is most women on here are deluged with emails. Men are not. On a normal dating site, women wouldn't be so picky about the body... more about whether the man has a cute smile, nice eyes etc and how he actually comes across. On sites like Fab where it's more about the sex, women can afford to be picky and will more than likely only answer to profiles with the hottest bods and biggest cocks. I don’t know if that’s true. But if it is, it’s not surprising that people would be most interested in those things. If men were inundated with messages from women they’d probably choose the women they deemed to be most desirable too. That’s the nature of the game. I find muscled dudes off putting. Like they are going to be so vain they'll give me hardly any attention because they'd be too busy trying to catch their own reflection in a mirror. Or that they won't like my plus size body (cant see a meet progressing that far if they don't like my body). Dad bods rule. Especially big bi ones. " If that's your experience I obviously can't argue with it, but as a generalisation it's odd to assume that all people of a certain body shape are vain just because of the way they look...? | |||
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"Great question, and one I ponder whether it counts again men on here. The fact is most women on here are deluged with emails. Men are not. On a normal dating site, women wouldn't be so picky about the body... more about whether the man has a cute smile, nice eyes etc and how he actually comes across. On sites like Fab where it's more about the sex, women can afford to be picky and will more than likely only answer to profiles with the hottest bods and biggest cocks. I don’t know if that’s true. But if it is, it’s not surprising that people would be most interested in those things. If men were inundated with messages from women they’d probably choose the women they deemed to be most desirable too. That’s the nature of the game. I find muscled dudes off putting. Like they are going to be so vain they'll give me hardly any attention because they'd be too busy trying to catch their own reflection in a mirror. Or that they won't like my plus size body (cant see a meet progressing that far if they don't like my body). Dad bods rule. Especially big bi ones. If that's your experience I obviously can't argue with it, but as a generalisation it's odd to assume that all people of a certain body shape are vain just because of the way they look...? " Haha reality is quite the opposite once start getting into the training seriously most of us are never happy with how we look rather than vain. Also say on here all fat people are lazy and greedy and watch the fireworks erupt … | |||
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"I would always pick a slimmer/athletic (doesn't mean a 6 pack) type over a guy with a belly/beer gut. I just don't find it attractive and I don't want to be squished underneath someone. " Oooh there's hope for me yet then | |||
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"I'm glad I haven't got a prominent belly. It would get in the way of me constantly admiring my lovely cock!" I was once told by a large dude with a big belly that I would gain 2 inches of cock if I lost 2 stone. I stared between my legs for a little while, wondering what he could have mistaken for a penis. | |||
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"If I was looking for a relationship, I guess body would be slightly less important. For me, since its just sex I want someone I find physically attractive. Which tends to lean towards the slightly fatter type. " I corrected that for you | |||
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"Great question, and one I ponder whether it counts again men on here. The fact is most women on here are deluged with emails. Men are not. On a normal dating site, women wouldn't be so picky about the body... more about whether the man has a cute smile, nice eyes etc and how he actually comes across. On sites like Fab where it's more about the sex, women can afford to be picky and will more than likely only answer to profiles with the hottest bods and biggest cocks. I don’t know if that’s true. But if it is, it’s not surprising that people would be most interested in those things. If men were inundated with messages from women they’d probably choose the women they deemed to be most desirable too. That’s the nature of the game. I find muscled dudes off putting. Like they are going to be so vain they'll give me hardly any attention because they'd be too busy trying to catch their own reflection in a mirror. Or that they won't like my plus size body (cant see a meet progressing that far if they don't like my body). Dad bods rule. Especially big bi ones. If that's your experience I obviously can't argue with it, but as a generalisation it's odd to assume that all people of a certain body shape are vain just because of the way they look...? Haha reality is quite the opposite once start getting into the training seriously most of us are never happy with how we look rather than vain. Also say on here all fat people are lazy and greedy and watch the fireworks erupt …" I am lazy, I must admit, but I'm not greedy. I don't mind giving away one of my dozen sugar doughnuts. | |||
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"As a larger lady, I'm not a fan of very large guys (i know, the cheek of me!) Initial attraction is the face, always the face. And whether you can make me laugh. A fit body is a bonus, not a prerequisite. Anyway, you don't seem to have a big belly at all, OP. X Thank you, I would consider that I do but I suppose everyone has their own inner critic " | |||
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"As a larger lady, I'm not a fan of very large guys (i know, the cheek of me!) Initial attraction is the face, always the face. And whether you can make me laugh. A fit body is a bonus, not a prerequisite. Anyway, you don't seem to have a big belly at all, OP. X " As a large lady too, a more lean guy had more of a chance of fitting round my curves than a guy who has a belly too. So yes it might seem a bit weird, but lean guys who love squishy bodies aren't complaining. But for me too, they have to have a nice face, great hugs and are funny and warm to be with. My biggest turn off is bad teeth | |||
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