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"I'm constantly away with work so hard to meet people. Most of the time there's someone from this site near but its hard to even get a coffee meet. Any advice ? " For starters, I'd have a few more photos on public. You claim to be VWE so why not show a photo of you wearing something that shows the outline of your penis or some bulge. Also explain in the narrative that you work away for your job and you'd love some company. Hope it goes well OP | |||
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"I'm constantly away with work so hard to meet people. Most of the time there's someone from this site near but its hard to even get a coffee meet. Any advice ? " I've made plenty of friends on the forums in the past. If you make those connections they may be up for a drink or more if you can arrange in plenty of time. I've had some lovely times meeting friends around the country while working. | |||
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"I'm constantly away with work so hard to meet people. Most of the time there's someone from this site near but its hard to even get a coffee meet. Any advice ? I've made plenty of friends on the forums in the past. If you make those connections they may be up for a drink or more if you can arrange in plenty of time. I've had some lovely times meeting friends around the country while working." ^^ this is great advice OP  | |||
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"As above. Most messages I've had from people working away come across like, they want a sex worker for free. That's wildly off putting." Exactly this. And it's usually my response to them. I would maybe at least try and plan ahead | |||
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"As above. Most messages I've had from people working away come across like, they want a sex worker for free. That's wildly off putting. Exactly this. And it's usually my response to them. I would maybe at least try and plan ahead " ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ yep agree with this statement too | |||
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"I'm not meeting just now, but when I am, I'd not be interested in someone just in the area who messages me at short notice. Maybe contact people in the areas you'll be in a while before, chat and see if you can build some meets that way. " I had someone message and then try to book in 6 weeks in advance .... I declined as doesn't interest me I prefer people local to me. | |||
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"I'm constantly away with work so hard to meet people. Most of the time there's someone from this site near but its hard to even get a coffee meet. Any advice ? " get a puppy they love puppies say I'm taking my puppy for a walk on the beach, they'll be there in a shot  | |||
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"Maybe they think they can’t make you laugh as you put it as a requirement?" Not hard to make me laugh. Sense of humor seems to be rare enough here lol | |||
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"Pop up some meet requests in advance for the dates and places you're gonna be. You never know what may come of it" I try that sometimes. | |||
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"I'm not meeting just now, but when I am, I'd not be interested in someone just in the area who messages me at short notice. Maybe contact people in the areas you'll be in a while before, chat and see if you can build some meets that way. " TOTALLY AGREE This is 100% for alot of women on here. I just delete the messages .... Makes me laugh like whoop whoop Your in my area tmw or the weekend ... let me pull out the red carpet and pull my panties down for you 
You will know where your going to travel to, so make the EFFORT, read profiles get in touch well in advance.
Get in the chat rooms make connections or go to a swingers club near the place your staying.
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"You had the perfect piece of advice in another post above OP…. And then chose to ignore it. You can lead a horse to water yada yada " Not sure what you mean. I haven't ignored anything | |||
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"I'm constantly away with work so hard to meet people. Most of the time there's someone from this site near but its hard to even get a coffee meet. Any advice ? " That’s me lately! It gets lonely being away from home and friends and I haven’t made new friends where I am most of the time for work | |||
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"Do you change your location to match where you are? I travel all over and can find an easier coffee / hotel catch up if it actually shows I'm in the location I say I am..." By the way stunning duchess  | |||
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"I'm constantly away with work so hard to meet people. Most of the time there's someone from this site near but its hard to even get a coffee meet. Any advice ? " Think of what you're offering. There are some in the "any cocks a goal" section but most don't seem to favour the "I'm just passing through" section | |||
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"I'm in Edinburgh hotel for tonight and early flight tomorrow. Would love to grab a coffee if any ladies fancy a chat " Are you flying to Dublin tomorrow or is that where you've just come from ? | |||
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"I've tried that but you get told not local so still hard lol" I used to meet someone for coffee, lunch or a beer, who worked away from home and was usually in my area for two weeks at a time every few months. It arose as a result of chatting on here, and tended to occupy her lunch period (which was her only free time as she was a live in carer) and I found really enjoyable and fascinating. But as said above, it arose cos I chatted to her here and so did not come across as some random wanting to have sex with her just cos she was in my area (or vice versa). | |||
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"I'm in Edinburgh hotel for tonight and early flight tomorrow. Would love to grab a coffee if any ladies fancy a chat Are you flying to Dublin tomorrow or is that where you've just come from ?" This morning i flew from Edinburgh to dublin. Had 1.5 hrs in the airport now flying to kerry | |||
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"I'm in Edinburgh hotel for tonight and early flight tomorrow. Would love to grab a coffee if any ladies fancy a chat Are you flying to Dublin tomorrow or is that where you've just come from ? This morning i flew from Edinburgh to dublin. Had 1.5 hrs in the airport now flying to kerry" I would have thought chances of someone meeting you at Dublin airport for a coffee with such short notice are remote - also have you seen the parking charges! | |||
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"I'm in Edinburgh hotel for tonight and early flight tomorrow. Would love to grab a coffee if any ladies fancy a chat Are you flying to Dublin tomorrow or is that where you've just come from ?" This morning i flew from Edinburgh to dublin. Had 1.5 hrs in the airport now flying to kerry. That was looking for some company for coffee yesterday. | |||
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" I would have thought chances of someone meeting you at Dublin airport for a coffee with such short notice are remote - also have you seen the parking charges! "If you are transiting can you come out from airside into Dublin Airport for coffee ? | |||
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"Thought someone mightve been in airport. I suppose I'm a bit spontaneous lol" Did you look at "who's on nearby" ? I once met someone in the same pub that way | |||
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"I got one last night, 11pm asking to meet cause he was driving through. As others have said read profiles, only contact if you match what they're seeking. Treat them like people not holes lol" Wanted to get a car charge on his tesla? | |||
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" I would have thought chances of someone meeting you at Dublin airport for a coffee with such short notice are remote - also have you seen the parking charges!
If you are transiting can you come out from airside into Dublin Airport for coffee ?"I had to because I was flying with ryanair. But if someone was inside I would've had a coffee instead of going to the lounge | |||
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"Thought someone mightve been in airport. I suppose I'm a bit spontaneous lol Did you look at "who's on nearby" ? I once met someone in the same pub that way" I always check that but has only worked once. | |||
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"I work in a hotel on reception, I see many of the same faces on a weekly/monthly basis, so it's one of those things "I could do" and start seeing them but I value my job far too much, while nothing it written in my contract about stuff like that, somehow it just wouldn't feel right, even just meeting for a coffee when they are down x" But you meet someone visiting a different hotel if you wished lol | |||
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"If I were in your shoes - if I was going to be working in Manchester, for example (picking where I live), I'd change my location to M1 (Manchester city centre) on my profile for a week beforehand, so you show up as local for the people you message. No guarantees, and you need to tell people that you change your location due to work travel, but it's how I'd do it." I'll have to start trying that. | |||
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"Think your on about forums. Seeing as I drive I haven't had a chance to do that. " This one I've made plenty of friends on the forums in the past. If you make those connections they may be up for a drink or more if you can arrange in plenty of time. I've had some lovely times meeting friends around the country while working. | |||
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"Think your on about forums. Seeing as I drive I haven't had a chance to do that. This one I've made plenty of friends on the forums in the past. If you make those connections they may be up for a drink or more if you can arrange in plenty of time. I've had some lovely times meeting friends around the country while working. "It's how I use fab, I prefer to know someone and grab a drink with no expectations.. if nothing else you might make a friend and receive a positive veri. I've had meets off the back of socials when they recommended me to friends on site. Reputation and personal recommendations can go far.  | |||
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"Think your on about forums. Seeing as I drive I haven't had a chance to do that. This one I've made plenty of friends on the forums in the past. If you make those connections they may be up for a drink or more if you can arrange in plenty of time. I've had some lovely times meeting friends around the country while working.
It's how I use fab, I prefer to know someone and grab a drink with no expectations.. if nothing else you might make a friend and receive a positive veri. I've had meets off the back of socials when they recommended me to friends on site.
Reputation and personal recommendations can go far. "Me too. And I thought it was a great suggestion of a positive solution for the OP | |||
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Have no expectations, if you know where you’re going in advance, start chatting to people in the area ahead of the trip. Start getting to know them and build the anticipation
A spontaneous, ‘I’m bored and have an empty hotel and surely you must want to share it with me, a stranger’ sense of entitlement is not an attractive feature for most.
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"I work in a hotel on reception, I see many of the same faces on a weekly/monthly basis, so it's one of those things "I could do" and start seeing them but I value my job far too much, while nothing it written in my contract about stuff like that, somehow it just wouldn't feel right, even just meeting for a coffee when they are down x But you meet someone visiting a different hotel if you wished lol" Yeah, ok point taken lol. | |||
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"...I once met someone in the same pub that way" On a boat sailing the Algarve (or anywhere really), it's not uncommon to meet someone in the same marina. Depends on your expectations too, I mean if I'm in a marina for 2 days, I'm quite happy just chatting with someone who happens to be nearby. A coffee is always good, anything else is a bonus really. If you're start point is wanting sex now, then the options will be limited. | |||
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"...I once met someone in the same pub that way On a boat sailing the Algarve (or anywhere really), it's not uncommon to meet someone in the same marina. Depends on your expectations too, I mean if I'm in a marina for 2 days, I'm quite happy just chatting with someone who happens to be nearby. A coffee is always good, anything else is a bonus really. If you're start point is wanting sex now, then the options will be limited." I'm always happy to just have a coffee | |||
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"...I once met someone in the same pub that way On a boat sailing the Algarve (or anywhere really), it's not uncommon to meet someone in the same marina. Depends on your expectations too, I mean if I'm in a marina for 2 days, I'm quite happy just chatting with someone who happens to be nearby. A coffee is always good, anything else is a bonus really. If you're start point is wanting sex now, then the options will be limited. I'm always happy to just have a coffee" Then I would suggest starting that networking and fostering those relationships. | |||
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